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No week passes by without a report of abduction, molestation or murder of children, from around the world. Most expatriates compare Qatar favourably against their own countries, in terms of safety for children and women. But even here, it is not totally safe. How do we protect them? do we keep them under lock and key, homeschool them, and keep them off the internet, from the tentacles of online predators?
No week passes by without a report of abduction, molestation or murder of children, from around the world. Most expatriates compare Qatar favourably against their own countries, in terms of safety for children and women. But even here, it is not totally safe. How do we protect them? do we keep them under lock and key, homeschool them, and keep them off the internet, from the tentacles of online predators?
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No week passes by without a report of abduction, molestation or murder of children, from around the world. Most expatriates compare Qatar favourably against their own countries, in terms of safety for children and women. But even here, it is not totally safe. How do we protect them? do we keep them under lock and key, homeschool them, and keep them off the internet, from the tentacles of online predators?
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How safe are our children? The grue- from day one, is to instil respect some details of the recently exposed for personal space and serial rapes and killings in Noida, in privacy. northern India, are what nightmares Even a toddler can are made of. be made to under- No week passes by without a report stand that hugs and of abduction, molestation or murder kisses need not be of children, from around the world. doled out to all and Are ‘safe’ places just utopian sundry. dreams? That diaper changes are Most expatriates compare Qatar done in private. favourably against their own coun- And as the child prepares tries, in terms of safety for children for nursery, he or she and women. But even here, it is not needs to understand that totally safe. The proof is in the cases there are degrees in re- filed and pending in court. lationships, and each If it is inevitable that our children degree comes grow up in an ‘unsafe’ world, where with a level they are potential preys, how do we of intimacy. protect them? Those levels Do we keep them under lock and are sacred, key, with little or no interaction and not to outside of immediate family, home- be tampered school them, and keep them off the with. internet, from the tentacles of online When it predators? comes to Or do we teach them to protect abuse, how- themselves, detect danger from a ever, it cannot be condoned distance, raise a cry and ask for help, in degrees. A smack or a and as they grow older, to physically pinch or a fondle cannot be defend themselves? dismissed off just because it When paranoia and panic subsides, ‘could have been worse’. most of us will go in for the second A violation is a violation. option. But how do we do that? If the perpetrator is capable Particularly in Qatar, where ‘neigh- of one form of molestation, it bourhoods’ as we know them don’t wouldn’t be long before he or exist, and hence civilian patrolling she steps it up to another form. and vigilance is restricted. It is not enough to protect Is being paranoid (and safe) better our own, alone. If we are uncom- than being casual (and probably sor- fortable with something we wit- ry)? Like most parenting issues, there ness, even if it doesn’t concern us doesn’t seem to be a right answer. directly, but does concern a child, No ‘one size fits all’ solution. then we must take it up. What definitely needs to be done, By Vani Saraswathi