MINIMIZING, DENYING USING INTIMIDATION AND BLAMING Making her afraid by using Making light of the abuse Not looks or gestures taking her concerns about it Destroying her property seriously Saying the abuse didnt here and in her country of happen Shifting responsibility origin Abusing friends and for abusive behavior by relatives close to her USING saying she caused it Threatening to throw USING CHILDREN MALE PRIVILEGE Saying the system acid Threatening to Arranged and forced Treating her like a servant doesnt favor men stone her. marriage for teen girls Valuing Making all the big decisions who are nonmale children above females Using Defining mens and womens roles citizens. girls as commodities for bride prize/dowry Allowed to have more than one wife Put Trafficking young girls as prostitutes tradition and culture ahead of western views Honor killings Forced marriage Using Use the community to make her return Object young girls to pay debts and/or settle to cultural and traditional beliefs Forced female Immigrant & conflicts Bonded labor. genital mutilation (female circumcision, cutting).
Refugee
Power and Control USING COERCION AND THREATS USING ISOLATION Threatening to call immigration to report her, Using cultural expectations to control what she kids and/or family Stopping the processing of does, who she sees and what she reads her Green Card or Work Permit Calling the Screening her mail Withholding important police on her Threatening to take the papers Screening or listening in on kids to country of origin Threatenher telephone calls to control who ECONOMIC EMOTIONAL ing to report her to welfare she talks to and what she ABUSE ABUSE Threatening to destroy her says. Not allowing her to Telling her shes passport and legal have knowledge about acting like an American papers. finances Not allowing her Woman Keeping importto send money overseas, but ant family heirlooms Forcing sending it himself Trading women her to eat in the kitchen Women and girls to settle debts Using and girls are not to be seen or heard mail order brides as prostitutes Putting her down, Youre stupid. Not letting her have or You cant even read or write earn money. English.
Home Free 2002; Bri Chomilo. Special thanks to Domestic Abuse Project, Minneapolis, MN and the attendees of the Immigrant & Refugee Women Support Group at Pilot City for their dialog and input into the Immigrant & Refugee Power & Control Wheel. Acknowledgement is given to the Domestic Abuse Intervention Project in Duluth, Minnesota for the design adaptation of the Power & Control Wheel. For more information, contact Bri at 612.990.8748.