The Girl in the Garage: 3 Steps To Letting Go Of Your Past
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Sharon Hughes
Sharon Hughes currently resides in Evergreen, Colorado. She is the mother of two children who are now adults. She has logged many volunteer hours in their classrooms and extra curricular activities while they were growing up. Over the past 13 years, Sharon has held the position of a teaching assistant at a local Charter School, working with Kindergarten. As a mom and teacher, she has experienced many instances where children are reluctant to share their things. She has also had quite a few conversations with other moms experiencing the same issue. This common problem, along with some other recent experiences, sparked the basis for this book.
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The Girl in the Garage - Sharon Hughes
Praise For
The Girl In The Garage
Sharon’s story is genuine, transparent, and honest. Her story reflects what others are experiencing, are afraid to tell, or are unable to tell. She gives hope that someone does understand, comfort that you are not alone, and courage that you can move past your fears and brokenness to experience healing.
- Bob Reish, Certified Business Coach and Consultant
In our society today, there’s a large disconnect with the way individuals seek emotional support whether that be through therapy, counseling, church, or support groups. There is a stigma with seeking help for the burdens and emotional warfare that wage against us, and the only true remedy is the Lord setting us free. Sharon’s story is a true testament that you can learn from and see first-hand that you don’t have to live in shame. That life can be full and rich if you live outside the garage!
- Marcie Stoddard, Chief Storyteller, Communication Consultant
The Girl in the Garage
The True Story of Radical Healing By a Radical God
3 Steps To Letting Go Of Your Past
All scripture quotations, unless otherwise indicated, are taken from The Holy Bible, New International Version®, NIV®, Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011, by Biblical, Inc.™ Used by permission of Zondervan. All rights reserved worldwide. Scripture quotations marked (KJV) are taken from the King James Version. Scripture quotations marked (MSG) are taken from The Message by Eugene H. Peterson. Copyright © 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002. Used by permission of NavPress Publishing Group. All rights reserved. Scripture quotations marked (CSB) are taken from the Christian Standard Bible®, Copyright ©2017 by Holman Bible Publishers. Used by permission. Christian Standard Bible® and CSB® are federally registered trademarks of Holman Bible Publishers.
Copyright © 2019 Sharon Hughes
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To my amazing children:
Ciara, Chad and Cody.
You are my why, the reason I keep fighting.
Contents
Foreword
Acknowledgements
Introduction
Part 1
Chapter 1 I Lost Myself From The Beginning
Chapter 2 It’s A Really Big Mess
Chapter 3 Taken
Chapter 4 The Crazy Just Doesn’t End
Chapter 5 Halloween Party Horror
Chapter 6 The Mess Gets Messier
Chapter 7 The Unraveling
Chapter 8 Healing Comes In Pieces
Chapter 9 Loose Ends
Chapter 10 Abandonment Is A Powerful Giant
Part 2
Step 1
Chapter 11 Your Power To Choose
Chapter 12 You Don’t Have To Keep The Label
Step 2
Chapter 13 What You Believe Will Change Your Life
Chapter 14 What If You’re Not Who You Think You Are?
Chapter 15 What Is Your Mind Full Of?
Step 3
Chapter 16 Who Would You Be If You Weren’t That?
Chapter 17 Taking Off The Mask
Chapter 18 Who’s Deciding Your Worth?
Part 3
Chapter 19 Free Will And The Ripple Effect
Chapter 20 How To Make Good Decisions
Chapter 21 Setting Healthy Boundaries
Chapter 22 Finding Faith
Foreword
This book is small but mighty, it will change your life if you let it. It’s imperfectly perfect, just like me, and needed to be written anyway. I’m not an expert with letters behind my name; I’m just a woman on a mission to share the truths with you that set my heart and soul free, so yours can be free too.
May he give you what your heart desires and fulfill your whole purpose. (Psalms 20:4 CSB)
As you read and apply the things I share, it’s important to remember to think about what’s true, not just what you think is true, or is kind of true. If you remember nothing else I say to you, please remember to stay in truth, always. We’ll go deeper into that later.
I finally have words for what sat silently in my soul longing to be spoken.
It’s with deep gratitude I thank my friends that walked with, influenced and encouraged me not to give up. Cheryl Turner who walked with me through hell and the birthing of many dreams in her gorgeous tearoom. Lidy Baars for answering the phone (always) and wiping countless tears at her kitchen table. Pastor Greg Curtis for seeing beyond my brokenness, and believing in me. Mike Foster for being brave and raw, while speaking words my heart desperately needed to hear. All of you made this leg of the journey bearable.
Introduction
As I write this book, I pray for you, the one holding it in your hands right now. However this landed in your hands, know that you matter more than you can imagine. You are valuable and God sees you. He hasn’t forgotten about you. You may be angry with him and that’s ok, he knows what happened, that brought you to this place, and he knows what your heart needs.
Maybe what you’ve been through makes you doubt there could even be a God that cares about you. I understand that completely and if we were sitting together right now, I’d hug you tight. You don’t have to believe in God for this book to change your life. You don’t have to believe in God to be worthy, or enough. The truth is, right where you are, you are enough and you matter. I pray you know that the creator divinely created you for a purpose; you are truly loved and completely wanted.
Whatever you’ve been through, the core of this book is, What are you believing about yourself and is it true?
You don’t have to go through abuse and trauma to find yourself believing lies about who you are, who you’re meant to be, and what you’re capable of. The steps I outline will walk you through how to breakup with the past, lies, and self worth issues that have kept you a prisoner in your own life.
This book is designed for you to write in it and I encourage you to do so! Writing or brain-dumping helps get all the ugh
out of your mind so that you can begin processing your own aha moments, find your truths, and let go of the yuck.
Getting to