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Iralrguagq BarrLer
pUB
and haven't
Eeen thls
topic
Co be traveling
Europeen country
solnen speak Engllsh, th aoneone who 18 pretty lng a lot <touttry !'rlthout
kno\dledgeable, is:
verbally?
guy rrho ha8 alwayE used SS, lntel]igence, Irve never been forced to lely
pallefis,
JusE on geEtute,
body 1anguage,
tity,
to pU
lish-apeakels
gtyle
wrl,tes of War
Eey,
I thought
guides: If
you thin].
strategizing
a seduction.
before
going
influence
to aarging?),
doctrine.
"
nvlctory
is
in waf.
If
thrs
in nar lE to attack
BtraEegyi next best 1E to dlsrupt 1n !|a! gubdue the eneny wlthout wiChouE asgaultiag opelatj.ons,'
battle.
anotlynou
aakej
66ducel,o!r?'
to thinklng read i!
of the art
in mind,
aE an anaLogy: obviouBly,
a guide !o Blrategy,
new6group iE!
StyTa Eubject.
lilhat
doe6
it
with
eaLs garLic/onion
tt4)e food
when she's
6he's rot
elpecting
lhat
night
and that
you're
going
Eo get her
Applying
lipstick/1ip1iner--is
there
f,or anythtng,
or negalive?
work nightB:
so many perfect
nlghtB
lrork at 7 a.m. the nexts day. Any strategy/patlern a lIB to not' wolry abouL the fact that it's
Co convince
a xrofk/school
gtyle
reepo',dg t
$t lav. he,
ls {here
I ke.p havlng
r thlnli
you
aruver
her bu!
I need a llllle
I Jusl go!
and t'm comlng !!om whal woutr have been a d a flteld o!.'ns, 6aw a young HB?.5 ln a lhe whole rlne. sushl guggeseed vre I was me all sbe
trEfecl
led &ss
naklng
eye conlac!
(she pald--lor
even--whlle
!o lnlplovige
some pallerns.
s back !o her house. ghe says 6be,s tlred. aloor and ilalk upseatrs, and I fotloir.
and we Ealk lo them. Sbe says she's oork. earlier nhat I sbould
ttred
so I lroulalll'!
or brouqhr
her back !o mv
StyTe
wtLtea, Re! gS
Eubject!
the initial
conunent that
started
this
whole thlead,
you
see SS aa a way of, f,ucking and leavlng eome people Itve talked
to here, if just
woman, they're
SS is
increaglng
(And maybe
!o her cause
lhey've
gtyla
wrlaa'
for
girl?
the fuckeil-u!,
showa her on6. She doesnrt who trill adventure thege gir]s, lalk that
the fun and mayhem. I of,ten ge! approached by other ItBs. BuE if I open my mouth and
dropping
paEtern8
o! anything,
she's
gone in a heartbeat
because that
ahit | 6 boriEg
to her.
oll landing
party
girls?
There have to be carl be sinply they crave the thats "lrild atrd
ores--tha!
area,
with
crazyl
IlBs ?
Aaonytuous gubject:
sA1Bo, I \danled to add.how does one get iato ao-cal1ed life-of t'he pa!ty?"
that
Style
rapTlcE t
Ihanks.
That,s
exacEly it
the ploblem.
but
node at Ehe drop of a hat. bu! a party thistr girl would have glr1E be
lonnhandle,E
OodrB glfts lo the AFC? Someone nust end up wlth uight. BUE it'6 not noa! of uE i!
up etrd say,
go there
Eheir
- somethlng
to nak6 bet 6ee you as h6r collaborator !ine. She needs !o feel her frlends like she's
aohe aort
Maybe you do tshi "You did Ehat?l You're wildl" ndalefl gane: Baying something like. trYou a!e out of 'bite thats 9ir1's
I love thats! But I bee you nould never gi.ry to buy you a drinh/whatever
That,s
just
an ldea:
I'm thiDking
out loud.
If
idea,
I'd
be up for
tlying
back.
Af6o,
one other
line
of thinking:
girl
really
want?
validation
for
Any thoughtg?
Thia brlngE
1. TtIe loglc
@re
co
Co cLose ea!]y,
or !o pusb lt.
6uggeEtsions?
of naking
(wbich can
you again) , I would suggest doing a tsakeaway if Ioe interegt af,te! the spe1l of the nlght but you could alo Ehat. is I
a HB will
advice
whatever
two great
lhing6
last
night.
The firsh
was re:
ki1]er.
she's
very,
very
gerious
But' Euddenly they startsed having major plobleng, We went ou! to !a]k about lt.
So, afEet
BF-Eupportlng
I cane up with
this:
Se!
E:veryone te1ls
me tha!
I don,t
know, though.
he thinkE
tha!
person you'le
And whaE if
iE,B him?
way8. Thlnk about its. Maybe you neeal to and out the o!he! Elde In otder tso
tshlE lelatlonablp
the real
pel8on I'ou' !e suppo8ed lo be wiEh. ME, I know tshat fate i! to, You may think you,re fated to be with
teLling
a leEson fron
tshiB relationship,
want6 you to be
whole time)
a white,
him shetl
That's
bad,
but to
wa'rlteal
an experiments
be curiou6
a drir*
(because
an enelgy
drinj(.
The idea
starts
facing
exclted.
ahe was
ho myself,
Tt worked:
there patlern),
Epontaneously
good. RighE? But thi.s iB lrhere I fuck up. InEtead or lifting her face up !o nlne tbaE I've to kiBB, I fear
of pressing and
rejection
nove in.
(The fact
before
said 100 tlmeB ho\t I'm so mrch mole fun and exciting I figure ghe's going to go Ehere, flght wicb hln
the whole t to
and thlnk
abou! ho!,, nuch more fun I an !o be with. next time, vthen she's
So I can try
Eo go !o her boyfriend.
So tha queBtlon
i:
l{a tba!
AFc thinking?
nyself
of lejecElon?
(Probably,
(Fol1ow up: ehe call.ed tne first would like tsonight. tso hatrg out before
thing
gaying Ehe
any tboughtE
on Red BuIl
vs.
Alcohol?
Anyone
back?
Style
su.bjeet ! Re!
Right,
Irve flon
too.
I,ve
suf,fered
r,reek
too hard,
thinklng inlliate
of llying
Eo nake the HB
ge! fed,n
and kino,
unavailable with
ln keeping
ASF philosophy,
Aa for
is an
advantage or digadvanlage ago nake6 the oppoaite when not looking for it)
a few alays
Style
eEltag
subject:
her fauily"
'
in a tetautant'
and
HB8,5 came ifl ltitsh her mother and auJrt ' r flgure like you woulal a IIB hanging out wlth f,lrst.
you approac[
to older
food'
healal Ehat they !,re!e gPeaking wilh rnon that ?eEtaulan! Bhe had come to the tlghE f,or a 11!t1e while.
accent
and talked
aB aoon aa I hearal my oPpolEuniEy to lnvite lounge I nad going to the next night,
I said tha!
going there
accompanying ne'
I Ehink this
knowlng they'd
bu! appreciate
conpLlments co their ErusE and show t}'em interes! in bheir you get tshe a
ryouEhr').
the secreE may be to earn lhe palents'E stabilily, anil completely platonic
along too i{e1l i,tith a girl'6 HB'6 atstraction teeny bit like you're
neutlalizlng
rebelliouB juEt
another
lame friend
StyTe
subject:
desire
do so becauEe theirs
is weak enouqh to be
--Wlluan
SEyle wri-eeE su.bjeet! Ret AELan Olrls ln AEla v6, Aelan trerLcan clrls In
uaA
Thia brlnga up another queBtion I,ve type guy, buC I have spent a lot Aslan languageE. A fen years about an A6ian 91rI !hat' r/'rheaf speak lhelr
of tlme iD Asia and can Bpeak a few used tso be cool if you knev, Now,
ago, i!
sohething I \rorly
in America,s
Language to them o! nentj-on gooal fron Ehelr count.ry, they get scateat stuf,f juEt.
directora/wrlterg/celabritieB
becauEe I SEEM Like an ABian fetsishist. to seduce AeiaD ronen girla in Anerica (not truel).
culture is
ignoratrce?
My worry
are ultra-sen6ltsive
nights be into
individuals.
I'm willing
Eo try iE thie:
every tacLlc
suggeated,
and poat
The El.luaelon
RAFC+. BUE now I'm i6 thlE! {and total them don't of askiag,
I have never ever Been more beauLiful AFC gtryB) aq'nhere 6peak EngliBh. before.
So my Barging
a convergatlon
vlhen the anslrer lE rnou o! 'a li!t]e," dotrrE knolr !rha! !o do.
I'm juet
complicatlon
iB the fac!
tha!
I'm visiting
a fllenal
f,Luents. But he ia auch an AFC thal aYE to say iMe buy ilri.nktr--and
and B) vihen I ak him to translale, Eay what I tell. he leer6 hi.n to or gets
he chickenB out and scared and runB away, On which nakea natstele
won't
been a great wllgmen, Bending IIBg to him whenever they aay Epeak Engl.i6h, anal be ls JuBt unable to follow up.
So, clearly,
at cluba
and cafes,
I need to 6arge ao1o. But anyone have at a Los6, a$d going out of
(c|!re thing
I'm thinl(itrg
is that
through
SS I've
learned
to sarge with
lords;
how carl I do it
ririth
few or hot
KNOW they,re
tsrolling
Seyle vrites
subj6ct. Rer perfonance alxLety
This
is an intereatLng
thread.
I've
have
worked amazing $onders fo! reaEon, quleter every now and then,
a llttle
For some a
I meet a chick
(eEpecially
me to get the pace of the convo) , I'11 aDd touCines lhlough tha! my head, t.rying I'11 juBt end up to
BilenE, leaat
sayj.ng a lhing,
whereas ln my afc day6 I would have at going. Doe anyone else have Ehe ploblem Eo do--inBtead of Ju6t
of trying doing?
of t'he ltght
ASF thing
here'B
Bomethlng to thlnh
about:
self-esleem. talking
You need t'o fi.nd a way tso raise wi.tsh other or loing, people, lhat It
seems Eo ne that
of rejection
you're
c1ich66
never win6,
fallures.
:comfo!tsable
being yourael"f
like,
pergon you,re
you have lhe attitude wa[t yourE. smiling, doesn't A1so, start
that:
small:
the Svengali
and juets Baying hi to L0 gas). You'l1 come aear as often as you think
thats rejeccion
its w111.
people
are very
leBponeive
to your EignalB
expect lejection,
anal get what you er.pecc. Erq)ect Euccess, and you'I1 cofireE.
gtyL.
wrLEca
aftet
!o get
sone tactica lb
of ouher !actic6.
of Elendy HBs in ski4ttr becau6e lE naa so aay like or ju6t thlg! a friendly lt6g aomeone and one
1, * cloee her.
1: IlBPlaEtlc
I'd
to
She waE memorable becauge Bhe wag aetractive, surgery a.bout her face.
I suggested we 6pend sone time tsogetshe! aince lte anyluay. so she Eaid, I've rlsule, Learned
seen to always enal up at' the sane places give me !.our nuiber. r lxstead
T
I
hprp rdar ha/ n' mhcr
A r v r AIz G L Y . I N
ju6t
said,
,'Okay." -i
gh.
grabbed
a club
flyer
-.ve
handed
n.rri
pen.
She of
course
wrole
down her .
and
ThF
haYA
inctse:,-l
...-.
jusl If
pul
her
in
the p.pel
posilion
of
being
OBLIGATEDto
n-srber. to
she going
do.
It
I
I
2.
# close
2:
This
one is
paid grrL
off.
I got
a ride had
home
wlth
HBEnergy,
a rorally leIL
A muEuat friend
pretly
of
T
I
rink. "cive
give
something
I never
funny,
I never
day I wondered if
But
lhiE the
,'Eey, guess vho? phone number. as very I lrae good lhe pas! and
girl about
lhinking yesterday
my nunber.
thinking being
about creepy
was rude,
molive...If Iot
,F
t.hat,s
not
of
T
fun
h:d
and I'm
<,,.h r
callrng
l^nd
him.'
lL's
been on my mino a.l phone. chalk (She must one up for an AFc,
day.,
have gotten
our nutual
AsF, because l
know rhat
a
I
I
had jusl
my number like
3. Cloee #3: I collided HBscralrny on the rirk. net. and I sniled. 6aw her off neant-to-be accident, fate,
(accidentatly, In tha!
really)
into
a tsotatty cutse
momenE, though.
saying
tha!
together
didn,t
a tingle
lrhen our ey6s met' (and then I off,set naybe that and finally lingle of, enerlfy was just
vrihh a joke
some tine
rneant to be. Thia naB my corniest becau6e Ehe !ea6 aceually notlced tbat intereeted
#cloEe,
and I only
jn me already
(after
we ctaehed,
over at ne) .
4. Mirrorlng: that
Maybe I haven,t
archive,
but it
sE !
whenever we talk
about mlrloring,
worka amaziag, and let6 fast and exciEed, I,d talk I,d
a lrorId
And I noticedl
rappotts,
automatically
ln common because ou! eaergy 16ve1 aod speech patlerns iB an otd ASF thought, but thought I,d
share it.
An!'!raya, that'a
ny reporE.
It's
the
It
phenonenon. I'm sure I could have more *c1o6e6 that not becauEe I was ,on,' kinoing with it's probably
night.
SEyIe write':
t
I
l'-1 ,h r.last
ieL you knou uhaE happens. In Ehe Lhe o.sos(e. fi-e. time rking her
HBscrauny
night,
EverjLh.ng at lasl
l'le started of
drd dr wilh
my house, boyfriend
a lor
listening
and what she wanledr Then, guy girl jukebox, we wenl oul (vhich there. lo
a local
alpha hippie
I usually we talked
pulting rhe
her.
physical,
and kept
doggie all
dinner this
my hands.
'
And because I
was gelting
atrention
.i/t i,
me the kno\r if
look. this
I molioned 1,]asright,
for buL I
her
to join
us,
Now, I
kepl
rny allenlion
I didn't
a 6cumbag--jusE
Arlnvay, anolher
lhe
bar
closes
to posl,
my house I just
drink.
Now, as I :p u:!h
or o reloLiorsl ge!
da insanely So,
jealous into
and am sLill
back.
e walk
my bedroom,
be lhere
only
reason my ex showed up was because she and wanled lo fuck out of up my game. the house. So The
a girl
HBScraL'ny,
and HBscra!,ny
runs
- -. that book I followed this advice, which I read recently lhat. part in
co say
(it's
a little
misog),ni6t,
so ignore
aalvice).
iE telling
tenperamental
,'Euman ingenuicy.
my friend,
lras hitherto
only
discovered
two vtays in
which a nan cad manage a wohan. One way is Iargely abhorrent adopted by the brutal tso the lef,ined lower orders
and educated claEBeB above them, The olher but i.n the end no leBa celtaln) lvifh
holdE ntlth wornen, !,,rhoare is in. the one quality If they can once of of Ehe
nouhing but chililren anlmals, Ehake fhis hirn. If tshen. n the chlldren, supe?lor
reeolutlon fa1I
nate!,
xroldE, f lefueed
to be Provoked,
no matter
faced wilh
1. llha! do I te1l
ltBscraltny,
give
i!
ahe stil1
otsher people?
gtyla
subjeetr
iiust
i6n't
to 6tart
dating
one
up or not being
a few months, is
a ca6e of extrene,
post-breakup
jealousy.
cockblock
or salging
and changed ny
1ockE. )
before
been a
deatluctlve
one. So thank, I
Style
lubjecE!
I waa Ealklng
to a paychologl6t $o!ks,
today,
idea to buy
eapecially you.
or do gomething fo!
I may not be remenibeling EhlE l1ghE, aomething fo! a llB, 6he will thinl
when you do
tha!
nlce guy. But if nore attached her mind that that place
to you and bonded to you. ALso, its planta iE is eaay !o do a amall favor
lrhen you ask her to do soneLhiBg else qulet.) she will not only be less likely
for
going
some
to offer
So the to
Eupplicate
its,s just
in a Emall way it
everyrhing
kind
itr a relatsionship)
here? Vlhen aa AlC buye an $B a drink, {bef,ore blowing exceggive feel him off for
to him a 1ltt1e
datlng/suppllcation lf
they don,c)?
"I'm
and thi6
girl
checklng
me out.
lhe \,ray I'm dreEaed? ahe a6k6 ne !o lratch he! coaC. lnpregElon t'hat I'n weak?,
geyle
replles.
Try looking
at thia
unEil
her $ly
f!1end6
Left,
and
then Lurned to tal.k Eo you. Sure, maybe she thought guy, buts ahe clearly would have beeo very herself. my stuf,f set it This is while $anted !o ireet you alld talk
to you, Otherwise,
eay f,or her to tsake her purse to Lhe bathroom by PI,A tactic: I a]way6 ask a gi!1 to watch to
a total
up so tha!
Think
about it:
you're
Eitting
there
worrying
about how a momentsand got outside cuEtomer in a 6trip Ehe iiaSN,T reatly Sure, \rork The
YOU look a$d appear when, if of your wofries, club wa6 hitting hitting out: fact
by sone snall
on you, aEsume thaC she was and proceed accordlngly. but not to attract le that looking like chicks, ju6t !o feel better
about yourEelf.
Anonymoua wtltaga
iDirect
qulckly.,,
gtyle
rapllas.
lhiB
ia a really
good point,
Rlol
lJ!d,
Rio,
(o! whoeve!)
Itodroe in
he pretends
haa no feeliag
Monroe tries.
"Nothing, " So 6he keep trying JusE a movLe, but it mechanism with does rej.nforce a challeage.
Of courEe, tlteir
EexuaL cont'lol
Chey feel
good poinE,
(which wilt
AJnon ,'@'lE
teE IieE'-
tlhe
gxyle
RepTlea.
BuE ltrs
eaBler
lrm finding'
working
iluEt being nervoua ol not comfortable eayrng, Bholts then they bave 6mat1 ugly features bu! it' lqf and
wha! you're
I FometlneB try
to took for
hand nentally,
suggesllorlE, Rio, fo! keeplng your cool in these Bltuations' fol (and 5u4)r! not letting the fact that lnslde you're dying of lust that the'B begl ring Eo ge! hot fo! you) Eholt on the outeide?
I thinl
tbat
that
yourre style
too intsimldated
around
and that
ho find easier
around svengali's
llas anyone hele taken MyBlery'B BaBic Training recomnend it? Dial anyone get reaults them Earge otl lheir own afteirardB?
ju6!
a PUA I
ahyneBE I atIll
aomeone glve me eome fedback on rny 9ty1e and Eticking tha! Bald, 18 thls worEh an RAFC paying for?
[AIao,
wheEher Roaa, MyBtsery, or Rayre methods ale bet!e!, gela lald more; I don,t I don't
i6 a posert
!,ran! to sEa!ts one of EheEe ugLy fLaming wars \re otberwise lal.d greats newsgroup. They've ThankE.l al1 got
gets bogged do$n ia in thiB good ideaa and Ehey a1l get
(I hope).
SEyIe
wtixeg
Eubject:
DoubLe Field
Repor!:
Dou-b1e SuggeEtionE
Needed
couple mistakes'
Three at
days
ago,
my friend shv l
HBs al
night
but
\tas too
partsy up lo "I
noticeat shoc to
cominq like'
up and said
sound like
there a!
xxxxxx.
"God,
he really
means it
doing
my friend sit
But'
asked me !o
down a!
because now I was siltrng and burn verv Their biEch shields
lralching
guys
garcastic,
buE I negged a lirrle !hem, naking a fluss lookr fun of the with
didn't
My friend,
1#closed hair'
a nodel
friosled
leggy, girls
restauranE,
and beliewe
it
or
showed up at
parcy
At
lhe
partsy,
had another
girl,
artsy looking,
anat with
a really face
people,
other
guys.
HBs came !o
the
parly,
introduced
eome of
my friends,
and then
proceeded
ignore a
on EBExstripper,
itho said
co scart
modeling putting
agency.
She is giving
hotding
to the bathroom and asks ne to $atk her tshere. We walk thele, go in r,rith her. we atand arld talk She atrops her parts and pees with a littte
while.
seened etrange
after
on how to stalt
feels
like
it'
ls
on anyway, especlalty
since
iB
maklng out vrilh one of ny frlends. gir1g say bye to me. I just becauae HBExBtlippe! Then the boyfrlend
We step outslde
of HBExstrlppet
grogr dlstant
ches!. I talk
they !alk,
the vlbe
and klno
(whoBe
boyfliend leave.
ia alao cetting
on HBExstrlppe!, totally
inadequate *close.
16 there
anything
I could have done here? Boyfriend becauge they urere leady Atso,
deBtloyers,
I fe]t,
to cheat,
so whaE
ahould I have done here? Any suggeetions? nunber, boyfrienil how should I handle calllng might be with her?
Okay, on Lo HBFlogtsed. We went out Eonight. she brought along a friend nho wa6 a bit pretty
I brought
some frienalB,
andt
we1t,
tso get HBFrosted to go home. At6o. a4d shooting dorrr guys tefts and
lights who came up to her, kind of had her tigured commenteal on how probably can tell she is ju6t
bu! out.
I lefused
to leE it
intini'Late
ne r
a lot
but to the
a quiet
to be an ob6erver' proceas
of nentally a really
good convelBation la
eaile up witb
her telling
my eta!
supposeil to educaEe her 6Ear sigin {a good place anil increalible conneclion type of Pattem)
' Ftnally,
She algo 6ays 6he go! out of a long lelationghlp not looking encouraglng !o get trapped fo! in a lelatlonEhlp
a yea!
again,
whlch is this_
me because I have a reaL1y great EayB 6he reaLly off, wants !o go hone and then call
responge for
so I'm with
itB for
I live
dlrection actually
(whlch iE anal lea1Ly has a 1ot of work !o do lhe nex! day also a cop out). So then (and this iE !'here I E!ue, buts it's sluck anil can! figure 16 kino ouE a way to ge! uB aLone but I could noE into being aloof lihen we r can The
s19n6 are good, anal lhere escalate when I'n part teft
and rappolt,
drifts
and intensely
aflal iE cones time to 6ay gooalbye, she offele tbat a *close is built is out of, lhe question,
though definiteLy
enough
rapport
My questlon
here is
tbis:
I feel
like
her friend.
her looks
a lot,
of direch
move
on her would have been a problen. handled this situatsion arld rappole
Any Euggegtiors
and, especially.
beyodd kino
to a more romantic
have stooal
the OTHERguya as someone she wantsB to get phyFical see her again when she is back o! I,m ifl her to$n, bettser and bond her cloBer to
I !1111 probably
I definitely
Seyle vtltaar 6u.bjest3 Rq! Double tleld Rsportt Doublo guggesllone Needed
Aarln,
you! obBervatlong
are perfect.
exaclly nailed
and wha! nent wlong and, itr Ehe blgger and weakneEaeE. in lurni,ng I epesia1ly appreclete
the advice
an oblacle f,al]ed
A13o, I totalLy
stalEed
balhroon- -!,rhy else would Ehe bring whigpering r.eport Eheae lhiDga I'11 1n firy ea!,
instead.
ulrdate on llBFroBled,
Saturday.
a moLorcycle
ha.nal-me-doirn. Thin.|ing
of
learnj.ng
ride.
Out of curiosity,
PUs.
it'8
I pick
you up on
meetings'r
on a notorcycle.
DoeB it
heLp
lt
would be pretty
gtyla
I have been meaEitrg to poBt here for counEly. llhat I want to wlite
awhi,le,
buE I've
18 a report
on Mygtery'a
PUA +close
which
a nild
fleld
report
I'n
TI{E TEXTBOOK *CIJOSE on Friday lright, I weat to a dance club and ran intso a friend. She was
a totat
bitch.
altilude.
and basically
when I was intr.oduced. if, you treat of, ju6t , you,re trying loylng thie
Since hangirlg out with att tike a game, ir,6 like you so
tearned that
Juet for
t'he 6port
of it,
I,d
try
to break down
mind reading I,d read her nlnat and Then ehe said I \ren! Then we Then
I said
he? mother,s
11ve-for-the-monent
past her.
her that,s
over hlm.
know, lhat,s
and I don,t
a while.
A lit.tle bathroon,
later?
we decide
Eo go to anotber
ctub.
so my friend
leave lrithout
THE DISASTER TCI,OSE We go to anotlter dru.nl< gB{very, dance club. hot, A6 soon a we watk in, furlky black I see this haired girl tsotsa1ly witsh
vety
yormg, lender,
a ied ecarf, and red lipstick partsy the night dfulxk, nietake and ne're before.
and tight
red top)
I say hi,
doim, and then r nake the too lrasted to !ea1]y awkwar&res between ua off drulk
of actually
understa[d
a rdold of it,
createa
(anyone ever have the problem of, patternB gl!LE?). She Bays Ehe !,rants druga,
and l don'!
but I lell
tso get 6one. she says okay. me in. she sits f,i.eld
vfe get up, and as Ehe pasaea the batshroom, ehe pullB dordn on th lollet !6port--THIS and lakeg
IIAPPENSAJ,IJ THE F-INe TIME TO ME). as 6he finieheE, pourditrg o! the doo!, I Eell hin r!'s someotle'e in lhe sone guy, naybe Ehe and finally she
aomeone EtartE
ln the door.
EEart yel1i.dg
at each other,
club,
in,
alone !,rlth he! arma folded. her, and I Jok6 and play llrto
of death for
dltchlng
(becauBe her regponseE fall easy !o be one .tep half party hour, glrl,
such a predicEable
in heIl this
the nel.l
I'm wilh
dtujlk
drurtc party
gilI
A MARRIAGE CIJOSE?I{ELP I Outside, tlBlhri1 disappears aBd I #close the party gj.rl, itho iE vely
a[d wanEE drugs to atsay awake. I (I know one gnry 1n the group), who
are tsrying to f,igi.Ee out \rbere to go. I stsart talking suggest that while they are slandirxg around indecisive,
frm after-hourB
{becau6e ahe's
hungry),
her friendg
then.
outside that
the clu.b. and a guy behind us startss tatking HBRuEsian and I gots engaged tonight uEed this before, and are
never aclually
HB lomantlcelly-it,
B a loke that. ptanLg a seed of possibiLily least., you,re both eharing a prlvate
a fantasy
worLd for
Any$ay, the guy in line then he took a ring perf,onned thia 1ove. It real1y
wag Juet amazing. ge 6aid he cra6 e priest, ot like malriege a keyring) cerenony, off full his cell phone and pledges
and
(Eo!t
of undying
of
beaut.iful.
thunib, and of cour6e kiEEed the brlde we went lnalde, Bervices. ki8Bed mo!e, a.rld pald
a beer for
while,
are STILI, on
lfe hang out and !al.k wiEh then, we go back to my hotel can,t be !ea1,
Ehat thig
hoo phyaicaL.
soulmate, it
of doub! crosses
to nake sure, it
I can lrrite
in more detail
Anylvay, she gpends the night actually have sex, despite in tshe morniDg, until. ,.
story)
and leave6
6he could be a
MLTRPo6sibility,
r$E tCI,OSE FROMHEIIIJ On Satulday night, I go to a alance c1ub, and aB I get a drink, woman dtendlng next to me. she i6 sott to her for !o ne, Iike, fun. l'lhite lhere of
aEtraclive
x wonde! if, I Ehould talk the EayB sonethlng for practlce, boring
Anerican? mlnuteg
I aecide
to go for
asklng
aod
Eo gleat
al,I okay'
It' s terrible.
turn6
out' that
Ehey're
friendBl
I an
and HBRuBslan leaves withouE a wold to me' I several mole minutes' then intloduce tshe girl gone ' tso a
6hock for
ltBRuEsian. sadly,
6he'6 alleady
I told
F
E
all
in
all, than
of
romance, clubbing.
tragedy,
and nore
*closes advice,
F I
a reekend
Any rhoughts,
and funny
welcone.
! Eeminar in LA
Re: llystery's
Yes/ right
it
vent
grea!.
say,
and I/m it
out
of
rhe rime
counlry ln a!. a
no!,.
I will
nex!
compuler.
lhoughrs
the
meanrime
If
you are
READY for
it,
it
is
invaluable. carry
In
orher
words, wirh
if
you nave
on a conversalion
a woman, it ro
be \rorth or get
level,
class
learned
so much in it.
take
reporh
the
woutd no!
wha! I i!,
and doing
inslead
of
just
lowed most in
lhe
ctass in
je
!ha!
it
your
ear.
sarging/ advice
on lrhat
Wett,
a girl/ just
whar
MORE KrNO or
lltRlr AWAY FROM HER FOR A SECOND l,tHEN SHE IIER SHE HAS NICE SKIN AND RI]B HER
whalever,
Pleaae,
leally
two conpletety
atiffere[t
comparing 6teak and ice cream. Sure, you eat. them bo!h, nothing alike. Sotne like one, 6ome like the other.
then both.
gtyle
Okay, after
she
reBponee here?
It
kinil
of lhren
me for
a loop,
egpecialLy
slnce
gett.ing
ton6 of killo
Vthat I did lras sort and then I turned She, of cour6e, and I slowly
to lgrtote
he!,
agaln,
iE an anazing
ptA.
or witsh nen) who he can noE approach anat at the very 15 mi[utes.
#close within
2. I recommend this
cla6s very,
very highty
for
hhose who have some poinrs. If, you have that first. you
inhibited
However, the cla66 may stitl accoq)Ilehed 3. Irike netve this PttA at work.
be worthwhile
onty to watch an
in ASF, there
is no magic pi1l.
anat
clasa len't
one, But, at the same tlme, anil helpful than a full ls just
tshis [eekend of claBses year of juBC reading about educatlon, Dur ASF
and SS matelials.
The reading
about appllcation. me, the c1as6 was dlfferen! than I expected, but at
as fo!
the Bame time I goE more out of i.E than I expected. better underatanding of how !o use the lacllcs brought
nore lq)ortantly,
Mystery
ale four
things
that
I,d
read but
appl.led before,
I'AIT A PIAN. Watching IityBtery, VIHATto 6ay and IIIIEN !o Eay it. nearly !h6 exac! Bame opener,
I realize It6
lhat
lts
inport.ant
to kdow
lngane to watsch him JuEt use aame gimnickB, and lhe eraac!
Ehe exac!
aame 1ine6,
EAVE A OIMMfCK (or at. the very bypasE the malL ta1k, performance (a story
1east. a prop).
demonsErate value
to her with
or trick
or demon6tlatiol
I guess,
of Eex nagic).
Be the
entertsaioer. possibility
in a way that
lts is
one!
with
the claes,
and I'11
say thls
aB much for he
Myeteryrg.
The rnan is
anazing.
He knowa tha!
gomelines
!te'1L juet
be walking fot
out of a bar,
and herll
Etop bxto gBE walklng that he BpenE a 1it!1e ard {orklng Sio,
spor!.
and a 11t!1e
Forlunately,
wing,
i6 a problem tha!
I'd
a16o llhe
ln mafla or cal{
of the claEs,
conpared to sarglng
No!r, for
Ehe great
Bomeone I'aI only net mlnuteE ago, atld now I EhiDk I can' for a couple lteekB and had al1 aortE of
20 girtst
*closed
6ix,
slePt
Etrange night,
f-closed
tlto crazy
islere.
enobbiest
\rho tolal ne sbe \ta talking have dlone one-te4lb I found myselt this
r probably clasa' In
everyday
whethe!
Eucceeding o! faitidg,
I can't
qai!
to put thls
stuff
comfortable.
AND, FINALLY whot I need now is Advanced Trarnrng. through the next steps: calling adventure. I need a class #ctose with Lo lake and taking me her for
an HB I I
passionale of
have ro bring
my fottow-up
gane up
my approaching
and-closing
game. Mystery,
you ready?
Aj:o,:ltmoue repTieg, Eubject: rer Myetery claes field report (daya 3 and 4)
you accomplished over the weekend really sluff Ehat was in the manual?,,
due to the
StyLe replies.
is
lhat
the
manual
gave me rhe
knowledge
and the
ctass ro
gave
Ekil]. the
Withoue ASF and TFM, r wouldn,t class. Bul withou! make all all) rhe class,
the of
approaches lhe
and closes
vacarion learner,
Bu!,
rhink
as going
more from
and doing
think
Lha!. for
Mysle-y, at.
whal he excels lo
have to
something
rha!
tha!
oEherg,
Lh"!. thing.
clasg
f,Ield
reporl
(Days 1 and 2)
that
g|yla
t{)lLee I
For openels,
there
are three
one Mylery
EuggeBCealfo!
me. Iry!
hae actually
yorkeat.]
to the
Then I turn
mlne.tr ft g!oup),
her defenses
he! $ith
acCuatly 'aren,t
I BaLd, ,I wag,
a j oking
6mile)
a llt't]e
nore paBeionately.
r,ras a variatloa
wotkn tine
of I
I said tbat
I maale up.
to my friend
reatly",
andt teasing_
p1u6 it
shous uE as nice guys wbo ieomen are att.ract.ed house arld afLer she teft,
hol . ]\n],way,
sofa cushion.
and they 6aial its is, itrs her6 sualdenty Lhe spelt or
thing that
jusc peychological?,
this
isn,h
genLue ot anylhlng,
but
convo golng and open up doore for Irve been uing Eone other
Iton ever,
openerE that
lnvolve
props/glfimickE.
Ae for
other
toutineE/pabtern,
I liked:
lifehime,
anal we
Theretg perfection
aIBo one abou! holr our enotlonal whil.e tbe inteltectuaL It end6 wlth me pulting tight
cilcuitry
hag evolveil
to
Lmperfec!.
one quile
right
now.
various
etc,
Question ganes
A kino
storl
called
Dino I6land
Etc,
eLc. etc.
ABoaTmouB aekea
gtyTe
replleEl
neve!
your fllend
Conight?n thi6?'t
uwhat did you alt "Are you guys from around here?u They juBt \rant to be pald aetention watching
llhaEeve!.
to so lbat guy
some olher
Buppoeed to be enlertaining.
seyl.
wr!EeF.
Re! Odious aad ldygtery
Eubject'!
Okay, I think
is8ue
(ha ha) .
seriously, lt tike
thi
move glacefully
classes), button
dress well
dol,'rr shlrt
and black
what you need tso do tso get this--be about their think tavolite lopic,
be le6e 1ikely
of you as nfatr
I knott tshis
of
nine
is
vell
over
posicive,
guy who always knowe where the s'rls. socialite I can't In facE, girt.
daring I
my Brc
friend.
ewen imagine
hovr they
completely reinven!
Style
aubjeclr
You rnay remernlcer HBExstr:ipper, ago. lons She tras the of IOIS, one who brought
from
a field lhe
report
from
a couple
weeks
me into kep!
balhroom
calling
on rhe rhar
or no!,
considering me lrhile
she lives
she called
back roday,
about find
how she was looking any good guys). her boyfriend, but got But, so I off
eomeone to
up with
ehoulder
some advice, ne lo go lo
quickly.
from being
the
!o
cry
towards as lhe
eliciting rebound,
slales. wanr
already lhe
mind
r don,t
shoulder.
going dot+'rrthere
thiE
weekeDd
netfl
fron
vegas.
I fear
that
going with
or meeting
may be suppllcatlon-
and thererE
gtyla
acts Bu.bJ
Nice,
honest
lay repo!ts.
Made me think
of Ewo lhlnga:
1. succeBs is
a matEer of talent
and Eining,
the fact
lhat
apploached a IIB who bad jugt The lesson here for find lhe right
apptoacb untiL
pelson
i6 a good lesson
in a with a
Of, coulse,
gruy 6hei6 JuBE nets iB not going to feel talteal out, al1 acltng like a "bitch,'
thats she had done tshe righ! and that you were a nice
tshing, that
the tine,
guy. Wben you say ,,we11 the leasr you leave,,' thal's total
you can do is
give me a bj before
Neanderrhat/AFc behavior.
is
thal If to
you
felt
insecure
afteiwards,
out
reaction.
slnpathetic her),
her
cdre youx
could
see her--and
pracrice advantage
lricked sor! of
taken experience
Nexl time,
And, if telting
you,re really
feeling
gomeonehow the
rime, you re lusr so exciLed co be wirh her char you can L netp sood rhing, and berler,
yourself because she turns you on Eo much. But. rhis rs. because you know lhat unril over time/ the sex will get berter
you bolh know juEr how to pleasure each oEher for hours and Tell her how i!'s grear ro have gotten rension se*
out of the way, and now you can drop lhe sexual and just be complelely comfortable together
o l h e r e m o E i o n ally a n d p h y 6 - c o l l y .
Othe! inslead
lhan of
t.hat, coning
it
you did
a nice
job.
lhe
future, hor
conslder r only
ptaying
and cold,
rewarding lo
and punishing
recenrly
tearned
from Mystery
greats effect),
I hope lhis
helps I
Style
writes,
eubjecu:
Daallng
with
"diffLculti
girls
cEre in every 20 or so $onen I approach is geh tshro tr for purposely then, a loop.
a 'difficult"
girl,
and r
contfarian.
anythlng that
yourve elicited
you underBland
lhem, tshey'1l
leBpond by either
and mysterioualy
these are ltomen who are glving all the time, half
leBts and batEleB of, and half Bmillng nowhe!. ever eahit so tied aE a protectlve and enjoylng Theyrle !ha!
Ehleld
to keep enotionaL
!o flgule
been fl$Eed
"compLicatedtr
be ou! getting
ltm probably
not erq)laining
aa wall
abou!?
Anyway, I usual,ly
ge! frustrated
(becauEe I ge! annoyed, Ehough It1I BuE. doeg anyone have a blldge women, Eo get pas! simple, there's trying lntereEting,
or pattern crl4)tlc
or idea thaE works od these cotnnents to the more underneath? perhaps, Or maybe inEEead of
woman hlding
a way !o compleEeLy change her state--by. to build rappolt, taking het outside
of belseLf of adventure
gtlongly
go of, her6elf
and the
(and I'n
anslre!--there
Style
writea: Inlroducing.
..the balhroom lakeaway?
Eubj ect:
least
think
iE's
ntghl .
Slrike
up a conversation be in line.
(you
can either
walking past/
Have a gimmick in mind (pa1n-reading, handwrihing analysis, runes, digicam, \rhalever) . Turn lhe convetsalion you oan! lo perfornr on her. gimmlck would really
hF/ ind cFc rf r,^,, .:r
invrhird
the
bathroon
Line
isn,t
the
place t
to
do it, go find
and there
isn'h
rrLisEen,
have to
my friende.
me when you're
It
for
me ]ast
night,
l,lith
one HB,
a sudden pull
another
ne/
great/
social
a situation bathroom to
women. I go find
could other
eilher
the
HB I was
and apologize
too popular.
is
obvious,
but
lrd tines
never lhe
lhoughL
of
il
before. for
nishl helpe
lwice,
and bolh
HB came looking
conversa!iona1:6!,
I've
noticed
that
flahing
in the week.
l,{hen you're
ell.cl.ting
EV!:NTS Eoo. Then, !,,hen you (wbatever, Ltut cool barJ. facto! ia rnuch
sall
the btter-
seemE like
obvious a definile
plan lalher
cell
whaE do you aay Eo her lrhen you see up where you lef,l {and having to
you decide you wan! !o pick or no!e? l{aa not calling rappolt? her
Style
subjeqt!
okay,
this
additsion to your
palm- reading
may wonder whether to read the left hadd 16 connected to your left
hand. side
brain,
logic,
etsc.),
you about who sorneone isr on Ehe outside. by the right artietlc, brain, which is
Xhe teft
controlled (creative,
itetinctual, tell
good patterning
cones in,
and cleane!
in ou! society
intuitive Natural
to launch into
Oh, and 6ometLmeB, because I llve palm-feading hag become c1Lch6 for
I worry
that
I nras talklng
an HB and e1l of a gudden Ehe Ju6! thrugt "Can you read palmE?,' No one eve! gets people could get thetr
themBelveg!
l'{hich
do you think
(a Bholt,
EituaEiooai.
question)
or gimmlck)
fot
better
fo,
stsreet pus.
For example, you walk up !o the bu6 stop and an HBg.5 is tshere. what is goirg greace! close: to Lead uLtirnatsely to greate, rapport
Etanating or a
tong?"
or ,rThose
B. Laulrching handwriting
into
a routlne, for
tike
telting
he! you need t'o pracrice it or1 her. (spells, story, and Or tsetling
analysis
a cfass
an ar$rment
about
Non, Eay you Bee an H88.5 ets a ba! (uhich le eBaenelally leading
in a club.
throwing
Etyla
Eubjecl!
Is 1t better looklng
1ooking o! worse
than yourself?
the better
looking
ning aLtracts
more femal"e
catch
(Itm a8king
this
quesElon cause f Bonetsimes wtng lritsh a $ry who rs and we talk to ton6 of HBs. but him--ever I tend no! tso do as though he haB almost
no PU 6tyte. )
Arlonylrou6
writeg:
stories
ir
grocery
stores?"
geyle
z:epllesl
store
is
fooal grocery
or an organic
so ea6y to strlke
see some
'rAre those any gooat?', and lhen health, for a *c1ose. and then
lifeEEyle,
and wlehln
gtyle
subject3
lhats a6 a complinent,
Later,
drunk,
put her
f,or abour s
seconds. and then l realized whispering doesn't while. in her ear with to kis6
up for hers,
it.
I 6aid. just a
'tYou know, it
could have taken het hone, but' for I startsed tso get a litLle .
is
thlB:
do you think
that
misEaking
someone for
greellng
tbem very
(I thought affecli.on
that
naybe thiE
and
Ehe COIU,Dhave lf
Just feeling
ItrB
actually
really
SuggeBE 1016 playlng s!ar, that being rornally naid/boEs, you can tel1
e6cort/cliert)
he! what tso do, alld puts her in the posiu-on than herself, It's especially so lhats itt6 good if
you create
relationship
rock eta!/groupie)
where oral
sex is part
of hhe
wolks
for
you!
It
aepects of
tr
I t
I
StyTe writesr Eubject: Sunday Sarging Report wiEh QuegtsionE
I wanled reporl. I
lo
deal. wilh
a couple
issue/
but
in
the
interestins a museum to
sarging walers
I
I
I!
v,as lhe
firsE
time
the
man is
a master palterns
senEe of
Anchors
and
oozing at
of him. and/ to
was when we vrent out some women/ he expanse and see how
look
a city it l'as
on how amazing
60 smoolhly rnto
the uhole/hole.
Also,
Grinrlcle of
and I fun.
cruised
around really
neighborhood of street
T haven'l but il in
We'd just
6top
lhemselves. into
lhe
Cube with
a genius
SSrer,
them into
anazing
was in
while
a hippie
a club
was so turned
on that
Grimble.
I muet learn
Raised E:.peclations. e16e, I was excitsed just to geE one about anv
phone nuniber a week. Non, I know that girl, So, no$l lrm coming home tith actually calt),
a pocketfut
rnore inpatient
now 1f I ilon't
these nen methoalg. DoeB alryone else bave lhis manage theii expecEationB?
of needlng
Anywayr we met tno bisexlrat nranalellng aloutd didn't), bit We dld kl1l1ng
91!18 ln the shteeE who !'ere Jus! time' They both lived in lhe alea (!te anil tha! go! them aloused' I felc like and had a
Eome Ss'lng,
of 8ex taLk. But, when \de lef!, PUA woulil have brought the roIB.
^a
a couple girlB
ir! tshe EtreeE atutillg the day, arld you can tell
up for e little
to thei! smoolhIy feel
so that
eiEher
scaleal or Blutly
o! nanipulated
suggeEtlonE?
Irve
club guy'
seduction, club,
chance of Eut,
getting
laid
than tas
ar
a srrip
where I,11
since
I !,,as in I
end up in
strip
cLubs, to
read Mysrery's
archiveE
and dec:ded
walked
stage.
approachedr I'm
rhe people
table,
you picked
wrong guy.
complele]y
gay. 'l 'rA lot of my best cuslomers rourine are gay( of and offered
the
while, start.
company she wanted and said, keeping rrwhy don'! you fron
Midway through
and talk
to my friend.
(What I lo
trained
should
pay me f,or a massage.") lhe bathroom, then relurned again, and took I told a sea! her behind the Then buy
stripper
came up and,
I wa6 etraigh!,
a dance from you. ,,why?i, she asked. 'rBecause my boyfriend soon as he dancee for he's !o]d a hundred -i6 a dancer,, starts I said. 'And I then lhe know chat as
someone, or thal
telling he doesn,t
same storres
people
night,
see them as human person, amazingly " someone who fun {I lhrngs drdn't
beings. I could
be friends
with/ qr'!e
woulah't
want you to
opportunity.
juEt )
krroce -L-i-
w.s my firsE
altempt-but
Then I on one of
eo she sat. ne a
ny friend's
ralking
Iot,
but
I didn't
return
of the
in fact
haE tto
women inside.
to Bay that,
was hard to
her uauaf routine. the oliginal Blripper who approached lreat off
She gave fire the thunibE up behtlrd hie back as she becauBe It neane that lre nere colleaguee-r lraE
her get BuckerE/cuBtonerB. wilh my friend, and thankg me. I tell ber
ahetE bored between ilanceE, to come bach and I'lL She leturna and pretly at valious points, the thlngB and I tell
keep be!
her about ny
rnuch repeat
Every now and then I Bend her alray to go nake money, and Bh She aayB I'm leally i
atd I tel1 her Iim coning !o lordn nexts t eek for a concerE and d.or:l know anyone (hlnE, hlnt) . she Bays sh6'E lnuo the band, and Ehat tlq can'! flnd anyone to go? I ebould call
I'n i!'a reall.y not that irto herr thiE
her.
was just plactice. r thinh
a good rouEine
unintereted
in he! phyaically,
more pirlp than cugtoine! to her) , and then proved my north inlereBting that \rorried guy in the c1ub. and, alouts Ehe gay line, lt \ronr! matte!. It if I do actually call
he!,
becauee if
approach? I'n
refine
a lapdance with
\dho totaLly
il F
F
F
he said, for
have a wife
at
looking
anything.
and she asked him where he was stayrng over lonight or tonorrow. They stayed paid for
rhere
He also as if
swealy
the
srripper
friend
you get
number? " is this: rdorrh was rhis (or get lusr a strlpper racEac to , or ras in she
Nov, give
queslion his
my friend
money's And if
she ras
actually
stripper if
don'r
be followed? pover/ it
doesn't
really
\,rhat you do in
club?
Styla
6ubject:
I went out
!'rth of
an Asian fun, I
(,Iapane6e) girl
I met sarging
wirh
Grimble. so I go!
ro palterns, stuff
lurned
needing
release)
from
rhe insEan!
connecraon singer
a pattern of course
on lhe
way a cerrain
connects
gesEurins the
anchors
singer
and she's
audience.
re
make
in
h.
the club,
cn-,t
and she,s Id
e i I r.--a
r_y responsive.
Then we
up outside
iYA
ia case it
it
would all
be okay'
But, o!
I knott
rtwhy
we go upstairsrtltitl
be tsoo direct
get to youf, house, rirhat are your tactics !o go Eo e HB'E house? Obviously, come up wlth sonehhlng !o sbow he!, if lt'e ptay
coming up with
gtyl
6u.bjact.
lttl!)rov can help your game. But not enough t'o make iE wolttr the cla66
is not abou!
ibeins
furmy,'r with
iE'6
about learDing
appl'y to Pu'ing'
In additlon'
refatLonEhlpB
gooal paEterlls
in conversations
2. It's
Learning
into here)
a script cleate
(whlch sometime6 we reLy on too heavily out of notbing otshe! per6on by EirFly sayF and tshen though it'6
But,
a lot
find vnen
that
improv
hasn'l
necessarity
or
cleverer
sargrng.
SEyle
wtitae Rer
Eubject:
Ird firs!
on faslseducrion,
but,
for
p o s r s t h e r e , I b e c a m ea ' d e l e E e d u s e r ' a n d I c a n , ! t o g Btrange. Foroihandle, can you email me and let the name, I,d like to use i! me knoi.t there,
lAlso,
I believe
promising posts,
Style
6ubject:
PUA I net
to just
vhatewer a word
corner,
rhey'd
just
part
wilhou!
exchanged.
I figure
it'E
it
the right
\ritshout hesitsating
I've
on talk
flrEt,
tlne
the vlbe
next
Eo without
even having
to her.
I'd
around with
they'd flon
Etyla
tb!.tag, Approaqh
a nlckname today,
and thought
about time I had one. Anl4,'ay, I went outs lonlght In ny AFC dayg, I'd lhl[k I wa6 a BEud for all
can Ehlnk abou! Is how I could have done better. f!,Ir!ed and SS'ed better, a.!ld gone for nole
cloBea.
help with
this
go to the
t
I I I
b.llroor. thinking girls of lell just Irm alone, how this is dnd T sit all arong on a corch. for As T m siEling social proof/ .here three gener.ating
couch. their
Theytre
sor!
not-too-bright
put
arms arormd me and a lirtle retf and r 9ir16 and totd r wasn r froze. ran!
guy I
I
I
one by one,
coutd
interesl.
actron,
openers bLjlding
work
(because the
a
I I t
her e \because
much lime),
making a physical
Whar would you have done here? I atways seem ro ger any vork. stuck
lrhen a gifl
withou!
t
t
luckily,
two really
cute
brunertes with
si!
next
to
ne.
And I
tell
9ir16,
t I
I I
but
a deep discussion,
a BF so she gives
me her
].alei,
I'm
lalking walks
with by. I
my pivots lurn
and an exotic,
amazingty
Kirk but
she sirs
nearby. the
keeps
I wa < up !o
explain lots
and lote
shoutd
buc she
hedr o really
nenorize birthday
and ,guessi
her
I
-
a small,
cule blonde,
lhe meantime, a pivoc i,If I can guess lhe conmenE rs and lake lter
I I
f
to a seat !o read them. We #close and promise to 90 dancing togerher. But she has been in tove \dith rhe same guy for three yeais anat they decided to take a break a vreek ago. !te,s there, anal tater she brings hin by to introCtuce hin. I can t ell she teets guilty tor giving me l}er number in froht of his f,rj.ends, and he is sizing me up. I,n so coot in these situations that, while he,s Eryrng !o prove how atpha he is around me to her, I nake fliende vrith him and even get his numbet, tolally disarning hirn. I don,t reatly thing the blonde is worlh pursulng uhder thl.s cilcumBlance, thouqh. Laler,
F It I
J
-
is a]t
my chest,
6he wanted to
and about how she olrars her boyfliend,s penis. f have some fun 6ugge6ling !ha! we pick up a girl for a threeway (she hug6 me when I suggest lhe idea) and lhen try EO ejec!, buts 6he forces her nunber o!) me when I,m leaving, Anal says "just aE friends, okay?" sure...not lhat I,LI catl
a
-
thought'.
one ot my pivots
of having
sEoraes,
routsines,
ginmicks,
etc, Anat I
are cute.
Anylvay? tbie
long, party
but girls
let
Eo demonElrate
be ea8y lf
BLi.ghl1y
lrrei6tib1e. frieDdly,
open, seductive it
I JUE! can,t
f,lgulc
up at \ri]ll
I agree lhat
Nice o!re. Anil you Imow wllat llray even be better: a,rn., when the ba:aa are closed mi6ed her laat train stalion. train and isn,ts arld maybe theret6 looking
at 4 who's out in
forarard to clashing
I'm
I jost I thirtr
thie
(or nbatever)
because Ehe miBsed her train, building sone ?apport with the
her over,
60 that
go Co lraste.
let
etuf,f,..
Ano'Jr,'|tott9 vtltas,
chickE?
gtyla
rep !!,etl
out.
Tons of #closes,
me tonighc
was:
1. ToI1Eof aocLal proof, frorn one !o the other, attentsion aII three from very
Just move
and I noticed
the mole I was getting of which had bf,6--and the lightly less
attractive
of which I *closed).
attractive
EBs wouLd be in coming olr to me. By bhe end of tshe nighr, coning up tso me 6aying, "Don'ts I knolr you from
I
2. Knoirring where then into the lhe party clubs. was. I made myself \rho wanted the the to leader of rhe group, on I go! had lo taking really Anyone myself to in know what of has host, was goirs "the guy r! cone !o me. I put care of everything position everyone
make sure
a good time.n
worked for
ne lonight.
Bu!,
I s!i]l
rhose
back in my holet
SEyTe writeel
My frlends
abou! ho!, !,onren age ilifferently a lot of \dornedthink 20, you're like
from
years i6 like
27 in regutar
about it
in evolutionary in life.,'
This would have made a good lransition but inslead I sort of lhrew in another
into mini
woman palcemr
example."
she said,
ne" (laughing)
said,
laughing to
too
and starting
kino,
gestured explain.r
And then
without
ever
reatty
e4)1aining,..
improvieed
on the fly
po6t
apologizing
slighl
animated converEation,
and Bmiling) .
Anoayrcus vtLtes I
her boyfriend
by being
gtyl.
r.E lLe'l.
It
In fact,
lc was
questionB.
She had
already
l,aclosae profeB6lonally
(he waB about and how he bad., and fllendly. hln Eo aome he trylng I
thought
1t lras really
r could
lntroduce
utr)to
gi!1f!1end
$ry.
reEurning
originat
misslon
looked over ats ine and Eml1ed (aa if deal with?tr) again I just
to aay,
nDo you see vrhat I have to her on tshe vtay out, very but
she tolat IIle not to fotget get the feelitrg class leaLly dadtty's that, 9ir1'I
Eo call
cute in a because
enotionally
atstached !o this
temporarily
broken up)
it,
and need some Eerious advice from you a]l. skip to the last paragraph of lhis pos!):
I jusl
an amazing weekend, but not amazing enough. I gor who work at Hooters and one ilh a tatl
12 #closes. slripper
duly at the time) . Another one uas a total with a serious bf, if bu! so smart work).
pale black haired rnodel t]?e, and cooL l'd seMe for
friends
INOTE
FROM STYIJE,2006: I,M STIIIJ IRIANDS WITH THIS GIRL.] Then there lras thi6 sick Lalin !,oman with a thin, thin baby face, girl and huge sott with with (It naturat breasr6,
black-haired
a perfec! tiprings?
hetped tha!
Now, here,s v,here I need help. I was on a couch with analysis--il like
Despite att
lhis
uas ridiculous)
/ I only *closed once. And I had a faited I knew she liked so she could me (rons of srand nexE Eo
*c1ose with one of the Eooters girts. hair playing and manipulaling my cell for
my sticking true
sexualiziag
challenge.
what are ltays tshat oChels here uee tso accoq)lish patternE, ni6sing. self-points, 6tory-te11in9.
guyE lhey had evet met, buL I Etil] naking then want me in rthat
apeclal
I'm also
looking
fo!
builders,
altshough I have no fea! much before rejected?i') kieslng('tHow and blolt i!.
I|ooayapug
reE llagl
whag, how,
gtyle
rapllegl
Yes, maybe you and supelBobo are rlght. thlnk maybe I've iltte4)reted touching points kino
The key is
In the klno
to mean siq)1y
or halrd-hol_ding tsest if
A few ltell
placed
i6 thats I reserve
more firm,
touching
for
do a4ything
Euggestive
enough
beforehand.
So, SuperBobo anal anyone else here, kino (or how I Bhould) ? Not just
rhere
becauee tomof,row (Tuesday) I,m seelng one of the a couple days ago in the nVthen cirts Approachl me why ASF
and for
remiading
be lq)Ienented
imnediatelyt
the !ime.
HB aaid
her Eo lefuse
and petlcil
fihen I read here about people getting just what they mean.
a *c1o6e,
sometimeE I llronder
Irn
talkiog
the 1ipe.
defiricion?
I couldnrt lraEnrt
flnd
enough deflnltlon
looking
Nice poEt,
and klno
degcrlptiodE,
etuf,f,,
and nlce
!o see lt
in detail.
rbaulkn the
glve a "speech.tr
"baulking."
hoplng that
at on
would be dlfferent
You know, the one E\at and you're right " now.
goes rI
rea1ly nlce and a].1, but Itm Just not and vre
can !il-l
Style
wrLEes:
Ehinl< we have
the
We 6hou1d
talk
via
email last
to
the
bottom
of
Lhis.
For fun,
let
me rel]
you
abour
one of those HBs from rhe when Girls Br.azilian girl who just I am:
And, dude, check oul how stupid Afler dinner, she inwites
on tshe couch, And do I make a move? No. I keep rhinking lhen imagining relationship', s!i]t...how her rebuking me vrhile Baying ,'r just
(which she did) . I,m sure its,s on for nexr rime, buc could I choke like lhis game is geltlng ar rhe las! ninure. My girl I #closed of
ereekefld called
me backl)
describe lhings--the
whatever--in
very erotic
so all kino,
is going vrell.
I an building
intense rapport,
lhere's
1o!6 of
and we,re back at my house. Two of her friends but she keeps glopping. Her line
(and I've
2.
Does this
nean of the
I used oNs?
Lhe wrong
approach:
tsiied
!o
be the
perfect
guy instead
3. lihy am I always the guy who bringB inatead of the bad girl?
in hhem
Thts is probably
6tumb1in9 btock.
tbe other
li.ne she used (which I aleo hear atl maklng further progress
tbe time)
when 6he
stsopped me fron
yourf,e surrounaed
by a dozen 9ir1,
thi6
one?
gtyla
wtltegr
that
in doing
Ehls Etuff.
everyone haB to fi.nd theh and Eome don,t. Co the it t ere Bo Orte ,'nake pla.Es
of SS/ASF/FaBtSed work,
lhit
and I've
connecEed to you (becauae lhey're atoliee in you). Non, I'm not Irnnore gives
thoughtsE, and
woven lnto
trance
and EV
refetence,
So, I don't
know if
reducing the
blurring
Anon}7noua replieg
I feel
tha!
to
HBs. Thie way, one does not come off i6 good-looking, conques!.
style
tepilaE
I aglee
with
lhis.
A mediocre
guy dripping
vritsh aetirude
may
good-looking \ran! !o is to
an as6hole.
as a doolrnat'. The bes! olher bul This other not words, slo\r]y lel a girl
approach think
aE frrsL
aloof
open up lo two
and i!'6
exciling
her,
because
like
with her if
a very (if
aloofness
Experiment
Bide (not
happens.
you
can play
be tsoo aloof
openei,
immediately),
you'l]
get amazing
gEyle
Eubjec!!
lot8
loving
this
board.
Alesgandro.
And Wlzzard,
let's
elther
hele to diacuge
our ploblem.
rrperfect' guy,' frame and otherts aLwayE find thi8 out r,rlth nornal honest with
becauee HBs ate not' always abou! which they you !ry
I wonde! lf
thi.ng"
we don,t
pay for
Euppllcaling.
Sllck That'B
Eddiez, probably
paltern
next
And naybe I shoutd have by girLEr Line witsh a cocky when they knew out with rigbt
Co the like,
nyou're
always surrounded
they be jealous
A'tonyfrou'
it's
ok to talk
wtth
about it
fron
and leL1
bu! a6 soneone who iE able to get anal? nore lnportantlyr I JUBC read a lot idto coovergatLon, about tantra, Bo 1aee1y I've
Eatirfaclion,
balking
Aaoat8o$s
tddgr
ol've
of golng
fo!
a *close
when I could
have
StyLa add'l
that,
but you ca! gets the phone #, get a leturn ad amazing conneclion.
cal],
hang and
and cfeale
out vrha! went \rrong. li4y beat (itt6 with a loss her and
to like that
isue)
or the fact
I didn't
o! another
BF appeared
I I
I think rhe tesson tha! you (and r) are tearning here is: seize rhe momenE, becauae the srate disappear for bul helping an HB i6 in when yourre v/ith her may
t t
I t
I
I have yet
methods like
a good takeavay
or e4)ressing
necessary
watue. Arlyone
a
t t
Style Eubject:
|'tLtes
Asian
thirg
happened, anal I wanted to ge! advice. a!|d only a year ago moved out of her
famity,
motherrs house. She was 20 then, and haal never kissed a guy o! anything. Nord, of courBe, she,e lost her virginity. but is stilt pleE!y lnnocen! and inexperienced,
a
3 3 J
a a
F I
and I patlerned
att
nighr,
making nyself
the key !o
out on. The sarge was atong the lines of a famous quote I reait somewhere_ _ ,,The tragedy of life is no! thats il ends so soon, but tha! we wair so tong ro begin it."
adventure
a
a
]
any guy she had ever been virh we connecred wett part
but nonethelesE
anal latked
She said that her favorite loved t'o kiss. seraight kiss.
of getting
in the eyes,
and confidently
t t C
.
She responded,
and I lrent to tower her backwards so lhats sherd of a 6udden, she ctinnced on top of me.
be lying
+ + a
aDd just
r,rent oild.
lihile
we were naking
out,
Eomething fike,
wents ten6e,
rolled
off
arld feel
relaxed,
She Eaid Bornething about her ex-boyfriend. f,atr tso hin or Co ne by slarting
a new relatlodship
because he was to
purae and walked out of the room very brlBkly. ehe naa aca!6d of ne becauBe things time hanglng out,
I figure
becauEe he!
thls?
and am trying
!o flgure
What is
to 6ee ne agaln,
Attoay'noug
aaka I
Style
reFtltae:.
HBAnistor her,
na6 looklng
bored fir6t
so I 1et llBturislon
I'd wilh
turn
to hei
on the su.bject
I nas talking
about
to her about her answer, and Itd light up when she had lhe IE
Eotice
thac her face \rould litserally once it of like was lit, trying
her flighl.
and jealousy,
a different
tactic.
Af,ler a while,
I said to
"Why don,E you ualk to HBcirlinblack. convelgation. tl And :{BAni6ton did feeL like lhe domlnanE female, including it,
Mystery's ia:
advj.ce for
Buch sltuauion
with
lwo
say !o HB1: "Heyr have you ever kiased a gj.rl befote?rl HBL: YeB
say to HB2: ',Hey, have you ever kissed a girl HB2: Yes.
before?rt
I don't
in flont included.
of ne.
styTe
wtiteg.
subject:
R e ! Socially
Inepts
says.
But,
mosL the
In additlon
nentioned
(the
and luet
making snatl
Etart
of stories
phraBeE you can Bay to people, them ouE 1oud. Ctro\d to llke
Lhe f,acts tshat \rhat you have !o Bay Ls iDterestlng They ale boled, of thei.! borlng and looklng daily for
!o other
to break our
routine.
look people
up conversation.
Itd
lecofilend
reading
nlntroducing
seduction behavior8,
tactj.cg,
Style
Jtritea.
Eublecu.
I've
noticed
salges
laLely
to get a[ylhing
from you'
I am trting
r ltent to neet an HB I haal garged who t'n wiuh another I made nyBelf lE that, ltltb friend, !'lto was lurning girt'6
realIy
into'
she
blrthday
fu.nny thingg
(including us
te1li.ng
and
Anony,8'oue wtlcasr EubJEcC! Rq! Ebe Got Scared and Ran Awry
"I've
while
kisging
a girl
SEyle repllaa:
advice on thie.
I tsa1ked to Ross 'f, about it' From whats I ard, tben back off for a
the theory
little while,
ohile, etc.,
further,
for
a 1itst1e
tshe l'ay.
Any one e16e have ldeas on conversation tshe pa6t, the right Itve hhing, tiked
afler
lhe kiss.
"I,m lrolklng
well
at getting
lhere,
Styla
tcpT!El
this
1 . Don't
phone conversationB
UEuaLLy ltra
etse on my mind.
It'B
atry night
Syndrome is
that
I become I suck,
of the fact
tha!
and i!
iny game.
to practice
all
tshe tsime,
chadce to call
Euggestions
for
geLtlng
rid
of AFC fla3hbadke?
Etyla
EubJacgr Eatertalnlng
I,ve nights
with
eBpecially
on to tell are
apPloacb one or lwo HBE 1n a gloup, on, and i'f thei! othe! fliendE
oplnlon
tshat relateE
anat bring
then I cube,
the othar
by obsen'ing, (especially
cB of the group) . r I 11 aL6o put ny arn6 around tshe group of gir16. smile, ard say somethiltg l-ike, I'May I suggeEt beginni[g tonight.' a faitshful 4
Also,
right plus
t
tshat I ou! can #close \relr:e but all with best is everyone friends in the group, And this because we,ll means not least all hang more then l,i1l
cause
now.
only
oplions, be calling
blur.ring
impossible with
because at again.
one of
me to
hang oul
them atl
proof--gir16
sorne crazy magnetic power I exude. And of course, wnen a group of 9ir1s proof and anolher girl comes up to you,
Last lreekend, one group I was with house for an aiter-after-palty Uoforlunalely, do i!. I haal a plane
kick my8elf for missing the opportunity. numbers and k$ov there are plenty
Nol,r, I don't
Okay, one ol
Irve
had a great
nine
with
three
post
r.rorthy of
However, phase
shift
tshe girle
With
Ehe
tipsy
"she,s
here nowr is I
and I am in lhe
she
likes
at
bed next
me. That
not
My problem i6 that
lvitsh a 9ir1
I real1y
respect
deep because
rapports witsh, I have problems phase_shifting I'n worlieal I'11 bleak that rappor! an'l triet stuptd AFc ialea. But both of these girts shy of gettlng
into
ve have
euch a tine6
were into
physical'
I lhtnk acting
eltshe! an a
to !lE")
the pattelng
I uhj'nh lhere
imaglning
I tshlnk Ehe key hele aEd/o! break the t!us! ge! rejecleal
ie a $orrY !ha!
tE ltiEh confidence'
8t111 a nlce
guy Eti1l
of . AnY EuggetlonB???
Ar.on'r,ovg eultjsct.
wrlta,
t Proof ??
Rqr Eoclal
"If it witl
SEyla
tep].!ea,
?ight with,
otr eocial
proof.
the
not just
atl HB that
Itre it
If
you'le with
bored,
you're
atLractive
the time,
you, THAT ie
Anony!.oug
writegl
aPproach,
I 've
SCyl
tepllesl
RaFM for
1f you want.
In Ehe
meantlme? try
Start
a conpuler
fi1e.
Make the
fo1loll'lng
heading8:
OPENARS
DEMONSTRATE VA'JUE
ESTAB!]SH
MNNECTION/RAPPORT
P}IASE SH]FT
*ctosE
#crrosE
Now read tshe manual and browse tshe Newsgroups. Grab you! etuft, teet out ome of your own lactids, storlee, Nord you kno figure
favorite
interestlng heading.
proceeding
and come back here and seek advLce for as you 6ee, is sometimes simply
Afronyfroue
wt!,tag
"A good freme lE to aaaoclate not geducing tshefiL" Nuse kino on them Eo build
touchlng
friendly
and
rapport"
StyLe rapllegl
map. In oEher words. good kino moves to acconpany each Etage of the PU, From tbe encounter rapport holding, bulldlng (Bhoulder bouching, hand slapping, Lo hair whatever) hand to
(rubbing
Bcroking, kino,
Eugge6tive
are good.
I think I've
lhat
gelting
kino
theory
Bul
never seen it
digcussed of kino.
advice to just
use lots
SEyle wriEe! z Eubjectr from?' Re: tlhat to answer when eh6 aaka: 'Where are you
OPTION ONE (DEFI]ECTAND REI'RAME) HB: So where are you fronr? YOU People alwaya ask me that. I yourre from ianrt fulfitling But you know what I Cblnk, we lly \,,here
conversaeion ghlngs.
everybody
more imporlant,
I \ras interested
f would
OPTION TVIO (FIJIRTATIOUS) HB: So where are you from? YOU: Somewhere dark add mysterious. HB: No, Berioualy, YOU: Seriou6ly, it's it's somewhere that you would love !o go one day. And But you're going ro have t.o
somewhere I could
HB: So you're
not going to tsel1 ne? tell you. When you earn it.
OPTION THREE (HONESTY) Telt u6 here where you're you. from, and we,ll cone up with turned off sone good by any ansx,er
ansners for
I doubt lhat
gueEs, it's
l{ow you
gtyla
tePl'lesl
le Ehat it aloesn't !ea11y matber lvhether Ehe cheek kiss is uP to you to nake her interested open From everything (YoU are the male yourve told me
My fhought an IoI
or DoE. It's
of the specieB),
seemB
alice6n't tnaEter. You neeil !o JuBt call reaBolr to catl her (sonethl'ng lhat
makes her Efidle) ' You need Eo otr the phone Then you need to Elme'
alemontrate Bome charn anil personality tsahe her out, and don'! 1e! he!
AB for your wtng, Just Eell hin what you're doing first' rltonrt mind: he ha a HB no!t.
r'm sure he
Srylewfilesl
ideasf'st Subjcl Celebrity PU opporhmity...ned
il
f I E
Alright, all your ideaspretty much sucked.I like that you valueEv'ing and otherskills so highly, bur you neda slightly djfferent skill setin this league. This is how far your advicegot me. Shesaysto me, about me, "Why js it that certainpeopleyou rejust atbactedto,like vibant, whenthey talk to you?', INOTE THE VISUAL LANGUAGEI.Thatactually didn'tmearl wasin, but itwas agoodsign.I,m teaming, I and think thjs was an impossibleoneanyway.And to tell the truth I didn't really want to crossthe lin here.But celebsneeda different routine.You don'ttreata l0 like a 2, right? So considera celeba 15 on th ou.sroe, anda 3 on the inside.Therearehugewalls you needto hurdle,but onceyou're in you are in.
e
h
I think aroutine that could made. xample, be For before meeting youcalldemonstrate to people her, value you'realsodealing people whoarein herentourage, thattheytalk youupto her in advance. so with who everyonealways is constantly to impress, simply trying so being performer storytellerboring a o. is to them. You're dealing narcissists are super-inscure,different ofnegging needed. with who also soa form is There a different is mentality than here youraverage They fulfilledyet HB. are completely empty, can they dowhatever want they're yet they completely fappd. one Any ofuscan fulfilltheir needs: only the obstacletheirhuge is DISTRUST, because everyone meet they always wants something them. from
I
E
I wouldlike to work on this,because I said,I encounter as thema bit ard I think it would be the ultimale sarge. know that Mystery feelsthe sameway. Doesanyonewant to I really work on this for rea.lwith me?
Two
!o starred
PUGS, bub newer with myself before. I,m hitting. So here's the slory.
cerebral, African
very beautiful
and approach
(i'Hi (friendly
I
I
ny best friend
IJaier,
\de started
talking
and the unknovm ' I and we lalked a recenl a liltle ex (this sluff' got in and out I about
some psychic
I I t
emotional. connection
triggered
righE
dlipping
of her eyes as Bhe 3miled thie when \de orlginaLly Ecayeal and talked !a1ked. witb AlI
shield she
her friend
gilL
I wasnr! even
and I cold her abou! 6one of my amazing Ird me! Her hadds !'ere so Boft aB we
and people
I I I I I I I I I I I
at about five
Bcories or ideas I shared, her face vould juBr well up this !,ith certsain touches she often cried on her hand, of like that' and she
I
happened, I felt I could just slovlly brush her slovtlv and for
I
Both tinee hair vtheD this
a gentsle kiss.
witsh this,
here?
(Mv preeent
t
T
!
theory their in ls that it may be some sort release of unfutfitled frusrrat.ion rharrs with ml6sans
o 1 4 a ll i f e
findins maybe. )
because
MLTR a!
lhe
parry that
asked
whea I
a ladies Thanks
nan.
tseasingly, everything/
brorhers
StyLe vtLtesr subject! DealiDg trllh BeEE Friedd: FaEt Hetp Needed
(in
trtactlcsr)
cry,
one of
rnake cry)
ca1led fte. The HB vho I mec both avray frofi\ our Thi6 is good, because "Do you think we shoutd
at an ex-MlTRrs party phoned and, sidce ve're families, she want6 !o spend xmas eve togelher. MIJTR cF material. or
shers detinilely
I haven'!
totd her."
of the righr
feet
about fucking
so, no doubt, when uetre making our ronighr is going !o come up again. ex-mlrr tast
(if
rhis r
slepE wilh
nighr,
StyTe wtiaeg. 6ubject! Dealing ltj.Ch Best Frietld3 FaEt EelP Needed - Updage
ald
fucking
flaked.
a frlend
of hers wae
ne aftelwardg
chen cancel
Forlunate1y, haven't
anolher line,
HB I lecently
met (bu!
ln an hour foi
obvl.ously, girl
I dldn'E
thlng
out or talked
stsuff,
lhere's
ahaya
so much
I I
StyLe writes eubject: I 1cirl away from a croup of cirls Re: Pulling
tactic
lrhich
I crealit
Eo
Lo entereain
I wanE eve.yone
me and include
me in the group.
out and focus on the HB, the group get upset and try
(or an obstacle
So my Bleps are: 1. Entertain the group. more in depth with the HB you want. lhe HB. (rto gaLk nore . me see
2. But, as you are doing Bo, talk 3. Cone up with your excuse for
iBolating
comforCably/ r ',to show her a cool lrick/gane/Ehin9/exercise"; 4, If, neceasary, tlatter your sweater. the obstacle in the group. "Wow, let
You have such a c o o l a e n s e o f s t y l e . i trDo you mind if I borlo\r your friend tor a
is great,
rotalty
creepy, rrle
the HB, 6he's not going to be worried abou! getting becauEe they,ve already said tshat they approwe.
her friendg
When I firsts heard the idea of asking rhe friends gounded silly. I win e*tra But. I've
for permission,
it
when I asK,
points
Style
6ubject':
I'd
like
to try
It's
this teast
involves
sarging
afl't to try
thoee HBs. Thle mean6 thau if, you teel couple minulee, llB who ls pelfect you eti11 have to !ry and all
And if
yOU meeE a
GF materiat
exchange
*closing Ehe goal here iB to improve your youre1f to go for lt nole, by modifylng
and by seeing if
have in a night
We could
0: AFc 1-2 ' RAFC 3-5 | aBpiri.ng 6-7 | PUA 8-9: PU Guru 10: PU God anyone el6e want !o go for i! PUA
back'
back too?
Style
subject3
I define just
a *ctose
a6 a kiss
with lips
intent.
h I
other donrt
slealing Il
a *close. il gAS lo
usually
be a kiss
moLher or
sister
hopel).
Stlle n'fitesi
Hey Tirn,
you.I'll probably wingingin SanFran, it'll befirnto workonyoursticking point. Mystold meabout be so yout you're It sounds melikeyousometimes to with "mioomanage" PUstin othefwords, over-concerned you whatshethinksolyou frommomettt moment, thiskeeps fiom moving to and forward with youl game. Yourproblems seems benot leaming to linesandroutires, anoverall change. but belielsystem
Oneway to do this is, to quotefiom IntroducingNLP: "Simply act for a time as ifthe beliefyou WANT you andwhat wereaue andrcticing what cbanges when you do...ifyou realizethat the only thing betlveen you wafi is a beli4 you car beginto adopta new oneby simply actingAS IF it werc fu." Ifthe new beliefwo*s, keepil if it doesnrtthrow it out.
as odginalideas, usualArothersimilartacticI like to useis ifa And Thisis all goodstus Juggler. great, being just metsomeone they're and s me touches in a barwhenslrc walkingpas! or if I lingringly woman ofrthe ttuowin a 'hands (Youcanalways veryphysical. "That' be$30.Thisshitain'tfor free" this') line merchodise" befoiesaying
lmodeledthisfrommyex-girliiend.Itrfaot,forttlebenefitofeveryoneherc,hefe'ssquoteaomher h've it instead' hr describing afiihrdel thinkWE should guys all because these sometimes in ,,1wer$ andall ths.guyswel.e dloolingoverme.I gohome teafs out aleallovermearrdalllwalttodobhavefiln.Aguycsmeuptomesndkissedmyhand'lslappedhim ' guy'a hot lawyer"Youdonottouchme to to andsai4 "l aitr'tnomorchandise fry out I said thisother overtherel'm sue lhey'dlike it l on' whenyougoout Wry don'tyougotouoh ofthosefashy whores to me' His boy,'Yougottrthinka lot frsterthanthatifyou wantto talk AM a l6dy'ThenI s.id to sEothr 'HoyMks Bxtove4 oome here' I sai4 'You don'ttell meto coms and fiisndvrs sittingnarby sai4 I herg. 6i!'t m Qdrovertl'n vely,veryshy"
CONCERNINCTHE PROPBAG
The bestong but I do not know ifthey carry it anymore, is the shoulderbagat A\X (amani exchange). It is small,andhasa little flap so that it \rraps amundyour sidewhen you wear it strapped your across shoulder.Ill try to take a picture. Otherwise,you canalwaystry a cool leatherluggagestorefor these.
Inside is: pez Stufedanimal dispenser Magicshit Notepad Pens piercjngs Fake etc. Digicam Mini recorder rccording for sarges Photo routin (shit,forgotto bringthemwith ineonthistdp) Sometines runes (just Micromassager gotit, haven't used yet) it Condoms pencils, Exta necklaces, cigarette otherlittle gifts for HBsto remember by me
Sty76
aubject:
okay,
Irm exhausted,
so I'm going to bave to make tshi'E quick' fancy hotel looking bar'
went
to a pretty bolh
at the bar,
in !hei!
amazingly face,
great very
body'
eoft The
skln'
wAspy arietoctatic
6enaua]'
go f,o! itr lthen I "You ehould JuBt off golng for So I patlelned 1a Ehe gtory' patterning only' me on hovt Bhe ller fllend I used a
llveE
alay to day,
helse1f
teaEeil he! abouE a one nlght new RoEs technigue very erotlcatly. to eliclt
Ehe 6tory'
to teach hel
E1u!'
I've
tatety
a eex
In it,
orgaems anal how \donen ate Ehe only feeling BQ<uaI pleatule)
the concluslon
would
galigfaction out tshen, t'ha! Bince {omen get nore I' They lhey 6houl'd be out actlng like p!edato!6'
hung on evely
contlnued
for
a lietle
while'
waa
to my place
by saying
I
I
thing
and T
patteming
a little.
feature
rhe more you become to ge! lhe DDB. Then freaked me out a bit, r vas just
aware of your brealhing, 6be says, ',Are you trying because l don,l lalking trance-y. really
abou! hFnosis.
But it
I \,,as busred.
I recovered
okay.
her without
I
I
(verd been lubbing hands and arms for a while by then) . Then I look her into the bedroom. There lras no resistance is tha! at any point: Ah, otder She
t
I
women. And, lhe bet part had a great light laler. body, and sti1l
in the
Anyway, thereis
Later,
all
four of
uE \rere in lhe same room. The oTHER wonan kept took her hand and we slarted realized ot her. I'd just lhal I couLdn't
looking
at me now. I
the blonde
I did to the blonde, I did ro turn on is that the blonde she was jusr
getling
turned on like
and inagine
Airyway, my friend.
who didn,t
the brunette,
did]r,!
hawe much game. I teased them a 1ilt1e overatl somethi[g I coulal$tt f,i$rre
bit
Euts get
or to just
then goodbye.
I may try
to eee the blonde again because 6he realty most senuaf, and, wel"l, oldeat lrofiranI've
I reatize
|m
writlng
a1t,
(which I'd
iE to lealn
then.
facL chat
adventure '
At onymouE adde,
Co do 'the
scyZe teplLes|
You're
right.
My wing'
BTw' was
happeneal thaE nighE ttas becauBe I instsigatsed he'6 cool by not doing anyEhidg at voice' I think I backed off
there
even lthelr the brunette out ho\t tso mir. it I'd up.
with it
I I
I
I
ArtonydrouE aske:. subjech: Re: Boy Toy IJay Report
time
wilh to
the
blond
but
don,t:
you with
think
have
lrying
execure
a lhreesome
these
gorgeous
il
Style
tdplieB it
t here. I had a great !ime, yes, but coul.d have haat a beEter and just clear SOIg. I should lhey
I
I
You nailed
one. And whal I needed was less parterns, have simply were looklflg been lhe alilector, for. Isn,! it and given
T
I
adventure
and s!i1L
I've
of fieLd
screwed me up las!
conveyed enough personality, fucking balL6 t'o SOI hardcore but i6 very
ne by My6tery,
true)
to meet glrls
on one of four
npaltrnedn for
Style
subjecl!
Hey atl,
Any{ay,
Stevie
ass.
It
soullde like
you to falae
a 1ittle.
a1so. tlouble
cloae
repor!,
phone nunibels. Here are tvro Euper baslc the other claEaic #cloeeB:
1. In convo,
In othe!
words,
I know already
to do.
Bbe uEually
of asklng
for
her nuiber,
I 'givetr
I take a Plece of a paPer or something, rqa nane and nuiber. But I dotr't give it of, paper.
r hand her
of the plece
forum, ne've alwayE slressed getting aoxt that itls lnPortant to give
realized I call
Eo f,ev, of tshe nunibers thats I get 60 Imrch), ard sometimes a gB I don't VERY interesteal.
juggling call
I I I I I
Alright/
Slevie
B. Looking
to your in not
reports
not.lce 6ocia1
approaches and
HUGEIY reduces
flaking...
t
I I
Style
subject!
only iust
realized
this:
give
oplion
you. And if
I neve! really
gerring
the
HB'E number, that most of the time f never bolhered to give her mine. (3nd I think lheyrre +closing an HB always assumes you're going to call, because
by guys.)
there's
got a call
bunch lately.
also,
If
and unavailable,
just
set an
ansqrerlng service
nurber.
Problem sotwed.
Today, a gllL
We hadn't
and Bhe looked good. But I was or changed clothes, nuch at all. o I didnrt rn f,act. any r
shorered
lactics
you using
Buu 1t dldn't
because for
it
was vely
paeBlonale.
making out.
second, rdhaE do you say? The!'E falk t111 you're done ltith
a school
know if
ofEen feel
Ehat lhe HB wAlflts to hear Bomelhing Ehat lels thing and that its's okay to ploceed. Eay?
A!'onyrcus
wlEes
"a girl
that
f've
me that
ahe
B. llha! do I do?!
gtyle Con
So, here's
t t
I t I
1. You can't mainly contrac! sexual it rhrough kissing untess you have cuts. I s through contacr,
you ger rhe shot wiEhin two !,{eeks after it. r hope
that,
3. Your shors would only give you Lifelong shot series wilhin a year.
4. Let this
anyone--no matter how clean cu! and innocent lhey look--unless bolh been test.ed for home that lheir everything.
drop everything
you're
here? col
I
I
StyTe adde,
I advised you in the tasL lifelong immunily. Don'r accep! can'! hurt ro get Enac
since 90 percen! of sexuat contacr with Hep B so if you ge! lhats shor wirhin a good chance yourll rwo weeks (rhe
be okay.
After
tshat shitEy
Betle!
..
gtyle
vrltaa NaluralPuA, ..
EubJecg. tntroducdng
been Chlnklng
who ls
the first
Pick Up
no one operated
ceLibate,
and I am not able Eo model him. Holrevet, he's the best l,ve vrork.
long curly
hal.r,
Senieic
Looking,
average looking,
DefinlEely
The day t meC him, $e wents to a club. nade eye contact in the corne!, lrlth
and, wilhln
a EB Btanding nearby,
Not a word t aa epoken between them ats slink off witsh different A total AFC
any points. Every Eime r/re wene ouE, herd ju6t gir16, friend
and nake out or get' BiIa and hand jobs in the ctub. of mi4e hung out llrltb bim for three days clu.bbing, 12 different
tshatstsime they walked back tso their girls (tshat's tha! 24 HBB) to make out. he could PU a girl
car with
effective
his AIC
friend.
He had no real
PU tines.
rotally
fearless,
and
very soft-spoken.
When l was wilh him, he'd do a street saying, very casual, if rHi.
pickup by
we're going !o a ,
us?,' At resEaurants,
From what I aeked at. lhe !ime, !ha! off women craved, their fee! Irve for
his
he wa lhe adventure
anonlrnrous guy who,d 6$eep thenr rendezvous. Compared to the NaturalFuA worked so much a lit.tl_e before
unforgeetable
lactics qulcker
and wilh
and afler,
and find
his virginity
at like
he saye he used !o walk arolrnd wilh pick up girls of !hi6, his age right and left.
he just
sniffing
My questions
are.
Is lrhat NaturatpuA
did
parl
of
Ehe tactics
lre fearn
how can WE
if
we
SLyJa repond.E,
failures
because he didn't
(very inportant ! ) someti.meg he'd approach very and if the HB wasn'C interested, he just
casuaLly to talk,
Anoay4ols
a9ks1.
"whaf kind
$ry Pull?"
gtyl,a
tq)ZLeqt
In generaf, just
he waBn'L picky
loved $omen- - Bonetimes they happened to be Euper-hot, Eonetines they wete married and olde!,
Eonelimeg
he soneElnes cofleideled
himeelf .
SEyle vtlEes, aubject : Re: C@utricathg Idaas reeded that you're qualif,ying tbe$ -
I like
!hie,
I've
been working
antl qualificatiolE
Il
seat,
and your
also inwolves a 1ot of presuppos it ions. I hang out wilh an HB, I've
AIso. before
mixing this
exchange serring
up a lunch hans-our
an ilB I sarged IU,ed me today. There's no genius stuff just shows the altitude,
here, but it
lvle:
So XXXXXX
Me:
Me: HB:
<snip>
Me:
I viLL cafl
you before I leave for your ptace on saturday. your sharp wit and adventurouB spiri! \rith
I you.
Oh, and aome towels !oo. I'11 be 6ure they're inlact I don'! know... clean tolrets are
Okay, forget
I nentioned
The wit
and adventure
should be
Style sulject:
one llB I met at a lounge tbi6 pulleal back anal said that
weeken'l' aflet
a short
soft
kiss'
reallv
and it worked vely gave bhe atreaalealSPEECS' Thi6 iB how I reframed' was 6aying' rrbut I totat her that I undersboo'I lthat she we1L. First you ne' Thi6 ls somethLng that haPpened bet{een trou're no! taLklng to day you'1I get the chance to say and Eoneone e1Be, antl hopefuLly one a ne experience to be open t'o " this !o him. In the meanlime, this is alout hol, what ebe experienced she agreeat, ana tshen I a'lded Eomethlng before 18 not about all guyE, 1t's about lmnaEure 9uy6 ' my game (some llnes):
thig clealit
bit,
lnlo
wbere itE
and Mylery
'rI feel
atso'
It'B
part
But ilo you know $ha!? Fear conea flotl Itey both glve you the 6ane Physical
aB excitement.
Eha!-a fear.
we've aLleady
cuteplace,anallllkeyou!BenseofEEyle'thoughyourbedroomwasa e4)ec! company' A$yway' iE dtdnrt 1it!1e netsy. You probably 'liibx' t armE' very nighE in each othel'a mattet. We Bpent a woltletful and it $aB ju6t pasEionale but alBo very 6afe an'I comfortable' Lime becaue we just the fir6! \donderful. It' didnrt even f,eeL like wanted' And we botsh geemeil to lsrolt already what each other I'iked an'I lrhen we were apalt ' so r just glordeal a$al tingledl ftom it afterwa!'lB' rI hatt a wonderful time lasE niqht' calleal you this tnorning antt 6ai't' Meetsne at Xx(x.' Atrd here we are'"
scyle
6ubjaett
I've
been notlcing
latety
put off
firet.
and put out more of a fun, palty fun energy. Bu! lately
klnesLhetlcatty.
In other wolds,
(through
environment.
And I noticed
stows my speech dovrn anal I put out sexr you're glowing and
60 in touch with )
Does this
A couple for
months
ago.
I net
an Brazilian because I
a *cloee
and failed
solety
at the nonent' ' But I haa! Eons of rapPort. atl lhe time.
and now ne an
and we talk
because I told
on the phone hhat $hen l,ve Ealk I'm oo hhe line d?eam nan. she sayB she doesn't Bo confoltable, wa6n't often
anil alestiny
Ehts to people,
anal feels
her fliend
ou! way. shers haB an lntsenBe atti'lu'Ie att:i.tude nothlng. toxraralg relatiodBhipe
and her
{anil friend3hipe)
seens to be a1I or
In tha oLd dayE, I lrou1d Just maintain then lrait however, untll I'd like she comes to viEi! to escalaEe this like ne'le
frlendly
phone contac!'
and
to try
and nake he! an I4LTR Now' on the phone ' so that that needB befole to
relatlonshiP already
to be tlone 18 to conBuimatse the relaEionEhip' o! have any aalvice on dotng thlB create
or lines/patterng/routlnes *clo8ed
to try yet?
Anoalt',]ou'
asks,
eex yet?"
Etyle
repliF t
No, thi
is my probleltt'
I've
haal social
ploof,
connection. cormectlon
Buts, I am at a losE regarding on tshe phone ' Cone to lhink game tsoo'
coulat definitely
hetp my off-phone
we discuss
having
sex, I have to get her. t'o agree thaL me is something sbe wants to do and is doesn,t
together about.
intsimately And it
with
Lhiflking
probably
scare her away or make her Ehink thaL 1 ONI,Y want sex...
inlo
this
stuff...
9ty7e
Bu.bject:
bu!,
your firnmess
you don't
flave time for games. Then go inlo patlern being, (do you know this and if ahe tanta one?).
the 36,000 days in a lifetime TeLl her you are a mature human Co tru6t her
feelinga
vs feelinga
a little
BLrong kino.
Style
wtitee
t tonality
Actually,
asked
abou!
lhis
a white
ago,
and
-l
I
I
Jonachan Altfeld mentioned a guy naned r an They look pretty powerfulCDs on Eonarlty and sells webeite Has anyone here tried or'tered them myself tenpteal, buts haven't very He is an Nl'P trairre]: who l1as
a.
a
3
a
-
Style
t t t
6ublec!:
a
t
I I I
of a FUA who uEeE a combo but earging (no! in a GM way' how latelv'
language way) we discuseed in a euggestsive alpha body \terie getting abouE se'Iuction' or lhinking when \re're no! even tlying maybe' from having from IlBe. we decided tha! a lot firore attencion just exu'Iing eomelhing a fol ot this' vterre learned and lncernalized agor I got' cogelner For examplet l!"o nights sexual anil nore confident \tith both I ended up making out couin a friend of an ex an'I he! \ri!h t\tilhout even real-ly unforcunately) Ehem (not together lhougb' of inind' I venl lo meec so' witsh Ehis all in about this stuff lhinking HBsl inkY. job ats lhe same place t{e had a sunmer EBstinky worked there hot I{B that everyone ltho lthen' And sbe wa6 tne way back Back tshen' I was jusc a hit on and tsrie'I to daEe constantly her' suPpticatsing IJJBF !o I hatto't seen aE yeats tonigtrt ' I tlitLr't have anY expectations and giffiricks her up' But nv and bits' I wenE
vithell !,e got together frarne wae rhis: .ras justs going
I wasn't
going to do routines
to exu'te ee:(uatity'
so when I picked
into very
hung out.
r tatked
vas I
back but at the sane rime mysterious, there. IE,s hard ro explain, but
was comfortable
I kne!, thar
impression.
Fxon here.
we went to dinner
\rith
friends
1. Social
Proof:
I called
with ne,
see ne getrins
Ilrstantty, tf I liked
becauBe HBslinky now had to compete for me. Also, liked me, so I 1et her betieve it.
as lhe
(fron
!o hand6 on each
to kis6ing) or juet
to another
v,as importalr!
so Ehat I didn't
seem degpelate
to have me leturn.
3. ThiE DIDN'T work, but aE Long as I had HBRedand HBslinky there, I thought I'd try !o gets then togeEher. I tolat them how lhey afld, after probably
could be friend6,
UBstinky
her too.
rrcuys love iL when girLs noh no, not me. I'd weren'r
kiss.r'
I reptied
I think,
ralher
Any\cay, my skills
When I lef!
with
HBstin].y,
I triecl
to
her
how nice
be to anted just
ake up at to
my Place. but i!
was too h
taken
at face value.
here's
did:
I I
tatsher's house a l-itlle hone ' j"n making ne r'shen 15 l told while her I luas 1]oo so lhat I
to dr.ive aoal needed Eo sober up tor get pulled over on the long dlive conslraint on mysetfr
a
I
I I
I could drive
home' because I leeded to be !hen' with the idea lhats like her
up a! 9 a.m
I pl'aye'I a lot
a
I
I
father kide.
{ere Ytae ln the next roomr and ho\'r lte I aeked her about the time she los! to link her to tha!
a
t t t
I
I
as a kld
while againsts me tor a lilt]e probabty head home, r asked her to 1ie (courtesy ot adonis) ' whlch did Then r did a sexual value eLicrtation a lot !o geC her lurned again, on' l'MR (lasts minutse reBistance) coming
and I feLt
Eo anticipate
lhese objeciions
nexE tsime' so that buE \te 6hou1't 6ave somechirlg f,or (This also obviously does and excitemen! lre leave \titsh anticipation by assuning Ehat \te'11 do it nexe two other chings: future pacing ber krlolv that r'11 aee her agarn' l !ime, anil letting sex' because thought we weren't going to have 5. I really t{hich was in my figure out a way Eo get to my condomr I couldrl't rea11y nice, jacketontsheothereideoftheroorn'\tithoutcompletelyruiningtne and how nide value eticitation nonen!. So I tliEcusse't her sexual ih
$'oultlbebofeellhosefeelingeofcompletetogetherneseand!,armth. This ltas my first three rules of Riker's Then I wenE intso a variant vre have to promrse rrBut, if i'Ie're going to do this' t.ine using !hem.
ourselves.
thlee
things.
things.
The firsr
is
that
ro ne. The
you have tso be able to wake up in the morning and be lhis, and feel during good about yourself hhe day and think every Line you get' night." Then
feeting
is that,
youi
friend,s
to next
easily
have to uBe
An)'way, lhls
i6 the lesson
I learned:
I uBed to believe
tha!
sarging
to ayluBe and when. Now, Irearning and placticing enough with And then,
verbatin
helps
attitude.
almost
something to use
Ac leas!,
that's
lrhat I believe
Eonigh!.
Anony&ouE wtiteE
good a! this!,,
Style
rePIieE,
have a 1ot Eo r s!il1 compliments Thanks. man. These are at1 huge into place piece by piece r learn, but r can feel ny game falling just in having thaE kno\"ledge' but in think bhe challenge is not also in not taking anylliing said learrring how tso irnplement its lt's hereassolidfact:usewhat\torksr'liscardlthatdoeen'E'andknow it nigbE not lre in one eituatlon' thats just because sometshing works effecliveinanother.Forexample,]triedtouseRikerlsEhreerules EB' and they almost backtired again yesteralay t\tilh a differenE Alnosts : ) helped ne to learn this were: on me'
T t
I I
a
t
I
a
t
I
A. Getling
in lhe field
Icoulalwatchthei!ganean'Ilearnandmodel';and\decouLd\talcheacn feedback' detailed other work and give each other for' a few nonths and tried the atcilude to
is that
r readl this
6Euff
full_y un'lerstandinq
t t I
I
I
more useful
month6 aftser lhat {and oith conetanE than teaaling about tshen In tsleo good in and Tr'otirner) ' I felt pr:eiEy exchanges of ideas \titsh Grinntle and \tas stuck theie for stsicking poinl' lhe fie1d. Then I hiE anoEner and a coupf,e 'tays of Ross's seminar' a montsh. Novr, I jusE Eats in on point' pas! tshat sticking that seerns to have goEten ne And he knovs every line and is
I I
an AsF'er
tecently
fearlessaboutl}JalkupsButtnissEuffisn't\"orkingforhimbecause he can gel laid an'I 'toesn't Eruly believe that he is a virgin
I so Ehe
key,
I think
now, is working
state
so that
you
says this
can
that to ge! an HB to sleep witsh you,'r blrl IGilOi'rING And, from lhere, sone compare i! to a
be certaiD
on vour path,
worth,
is Lhis.
If
of lhe phases in your PU (openers, ginmlcks, and chemislry, of plan for #closing, *closing, and write etc.). out
crealing
rapport
each stage,
piece a! a time.
incernalized
working on ny game, lhough, because il's r!'s helped in the non-sarging $orld loo.
betcer
challenge:
learning
situalions).
A'lonyfiolJa
wtitee
''l am finatly
Eekins tlis
9i r1 o"- '
Where should
Eake her?"
Donrt take her to a movie, an'I 'Ion't be just "hanging ouE" to eee if taking
a
j
; -
on a date' And' of course' you only date \'rho deserve lhe re{ards already ' and
p::ivileges
of dating
Listen,
don't
forgel
lhat
sHE pursue'I you in the club you You are already IN'
And sHE
to be {ith
Nowr plan
$here you live for coffee Here's what you do. Meet her somevtherenear 'Ihere, work on rapporl' humor ' interesting or a soack or \thalevel Maybe even seop mid-gimmick and gimmj"ck (graphology, cube, whalever) sualdenly realize whatever ihat you left your ltal]et or the movie Eimes or coffee or snack Stop rlone co with Sav
t t t t t t I
t
I
ginmick'
As you continue
or r'halevel,
(palns up)
I
I
speaking and Phase-shif ling' If sbe aBks about it n (Mystery line ) Nocice: Does 6he there's again in a to
t
Does 6he squeeze you back? If
wetre not sl.lpposedEo talk give you her hands easily? j.esisEancer liEtle punish If
and trv
\tbile.
Etle lors
this
another kissetl,
fun Ehing to do is
to get
by going !o the bathroom or somethlng' until she's going crazv for vou' if r reneniber
ceL her aroused, and then back off (Aftser ar1, this
Irm
exhaugled
tonight,
so I
hope some of
Ehi6
he1ps.
I,er
us know what.
happens .
vell.
Nice teasing,
room and
to an HB on our FIRST time hanging out. I aeked her when she firs! tbe story.
That nighc,
1l,eelep! together,
Haruki
Murakami.
I PROMISEto n^ei
Also/ won'!
And lhat
is,
{henever she
response ASSWES that' she won,! funny, is also babyieh steal either. story their
My response is !o
framer "That's
I don't is.,,
enough as ir
who cal1ed me or drove me crazy or whatever her I undersrand. ) Then, because T,ve eay, ,'Thas 1s
xxx' " Then we'11 both agree going !o make its awf,u1]Y hard to go Eo the stolen her rules just thi6 orce, and Ir11 have totally f,rane by thi6 tsime anat EaY when I hand its Eo her' force me to block You! nuriber' " crazv uith
tlhil.e
I say this,
I'n
bunorous,
conveyi[g
the tbings
she liked
about
This angly ol upseE ol argunrentsative or Persietents lhe HB actsually !'rork trdide. Holrever, one of thoEe timeg' only didn't caLted ine the next day' apologized cOT my nutdbe! f,rom a muuual frien'I, !) left it on the machine for not. givlng ne her number, and Ehen
Mystely lastg,
says that
when you're
Barging
e girl'
And if
you don't
winalolr, it's
But it's Justsa 6tate, and at YeE, the wlndow can cloee' poinE you can ge! he! back i n E h a t 6 t a t e .
my quesElon:
anllt,|ay, with
that
debate in nind,
berera
At dimer. latin
gB {a super-thin
exolic
beauty'
I
I
analfewish)
tlre neal'
me was a nelt spifl on Ev'ing and tshen poinE ouL how' ll'ith me'
shet6 feeliug
core value
t I I
Aryway, he!.
lhere
to het. incredible
Holrever, the nreal was so tong t.hat afler connect.ion we made start to fade.
(Or mavbe I
got tired. )
So. what do you do when Ctte windox, opens and you're where you can go tor a *cfose?
not. in a place
Once it
closes,
I oflen
feel
like
thingE
do you do AFTER lhe window closes conneclion leldo!,n--1ike and excilement iC \ras ju6!
to maintain
i.t doe8n't
feel
passed?
If
thls
commentI
AnonynnaustapLlaE,
StyJ.e tep7i.es,
anchoring.
use i! sra!e,"
!o ir6
futl
As I r.rndersland it',
I,d do sometshing
no? How lrould you then use tshis tso your advantage in this
j
sEyla wtitea t (raverDil + subject: Re: unatj.mutaCLngi sex.'..
a
t
I
HBpetiteHotsti6)
a
t
Rave!D!T,
I haven't
read thie
thote
lhread,
come to mind:
good'
!o orgasn or feel good. (This iBn'E an NLP lurn of repeateil in Tanera, se*ua1 psychologv, everything ) so
t F
3
!
pbrase--ltrs
going lhe more pressure you apply on her Co enjoy 6ex, the mote she's to get lense and enjoy i! LesB.
And, thiS
ig MOST IMPORTANT:
t
the kind that likes to please Tell her (Irm 6ure
2. Role play!
a
I
t
F
or she ie just
I T I I
t t
I I
here's
r'm new
at. at1,
And lhere's
HB: I want to produce. I4e: But thattg things that not \rhat you real]y want !o do. That.r6 just tooking for. one of many
vri1l give
HB; What alo you mean? Me: llell, actlng what iB l! appeals about producing, t'o you. things done, done. But you don,! want it' to gei tha! alEracEs as opposeal to directing o,
that
Me: Ah, now we're get.ting Eomewhere. Because itrs me aBk you Eoriething. If you produced this end tt
amazing fi1m,
anat got i!
alL done completeLy by yoursetf. did il and now you were standing it, how would you feete
award for
EB: Accompli6hed. Me: So !hat'6 acconplishment. it. That'E vhat you're really after: a senBe of reit.l Now. Iet me
tshe lightE
and having
\dhat you've
rdhat you,re
after.
Isnrt
lhis
we already
got
sonelhing
done hogeEher' and !ed) ' a sense of acconpliEhmen! reil aitl big smiLe now') and no$'
HB: Yeah (now big grio Me: And alontt you feel H!; Yeah, I do. (totatly
flirling saY bhiB in a sneakY way. I'rn and what I'm doing ' and l,|e'!e boeh ln on Ehe loke 60meone dtose f,un right
cole value
ltag
I Juet saiil,
novr' look
aE You: 1s aLt
olks
anazlngly
!tel1
Now' helerg
ny
logether
an'l Bhared th19 amazlng momenE x wha! 'Io you 'lo NEXT How can anal Bhe's laughing/flushed' once you've ilon thie from thi6?
phase shlft
Ideaa?
Anonyrious vtlee',
older tsonight who iE about 11 yea!6 I don't know going to be a bunch of, people Ehat than I am' llhere ale out at tntimldaEed buE I want tso Btand ealing at her house ' I'm realLy " front ot her friends het an'l not appear stupid in dlitmer anal altlact *I'rn going !o alinner with a girl
Style
,eP7!es,
to be dudb or TRY to prove TRY to be sma!! or TRY not
Warning:
Don't
1. whaE are Your 6tickirg from what I can lell sticking PointB
points? little'
You offer
a lot
of great
a6k for
or PartB
like to reaal how You! rePo!! froin You' r'd X'd love !o see a lieLtl 2. for You' etc' nork on a night ou! pogls, laleaF, Llnes' f,avor-BltapPlng,
Hey Badboy,
[t'sawesome have female to pivot.Will reallyhelpyourpU. I like thismore a thanmalewings, though I oftenusethePivotwithoux knowing (',Hy, gofuckwith some her it. people...") let,s Don'thave much time.butthree thoushts:
1.I likeusing rcgular the openers a Pivot.Approach andsay,,,We with "opinion" HB wanted getan to you just outside opinion something,,,(tell story)...,, can getin sosmooth, on funny
2. When she's someone thenit'sperfect getanother to walkby herto make with else, to HB your you Maybe caltstarta wholeroutine "gitltiend" or your"ex-gilfriend"j ealous. with pivot(l've nver tned this,justthought it), where youte escalating with yourrespective of patnersto mak kino each other jealous. hugs guy,youhuggirl. Sh She guy, kisses youkissgirl. She seriously tongues downguy,you seriously tongue downgirl. It couldbea lot offm to getanHB wrappd in thislunnywar... up
3. I alsolike to usethepivot!o wingmy friend.l,ll explain: Atila is talkingwith pivot.Goapproach say an lIB, saythatyourereallyinto Pivot,butAtila is a bit ofa ladies andyouwantto separate soyou man them cantalk to Pivot.AsktheHB to distract Atila for you.(you,resortofmakinghera fakewing.)Then walk in, introduce "old fiiend"HB to Atil4 andlet thetwo ofthemgooffandgetto knoweach your (And other. Atila couldobviously thislor youioo.) do
an'l possible'walk into a club with Pivot on oneaml 4. And, whenever IIB in the room will notice
girl Get her into the ideaofa threesomeHave like an open-minded 5. This is most importanl sheseems Badboy (Rick H has shouldtake your gameto the next level' her PU gitls for BOTH of you to sharc'This a lot ofpattems for this.)
I I
I I
I
style wt!.taa, EuccegE - - > f a i l u r e FR eubjecb: Distated
okay,
thiE
to ne, because it
totatly
tho1lJe
I I I I
my st-icking
I I
lrn really intso' She's got long
blackhair,abouEEhleeinchesEalferlhanme,andabeautifulbody' thal I atmost feel out of my 6he looks so rnuch Like a model Eonestly, sher6 problen) an'I I'm so Ehankfut tha! league (antl herein nay be tne to blov' i!' into ne that I almosts ge! afiaid leho she's been Beeing for a \dhile But'
Anway, he's
avray fot
though she loves hj-m' six weeks, and she 1o!O!lStbats' Eays thaE she could guy she \tantss !o marry she alEo
up before sbe did and woulct have tso be broken says tshis is jus! anEi-slut with someone ef,ser buc Mystery from t"lystery' I'n glad someone Anylvay, oo tso lhe dictation'
else was here Eo waEch it: go to lurch (split the tab) ' and
,,You pick
dav'
lhen
to
your
place
immediately,
dude.
lror
#11
(oh,
and
look ar an apartmenL-Lor-renr IOI #2.) your Dude, she,s knee (IOI in opens, praying
touch
when I
cane out
her
sitting
the
I noticed: got to
Etrere's it
\,tlndow of
and it
and you've
90 for
there,
because oLhelwise you'11 come back tanled that over to and have happen,
stale rhose
happened. for
there
vere
lhose
er?ectations
sonething
happen.
do a kiss she,s
pl.aying with the bottom of your shoe, leaning her hand. She Bat with you on lhe couch and
!o your muic and sharied time with you. I winged you/ I wonderfully, brrnging up che sublect of sex and a real-]y 1on9 shower. could smell the
and taking
energy--I
six \,reeks; she doeEn't know how she's sexual. Dude, i! was SO
going to survive
Do you know e,hat I would have done? I have a loofa in the shower, I would have said:
TrLp v.',r <hi Yf ^rl
,come into
.--
----t
grea!.
lurned you down? No, because you,re a cool guy. You could have said, ril doesn't have lo be sexual if you dontr want il lo. It's a great
feeLing.
But you r,vete afraj.at of he! ltle ivhole point it's thing. o! getting
that
a no, Iets it
no! a bad
The onfy reason i'hY 6herd not that ehe dldnrt lhe
her into
Bholrer. Yoil have the gutg to apptoach, !hem? to get then over to your house' dj.ctationl
lhiB
on how to stop Lhat !e11 me what an AFc I an' c) eet advlce 'ohat lf Bhe lejec! ne ohen I Ery volce 1n firy heaat lhat say
ne.
Ealee deno, 50t of them are afraid forn aC Uhe end "'
Btyle
reElronda I
Both good posts thats
is exactly
i!'
A great
analogyl
the ProbLen' because later tshat same niqht ' lldice before' did a
It's
so Etupidt that
l dida't
go fo? i!'
antl rnet an HB8 I had h]JIg out l'ith l'ef,t tbe party' returned'
found her'
I I
cool
carnera lhat
takes we do'r
mini-movies, I 6aid,
so I
here.'r
And kissed.
on,
so ended up wilh _ t - ir d .
of
Riker's
lhe
lhree
rules not
We fooled Il
she a6ked,
was beautiful,
rrThose are
good rules.
left
this
morning,
realized: I
ltaiting
day before.
Anonyfroug wrLEea, Eubject: Re. Left brain - Right brain. Very long. Good read.
"I
don'l
lhink
it
applies
as far
as lactics
and techniques?"
style
No, it creativity pick the
replies:
totally or applie6. something turn Here's like hovt I use it. I say, at wben {e're lalking hands her right about ' how I
that,
them over,
hand i6 lhe
conlrolled side,
brain
artis!rc
Ehe anima, where intuitrve, come from. and thatrs The right
creaEiver controlled
thinking brain,
where 1ogic,
reason,
lailguage look.
ki[o
on
palms here) . Ehe, lj-ke noet people, on he! right lepreBsetl hanal, and this reflectE
ha6 deePer and nore complex lines how strongly self--the our society part has
our aalural,
lntuitive,
erotic
thats Eruly
and splritsually'
And then you can sPln {hatever usually) You want from lhie "
pactern/routine