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Can l Attract A Speclflc erson wlth the Law of
Attractlon?"
8ob uoyle, CLC 8oundless Llvlng, lnc.
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Cne of the questlons l'm asked most often after "how do l attract
more money", ls "Can l use the Law of Attractlon to attract a speclflc
person."
Cften someone has met someone ln thelr llfe and wants to use the law
of attractlon to make that person fall ln love wlth them, or to some
other degree, be attracted to them. Cr, there's been a breakup, and
you want to use the law of attractlon to get that person back.
now l want you to hear me out because you may not partlcularly llke
where l go wlth the answer at flrst, but bear wlth me so you can get
the blg plcture, and l thlnk you'll feel much better.
lt's lmportant to reallze why you feel drawn to attract a person lnto
your llfe, or back lnto your llfe, and although l'll deal wlth both of
those sltuatlons separately, lt's lmportant to reallze that ln both cases,
what you're really wantlng ls the lLLLlnC that you belleve you'll have
wlth that person ln your llfe. Actually, thls ls true wlth anythlng that you want to attract ln your llfe, llke
money and other stuff - you belleve that havlng these thlngs wlll glve you a partlcular feellng, love,
securlty, freedom, happlness and so on.
So remember that you're always puttlng out SCML klnd of vlbratlon, and as a result of that vlbratlon,
people wlll come ln and out of your llfe because they resonate at least at some level wlth what you're
puttlng out there.
So lf even at a subconsclous level, you're puttlng out some klnd of vlbratlon about the klnd of person
you'd llke ln your llfe, the unlverse ls golng to respond completely approprlately.
As a result, many dlfferent people come ln and out of our experlence based on what we're vlbratlng.
Sometlmes, a very speclal person appears. So speclal, ln fact, that they evoke a very powerful feellng
wlthln us. 1hey brlng to the surface the feellngs assoclated wlth the type of relatlonshlp we're looklng
for, and as a result, we want MC8L of that, and we feel that the way to have more of that ls to make
that person a more slgnlflcant part of our llves.
8ut the fact ls that sometlmes that wlll happen easlly and effortlessly and sometlmes lt wlll not. So what
makes that dlfference?
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Well, there are many reasons that thls person may have brought forth those strong emotlons ln you,
and those reasons may or may not have anythlng to do wlth what that person happens to be vlbratlng.
1hey may remlnd you of someone, or an ldea of someone that trlggers your emotlonal reactlon. 1hey
may look llke them, dress llke them, talk llke them, or even smell llke them. Whlle the smelllng thlng
may seem sllly at flrst, smells are very powerful, and lt's not uncommon for a perfume, cologne, or other
aroma to trlgger very powerful emotlonal memorles of a prlor relatlonshlp and you flnd yourself gettlng
attached to thls new person because of all the assoclatlons you have wlth that smell.
l say all thls to slmply communlcate that [ust because a partlcular person evokes strong emotlon ln you,
lt does not mean that thls ls 1PL person for you, or the unlverse's dellvery of your ultlmate
relatlonshlp...although lt could be. 1he key ls to not attach your happlness to havlng 1PlS person be 1PL
person - because thls person, llke you, has free wlll - and thelr own set of deslres wlth regards to flndlng
the perfect mate.
Cften lt may be that thls person ls a really close match...but they're already lnvolved wlth someone else.
So you have to thlnk - lf ?Cu were ln a commltted happy relatlonshlp, would you want someone trylng
to "Law of Attract" your mate away from you? Cf course not. 8ut really the bottom llne ls thls: When
you meet someone that you want to be a part of your llfe, lt ls because of the feellng that you belleve
that person wlll provlde. lrom a strlctly law of attractlon standpolnt, as long as you are clear on what
those feellngs are, and hold that vlbratlon, the approprlate person wlll show up. 8ut along the way, you
mlght meet several "close but no clgars", because whlle they are a vlbratlonal match on many levels,
they're not an exact vlbratlonal match.
1hat lack of resonance may show up as really obvlous thlngs llke, they're already marrled or ln a
relatlonshlp. ?ou may en[oy your tlme together most of the tlme, but there ls [ust too much flghtlng...or
that the other person decldes to move on.
l totally understand that lt's a hard plll to swallow when someone that you so desperately want ln your
llfe - that seems to be 1PL CnL - does not share those feellngs, or the clrcumstances don't permlt the
relatlonshlp to occur. Powever lf you can see the blg plcture, you wlll understand that ultlmately, whlle
lt may have been close, thls ls nC1 the relatlonshlp you want - because lsn't lt true that you'd prefer to
have a relatlonshlp that occurs effortlessly? Wlthout all the hard work? Cr that doesn't put you ln a
sltuatlon where you have to compromlse your lntegrlty [ust to be wlth that person?
l belleve that often you wlll have relatlonshlps that are "close but not qulte" to you galn clarlty on what
you truly uC want ln a relatlonshlp. lor example, someone that, but that doesn't drlnk - or that l
don't argue wlth so much - or that doesn't fllrt wlth everybody else, and so on.
?ou do nC1 want to attract a relatlonshlp where you're ultlmately golng to want someone to change -
or be ln any way someone who they truly aren't, [ust to flt lnto your plcture of your "dream
relatlonshlp." ?ou can PAvL the dream relatlonshlp, but [ust llke everythlng else, you have to allow lt ln,
wlthout reslstance.
8eslstance ls a key element ln all of thls. Cur deep-runnlng bellefs about relatlonshlps are also often at
cause for thlngs golng awry.
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lt may be that you uC attract an ldeal partner lnto your llfe qulte effortlessly, [ust by belng exactly who
you are, wlth your deslre to attract the approprlate person sort of runnlng ln the background. 8ut when
that person shows up ln our experlence, suddenly all our stuff comes up. We stop belng llvlng ln our
natural state of belng, and let all of our fears and doubts take over our vlbratlon. "What lf they leave
me?" "What lf l'm not good looklng enough?" "What lf they cheat on me llke so and so?"
All of these thoughts CPAnCL your vlbratlon, and thus WlLL affect your llfe experlence. Where you were
once ln vlbratlonal allgnment wlth thls person and thus attracted them, these negatlve thoughts take
you lnto a dlfferent vlbratlonal frequency whlch wlll not resonate ln the same way wlth that person as
when you were [ust belng you wlthout all the "stuff" at the forefront. As a result, you wlll flnd the
relatlonshlp suddenly dlfflcult, palnful, or [ust plaln over. When there ls a breakup, lt ls an lndlcatlon that
you are slmply no longer ln vlbratlonal resonance wlth a person. 8egglng or connlvlng to get that person
back lnto your llfe wlll not brlng you back lnto resonance wlth that person, and lf somehow you force a
person back through somethlng llke gullt or manlpulatlon, you may have some temporary emotlonal
rellef, but lt can never last because resonance ls not there for a harmonlous relatlonshlp. lt ls much
better to let that person follow thelr path, whlle you redeflne or get back on yours.
now look, l acknowledge that havlng people move Cu1 of your llfe can be hard, and for some, nearly
lmposslble dependlng on the relatlonshlp that exlsts. Stlll, should you choose to take a path that
slgnlflcantly changes your vlbratlon, and the other people ln your llfe do not support that change, or
slmply aren't a vlbratlonal match, you wlll always flnd challenges ln malntalnlng that relatlonshlp.
ultlmately, lt ls your cholce.
All of thls ls why, as a general rule, we want to be constantly worklng on eradlcatlng reslstance ln our
llves. 8eleaslng reslstance, though technlques llke Ll1, the Sedona Method, 1A1, or a host of others,
needs to be an lntegral part of your llfe. Cur llmltlng bellefs about ourselves and our worthlness doesn't
[ust affect thlngs llke money, but also relatlonshlps, and anythlng LLSL we want ln our llves. lf we have
"stuff" about lt, lt's golng to be hard to attract and hold onto - and thls deflnltely hold true for romantlc
relatlonshlps.
8ut lt's not always "bad" stuff llke negatlve feellngs and bellefs that causes relatlonshlps to change.
Sometlmes lt's [ust part of our own natural evolutlon as human belngs. Cur personal paths sometlmes
slmply change. l see lt a lot wlth people who declde to suddenly play a blgger or at least dlfferent game
ln thelr llfe. 1hey commlt to belng somethlng blgger and better than they've ever been and really step
lnto that commltment. As a result thelr vlbratlon changes and not everyone they've attracted lnto thelr
llves to thls polnt are a vlbratlonal match anymore. 8ut thls doesn't have to be a bad thlng. We've [ust
been condltloned to lnterpret thls klnd of relatlonal evolutlon as somethlng sad - or that needs to be
flxed somehow, when thls slmply lsn't always the case or approprlate. Sometlmes lt's [ust the 8lCP1
thlng to let certaln relatlonshlps go lf you're truly commltted to what's best for ?Cu ln the long run.
1he most lmportant thlng you can do to attract the relatlonshlp you truly want ls to be who you truly
are. ?ou don't want to ad[ust who you 8L ln the world ln hopes to attract the rlght person, because
whlle you may successfully attract someone, they are attracted to who you're 8LlnC - and lf that lsn't
who you truly are - then you've [ust sentenced yourself to a llfe of pretendlng - C8, the real you WlLL
come out, and you'll wonder why the relatlonshlp suddenly doesn't seem to be worklng.
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Also, gettlng clear on what you truly want your relatlonshlp to look and feel llke ls key - but not to the
extent that you attach "success" ln thls area to a speclflc person. 1hat ls nC1 to say that you WCn'1
attract the person you want ln your llfe of course, but to attach to someone wlth the feellng that "lt
must be thls person, or l won't or can't be happy" ls [ust lndlcatlve of reslstance that wlll ultlmately
backflre on you.
So much of thls ls about trustlng the attractlon process and not trylng to second-guess unlversal
lntelllgence. Whenever you feel you're trylng to force somethlng, that's an lndlcatlon that you're
second-guesslng the unlverse. ?ou see, thls can and should be much easler than we make lt. l belleve
that the common saylng that "relatlonshlps are hard" ls [ust as much of a llmltlng bellef as "money ls
hard to come by". lt may occur that way for many people, but lt's not a unlversal 1ruth. Powever lf lt lS
your bellef, [ust know that the unlverse wlll always respond to your vlbratlon and brlng you a perfect
match for that. lf you don't llke how lt's showlng up, you have to take responslblllty for what you're
puttlng out there and change lt approprlately.
8e who you are, be clear on what you want and don't want ln a relatlonshlp, release any llmltlng or
negatlve bellefs you have about love, relatlonshlps, your worthlness to have what you want and so on,
and then trust the ulvlne lntelllgence of the unlverse to brlng you the perfect match to your vlbratlon -
knowlng that many people wlll flow ln and out of your llfe - each one a glft and an opportunlty for
learnlng more about yourself and what you want your llfe to be.