1

ESTUDOS PARA EDIFICAO

Apostila n 008

Ev. Wellington Pe ei a !a Silva

2 ESTUDOS PARA EDIFICAO........................................................................................................................1 Apostila n 008.......................................................................................................................................................1 Ev. Wellin ton Pe!ei!a "a Silva.....................................................................................1 INTRODUO................................................................................................................................................3 I.COMUNICAO DO LAR:........................................................................................................................4 II.TIPOS DE COMUNICAO:...................................................................................................................5 III.PORQUE PECAMOS TANTO EM NOSSO FALAR?..........................................................................6 IV.COMUNICAO QUE EDIFICA:..........................................................................................................7 V.CINCO NVEIS DE COMUNICAO QUE SE ....................................................................................8 DESENVOLVEM DENTRO DE CASA:.......................................................................................................8 VI.ALGUMAS COISAS QUE IMPEDEM O DI LOGO NO LAR:........................................................!! VII.DEUS E A COMUNICAO:...............................................................................................................!" VIII.ALGUNS PRINCPIOS DE COMUNICAO:................................................................................!" #.CONCLUSO:...........................................................................................................................................!5 A$%& '() *+(',-*)./+ 0+*1 23034-) $345',6)4 ) &- (3&(+:7.................................................................!5 #I. QUESTION RIO....................................................................................................................................!7 PESQUISA:....................................................................................................................................................."!

ASSU"TO #ERA$% RE$ACIO"A&E"TO A DOIS ASSU"TO ESPEC'FICO% A CO&U"ICAO TE(TO% Sal)os *+%*,*-

I"TRODUO

O sal)o !e n.)e o *+ / a e0p ess1o !a 2o).ni2a31o4 tanto a nat. e5a 2o)o a palav a !e De.s4 6e) 2o)o o 7o)e)4 n1o po!e) 8.gi !esta esponsa6ili!a!e4 !esta 2oisa 9.e / a ess:n2ia% 2o).ni2a . Pois / at av/s !a 2o).ni2a31o4 9.e ve e)os na se9;:n2ia !o est.!o 9.e passa)os a o.t o a9.ilo 9.e sa6e)os 9.e e0p essa)os nossos senti)entos4 9.e ve !a!es s1o evela!as4 9.e o 2on7e2i)ento / a!9.i i!o. Ent1o n1o !eve)os !a l.ga ao !ia6o !e agi at av/s !e nossa 2o).ni2a31o. Po!e)os at/ nos i a 4 )as n1o !eve)os na i a pe2a . Alg.ns 2onsel7os 6<6li2os e) ela31o = 2o).ni2a31o !i5e)%, "1o saia !a vossa 6o2a nen7.)a palav a to pe4 )as so)ente a9.ela 9.e 8o 6oa pa a a e!i8i2a31o... E8/sios -%>+

Dei0ai = )enti a e 8alai a ve !a!e4 2a!a .) 2o) o se. 2o)pan7ei o. E8. -%>? $onge !e vo5 to!a a a)a g. a4 2@le a4 i a4 )al<2ia e g ita ias. E8. -%A*.

I. CO&U"ICAO DO $AR%

Muitas vezes a causa primria da crise conjugal, consiste na falta de habilidade ou relutncia dos casais em se comunicarem. Muitos casais sabem que esto falhando em sua comunicao, porm, no esto bem certos ao que se deve fazer ou no para melhorar. DEFI"IO% omunicao um processo verbal ou no verbal de compartilhar informa!es com outra pessoa, de tal formal, que ela compreenda o que se est transmitindo.

OBSERCADES% " maioria dos problemas e#istente nas fam$lias decorrente da falta de comunicao adequada, conversa, dilogo%

&s vezes at conversam bastante, mas num sistema destruidor, que fere 4
)agoa4 )a27.2a e 9.e ).itas ve5es !ei0a 2i2at i5es in2. EveisF

'recisa haver dilogos sadios que tem como fim, a soluo dos problemas%

E) 9.al9.e seto !a so2ie!a!e4 pa a 7ave 2o).ni2a31o sa!ia e intelig<velF

es.lta!os satis8at@ ios / p e2iso 7ave

E0. CeGa 9.e se) p opagan!as as e)p esas n1o

ven!e) se.s p o!.tos !e 8o )a satis8at@ ia.

5 Co)o De.s te) inte esse e) se 2o).ni2a 2o).ni2a31o en2a na!a !e De.sF Se) 2o).ni2a31o n1o 7E ela2iona)ento sa.!Evel e !. a!o. o e e!i8i2anteF Te) 2asal 9.e se 2o).ni2a po 6il7etes4 pois os !ois t a6al7a) e) 7o E ios !i8e ente. I.an!o .) 27ega o o.t o GE sai.F E. pe g.nto% vai 7ave 2o).n71o nesta ela31oJ Cai 7ave 2 es2i)ento e)o2ionalJ "1oK 2o) as 2 iat. as4 Hes.s veio 2o)o a

II. TIPOS DE CO&U"ICAO%

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>L A 2o).ni2a31o 9.e !est @i% 2o)6ata. P ov. *8%>* Di5% na pa te MBN !o ve s<2.lo% o 9.e &al a .tili5a 2o)e !e se. 8 .to O )o te A 6<6lia !i5% 2o).ni2ai 2o) os santos nas vossas ne2essi!a!es P Ro). *>%*A QE ).l7e es en8e )as na al)a e) 8.n31o !a9.ilo 9.e ve) o.vin!o !os 8il7os Me vi2e, ve saNF

T:) t.!o pa a se e) 8eli5es4 )as n1o s1o4 pois .sa) o 8ala !e 8o )a ina!e9.a!aF

COISAS BRSICAS%

6 "a 2o).ni2a31o e0iste) t :s 2oisas 6Esi2as% veGa o te0to !e Tiago *%*+ !eve)os ve o te0to nas lin7as e nas est elin7as%,

aL Fala

S )ais a6ai0o va)os ve 2o)oL.

6L O.vi S )ais a6ai0o va)os ve o 9.e L.

2L Co)p een!e So 9.e se estE o.vin!oL.

"OTA% De.s nos !e.%

!.as pe nasT p/s4 !.as )1os4 !ois o.vi!os4 !ois ol7os4 !ois 2anais !e espi a31o4 )as so)ente M*N l<ng.a.

E )es)o assi)4 te) gente 9.e !E tanto t a6al7o 2o) ela. E. 8i2o a i)agina 9.e !e epente va)os te 9.e 6ati5a as pessoas e4 ao )es)o te)po4 a6 i a 6o2a !esta pessoa e 6ati5a s.a l<ng.a.

III. PORIUE PECA&OS TA"TO E& "OSSO FA$ARJ

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a. aL E0iste) 2oisas 9.e !eve) se 8ala!as4 )as%

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i )1os !a ig eGa4 vo2: po!e )agoa s.a esposa o. esposoL. Dete )ina!os ass.ntos n1o po!e) se 8ala!os e) 9.al9.e l.ga .

M9.an!oN vo. 8ala SP ov. *?%>A !i5% O 7o)e) se aleg a e) !a a esposta 2e ta4
a!e9.a!a4 e a palav a a se. te)po4 9.1o 6oa /K L De epente n1o / a 7o a 2e ta4 pois o esta!o e)o2ional !a pessoa 9.e vai o.vi n1o / 6o)4 ent1o p e2isa !ei0a pa a 8ala e) o.t a 7o aF

6L Po 9.e / !i8<2il o.vi F

6. aL P ov. +%+ !i5 e) o.t as palav as 9.e% o sE6io o.ve 2onsel7os e 8i2a )ais sE6ioF

UU Vs ve5es o pai 27a)a o 8il7o e 8ala4 8ala4 e 8ala... e 9.an!o o 8il7o pe!e pa a 8ala o pai !i5% !epois a gente 2onve sa4 n1o 9.e o o.vi . W on!e ).itos 8il7os !i5e)4 9.e a s.a g an!e 6 on2a4 / 9.e os se.s pais n.n2a pa a) pa a o.vi F UU Vs ve5es a esposa 8ala4 8ala4 e 8ala na 2a6e3a !o )a i!o4 9.an!o ele vai 8ala S2o)o ela n1o 9.e o.vi L

ela !i5% HE sei4 HE sei o 9.e vo2: vai !i5e . E isto a2onte2e e)

vE ios ass.ntos4 ent1o n.n2a 27ega) a .) !eno)ina!o 2o).)F

IC. CO&U"ICAO IUE EDIFICA%

8 W a9.ela 9.e estE !ent o !os pa! Xes !e De.s. Se esta)os e) C isto4 nova 2 iat. a so)os. II Co . ?%*Y

UU P e2isa ol7a nos ol7os pa a o.vi o )el7o F

UU A e0p ess1o 8a2ial4 !i5 se a pessoa estE o.vin!o o. n1o o 9.e esta sen!o !ito. E. !isse% o.vi 4 n1o !isse es2.ta 4 pois / !i8e enteF

UU Ap en!a a o.vi !e 6o2a 8e27a!a4 n1o at opele a 2onve saF

UU I.an!o se t ata !e ass.nto on!e a ivali!a!es4 ap en!a a o.vi !e )ente4 o. seGa4 2o) a )ente !esa )a!a4 o 9.e 9.e o !i5e J W 9.e te) gente 9.e en9.anto o o.t o 8ala4 ele estE )a9.inan!o .)a T esposta )alignaF

IUATRO BE"EF'CIOS DA CO&U"IO%

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C. CI"CO "'CEIS DE CO&U"ICAO IUE SE DESE"CO$CE& DE"TRO DE CASA% ? "ICE$ O SUPRI&E"TO%

9 UU O )a i!o 27ega !o t a6al7o e !i5% pa5 !o Sen7o . UU A esposa !i5% a toal7a estE no 6an7ei o4 o6 iga!o. UU O Ganta estE na )esa. OZK HE vo. UU Boa noite4 at/ a)an71. UU O.t os 2asais s@ se 2o).ni2a) pelo se0o. E assi) a ela31o n1o 2 es2e.

- "'CE$ P TROCA DE CO&U"ICAO%,

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A "'CE$ O IDWIAST OPI"IDES%,

UU "este n<vel4 GE se 2onve sa) )ais soltos%,

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> "'CE$ O SE"TI&E"TOS%,

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10 AL, 2o)p eens1o -L, Gogo !e 2int. a et2.

* "'CE$ O CO"CERSAO%,
UU "este n<vel te)%,

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UU/ o 2asa)ento !as%,

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O 2o a31o !os !ois / .) 6a^ a6e to. Se)p e 7E pa ti2ipa31o !in])i2a na vi!a !o o.t o.

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CI. A$#U&AS COISAS IUE I&PEDE& O DIR$O#O "O $AR%

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AL Con8o )is)o% "1o a2 e!ita) 9.e se te) 2oisas 6oas pa a o8e e2e .

A.aL "1o se es9.e3a !e 9.e vo2: / )o a!a !o Esp< ito Santo4 ent1o 2o) 2e te5a te) 2oisa 6oas a !i5e . S $.2as \%-?L A.6L De.s .so. A se es i a2ionais S G.)enta4 2o vo4 galoL4 n1o .sa a vo2: 9.e / s.a i)age)J

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12 -.6L Se vo2: estE 2o) a 2o).n71o 9.e6 a!a 2o) alg./)4 2onse teF -.2L CeGa) .)a e2eita !e pe !1o e) &at. *8%>,>>F -.!L "1o !ei0e )o e o esp< ito !e pe !1oF -.eL I.antos )otivos 6anais te i)pe!e) !e vi = ig eGaF -.8L I.antos )otivos 6anais est1o 9.e en!o 8a5e , te sepa a !e s.a esposa. -.gL Pe !oe% Pai4 &1e4 I )1os4 C.n7a!os4 Sog a4 Sog o4 Tios4 Ci5in7os4 Pat 1o4 A)igos4 et2.. Pe !oeK

CII. DEUS E A CO&U"ICAO%

UU De.s / 2o).ni2a31o P Ho1o *%*-4 Qe6 e.s *%*,> UU A nat. e5a / 2o).ni2a31o P Sal)os 8 e Sal)os *+ UU A 6<6lia / 2o).ni2a31o P Qe6 e.s -%*>

CIII. A$#U"S PRI"C'PIOS DE CO&U"ICAO%

13 W 2o)o 8a5e .) 6olo4 logi2a)ente p e2isa E !e alg.ns ing e!iente4 tais 2o)o% 8a in7a4 ovos4 8e )ento o. p@ Ro_al4 )anteiga4 a3^2a et2.

UU T anspa :n2ia% A.tenti2i!a!e4 sin2e i!a!e4 n1o seGa 7ip@2 ita. Sal)os ?*%\

UU Inti)i!a!e% isto se 2onseg.e 2o) o passa a)a!. e2en!o.

!o te)po4 / algo 9.e vai

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UU Q.)il!a!e% Colossenses A%*> P "1o seGas o g.l7oso4 pois isto i E at apal7a no ela2iona)ento.

TODA AO TE& U&A REAO%

pa a )i)%,

"o ela2iona)ento a ea31o !o o.t o )ost a E

Se e. 2onseg.i )e 2o).ni2a Se ele o.vi. no )es)o n<vel4 po )e!o4 2o)ple0o4 et2.. Se ele t o2o. os n<veis4 po )e!o4 2o)ple0o4 et2..

Se o nosso ela2iona)ento estE 6e) o. .i)4 8e27a!o o. a6e to e et2..

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I(. &ETACO&U"ICAO

A CO&U"ICAO SOBRE A CO&U"ICAO

W pa a !e 8ala so6 e o.t os ass.nto. W 8ala so6 e a nossa 2o).ni2a31o p op ia)ente !ita.

E0. O 9.e a2onte2e. ent e n@sJ E. te o8en!i4 te !e2ep2ioneiJ

UU &eta2o).ni2a31o e0ige !isposi31o e) se a6 i e se evela ao 2o)pan7ei o. UU Ela li6e ta e leva a .) ela2iona)ento p o8.n!o e se) eve sas. Pe igosoJ Si)K

UU Ao nos a6 i )os n@s nos e0po)os4 e o.t o po!e se ap oveita !isso...

UU &as po o.t o la!o4 s@ assi) o o.t o po!e ve o 9.e se passa e) nosso inte io e a nossa 2o).n71o e 2o).ni2a31o se E 2o)pleta4 8 an2a e 7onesta so6 e 9.al9.e E ea !a nossa vi!a.

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CA$ORI`AR%
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W 9.an!o o o.t o po!e 8ala !a )es)a )anei a4 o. 2o) os )es)os gestos 2o)igo.

Dete )ina o. )an!a

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E. a27o 9.e n1o 8i2a 6e) assi)4 &as se vo2: se sente 6e) assi)4 Pa a )i) estE t.!o 6e).

Da $i6e !a!e

(. CO"C$USO%

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!L en2ont oJ a. !etal7es4

O 9.e se E 9.e o o.t o estE pensan!o ago a so6 e o nosso

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Senti)entos e et2. J eL osJ Senti)entosJ 8L O 9.e gosta ia !e te 8ala!o ain!aJ A )anei a 2o)o 8alei e a 2oe ente 2o) os )e.s pensa)entos e

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PESIUISA%

RESPO"DA CO& SI"CERIDADE E A&OR

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