Magnetize Your Man: Attract The Right Man To Share Your Life With & Be Happier ASAP!
By Antia Boyd and Brody Boyd
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About this ebook
Magnetize The Man To Share Your Life With & Have A Loving Relationship ASAP Without Loneliness, Trust Issues Or Wasting Time Attracting EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE MEN! ☺
In this new book by Master Dating Coach Antia Boyd, you will discover such secrets as…
♥ New Secrets To Create An Amazing, Happy Family Of Your Own The Easy Way Without Fear, Unhealthy Relationships Or Endless Dating
♥ Quickly Manifest A Healthy, Emotionally Available & Long-Term Commitment Without The Past Holding You Back Any Longer
♥ Feel Safe To Be Open & Vulnerable, Have Fun & Travel The World With The Ideal Guy For You Without Feeling Insecure Or Choosing The Wrong Men
♥ Attract A Deep Connection Mentally, Physically, Emotionally & Spiritually Without Feeling Unsupported, Down Or Missing Out On Those Beautiful Moments
♥ Breakthrough Techniques To Get Married And Feel Secure & Excited About Life Again Without Low Confidence, Frustration Or Feeling Not Good Enough To Have What You Desire
♥ Plus So Much More!
About The Author:
Antia Boyd was born in eastern Germany before the wall came down, and was single her ENTIRE LIFE before she finally had an epiphany, a total breakthrough and developed her signature system called the "Magnetize Your Man Method." It's the exact method that she used to attract her handsome, strong & supportive hubby Brody! ☺
She's now been helping thousands of elite single women all over the world for over a decade to attract the right man for them to share their life with & have a loving relationship ASAP without loneliness, trust issues or wasting time attracting EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE MEN!
She studied Personality Psychology at U.C. Berkeley, is NLP and Dream Coaching certified and has spoken on hundreds of stages and radio shows all over the world including Harvard University, Google and Good Morning San Diego.
She's also been featured on ABC Radio, America Trends TV, The Great Love Debate and for over a decade studied EVERYTHING that she could get her hands on in the areas of love, dating and creating an amazing, happy family of your own the easy way without fear, unhealthy relationships or endless dating.
She now lives with her loving, stable & committed husband of 6 years, and she looks forward to helping YOU to feel safe to be open & vulnerable, have fun & travel the world with the ideal guy for you without feeling insecure or choosing the wrong men! ♡
Amazing Client Love Stories & Reviews!
"Hi Antia, One year since the day my fiancee and I met is just around the corner, and we are now married! We are in love and don't want to live life without one another. I have lived with him for 6 months and have been the happiest I have ever been in my life. Thank you so much for the coaching… I will check in very soon. Lots of love!" ~L.W.
"Hi Antia, my man and I are very happy as we are exploring and enjoy our new life together. Our coaching together was very helpful in my ability to stay centered in the reality of a true intimate loving relationship unfolding. It has also helped me in nurturing it too. Thanks so much for your support!" ~A.G.
"After just one session with Antia, I could tell there were some really helpful shifts in how I was energetically approaching my dating prospects and I started to see some instant changes. I met someone really great and have been enjoying a much healthier and more satisfying dating life. Thank you Antia!" ~A. E.
It is now YOUR turn - read this book and begin your new love journey today! ♥
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Magnetize Your Man - Antia Boyd
Chapter 2: The Attachment Codes
To start diving into your new love journey, we’re going to talk about something that Antia became very passionate about during her journey to love: the attachment styles.
There are three primary attachment styles in love. Knowing them allows you to uncover your own working model and understand which styles work for you and which are counterproductive.
Plus, you’ll stop sending incongruent and mixed signals. As a result, you’ll be able to finally stop attracting emotionally unavailable men.
The three attachment styles are:
Secure
Avoidant
Anxious
They’re derived from research on attachment styles and attachment theory by psychologists John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth.
To better understand them, picture a spectrum. On the left side of the spectrum, you have anxious. On the right side is avoidant. In the middle, you have secure.
The Strange Situation Study
The concept of attachment styles originated with a study at UC Berkeley.
Mary Ainsworth, a researcher at UC Berkeley, conducted the Strange Situation study, in which she observed the behavioral pattern of young children in relation to their mothers. She took toddlers (18 to 24 months) into a room with their mothers, let them spend a short time together, then had the mother leave.
The researchers looked for each child’s response to the mother’s departure, and, more importantly, his response to the mother’s return.
Here’s what the researchers concluded:
The anxiously attached child was upset when the mother left.
The securely attached child was also upset when the mother left.
The avoidant child didn’t react at all on the outside even though his heart rate showed distress when the mother left.
But the children’s responses to the mothers’ return reveals the biggest contrast between secure and anxious attachment styles.
The anxious child was somewhat happy when the mother returned but was also very upset and attempted to push the mother away. So, it’s a very incongruent pattern. On the one hand, he needs the mom for survival, so he’s happy that she’s back. But the child also resents her, as if to say, I need you, but you left me alone. You abandoned me and now I want to punish you.
In this case, the mother gave inconsistent feedback to her child’s cues. In other words, when he cried or wanted food, he received an inconsistent response. As a result, life became a gamble for the child.
Anxious Attachment
When Antia was single, she lived in anticipation land. She would start visualizing herself walking down the aisle with a man after their first date. Each of these men would tell her that she was the one he’d always wanted, and then he’d drop her like a hot potato soon after.
Every time a man complimented her or mentioned that it would be fun to travel or do something with her sometime, she would start telling herself stories about her future and making interpretations of the man’s words and actions.
In short, she created a false certainty by filling in the blanks herself.
This is a classic example of the anxious attachment style.
Women with anxious attachment styles are drawn to emotionally unavailable men until, or unless, they heal their emotional wounds. This is because emotionally unavailable, or avoidant, men give these women a familiar feeling of anxiety. They make anxious women feel like they’re gambling and never know what will happen next.
So if you have an anxious attachment style, you’ll attract plenty of uncertainty. You’ll also experience in your brain a chemical addiction to that emotional pattern of highs and lows that’s built on uncertainty.
In other words, you’ll want to be with men who make you feel like a million fireworks are going off inside you. It feels exciting and there’s a lot of tension, passion, and drama. But it’s only an illusion.
In reality, the synapses in your brain are firing off danger, danger, danger.
And you’re addicted to that danger because it makes you feel alive. Any other relationship—especially secure ones—seem boring or uninteresting to your emotional system—and definitely to your nervous