New Model of Communication

old model
<describe><Express><Command>
Collapse Ineffectiveness with Explanation
* protecting
* controlling
* avoiding
* defending
* forcing an outcome
* manipulating
* resisting
* convincing
* changing
* in order to surivive or fix
* either / or
* POV (is - am - are)
* fear
* sentence
* unanswerable question
* domination / avoid domination
* right / wrong
* resignation / cynacism = looking good / avoiding looking bad
* Automatic Recurring Dialogue
* upset => thwarted intention / unfulfilled expectation / undeliverd communicati
on
* Morass --- automatic association ...
* 4 basic conversations -- something wrong / not good enough / don't belong / on
my own
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------New Model
<integrity><Responsibility><Generosity>
Giving Things UP
Forgiving
Accepting
Dancing in the conversation
Being of Service
Bring Everything / Nothing
Acknowledging