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&,farmNcif;vufusef

rif;vl
olu cPpkdufMunfhaeNyD;rS ,laomufw,f/ NyD;awmh . . .
]]xyfay;OD; . . .}}

]]udk,fh[mudk,fxnhfaomuf . . . }} qkdawmh a&oefYbl;udk,lNyD; bl;vkdufarmhcsvdkufwm tukef


ajymifwmyJ/ onfawmhrS usKyfvnf; toifh,loGm;wJhpdyfykwD;ukd vnfyif;rSmqJGay;NyD; . . . ]]uJ . . .
xGufprf; . . .}} vkdY ajymvkdufw,f/ olu usKyfudk wpfcsufarmhMunfh? 0g;ceJorf;NyD; usKyfudk aMumif
awmifawmifeJY Munfhae&if;u . . .
]][if . . . bkef;bkef; . . . b,fwkef;u <uvmwmvnf;bk&m; . . .}} vkdY yifudk,foHeJYajymNyD;
OD;csw,f/ tJonftcgusrS usKyfvnf; oufjyif;csEkdifawmhw,f/
***

tJ'gyJav/ usKyfwdkYbkef;BuD;awG[m 'umawGvSLwJhqGrf;udk Zdrfususpm;aeMuwm r[kwfygbl;/


y&d,wd? y#dywdudp aqmifGuf&if; BuHK&ifBuHKovkd 'um'umrawG&JU tcuftcJudkvnf; wwfEkdifo
avmuf ulnDajzSif;ay;&ao;w,fqkdwm odapcsifvdkY usKyf&JUtawGYtBuHKuav;awGudk SnfSnfa0;a0;
ajymjyae&wmyg/
a[m . . . ajym&if;qkd&if; pmoifom;awGawmif aeYvnfpm0gwufzkdY vmaeMuNyD/ udkif; . . .
b&dwfrSdwJh bkef;BuD;yg;pyfudk y&d,wdpmay oifMum;ydkYcswJhbufrSm toHk;csvkdufOD;r,f/ 'umBuD;wkdY
vnf; anmif;vSa&mhr,f/ jyefcsifjyefMuaya&mh/ aemif BuHKwJhtcgusrS odoihfodxkdufwmav;awG ajymMu
ao;wmaygh . . . [kwfp/
(yOif;wufpOfu waphwapmif; avhvmcJhrIrsm;? q&mawmftcsKdU\ rdefUMum;csufrsm;ESifh Ak'bm
om,Ofaus;rIqkdif&m pmaytcsKdUrS xkwfEIwfpDpOfa&;om;xm;jcif;jzpfygonf/

(idktm;ESifh &,ftm;pmtkyf
1996? ZGef)

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'Hk&if;'Hk&if;
(Zm*em? tdkif;? uif;aumif? iSufaysmaBumf? arwm? zdk;wm? &efydkifpdk;? pk'gvD? a':cifwifh? cifrdkYrdkY
at;wdkY yg0ifaom AD'D,dkZmwfvrf;udk 0wKtoGif wifNyNcif; Nzpfygonf)
***

]]tvum;aumifawG . . . wpfa,mufrSudk toHk;rusbl; . . . tvkyfusawmh vufaBumwif;


atmif rvkyfcsif . . . tpm;usawmh eif;uefpm; . . . NyD;awmh ukd,fygr,fh tdrfomwGif;awmif rwl;csif
Bubl; . . . 'DaumifawGeJYawmh cufw,f . . . }}
aTrdonf aus;GmoHk; xif;pdkufcif;rS opfacsmif;awGaumufNyD; Gufvmonf/ tdrf0dkif;xJ0iftvm
wGif wpfa,mufwnf; AspfawmufAspfawmufaNymaeaom tbGm;wifhudk awGY&\/
]]tbGm; wpfa,mufwnf; bmawGaNymaewmvJ . . . awmfBum olrsm;awGBum;oGm;vdkY
oli,fNyefw,f xifaeOD;r,f . . . }}
aTrdu xif;pnf;udkypfcs&if; ar;onf/
]]bmNzpf&rvJat . . . nnf;tpfudkawGaygh . . . tdrfomwGif;NynhfaevdkY wGif;topfwl;ygqdkwm
olvkyfigvkyfeJY wGufuyfaeBuw,fav . . . 'DaeYawmh igeJY awGYBua&maygh . . . }}
aTrdu &,faeonf/ tbGm;wifhu aTrdudk BunhfvdkufNyD; . . .
]][Jh . . . nnf;xbDatmufem;uvJ NyJvdkYygvm; . . . bmNzpfvmNyefowHk; . . . }}

&,farmNcif;vufusef

rif;vl

]][dkaumif omat;aygh . . . uRefrudk aTrd aAxd? aTrd aAxd qdkNyD; vdkufpvdkY xif;acsmif;eJY
vdkufdkuf&if; xbDNyJoGm;wm . . . }}
]]nnf;uvJat . . . awmfBum aygufNyJoGm;vdkY avsmfae&OD;r,f . . . }}
]]aygufNyJHkruvdkY udpwHk;oGm;vJ at;wmyJ . . . }}
]]'Daumifrav;ES,faemf . . . rdef;uav;rdkYvdkYomyJ . . . a,musfm;av;qdk&if cufr,f . . . }}
]]uRefru a,musfm;av;awmif Nzpfvdkufcsifwm . . . }}
]]at; . . . nnf;om a,musfm;av;Nzpf&if tm;udk;&OD;r,f . . . [dk nnf;tpfudkoHk;aumifuawmh
tvum;yJ . . . }}
***

olwdkYoHk;a,mufrSm emrnfawGudku wvGJwacsmf NzpfaeBu\/ tBuD;qHk; bdkauqkdwmu uwHk;


ESihf/ tvwfaumif wufyku t&yftSnfBuD;/ ti,faumif oufSnfusawmh ykykav;/
bdkauu xef;&nfBudKufwwfonf/ ol xef;&nfuav; axGvmNyDqdkvQif awmrSmae&wm
atmufwef;usw,f? ydkufqHSdvQif NrdKUrSmwufaer,f? aumif;aumif;pm;r,f? kyfNrifoHBum;wdkY
AD'D,dkwdkYqdkwm Bum;omBum;zl;w,f? wpfcgrS rBunhfzl;ao;? rdef;r,l&if NrdKUolacsmacsmvSvSrS
vdkcsifw,f[k aNymavhSd\/
oufSnfu aygawmawm/ tqdktu 0goemygonf/ GmutvSLawGrSm 'dk;ywf0dkif;ESifh vdkufu
wwfonf/
wufykuusawmh Buufwdkufonf/
olwdkYoHk;a,mufonf a[mha[mh&rf;&rf; qdk;oGrf;aeBuwmawmh r[kwf/ dk;om;NyD; pdwfaumif;Sd
onf/ odkY&mwGif ayghhayghae? ayghayghpm;NyD; aysmfyg;aeBuolrsm; Nzpf\/
olwdkYGmuav;rSm NrdKUESihf awmfawmfvSrf;onf/ tquftoG,fvnf; odyfrSd/ teD;qHk; NrdKUuav;
uyif awmNrdKUuav;rQomNzpfNyD; olwdkYGmonf wu,fhtacgiftzsm;vdk Nzpfae\/ xdkYaBumihf vlawGu
tBum;tNrif A[kokwenf;yg;NyD; awmusonf/ ('guawmh awmrSm aewmudk;/)
bdkauu cyf,dkif,dkif? oufSnfu oDcsif;wpfyk'fnnf;&if; aNcvIyfvufvIyf? wufyku Buufwpf
aumifydkufvsuf tdrf0dkif;xJ 0ifvmBuonf/
tbGm;wifhu cg;axmufvsuf pdrf;pdrf;Bunhf&if; . . .
]]aBomf . . . armifrif;BuD;om;rsm; BuGBuyg . . . BuGBuyg . . . }}

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&,farmNcif;vufusef

rif;vl
]]tr,f . . . tbGm;awmif awmfawmf ,Ofaus;aeNyDyJ . . . }}
bdkauu cyfaxGaxGESifh aemufvdkuf&m . . .
]]tr,f . . . ig wkwfvdkuf& raumif;yJ aea&mhr,f . . . }}
oufSnfu Zmwf[efygygavoHNzifh . . .

]]tdk . . . bGm;atawmfBuD;&JU . . . bm[if;rsm; csufowHk;As . . . 0rf;xJu [mwmwm


Sdvdkufygbdawmhw,f . . . }}
]]qm&ifvJ a[m[dkxJrSm oGm;pm;Buacs . . . }}
tbGm;wifhu tdrfomudk vufnKd;xdk;Nyonf/
]][mAsm . . . tbGm;uvJ . . . }}
]]tbGm;uvJawG bmawG vkyfraeeJY . . . eifwdkYudk tdrfomwGif;wl;cdkif;xm;wm b,favmufBum
NyDvJ . . . tck NynhfvQHNyD; eHapmfaeNyD . . . }}
oufSnfu . . .
]][m . . . 'guawmh udkBuD;bdkauu tm;vHk;xJrSm tpm;tykyfqHk; . . . 'Dawmh olygwm trsm; qHk;
. . . olyJ wl;oifhwmaygh . . . }}
]]tHr,f . . . rif;uom wpfywfwpfcg 0rf;EIwfaq;tcg;awGpm;NyD; tdrfomudk q,fcgavmuf
wufaewm . . . rif; wl;oifhw,f . . . }}
]]igu 0rf;csKyfwwfvdkY 0rf;EIwfaq;aomufwmyguG . . . rygwJhaeY&ufawG trsm;BuD; . . . }}
wufyku oltaeomBuD;qdkaom yHkpHNzifh ar;aphyGwfae\/ bdkauu Bunhfr&oNzifh . . .
]]tJ . . . 'Daumif wufyku t&yfSnfw,f . . . 'gaBumihf acs;wHk;vnf; SnfrSmyJ . . . tdrf
omwGif;NrefNrefNynhfwm rif;aBumifh . . . 'gaBumihf rif; wl;oifhw,f . . . }}
wufyku ysmysmovJ Niif;onf/
]]tm . . . b,f&rvJ . . . acs;wHk;Snfayr,fh wGif;xJusawmh acGacGuav; NzpfoGm;wmyguGm . .
. }}
]]awmfBuprf; . . . 'Davmufawmif wGufuyfaewJhaumifawG . . . odBuao;wmaygh . . . }}
qdkNyD; tbGm;wifhu tdrfxJ 0ifoGm;onf/ NyefxGufvmawmh vufxJrSm aomhcavmufwpfvHk; yg
vm\/

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&,farmNcif;vufusef

rif;vl

]]uJ . . . tckupNyD; tdrfomaomhudk ig odrf;vdkufNyD . . . tdrfomwufcsifwJhvl ighqDrSm aomh


vmawmif; . . . yxrqHk; tdrfomwufwJhvlu tdrfomwGif;wl;&r,f . . . }}
tbGm;wifhu aNymNyD; tdrfomqDoGm; aomhcwfvdkufonf/ bdkauu aNy;vdkufoGm;NyD; . . .
]][m . . . tbGm; . . . cPav; aeygOD; . . . tayhgoGm;csifvdkY . . . }}
]]r&bl;a[h . . . tayghyJNzpfNzpf? tav;yJNzpfNzpf wGif;wl;&rSmyJ . . . }} [k aNymNyD; tdrfxJ 0if
oGm;\/
bdkauu acgif;udkyGwfaeonf/ aTrdu wcpfcpf&,fNyD; . . .
]]aumif;w,f . . . ysif;csifOD; . . . }}
]]tr,f . . . eifvJ tdrfomwufcsif&if tbGm;qD aomhawmif;&rSmyJ . . . tJ'Dusawmh tdrfomwGif;
eifwl;&rSm . . . }}
]]uRefr rygbl; . . . tbGm;aNymwm tpfudkwdkYoHk;a,mufwnf; . . . }}
***

oufSnfonf tdyfae&mrS zswfceJ Edk;vmonf/ naeu AdkufqmqmESihf yJ[if;awG eif;uefpm;cJh


rd&m ck wefcdk;NyaeNyD/ AdkufxJu &pf&pfNyD; emaeonf/ reufusrS NzpfovdkoGm;rnfqdkNyD; atmifhxm;vdkY
vnf; r&/ BudwfrSdwfNyD; tdyfvdkYvnf; raysmf/
xdkYaBumihf tdyf&mrSx&onf/ tbGm;ESifh aTrdwdkYtdyfonhf twGif;cef;xJ aNcazmheif;NyD; 0ifonf/
tbGm;u tdrfomaomhudk wef;ay:wifxm;rSmyJ[k awG;NyD; aNc&if;bufwef;ay:rSm avQmufprf;onf/
Burf;u uRdceJ NrnfoGm;\/ ttdyfqwfaom aTrd Edk;oGm;onf/
]]b,folvJ . . . }}
aTrdu cyfqwfqwfar;vdkuf\/
]]igyg[ . . . oufSnfyg . . . }}
toHcyftkyftkyfESifh Nyefxl;onf/
]]bmvmvkyfwmvJ . . . }}
]]tdrfomaomh vmSmwm[ . . . tbGm; b,frSmxm;vJ eifodvm; . . . }}
]]SmraeeJY . . . aomhu tbGm; abmfvDtustdwfxJrSm . . . }}

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&,farmNcif;vufusef

rif;vl
]]rif;aum AdkufemvdkYvm; . . . }}
]]r[kwfbl;uG . . . igwpfa,mufwnf; usefcJhawmh rtdyf&JvdkYuG . . . }}

]]'Dtwdkif;qdk rvG,fbl;uG . . . nbufu csKHwdk;vdkY &ao;w,f . . . aeYcif;buf tdrfomoGm;


csif&if cufr,f . . . }}
oufSnfu aNymonf/ bdkauu . . .
]]eufNzefawmh tdrfomwGif;wl;rS Nzpfawmhr,f . . . }}
]]at;uG . . . igu [mvm[if;vif;qdk rygwwfbl; . . . }} [k wufyku 0ifaNymonf/
***

]]'gyJa[h . . . vlwpf&yfpmeufatmif wl;&r,f . . . wdrfwdrfav; wl;xm;vdkYuawmh wpf


a,mufrS xrif;rauR;bl; . . . }} [k tbGm;wifhu aNymxm;oNzifh olwdkYoHk;a,mufrSm BudK;pm;yrf;pm;
wl;aeBu&\/ wpfa,mufESifhwpfa,muf wGufuyfaevdkYvnf; rNzpf/ wGufuyfvdkY tvkyfrNyD;vQif xrif;
pm;&rnfr[kwf/ Adkufuvnf; qmvSNyD/
oufSnfu wufykwl;ay;aom aNrBuD;rsm;udk awmif;ESifhxnhf tay:rSapmihfaeaom bdkauudk
vSrf;ay;&if; . . .
]]tbGm;u vlwpf&yfpmvdkY aNymxm;w,f . . . tck ighwpf&yfpm NzpfaeNyD . . . awmfBupdkYuGm . . . }}
]]at; . . . [kwfw,fuG . . . yifyef;vSNyD . . . }}
wufykuyg axmufcHonf/ odkY&mwGif tbGm;wifhu Bum;oGm;NyD; tdrfaemufaz;aygufrS xGuf
atmfonf/
]]wpf&yfpmqdkwm oufSnfwpf&yfpmudk aNymwm r[kwfbl; . . . wufykwpf&yfpmudk aNymwm . . .
qufwl; . . . }}
olwdkYoHk;a,muf wnnf;nnf; wnLnL qufwl;Bu&onf/ ta&;xJrSm bdkauu . . .
]]a[haumif . . . tbGm;u vlwpf&yfpmvdkYaNymNyD; oufSnfwpf&yfpmudk aNymwmr[kwfbl;qdk awmh
oufSnfu vlr[kwfovdk NzpfaeNyD . . . }}
]]arm&wJhBum;xJuGm . . . rif;uvJ . . . }}
oufSnfu NyefaNym&if; aygufwl;udk aNrodkY aygufcsvdkufpOf 'kwfceJ toHxGufvmonf/
]]ta&;xJ ausmufzsmeJYwdk;aeNyD xifw,f . . . }}

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&,farmNcif;vufusef

rif;vl

aygufxm;aom aNrBuD;cJudkESJY z,fvdkufaomtcg pOfhtdk;wpfvHk;\ xdyfydkif;ay:vmonf/


]][ . . . pOfhtdk;BuD;ygvm; . . . }}
]]igwdkYawmh yGNyDxifw,fuG . . . [dk;aS;aS;wkef;u NrKyfxm;cJhwJh aTtdk;BuD;rsm;vm; rodbl; . . .
azmfBunhf&atmif . . . }}
pOfhtdk;ab;rS aNrrsm;udk ,ufxkwfNyD; azmfBuonf/ pOfhtdk;rSm aomufa&tdk;eD;eD; Sdonf/ tay:rS
tzHk;zHk;xm;onf/ tzHk;udk vHkatmif ta*Fawvdkvdk opfap;vdkvdk t&mrsm;Nzifh rHxm;\/
pOfhtdk;udk tay:rwifNyD;aemuf oufSnfESifh wufykwdkY wGif;xJrSwufvmonf/ tdk;tzHk;udk ief;Nym;
ESifhuvefYNyD; zGifhonf/
bdkauu tdk;xJvufEIdufNyD; Nyefxkwfvdkufaomtcg t0wftdwfSnfSnfuav; xGufvm\/ txJ
rSmawmh aypmwpfcsyf/
]][if; . . . 'gvm; aTawG aiGawG . . . }}
wufyku aNymonf/ bdkauu . . .
]]aeprf;ygOD;uG . . . zwfBunhf&atmif . . . }}
bdkauu aypmudk ykqdk;ESifhyGwf oefYpifvdkufNyD; cyfus,fus,fzwfNyonf/
]]xdkufol cHpm;&rnf wJh . . . }}
]]xdkufolqdkwm b,folvJuG . . . 'gqdk igwdkYeJY rqdkifbl;aygh . . . }}
oufSnfu 0ifaNymNyef\/ bdkauu . . . ]]em;axmifprf;yguGm . . . }} qdkNyD; qufzwfonf/
]]uREfkyf ola|;BuD; OD;ol& rSwfwrf;a&;om;xm;cJhonf/ uREfkyfonf i,fpOfu tvGefqif;&Jol
Nzpfavonf/ xdkYaemuf uREfkyf\ rem;raeBudK;yrf;rIaBumihf tvGef csrf;omBuG,f0aom olaX;BuD;wpfOD;
NzpfvmcJhonf/ okdY&mwGif uREfkyf\ om;oHk;a,mufrSm vHk;0 rvdrmBuacs/}}
xdkae&mta&mufwGif olwdkYoHk;a,muf wpfa,mufudkwpfa,muf BunhfrdBuonf/
]]if;om;oHk;a,mufonf uREfkyf\ ypnf;Opmrsm;udk oHk;NzKef;um taysmftyg; avmif;upm;Ncif;
Nzifhom tcsdefukefaeBuavonf/}}
wufyku . . .
]]igwdkYoHk;a,mufudkrsm; apmif;a&;xm;wmvm; rodbl; . . . }}
]][muGm . . . igwdkYudk tJ'DolaX;BuD;u b,fvdkvkyf odrSmvJ . . . uJ . . . qufzwfprf;ygOD; . . .}}
[k oufSnfu wdkufwGef;oNzifh . . .

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&,farmNcif;vufusef

rif;vl

]]xdkYaBumihf uREfkyfonf Sdonfhypnf;rsm;udk trsm;tusKd;twGuf vSL'gef;rIrsm; NyKvkyfcJhonf/ xdkY


tNyif uREfkyfuG,fvGefvQif usef&pfolom;rdkufrsm;taeNzifh uREfkyftwGuf &nfpl; ukodkvfaumif;rIrsm;
NyKvkyfvdrfhrnf r[kwf[k ,lqaomaBumihf tpDtrHwpfckudk NyKvkyfcJh&ayonf/
,if;tpDtrHum;qdkvQif . . .
pmESifhtwl aNryHkwpfck awGY&vdrfhrnf/ ,if;aNryHkum; uREkfyf\ usef&pfaom ypnf;rsm;udk NrKyf
ESHxm;onfhae&mtm; nTefNyaomaNryHkyif Nzpf\/ /}}
wufyku tdk;xJxyfEdIufNyD; xkwfBunhf&m om;a&csyfwpfcsyf xGufvmonf/
]]cPaeOD;uG . . . pmu rqHk;ao;bl; . . . tJ . . . bmwJh . . . &wemypnf;rsm; SmazGawGYSd vQif
wpf0ufudk xkcGJa&mif;csNyD; apwDwpfqlwnf uREfkyftwGuf trQtwef; ay;a0Buyg/ usefwpf0uf udk
vdk&mtoHk;NyKygav wJh . . . }}
oufSnfu wufykqDrS aNryHkudk ,lBunhfNyD; . . .
]]tvum; r[kwfwmawG avQmufa&;xm;wmeJY wlygw,fuGm . . . wu,fqdk&if 'Dtdk;xJrSmyJ
&wemypnf;awG xnhfay;xm;vdkufvnf; NyD;wmyJ . . . ckawmh aNryHkeJY xyfNyD; Sm&OD;r,fwJh . . .
aNryHkxJrSm a&;xm;wmuvnf; bmawGrSef;vJ rodbl; . . . tvum;yg . . . }}
qdkNyD; aNryHkudk vTihfypfrnfNyKonf/ bdkauu . . .
]]a[haumif aeOD; . . . pmu rqHk;ao;bl; . . . }}
]][m . . . vkyfNyefNyD . . . }}
]]em;axmifuG . . . ta&;BuD;wJhae&m a&mufNyD . . . r,HkrSdBuESifh/ trSefwu,fNzpfaBumif; od
om&ef vufpGyfwpfuGif; erlemxnfhay;xm;onf/ ,if;vufpGyfudk a&mif;cs p&dwfNyKvkyfNyD; &wemrsm;
udk SmazGygavmh wJh . . . }}
]]vufpGyf qdkygvm; . . . }}
aNymNyD; wufyku tdk;twGif; EdIufNyefonf/ 'Dwpfcgawmh t0wftdwfao;ao;uav;wpfck ygvm
onf/ tdwfHIUBudK;udkaNzNyD; xkwfBunhfawmh . . .
]][m . . . pdefvufpGyfBuD;uG . . . }}
]]at;[ . . . tBuD;BuD;yJ . . . 'g tbGm;udk NyBunhfrSyJ . . . tbGm;qdk&ifawmh wefzdk;em;vnf
vdrfhr,f . . . }}
vufpGyfrSmwyfxm;onfh pdefBuD;rSm awmfawmfBuD;onf/ qD;oD;tao;pm; wpfvHk;pmavmuf Sd
rnf/ aea&mifwGif axmifBunhfaomtcg 0if;ceJ vufceJ/
***

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&,farmNcif;vufusef

rif;vl
tbGm;wifhu pdefvufpGyfBuD;udk aoaocsmcsm pl;pdkufBunfhNyD; . . .

]]tif; . . . ighwpfoufrSm 'DavmufBuD;wJhpdefrsKd; wpfcgrS rawGYzl;ao;bl; . . . }}


]][kwfNyD . . . [kwfNyD . . . 'g b,favmufwefr,f xifovJ tbGm; . . . }}
bdkauu tm;wufoa&m ar;vdkufonf/ tbGm;wifhu . . .
]]tdk . . . wpfcgrS rawGYzl;ygbl;qdkrS b,favmufwefw,fqdkwm ig b,fodyghrvJ . . . }}
]][m . . . tbGm;uvJ . . . }}
]]aNryHkwpfckvJ ygw,fqdk . . . Nyprf;ygOD; . . . }}
wufyku aNryHkom;a&csyfudk vSrf;ay;onf/ tbGm;wifhu aNryHkudk teD;uyfBunhfNyD; acgif;
wndwfndwfvkyfae\/ oufSnfu ratmifhEdkifyJ . . .
]]awGYvm; tbGm; . . . bmawGwJhvJ . . . }} [k ar;onf/
]]ighrsufpdurIefawmh bmrS oJoJuGJuGJ rNrif&ygbl;uG,f . . . }}
]][m . . . vkyfNyefNyD . . . ay;yg . . . uRefawmf zwfNyr,f . . . }}
bdkauu aNryHkudk,l . . .
]]'Dvdkav tbGm;&JU . . . aNryHkay:rSm vrf;aBumif;vdkvdkawmh Nyxm;w,f . . . 'gayr,fh ae&m
awGudk twdtus a&;rxm;bl; . . . tnTef;pmawmh ygw,f . . . usKyf zwfNyr,f . . . ausmfat;udk
awGYatmifSmNyD; vkyfief;pyg . . . yifv,fudk Nzwf awmifay:u yef;aygif;pHk&mt&yfudk oGm;avmh . . .
rdk;ay:uusonhfa& acsmif;qdk;aysmufonf . . . NyD;awmh . . . }}
]]oufouf aemufaNymifNyD; a&;xm;wmeJY wlyg&JU . . . }}
tbGm;u 0ifaNym\/
]]aemufwmqkd&if pdefvufpGyfBuD;udk bmNzpfvdkY xnhfxm;vJ . . . }} [k aTrdu aNymonf/ ouf
Snfu . . .
]]uJyg . . . aNryHkudp xm;ygOD; . . . vufpGyfudk b,fvdkvkyfrvJ . . . }}
wufyku . . .
]]NrdKUay: wufa&mif;rSmayghuG . . . }}
]][m . . . wdkYu bmrSem;vnfwm r[kwfbl; . . . NrdKUay:wufa&mif;&if igwdkYudk ESyfcsrSmayghuG . .
. NyD;awmh igwdkYu NrdKUudk wpfcgrS a&mufzl;wmrS r[kwfyJ . . . }}
oufSnfu aNymonf/ bdkauu . . .

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]]'gqdk q&mawmfudk NyBunhfr,fuGm . . . }}
]][,f . . . bkef;BuD;eJY vufpGyf bmqdkifvdkYvJ . . . }}
tbGm;wifhu 0ifaNymonf/ bdkauu . . .

]][m . . . [kwfNyD . . . bkef;BuD;ausmif;rSm vlwpfa,muf a&mufaew,f . . . q&mawmfeJY


aqGrsKd;eD;pyfawmfw,fwJh . . . rEav;uvdkY aNymw,f . . . aypmawG avhvmcsifvdkYvmwmwJh . . . olY udk
ac:NyBunhfr,f . . . }}
]]NrdKUom;qdk ,Hk&yghrvm; . . . }}
aTrdu aNym&m . . .
]]igwdkYbmoma&mif;vJ NrdKUom;awGqDyJ a&mif;&rSmyJ[m . . . q&mawmhfaqGrsKd;qdkawmh igwdkYudk
rvdrfwefaumif;ygbl;uGm . . . }}
]]uJ . . . 'gqdkvJ oGm;ac:cJh . . . }} [k tbGm;wifhu qHk;Nzwfay;vdkufonf/
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NrdKUom;qdkolonf bdkauESifhtwl tdrfxJ0ifvmonf/ olYudk bmaBumihfac:vmrSef; rod/ tul


tnDawmif;p&mSdvdkYqdkwmyJ aNymxm;onf/ olonf tdrfxJa&mufaomtcg pdwf0ifwpm; 0dkif;Bunhfae
aom vlrsm;udkNrifNyD; aBumufovdkvdkawmif NzpfoGm;&\/ oluvnf; wpfa,mufpDudk NyeftuJcwf
vdkufonf/ aTrdudk Nrifaomtcg awmolomqdkw,f awmfawmfvSwmyJ[k awG;Nzpfatmif awG;vdkufrd\/
xdktcsufrSm aemufydkif; trsm;BuD; toHk;0ifvmonf/
]]uJ . . . xdkifAsm . . . }}
bdkauu xdkifcdkif;oNzifh Burf;ay: 0ifxdkifvdkufonf/ tbGm;wifhu tuJcwfae&mrS . . .
]]rif;u q&mawmfeJY aqGrsKd;awmfw,fqdk . . . }}
]][kwfuJhcifAs . . . q&mawmfu uRefawmfhbBuD;0rf;uGJ awmfygw,f . . . }}
]]armif&ifav;emrnf b,fhES,fac:vJ . . . }}
]]ausmfat;wJhcifAs . . . }}
]]a[ . . . }}
tbGm;wifh\ tmar#dwfoHESifhwpfqufwnf; bdkauu . . . ]][m . . . wdkufwdkufqdkifqdkifAsm . . .
aNryHkxJu twdkif;yJ . . . ausmfat;udk awGYatmifSmNyD; vkyfief;pyg qdkwmav . . . }}

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]][kwfw,f . . . [kwfw,f . . . 'g edrdwfaumif;yJ . . . }}

oufSnfu 0if axmufcHaeonf/ ausmfat;rSm aBumifawmifawmifNzpfae\/ pdwfaemufae


onfh rdom;pkBum;xJrsm; a&mufaeovm;[k xifrdao;onf/
wufykuvnf; wpfpHkwpfck 0ifaNymrnfNyKpOf aTrdu . . .
]]ab;vlaSUrSm bmawGavQmufaNymaeBuwmvJ . . . }}
bdkauu . . .
]]ab;vlr[kwfawmhbl;[ . . . igwdkYeJY tvkyfwGJvkyf&r,fhvl NzpfoGm;NyD . . . 'g wdkufqdkifwm
r[kwfbl; . . . olaX;BuD;OD;ol&u olYudk wrifwum 'Dudka&mufatmif wrvGefuae wpfenf;enf;eJY
apvTwfvdkufwmyJ Nzpf&r,f . . . }}
]][m . . . [m . . . uRefawmf wrvGefu r[kwfygbl;As . . . vltppfyg . . . }}
ausmfat;u aBumufaBumufvefYvefY ysmysmovJ Niif;onf/ bdkauu NyHK; . . .
]][kwfygw,f . . . odygw,f . . . 'DvdkAs . . . }}
]]wdwfBuprf; . . . }} [k tbGm;wifhu [efYvdkufNyD;rS . . .
]]uJ . . . armifausmfat; . . . rif;udkBunhf&wm dk;om;yHkvJ &w,f . . . q&mawmhftrsKd;qdkawmh
,HkBunf&r,fvdkYvnf; xifvdkY . . . }}
aNym&if; abmfvDtustdwfxJrS pdefvufpGyfudkxkwfNyD; . . .
]]a[m'DvufpGyfudk Bunhfay;prf;yg . . . }}
ausmfat;vufxJ xnhfay;vdkuf\/ ausmfat;onf vufpGyfudk aea&mifrSmaxmifBunhfNyD; rsufvHk;
NyL;oGm;\/ tm;vHk;u olYudk pdwftm;xufoefpGm 0dkif;BunhfaeBuonf/
]][m . . . uRefawmfhwpfoufrSm 'DavmufBuD;wJhpdefudk wpfcgrS rawGYzl;ao;bl; . . . }}
]][m . . . vmNyefNyDwpfa,muf . . . 'gb,favmufwefovJqdkwm odcsifwmAs . . . }}
]]wdwdususuawmh rodbl; . . . awmfawmfwefzdk;Sdr,fqdkwmawmh cefYrSef;vdkY&w,f . . .
wu,fem;vnfwJhvlrS wefzdk;NzwfEdkifrSmyJ . . . }}
]]'gqdk 'DvufpGyfudk NrdKUrSmwufa&mif;zdkY ulnDEdkifrvm; . . . }} [k bdkauu ar;onf/
ausmfat; u . . . ]][dk . . . tJ . . . }} qdkNyD; a,mifcsmcsmvkyfaeNyD;rS tm;wufoa&m
Bunhfaeaom aTrdudk owdNyKrdaomtcg tvdkvdk acgif;ndwfNyD;om; NzpfoGm;NyD; . . .
]][kwf . . . [kwfuJh . . . ulnDEdkifygw,f . . . 'gayr,fh 'DvufpGyf b,fu &ovJqdkwm . . . }}

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]]'g usKyfwdkY cdk;0Sufxm;wm r[kwfbl;As . . . tdrfomwGif;wl;&if;eJY &wm . . . NyD;awmh [dk[m . . .


aNryHk . . . }}
]]uJ . . . awmfawmh . . . NrdKUudkwufNyD; vufpGyfa&mif;zdkYom pDpOfawmh . . . bdkaueJY wufyk
vdkufoGm;Bu . . . }} [k aNymvdkufonf/
***

yGJpm;u avmfyef[kac:olu pdefvufpGyfudk rSefbDvl;vdkud&d,mNzifh aoaocsmcsm Bunhfaeonf/


ausmfat;? bkdauESifh wufykwdkY &ifwxdwfxdwfESifh apmihfpm;aeBu\/ yGJpm;uawmh cyfat;at;yif
pD;u&ufzGmae\/
ausmfat;u bdkauwdkYudk rEav;odkY ac:oGm;onf/ wu,fqdkawmh olonfvnf; NrdKUay:rSmae
aomaBumihf vl&nfvnfwmuvGJvQif &wemypnf;ta&mif;t0,fudk odyfem;rvnf/ xkdYaBumifh aps;csKd
awmfSd ausmufyGJpm;wef;rSm penf;em&if; yGJpm;wpfa,mufESifhawGYNyD; ygvmNcif;Nzpf\/ ESyfcsvdkYr&atmif
awmh owdxm;&rnf/
]]temav; enf;enf;ygaevkdYayghAsm . . . EdkYrdkYqdk&if . . . }}
avmfyef\EIwfrS pum;wpfcGef;xGufvmonf/ bdkauu pdwfrSnfawmhyJ . . .
]]uJ . . . b,favmufay;r,fqdkwmom aNymAsm . . . }}
]]aNym&rSm tm;emw,fAsm . . . }}
]]'gawmh BudKufa&mif; BudKuf0,fayghAsm . . . ay;EdkifwJhaps; aNymvdkufaygh . . . }} [k yGJpm;u 0if
aNymonf/ avmfyefu yGJpm;udk t"dyg,fygyg Bunhfonf/ a&mif;csifaerSef;vnf; od? em;rvnfolawGrSef;
vnf; odoNzifh b,fvdkdkufcs& aumif;rvJ[k pOf;pm;ae[ef wlonf/ yGJpm;udk vSrf; rsufvHk;Nzifh tBuH
Pfawmif;vdkufNcif; Nzpf\/ ausmfat;u &dyfrdoNzifh tcsdefray;yJ . . .
]]aps;odyfESdrf&ifawmh uRefawmfwdkYu a&mif;rSm r[kwfbl;aemf . . . }} [k cyfwif;wif;aNymvdkuf\/
apmapmu pdefudk ppfaq;&if; avmfyefrsufvHk;awG vufceJNzpfoGm;wm ol owdNyKrdonf/
avmfyefu csdefqae[efSdonf/ vufvGwfoGm;rSmvnf; pdk;&drfaeyHk&\/ rEav;om; ausmfat;yg
vmaomaBumihf dkufcsufNyif;vGef;vdkYrNzpfaBumif;udkvnf; oabmaygufoGm;onf/
]]q,fhSpfodef; ay;r,fAsm . . . }}
bdkau rsufvHk;NyL;oGm;\/ wufykuawmh . . .
]][m . . . }}

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[lyif toHxGufoGm;onf/ ausmfat;u wufykudk vufukwfvdkufNyD; avmfyefudk NyefaNym


vdkuf\/
]]enf;w,f . . . wdk;ay;OD; . . . }}
]]ESpfq,fAsm . . . 'gtNrifhqHk;yJ . . . }}
ausmfat;u bkdauudk wpfcsufBunhfonf/ yGJpm;u taNctaeudk oabmaygufoGm;NyD; . . .
]]'Daps;uawmh ESpfOD;ESpfzuf remygbl; . . . oifhawmfygw,f . . . }}
ausmfat;u wpfckckaNymrnfNyKpOf bdkauu 0if . . .
]]aumif;NyD . . . a&mif;r,f . . . }}
avmfyefu rD;cHaowmqD avQmufoGm;\/
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bdkauESifh wufyk? ausmfat;ESifhvdkufoGm;wm wpfywfSdNyD/ aTrdu pdwfylaeonf/ oufSnfu


vnf; . . .
]][dkaumifawG roGm;wwf rvmwwfeJY ausmfat;qdkwJhvlu vufpGyfudk vdrf,loGm;NyD; wpfae&m
&mrSm ypfxm;cJhvdkY 'kua&mufaeNyDxifw,f . . . }}
tbGm;wifhu acgif;cg . . .
]]rNzpfEdkifbl; . . . armifausmfat;[m dk;om;wJhvli,fwpfa,mufqdkwm ig,Hkw,f . . . wefzdk;SdwJh
ypnf;wpfck a&mif;w,f 0,fw,fqdkwm csufcsif;awmh b,fNyD;rvJ . . . }} [k aNymonf/
oufSnfrSm ntdyfonfhtcgwdkif; ausmfat;u bdkauwdkYudkowfNyD; vufpGyf,loGm;w,fvdkY tdyf
rufrufvdkuf? bdkauu aiGxkyfBuD;ydkufNyD; Nyefvmw,fvdkY rufvdkuf? wpfaeYwpfrsKd; rufae\/
q,f&ufBumaomaeYusrS
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a&mufa&mufcsif; vufpGyfudk odef;ESpfq,fESifh a&mif;cJh&aBumif; 0rf;omtm;& aNymNyonf/

wufyku

aTrdu 0rf;omtHhBoaeonf/ oufSnfu xuonf/ tbGm;wifhu . . .


]]bdkauaum . . . bdkau . . . }} [k ar;onf/ wufyku . . .
]]udkBuD;bdkau rEav;rSm aecJhw,f . . . }}
]][if . . . bmvkyfzdkYvJ . . . }}

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]]rEav;rSm taNcpdkufNyD; &wemawGudk Smr,fwJh . . . [dkrSm wdkufwpfvHk; iSm;xm;NyD;NyD . . . }}


]]bmaNymw,f . . . 'Davmufrsm;wJhaiGawGudk &xm;NyD;rS bmvkyfzdkY xyfSm&OD;rSmvJ . . . }}
]]aBomf . . . &wemawG &&if wpf0ufudk a&mif;NyD; olaX;BuD;OD;ol&twGuf bk&m;wnf&OD;rSm
r[kwfvm; . . . }}
]]tck&wJhaiGwpf0ufudk wnfvdkY&om;yJ . . . tvdkqEqdkwm ydkif;NzwfEdkifrSaumif;wm . . .
avmb[m b,fawmhrS tusKd;ray;wwfbl; . . . }}
]]'geJY a[haumif . . . aiGawGaum . . . }} [k oufSnfu Nzwfar;onf/
]]rif;wdkY tbGm;wdkY vdkufrvmrSmpdk;vdkYqdkNyD; ol ,lxm;vdkufw,f . . . }}
]]tif; . . . }}
tbGm;wifhu oufNyif;csNyD; acgif;udk ,rf;vdkufonf/ wufyku . . .
]]uJyg tbGm;&,f . . . rEav;udkawmh vdkufcJhyg . . . bk&m;vnf; zl;&wmaygh . . . rEav;
NrdKUqdkwm odyfNyD; BuD;us,fwm tbGm;&JU . . . pnfum;vdkufwmqdkwmvnf; raNymeJYawmh . . . }}
]][kwfom;yJ . . . [dka&mufrS taNctaeBunhfvkyfwmaygh . . . }} [k oufSnfuyg 0ifaNym onf/
]]aeprf;ygOD; . . . rEav;rSm taNcpdkufzdkY bmNzpfvdkY pdwful;&wmwHk;awmh . . . }}
aTrdu 0ifar;onf/ ausmfat;u NyefSif;Ny\/
]]'gu 'Dvdkyg . . . udkbdkaueJY uRefawmf pum;aNymBu&if; bdkauqdkNyD; bmaBumihf uwHk;Nzpfae
&wmvJvdkY uRefawmfuar;awmh i,fi,fu 0ufoufaygufvdkY uwHk;wHk;NyD; qHyifawGuRwfukefwmeJY
uwHk;yJ qufxm;wmvdkY olu aNymw,f . . . }}
]]tJ'geJY rEav;eJY bmqdkifvdkYvJ . . . }}
]]'gu 'DvdkSdygw,f . . . oluvnf; uRefawmfhemrnftaBumif;ar;awmh uRefawmfhudk ref;&mNynhf
aeYrSm arG;wJhtaBumif;? rEav;NrdKU pwnfwJhESpfudk rSwf&vG,fatmif tkwfuspfausmfat; rEav;wnfqdkwJh
pmcsKd;eJY rSwfxm;cJhBuwmaBumihf uRefawmfhemrnfudk ausmfat;vdkY rSnfhxm;wmNzpfaBumif; aNymNyawmh
udkbdkauu aNryHkxJu yxrpmaBumif;udk olazmfEdkifNyDvdkY aNymygw,f . . . }}
]]ausmfat;udkawGYatmifSmNyD; vkyfief;pygqdkwm tkwfuspfausmfat; rEav;qdkwJh rEav;NrdKUudk
taNcNyKNyD;vkyfygqdkwJh t"dym,f&wmudk; . . . }}
wufykuyg 0ifSif;Nyonf/ aTrdu ausmfat;udk vufnKd;xdk;NyNyD; . . .
]][if . . . 'gqdk aNryHktaBumif; olYudkyg aNymNyvdkufNyDaygh . . . [kwfvm; . . . }}
wufyku . . .

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]]olu ,HkBunf&ygw,f[ . . . pdefvufpGyfudk olyJ tquftoG,fSmNyD; a&mif;ay;cJhwmyJ . . .


ol0ifaNymvdkY ydkufqHawmif ydk&vdkufao;w,f . . . ol opmazmufcsif&if igwdkYudk NrdKUay:rSm vG,fvG,f
av; vSnhfywfxm;cJhvdkY &wmyJ . . . }}
tbGm;wifhu wufykpum;udk oabmwl[ef acgif;ndwfNyonf/ ausmfat;uvnf; . . .
]][kwfygw,fAsm . . . uRefawmfhudk ,Hkyg . . . tckvdk uRefawmfvdkufNyD;ulnDaewm ypnf;Opm
aBumifh r[kwfygbl; . . .}}
]]'gqdk bmaBumifhvJ . . . }} [k oufSnfu ar;onf/ ausmfat;u aTrdudk rodromBunhfNyD; . . .
]][dk[mav . . . uRefawmfhtaeeJY NrifNrifcsif;qdkovdk . . .}}
]]bm . . . b,folYudk NrifNrifcsif;vJ . . .}}
aTrdu cyfqwfqwfar;vdkuf&m ausmfat; wGefYceJNzpfoGm;NyD;rS . . .
]][dk . . . [dk . . . tbGm;udkyg . . . tbGm;udk NrifNrifcsif; cspfcif BunfndKav;pm;rdvdkYyg . . .}}
aTrdu rsufapmif;wpfcsuf cJvdkufNyD;rS tbGm;wifhbufvSnhfNyD; . . .
]]tbGm; . . . b,fvdk oabm&vJ . . . rEav;udk vdkufoGm;rSmvm; . . .}}
tbGm;wifhu pOf;pm;awGa0aeNyD;aemuf . . .
]]at; . . . vdkuf&awmhrSmaygh . . . bdkauu NyefrSrvmawmhyJ . . . [dka&mufrS azsmif;zsNyD; Nyef
ac:oifh ac:&awmhrSmyJ . . .}}
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NrifNriforQrSm tHhBop&mawGcsnf; Nzpf\/ &xm;qdkwmvnf; wpfcgrS rpD;zl;/ 'dkife,frS pyg;vm


o,fonfh avmf&Dum;awGavmufom Nrifzl;cJhonf/ wdkufqdkwm tckrSawGYzl;Ncif; Nzpf\/
olwdkYu awGYorQudk wtHhwBo Bunhfonf/ xdkYtwl awGYorQvlawGuvnf; olwdkYudk txl;
tqef;vdk BunhfBu&\/ zmawG? awmif;awG? zsmvdyfawG GufolGuf? xrf;olxrf;NyD; rEav;NrdKUay:rSm
avQmufaeBuonf/ vrf;Nzwful;awmh wpfa,mufcg; wpfa,mufudkifNyD; wef;pDul;BuoNzifh um;awG?
qdkifu,fawG? pufbD;awGu &yfay;&onf/
oufSnfu txyfNrifhwdkufBuD;awGudk armhBunhfNyD; . . .
]]'DavmufNrifhwJh wdkufBuD;ay:rSm usKyfawmh rae&JaygifAsm . . . GmOD;apwDav; xHk;wufokwfwHk;
uawmif 'l;wkefaewm . . . }} [k aNymonf/ tbGm;wifhu rD;ydGKifhudkBunhfNyD; . . .

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]]rif;wdkYNrdKUBuD;u crf;awmh crf;em;yg&JUuG,f . . . 'gayr,fh aeYcif;aBumifawmifBuD; vrf;"mwfrD;


awG zGifhxm;vm; xm;&JU . . . rD;vHk;awGuvnf; wpfvHk;u vmvdkuf . . . wpfvHk;u ysufvdkufeJY . . . }}
]]tJ'g vrf;rD;r[kwfbl; tbGm;&JU . . . tcsufNyrD;av . . . rD;ydGKifhvdkY ac:w,f . . . rD;eDae&if
um;awG&yfNyD; rD;pdrf;rS oGm;&w,f . . . }}
]]trav;awmf . . . tvkyfIyfvdkufwm . . . usKyfwdkYqDu vSnf;awGrsm; oGm;csifovdkoGm; . . .
ab;udk enf;enf;uyfay;ygAsKdUvdkY atmfvdkufHkyJ . . . }} [k aTrdu aNymonf/
ausmfat;u oHk;bD;um;wpfpD;udk iSm;vdkuf\/ oufSnfu oHk;bD;um;udk aoaocsmcsmBunhfNyD; .
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]]'Dum;ydkifSifu awmfawmfuyfpD;enf;w,f . . . um;udk bD;wpfvHk;NzKwfNyD; oHk;bD;wnf; wyf
xm;w,f . . . }} [k aNymoNzifh oHk;bD;um;q&mu &,fao;onf/
0if;uav;wpfckxJSd oyf&yfaom ESpfxyfwdkufuav;wpfvHk;aSUrSm um;&yfonf/
]]'g udkbkdauiSm;xm;wJh wdkufyJ . . . }} [k ausmfat;u aNymonf/ oufSnfu . . .
]][m . . . aumif;vdkufwm . . . wpfcgwnf; 0,fxm;vdkuf NyD;a&m . . . }}
]]GmOD;ausmif;xufawmif BuD;ao;w,f . . . }} [k aTrdu rSwfcsufcsonf/
]]uJ . . . vmBu . . . }}
ausmfat;u OD;aqmifNyD; wdkufxJ0ifBuonf/ {nfhcef;xJta&mufwGif tbGm;wifhu rsufvHk;NyL;
oGm;\/
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onf/ qdkzmay:rSm ususeevSJxdkif&if; em;usyfudk em;rSmwyf uufqufem;axmifaeaom bdkauudk
awGYvdkuf&aomaBumifhyif Nzpf\/
]]udkBuD;bdkau . . . udkBuD;bdkau . . . }}
aTrdu atmfac:onf/ bdkauu rBum;/ oufSnfu tvefYwBum; aNymvdkufonf/
]][m . . . 'Daumif r&zl;wJhaiGawG &oGm;vdkY l;oGm;NyDxifw,f . . . q&mawmfaNymwm Bum;zl;
w,f . . . NrdKUay:rSm l;oGm;wJhvlawG&JU OD;aESmufudk "mwfvkdufatmifvkyfNyD; uk&w,fwJh . . . }}
]][if . . . [kwfvm; . . . trav; . . . udk,fusKd;enf;ygNyD . . . }}
]][m . . . b,fuvm . . . uufqufeJY oDcsif;em;axmifaewmyg . . . }}
ausmfat;uaNymNyD; bdkauhqDoGm; udkifvIyfvdkufonf/ bdkauu ZdrfESifh rSdef;ae&mrS rsufpdzGifh
BunhfNyD; . . .

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]][m . . . tbGm;wdkYawmif a&mufaeBuNyD . . . vm . . . vm . . . xdkifBu . . . }}


oufSnfrSm tdrfxJ 0ifuwnf;u rsufpdusaeaom qdkzmBuD;ay: aNcypfvufypf xdkifcsvdkuf
onf/ qdkzmu tdceJ edrhfusoGm;oNzifh . . .
]][m . . . uRHusNyD . . . }}
qdkNyD; vefYckefxonf/ NyD;rS tomav; Nyefxdkifonf/ tbGm;wifhuawmh qdkzmay: aqmifhaBumihf
wufxdkif\/
]]tJ'Dvdk rxdkif&bl; tbGm;&JU . . . 'Dvdk aNccsxdkif&w,f . . . }} [k bdkauu aNymonf/
tbGm;wifhu . . .
]]ig xdkifwwfovdk xdkifyg&ap . . . }}
aTrdonf qdkzmudk zdprf;BunhfNyD;rS r&Jw&J 0ifxdkifvdkufonf/
]]uJ . . . xdkifBuygOD; . . . tarmaNyaomuf&atmif tat;wpfckck oGm;,lvdkufOD;r,f . . . }}
ausmfat;u aNymNyD; twGif;cef;xJ 0ifoGm;onf/
ckrSyif bdkau0wfpm;xm;yHkudk owdNyKrdBu\/ umwGef;kyfygaom wDSyfESihf abmif;bDyGyGBuD;udk
0wfxm;onf/ oufSnfu . . .
]]rif; pGyfus,ftusu aumif;vScsnfvm; . . . }}
]]'g pGyfus,fr[kwfbl;uG . . . wDSyfvdkY ac:w,f . . . }}
tbGm;wifhu 0if . . .
]]bdkau&,f . . . rif;ES,fuG,f . . . b,fhES,faBumihf olrsm;abmif;bD ,l0wf&wmvJ . . . }}
]]Asm . . . 'g olrsm;abmif;bD r[kwfygbl; . . . }}
]][kwfygw,f . . . 'g 'Dtdrf&JU tdrfSifhabmif;bD Nzpf&r,f . . . olu ,pfrsKd; tifpyufawmf vm;
. . . Xmetkyfvm; . . . }}
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]]odygbl;uG,f . . . wdkYrsm;i,fi,fuawmh ,pfrsKd;tifpyufawmfwdkY? XmetkyfwdkYqdk 'Dvdkabmif;
bDrsKd; 0wfwmyJ . . . 'geJY bkdau . . . eifu avmbaZmawGwdkufNyD; 'DavmufydkufqHawG &aewm awmif
&wemawG xyfSmcsifao;wmvm; . . . [if . . . }}
]]'DrSm tbGm;&JU . . . NrdKUay:rSmawmh odef;ESpfq,favmufqdkwm bmrSSdwm r[kwfbl; . . . tdrf
wpfvHk;awmif aumif;aumif;r0,favmufbl;As . . . }}

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rif;vl
]]igwdkYu NrdKUrSmaerSmrS r[kwfyJ . . . }}

]]usKyfuawmh NrdKUrSmyJ aecsifw,f . . . 'DrSm ZdrfyJ tbGm;&JU . . . vdkcsifwm tukef&w,f . . .


a[m'DwkdufBuD;qdk&if Bunhfprf; . . . b,favmuf aumif;ovJ . . . rdk;vHkavvHkeJY avrkefwdkif;wdkuf awmif
rNydKEdkifbl; . . . &wemawG &NyD;&if tNyD;0,fypfvdkufr,f . . . }}
tbGm;wifhu HIUrJhvdkufNyD; wpfpHkwpfck aNymrnfNyKpOf ausmfat; twGif;cef;xJu xGufvmonf/
vifAef;uav;ay:wGif udkumudkvmAl;rsm; wif,lvmonf/ Aef;udk pm;yGJay:csNyD; Al;wpfAl;udk,l vuf
udkifuGif;av;xJ vufnKd;xnfh azmufceJ qGJzGifhvdkufonf/
ausmfat;vkyforQ pl;pdkufBunhfaeaom oufSnf rsufvHk;NyL;oGm;\/
]]tm;vHk; 0yfaeBu . . . }} [k atmfNyD; ausmfat;udk ckeftkyfvdkufonf/ ausmfat;rSm kwfw&ufrdkY
tidkufrdNyD; . . . ]][ . . . [ . . . }} [k a&Gwf&if; vJusoGm;onf/ udkumudkvmAl;u Burf;ay:rSm
vdrfhoGm;\/ oufSnfu udkumudkvmAl;udk aNy;aumuf tNyifodkY vTifhypfNyD;rS Nyef0yfaeonf/
]]cifAsm; . . . cifAsm; . . . bmvkyfwmvJ . . . }}
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vdkufum ausmfat;udk aphaphBunhfvsuf . . .
]]a[haumif . . . rif;tBuH 'gtukefyJvm; . . . }}
]]uRefawmf bmvkyfvdkYvJAs . . . }}
]]rif;u igwdkYudk vufypfAHk;eJYxkowfNyD; igwdkYaiGawGudk tydkifpD;rvdkY r[kwfvm; . . . }}
]][m . . . Asm . . . }}
bdkauu w[m;[m;&,fNyD; . . .
]]oufSnf&m . . . rif;uvJ awmfawmf'kH;a0;wJhaumifyJ . . . tJ'g vufypfAHk; r[kwfbl;uG
azsmf&nfAl; . . . aomufcsif&if tJ'DvdkyJ zGifhaomuf&w,f . . . tJ'g udkukvm;vdkY ac:w,f . . . }}

...

]][if; . . . udkukvm;wJh . . . }}
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]]udkukvm; r[kwfygbl; . . . udkumudkvmyg . . . }} [k NyHK;aNym&if; Al;awGudk zGifhay;onf/
]]tJ'g b,fvkdaomuf&rSmvJ . . . }}
]]'Dtaygufuav;uae armhaomufHkygyJ . . . }}
aTrdu,l wpfiHkiHkNyD; zDGceJ axG;xkwfvdkuf\/

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rif;vl
]]azsmf&nfxJrSm ykGufqdwfawG ygw,fxifw,f . . . GpdGpdeJY . . . }}
]][m . . . r[kwfygbl; . . . qdk'geJY pyfxm;vdkYyg . . . }}
bdkauu aTrdNzpfyHkudk rdefYrdefYBuD; NyHK;Bunhfaeonf/
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]]ausmfat;udk awGYatmifSmygqdkwmuawmh [kwfoGm;NyD . . . aNryHkxJrSm aemufxyf nTef;xm;wJh


yifv,fudkNzwfNyD; yef;aygif;pHk&mt&yfudk oGm;avmhqdkwmu bmrSef;rodwm cufw,f . . . }}
bdkau? oufSnf? wufykESifh ausmfat;wdkY {nfhcef;wGif;Sd pm;yGJay:rSm aNryHkudkcs 0dkif;xdkif&if;
aqG;aEG;aeBuonf/ bdkauu pum;pvdkufaomtcg wufyku . . .
]]yifv,fudk Nzwf&r,fqdkawmh rEav;aum [kwf&JUvm;uGm . . . }}
oufSnfu ar;aphyGwfae&mrS . . .
]]pum;vdrfeJYrsm; a&;xm;wmvm; rodbl; . . . yifv,fu us,fw,f? awmifay:u Nrifhw,f . .
. us,fNrifh? usifhNrifh . . . [m . . . 'gvnf; r[kwfao;ygbl; . . . }}
ausmfat;u acgif;ukwfvdkufonf/ &moDOwku tdkufpyfpyfNzpfaeoNzifh tat;Al;rsm;,l&ef x
xGufoGm;onf/ xrif;pm;cef;xJu a&cJaowmSd&modkY avQmufoGm;NyD; wHcg;qGJzGifhvdkufonf/ ol yg;pyf
ta[mif;om; NzpfoGm;&\/ a&cJaowmxJrSm tat;Al;awGrSdawmh/ wNcm;ypnf;awGyg rSdawmhyJ tus?
vHkcsnf? rsufESmokwfyk0g paom t0wftpm;awG a&mufae\/
]][m . . . b,fvdkNzpf . . . }}
xdktcsdefwGif tbGm;wifhu olYtem;a&mufvmonf/
]]rif;wkdY NrdKUuvlawGrsm; tHhyg&JUuG,f . . . 'Davmufaumif;wJh ADdkBuD;xJrSm azsmf&nfAl;awG xnhf
vdkxnfh . . . bmrSwefzdk;rSdwJh [if;oD;[if;Guf? BuufOawG xnfhvdkxnfheJY . . . 'gaBumihf igu
t0wftpm;awG aNymif;xnfhxm;wm . . . }}
ausmfat;rSm &,fcsifaomfvnf; tbGm;wifhyg;pyfudk aBumufaomaBumifh r&,f0Hh/ acgif;omcgNyD; .
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]]'g ADdkr[kwfygbl; tbGm;&JU . . . a&cJaowmvdkY ac:ygw,f . . . 'DxJxnhfxm;&if azsmf
&nfAl;wdkY bmwdkY at;aewmaygh . . . a&cJvdkcsif&if tay:u tqifhxJu ,l&w,f . . . BuufOwdkY
toD;tGufwdkYxnfhxm;&ifvJ ykyfwmwdkY odk;wmwdkY rNzpfawmhbl; . . . }}
]]odygbl;uG,f . . . ADdkrSwfvdkY igu tcef;xJawmif aTUcdkif;xm;rvm; pdwful;ao;w,f . . . [Jh .
. . 'geJY igwkdYudk bk&m;awGzl;&atmif vdkufydkYay;OD;av . . . }}

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]][dk[mu rif;uGef;ykxdk;awmfBuD; . . . [dkbufu ppfudkif;awmifdk; . . . 'DbufrSmawGYvm; . . .


&efuif;awmif . . . [dku Nrifae&wm [dkt&ifwkef;uawmh atmifyifv,fuefaygh . . . }}
]]bm . . . atmifyifv,fuef . . . [kwfvm; . . . [m . . . [kwfNyD . . . aNrykHxJu yifv,f
udkausmfNzwf qdkwm 'gudkaNymwm Nzpfr,f . . . }}
bdkauu aNymvdkufonf/ ausmfat;u awGceJNzpfoGm;NyD; . . .
]]tif; . . . NzpfEdkifw,fAs . . . 'gqdk . . . 'gqdk . . . [m . . . odNyDAsKdU . . . awmifay:u
yef;aygif;pHk&mt&yfqdkwm NyifOD;vGifudkaNymwmAs . . . NyifOD;vGifudk yef;NrdKUawmfvdkYvJ ac:w,fr[kwfvm; }}
wufyku . . .
]][kwfNyD . . . [kwfNyD . . . 'Dvdkqdk&if usKyfwdkY NyifOD;vGifudk oGm;BuHkyJaygh . . . }}
]]aeOD;av . . . aNryHkxJu aemufxyfnTef;xm;wmawGudk razmfEdkifao;yJ oGm;vdkY b,fNzpfrvJ . . .
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ausmfat;u aNymonf/
]]tif; . . . wNznf;Nznf;awmh kyfvHk;ay:vmNyD . . . }}
oufSnfu aNymvdkufonf/
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wdkufxJ0ifvmaom ausmfat;udk bdkauu qD;aNymonf/
]]bmvJ . . . aNryHkxJu pum;0Sufudk xyfazmfEdkifvdkYvm; . . . }}
]]r[kwfygbl;Asm . . . udp SdvdkY . . . cifAsm a&cJaowmNyifwwfovm; . . .}}
]]Nyifawmh rNyifwwfbl; . . . NyifwJhqdkifawmh odw,f . . . bmNzpfvdkYvJ . . .}}
]]usKyftcef;xJu a&cJaowmu rat;vdkYAs . . . vdkufBunhfay;ygOD; . . .}}
bdkauu ausmfat;udk olYtcef;odkY ac:oGm;onf/ ausmfat;pdwfxJrSm 'Dvlawmh a&cJaowmwpf
vHk; xyf0,fvdkufNyefNyD[k xifrd\/ wu,fawmh 'Dvdkr[kwf/ tcef;xJ a&mufaomtcg . . .
]]bD,mat;at;av; aomufcsifvdkY reufuwnf;u a&cJaowmxJ xnfhxm;wmAs . . . vHk;0udk
rat;bl; . . .}} [k aNymNyD; vufnKd;nTefNyonf/ ausmfat; ][dkuf} ceJ NzpfoGm;onf/ NyD;rS ezl;udk
vuf0g;ESifh Nzef;ceJdkufNyD; . . .

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]]aovdkufygawmhAsm . . . tJ'g a&cJaowm r[kwfbl;As . . . rD;cHaowmvdkY ac:w,f . . .}}


]]bm . . . rD;cJaowm . . . [kwfvm; . . . aBomf . . . 'guawmh tylay;wJh aowmudk; . . .
[if;awGbmawG aET;vdkY&wmaygh . . . }}
]]rD;cJaowm r[kwfygbl; . . . rD;cHaowm . . . rD;cHaowm . . . }}
]]rD;cHaowm . . . [kwfvm; . . . tJ'gu bmvkyf&rSmvJ . . . }}
]]aiGwdkY? &wemypnf;wdkY? ta&;BuD;wJh pmGufpmwrf;wdkY xnfhNyD; odrf;xm;vdkY&w,f . . . olcdk;
awGbmawG rzGifhEdkifbl;aygh . . . }}
]][m . . . olcdk;awmif rzGifhEkdifbl;qdkawmh usKyfqdk&if ydkqdk;rSmayghAsm . . .}}
]]r[kwfao;bl;avAsm . . . 'DrSm awGYvm; . . . aomhaygufoHk;ckawmif ygw,f . . . aomhoHk; qifh
cwfxm;&if zGifhzdkY rvG,fawmhygbl; . . . aomhawGudk ukd,fhbmom vHkatmif odrf;aygh . . . }}
]][m . . . [kwfNyD . . . usKyfwdkYaiGawGeJY aNryHkudk 'DxJrSm odrf;xm;&r,f . . . }} [k vlwpf&yf
pmeD;yg;Sdaom rD;cHaowmBuD;udk oabmuspGmyGwfBunhf&if; bdkauu aNymvdkufonf/
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bdkauwdkYtkyfpkonf wdkufaSUrSm&yfxm;aom tiSm;um;[dkif;vwfum;ay:rS ypnf;rsm;udk o,fcs


aeBuonf/ bD,mawG? tcsKd&nfawG? aowmvdkuf/ yef;oD;? vdarmfoD;awG Ncif;vdkuf/ tom;bl; ig;bl;
awG? rkefYyHk;awG? wNcm;pm;aomufp&mawG/
]]awGYvm; . . . awmom;awG aumif;pm;aeBuwm . . .}}
NcH0if;wHcg;em;rS ra,mifrvnfBunhfaeaom a,musfm;wpfa,mufu twlwlygvmol rdef;rwpf
a,mufudk aNymNyaeNcif; Nzpf\/ a,musfm;rSm ausmfat;wdkY? bdkauwdkY vufpGyfa&mif;pOfu yGJpm;tNzpf
aqmifGufcJhol armifwD;Nzpf\/ rdef;ruawmh armifwD;ESifh rBumcP tvkyfwGJvkyfcJhzl;aom rdef;rvnf
rl,m Nzpf\/
]]olwdkYu yGaygufwdk;xm;vdkYvm; . . . }}
rl,mu ar;onf/
]][kwfw,f . . . pdefvufpGyfwpfuGif; a&mif;vdkufwm odef;ESpfq,favmuf &oGm;w,f . . . 'g
awmif igeJY avmfyefaygif;NyD; ESyfcsvdkufvdkY . . . wu,fu oHk;q,fhig;odef;avmuf wefwm . . . EdkYrdkYqdk
ESpfodef;oHk;odef;avmuf ay;HkeJY &w,f . . . rEav;om;wpfa,muf ygvmawmh odyfESdrfrSef;od&if vuf
vGwfoGm;rSmpdk;vdkY 'Davmufwdk;ay;vkduf&wm . . . }}
]]SifvJ yGJcaumif;aumif;&rSmaygh . . . }}

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]]awmom;awGqDu wpfodef;&w,f . . . avmfyefu wpfodef;ay;w,f . . .}}


]]'geJYrsm; uRefrudk avmhuwfav;wpfckavmuf 0,fay;ygqdkwm tifwifwifvkyfaew,f . . .}}
]]ta&;xJ yGJnGefYcl;r,fhvleJY awGYaeNyefygNyD . . . 'DrSm . . . tckxuf q,fqru &r,fh tuGuf
wpfckSdw,f . . . tJ'gaNymcsifvdkY eifhudk vmac:wm . . .}}
]]aNymprf;ygOD; . . . [dkwpfcgvdk taBuG;awG ywfvnf0dkif;aewJhtbdk;BuD;udk oGm;cscdkif;wmrsKd;awmh
rvkyfeJYOD;aemf . . . tJ'Dwkef;u ydkufqHr&wJhtNyif uHaumif;vdkY taBuG;SifawG0dkif;dkufwm rcH&wm . . .}}
]]at;yg . . . ck[mu 'Dvdk[ . . . 'DaumifawG pdefvufpGyfudka&mif;NyD;awmh aemufwpfcga&mif;
&ifvnf; ulnDygOD;vdkY aNymw,f . . . 'gaBumifh olwdkYqDrSm &wemypnf;awG SdvdrfhOD;r,f . . . 'grS r[kwf
xyf&EdkifwJh taBumif;wpfckck SdvdrfhOD;r,fxifw,f . . . 'Dawmh eifvkyf&rSmu olwdkYxJ 0ifa&mNyD;awmh
b,fvdktaNctaeSdw,fqdkwm pHkprf;NyD; ighudk tquftoG,fvkyfzdkYyJ . . . }}
]]'Davmufu Nzpfygw,f . . .}}
]]uJ . . . 'gqdk eifBunhfprf; . . . olwdkYxJu b,faumifqdk&if vG,frvJvdkY . . .}}
rl,mu NcH0if;xJ vSrf;BunhftuJcwfNyD; . . .
]][dk kyfcyfoefYoefYu rEav;om;r[kwfvm; . . . olYudk z,fxm;vdkuf . . . tif; . . . [dk ykyk
aumifu aygawmawmeJY wlw,f . . . SnfSnfaumifuawmh aowmav;wpfvHk;awmif cg;csnfhatmif
o,fae&wm tNzpfSdr,frxifbl; . . . tJ . . . uwHk;? uwHk; . . . olqdk&if uyfvdkYvG,fEdkifw,f . . . }}
]]aocsmw,faemf . . . }}
]]aBomf . . . rl,mygqdkrS . . . 'Dtvkyfvkyfpm;vmwm b,favmufBumNyDvJ . . . kyf&nfudk
BunfhvdkufwmeJY tvkyfNzpfrNzpf cGJNcm;odygw,fSifh . . . }}
armifwD;u auseyfpGmNyKH;vdkufNyD; . . .
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***

aTrdonf Burf;ay:rSmxdkifNyD; qdkzmESpfvHk;Bum;rS acsmif;Bunhfae\/ AD'D,dkZmwfum;udk Bunfhae


Ncif;Nzpf\/ tBurf;t&rf;awGcsnf;ygaom EdkifiHNcm;kyfSifum; Nzpfonf/
aTrdNzpfaeyHkudk ausmfat;u ar;vdkufonf/
]]raTrd . . . tay:u xdkifBunhfygvm; . . . bmNzpfvdkY tJ'DvdkBuD; Bunhfae&wmvJ . . .}}

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]]tdk . . . [dkrSm aoewfawGypfaewm rNrifbl;vm; . . . rawmfwq vludkvmrSef&if b,fhES,f


vkyfrvJ . . . 'gaBumihf tumtuG,f,lNyD; Bunhfwm . . . }}
ausmfat;u &,f . . .
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kyfSifNyovdkygyJ . . . }}
aTrdu Suf&,f&,f . . .
]]odygbl;awmf . . . olwdkY[mu wu,fypfcwfaewm usaewmyJ . . .}}
]]tif; . . . ckaemufydkif; 0ifvmwJh wDADawG atmufpufawGu odyftqifhNrifhvmawmh raTrdvefY
r,fqdkvnf; vefYp&myJ . . . toHawGu odyfobm0uswmudk; . . . uJ . . . at;at;aq;aq;om
xdkifBunhfyg . . . bmrS rNzpfygbl; . . . }}
]]awmfygNyD . . . rBunhfcsifawmhbl; . . . olwdkY[mu aoewfcsnf; ypfaewmyJ . . .}} [k
aTrduaNymNyD; rD;cvkwfudk oGm;ydwfrnfNyKonf/
]]tm . . . rD;cvkwfudk 'gdkufrydwf&bl; . . . wDADucvkwfudk t&ifydwf&w,f . . . tJ . . . a[m'D
&Drk'fuGefxdk;eJY ydwfvdkYvnf;&w,f . . . }}
ausmfat;u aNym&if; ta0;xdef;ud&d,mav;udk ,l wDADbufcsdefNyD; cvkyfESdyfvdkufonf/ wDAD
tvdktavsmufydwfoGm;onfudkNrif aTrd oabmusoGm;\/
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xdktcg armifwD;ESifh rl,mwdkY wpfrsKd;BuHBuNyefonf/ bdkau nbufvrf;avQmufxGuftvmudk


wpfae&mrSmapmihfNyD; armifwD;u rl,mhudk tEdkifusifh dkufESufae[efaqmifonf/ bdkauu tNrifrawmfvdkY
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tbGm;wifh GmNyefcgeD;wGif ausmfat;udkac: bdkauwdkY r[kwfwmrvkyf&atmif xdef;odrf;&efESifh


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txl;awmif rSmp&mrvdk/ olu apmihfaSmufcsifvdkufwmrS/
olonf aTrdudk NrifNrifcsif; oHa,mZOfNzpfcJhrdonf/ aTrduvnf; wpfaeYwpfNcm; ydkydkvSvmonf/
wpfckSdwmu aTrdonf qwfqwfBuJ r[kwfrcHpdwfSdNcif;yif Nzpf\/ xdkYaBumihf pum;p&rSm cufaeonf/
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xkdYaBumifh . . .
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&,farmNcif;vufusef

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bdkauonf tdrfxJrSm tdkufpyfpyfaeoNzifh yef;NcHxJodkY xGufvmcJhonf/ yef;yifawG a&avmif;ae


aom rl,mudk awGYoNzifh avQmufoGm;onf/ rl,mhudk aemufrSBunhf&if; . . . ]]e,fuvmw,fom qdkw,f .
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rsm; usaervm;vdkY . . . 'gaBumihf q&mtpfudkvdkY . . . }}
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buf ul;onf/ wdkufBuufrsKd;aumif;rSmxm;aom GmodkYoGm;NyD; &r&ar;onf/ GmuvlawGu aemufoHk;
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]]rdeDaum . . . rdeD b,foGm;vJ . . . }} [k ar;vdkufonf/ pma&;rav;u . . .
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]][kwfvm; . . . cifAsm;emrnfuaum ruwfvm; . . . }}
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pma&;rav; aBumifawmifawmif Nzpfae\/ aemufuvdkuf0ifvmaom ausmfat;u . . .
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vdkwmAs . . . }}
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]]uJ . . . tJ'gyJ ay;Asm . . . }}
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. . . [dkrSm taNcpdkufNyD; BudK;pm;rvm;vdkYawmif pdwful;w,f . . . }}

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uRefawmfwdkYtaeeJY rdk;ay:uusonfha& . . .}}
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]]tat;Al;awG b,folu vmydkYcdkif;vdkYvJ . . .}}
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qdkNyD; tat;Al;wpfAl;,lNyD; zGifhaomufonf/ ausmfat;u . . .
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onf/ odkY&mwGif ausmfat;u cHkudk bdkaubufqGJuyfNyD; acgif;csif;qdkif cyfwdk;wdk;aNymaeoNzifh bmrS
rBum;&/
xdkpOfwGif wpfpHkwpfa,mufu ycHk;udkvmwdkYoNzifh wkefceJ vefYoGm;onf/ vSnhfBunhfawmh ouf
SnfNzpfae\/ rl,mu rsufpdrsufESmysufoGm;&mrS wpfpHkwpfck taBumif;NyzdkY pOf;pm;aepOf oufSnfu .
. . ]SL; . . . wdk;wdk; . . .} qdkaomoabm EIwfcrf;udk vufnKd;ESifhawhNyNyD; olyg 0ifacsmif;Bunhfae
awmhonf/
***

]]tJ'gyJ . . . ausmfat;qdkwJhaumifeJY uwHk;eJY ta&;wBuD; wdkifyifaewm awGYw,f . . . NyifOD;


vGifqdkwmawmh Bum;vdkufw,f . . . eD;pyfNyDqdkwmvJ ygw,f . . . [dk oufSnfqdkwJhaumif a&mufvm
wmeJY qufem;raxmifyJ vpfxGufcJh&w,f . . . }}
armifwD;u um;udka&aq;&if; em;axmifae&mrS Nyefar;onf/
]]oufSnfuaum eifacsmif;em;axmifaewm r&dyfrdbl;vm; . . . }}

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&,farmNcif;vufusef

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]]'Daumifu bmrS em;rvnfwJh tl;taygyJ . . . olyg a&ma,mifNyD; 0ifacsmif;Bunhfaeao;w,f .


. . awmfygao;w,f . . . vlNzifh vefYoGm;wmyJ . . . }}
]]tif; . . . 'Dtwdkif;qdk&if 'DaumifawG NyifOD;vGifrSm cGifaumif;aumif;wpfck awGYxm;wm
Nzpfvdrfhr,f . . . olwdkYxJrSm ausmfat;eJYuwHk;u t"duyJ . . . 'Dawmh uwHk;udkom NrefNrefykdifatmif
vkyfayawmh . . . }}
]]Nzpfygw,f . . . [dkwpfaeYuawmif yifyef;aeNyDvm; bmvm;eJY vma&maeao;w,f . . . 'Dwpfcg
qHk&ifawmh trdzrf;&rSmyJ . . . }}
]]aTrdudkawmh owdxm;aemf . . . olu enf;enf;xufyHk&w,f . . . acsmhaygif;xm; . . . }}
]]olcdkif;orQ rnnf;rnL vkyfay;aewmyJ . . . yifawmh yifyef;w,f . . . 'gyJaemf . . . ckudp
tqifaNy&ifom ay;xm;wJhuwdudk rarheJY . . . }}
]]at;yg[ . . . }}
]]uJ . . . oGm;OD;r,f . . . npmtwGuf ulvkyfay;&OD;r,f . . . tJ'DawmolruvJ wpfrsKd; . . .
[dkwpfaeYuvJ ig;aowmbl;udk azmufcdkif;NyD; uefpGef;GufcsOf&nfxJ xnfhcsufowJh . . . cyfwHk;wHk; awGyg
. . . }}
]]olwkdY wHk;av igwdkYESyfcsvdkY aumif;avaygh[ . . . }}
***

nOfheufaeNyD/ bkdauonf tdrfxJrSm avSmiftdkufaeoNzifh yef;NcHxJSd cHkwef;uav;rSm xGufxdkifNyD;


bD,maomufaeonf/
xdktaNctaeudk rl,mu acsmif;aecJhNcif;Nzpf\/ bdkauwpfa,mufwnf;vnf; Sdonfhtcsdef?
bD,mav;vnf; axGaecsdef? nOfhuvnf; eufaecsdefqdkawmh tm;vHk;uGufwdyJ . . . vnfyif;[dkuf[dkuf?
tusvufNywfudkvnf; wrifaG;0wfvmcJhonf/
bdkauhqD avQmufoGm;NyD; . . .
]]tpfudkBuD; . . . rtdyfao;bl;vm; . . . }}
]]aBomf . . . vm . . . vm . . . xdkifav . . . }}
rl,monf bdkauhab;rSm 0ifxdkifvdkufonf/
]]nDrvJ [dkpOf;pm;? 'DpOf;pm;eJY tdyfraysmfvdkY 'DbufxGufcJhwm . . . }}
]]bmawGrsm; pOf;pm;aevdkYwHk; rl,m&JU . . . }}

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]]aBomf . . . udk,fh&JU twdwfu Nzpf&yfawG&,f . . . aSUqufNyD; b,fvdk aexdkifpm;aomuf&rvJ


qdkwm awG;NyD; pdwfraumif;Nzpf&wmaygh tpfudkBuD;&,f . . . }}
]][m . . . bmpdwfraumif;p&m SdvdkYvJ . . . tpfudkBuD;wdkYeJY aewJhtcg aysmfaysmfTifTif aeprf;yg .
. . tultnDvdk&ifvJ aNym . . . }}
]]t"duuawmh nDrwdkYarmifESr uHqdk;cJhwmudk owd&NyD; pdwfraumif;Nzpfrdwmyg . . . }}
]]nDrwdkYu awmfawmf 'kua&mufcJhvdkYvm; . . . }}
]]tazSdwkef;uawmh nDrwdkYrdom;pk[m acsmifacsmifvnfvnf aeEdkifcJhygw,f . . . aemufawmh
tazu kwfw&ufqHk;oGm;Smw,f . . . }}
]]aBomf . . . aBomf . . . pdwfraumif;p&myJ . . . }}
]]tJ'Dwkef;u nDrwdkYuvnf; i,fao;w,fav . . . taruvnf; bmrS rvkyfwwf rudkifwwf
qdkawmh tm;udk;p&mSmwJhtaeeJY aemuftdrfaxmifNyKcJhw,f . . . }}
aNymNyD; bdkauudk wpfcsuf tuJcwfonf/ bdkau pdwf0ifpm;[efSdoNzifh qufaNym\/
]]yaxG;u tpydkif;u [kwfawmhrvdkvdkeJY aemufawmh aAGazmufvmwmyJ . . . bmtvkyfrS rvkyf
awmhbl; . . . tareJY nDru aps;a&mif;? tpfudkarmifwD;u a&xrf;&w,f . . . &orQaiGudk olu
tukefodrf;NyD; t&ufaomufypfwmyJ . . . zJvnf; dkufao;w,f . . . nDrwdkY om;trdwpfawGudkvnf;
ESdyfpufao;w,f . . . }}
aNym&if; idkoHygvmNyD; rsuf&nf0Jvm\/ bdkau pdwfraumif;Nzpfae[efNrifoNzifh ycHk;csif;xdatmif
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BudK;pm; . . . }}
qufraNymyJ idkaevdkufonf/ rsuf&nfusvmatmif tawmfBudK;pm;,l&\/
]]BudK;pm;awmh . . . BudK;pm;awmh bmNzpfoGm;ao;vJ . . . }}
bdkauu pdk;&drfwBuD; ysmysmovJ ar;vdkuf\/ cGifxJ0ifvmNyDqdkwm rl,modoGm;NyD; . . .
]]bm . . . bmrSawmh rNzpfygbl; . . . }}
bdkauu awmfygao;&JUqdkaom trlt&mNzifh oufNyif;csvdkufonf/
]]tpfudk a&mufvmvdkY oufomoGm;wm . . . tpfudkuvJ yaxG;udk owfr,f Nzwfr,faygh . . .
taruawmh aBumufvdkY raNym&Jbl; . . . aemufqHk;awmh qufaevdkYrNzpfawmhbl;qdkNyD; nDrwdkYarmifESrESpf
a,muf Nzpfvdk&mNzpf tdrfay:uqif;cJh&mu 'Da&mufvmBuwmygyJ tpfudkBuD;&,f . . . }} [k aNymNyD;
bdkauhycHk;ay: acgif;rSDcsvdkuf\/

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]]tif; . . . rl,mwdkYtNzpfu pdwfraumif;p&mygvm; . . . }}

aNym&if; bdkauu rl,mudk zufvdkufonf/ rl,mu bdkauh&ifcGifxJ wdk;0ifNyD; . . .


]]nDr tpfudkBuD;udk tm;udk;yg&apaemf . . . }}
]]tm;udk;yg . . . tm;udk;yg . . . tpfudkBuD; rl,mhudk apmihfaSmufoGm;yghr,f . . . }} [k bdkau u
rcsifhr&JtoHBuD;Nzifh aNymvdkuf\/
]]aoemBuD;awmh rdNyD . . . }} [k rl,m pdwfxJu aNymvdkufonf/
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]][m; . . . [m; . . . [m; . . . tcsOfawmh rdNyDaygh . . . [kwfvm; . . . aumif;w,f . . .


aumif;w,f . . . }}
armifwD;u auseyftm;&pGmaNym&if; zefcGufxJ t&ufiSJYxnfhvdkufonf/
]][kwfw,f . . . yaxG;ESdyfpufwJh vkyfBuHZmwfvrf;udk cif;Nyvdkufwm uwHk;udk wpfcgwnf; idkif
usoGm;wmyJ . . . NyD;awmh bmwJh . . . tpfudkBuD; rl,mhudk apmihfaSmufyghr,fwJh . . . tmvkyfoHBuD;eJY
aNymao;w,f . . . }}
]]owdawmh xm;OD;aemf . . . }}
]]bmudk owdxm;&rSmvJ . . . }}
]][efaqmifae&if;u wu,fBudKufoGm;NyD; ighudk opmazmufoGm;rSmpdk;vdkY . . . }}
]][if; . . . 'DuwHk;udkrsm; BudKufoGm;rSmpdk;&ao;w,f . . . awmom;u wDSyfawG bmawGom
0wfxm;wm . . . a&rS rSefrSefcsKd;&JUvm; rodbl; . . . olY&ifcGifxJ rsufESmtyfxm;&wm eHvdkufwm . . .
vlYudk ysKdUcsiftefcsifovdkawmif Nzpfvmw,f . . . }}
]]awmom;qdkawmh ckxd EGm;acs;eHYrpifao;bl; xifyg&JU[m . . . }} [k aNymNyD; t&ufzefcGufudk
armhcsvdkuf\/
***

oufSnfonf vufzuf&nfqdkifxJodkY 0ifvmNyD; tNyifpm;yGJrSm xdkifvdkuf\/ pm;yGJxdk;wpfa,muf


tem;a&mufvmNyD; . . .
]]bmaomufrvJ q&m . . . }}

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&,farmNcif;vufusef

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]]vufzuf&nfwpfcGuf . . . csKdcsKdav; . . . }}
pm;yGJxdk;u qdkiftwGif;bufodkY vSrf;atmfvdkufonf/
]]0rf;wD; . . . ausmufyef;awmif; *dwfqHk; . . . }}
oufSnf aigufceJ acgif;axmifBunhfNyD; . . .

]]a[haumif . . . ig ausmufyef;awmif;om;r[kwfbl;aemf . . . xef;yifpkGmuuG . . . }}


pm;yGJxdk; aBumifoGm;onf/ NyD;rS oufSnfaemufaewmyJ xifNyD; oHa,mifvdkuf . . .
]]aBomf . . . [kwfuJh . . . xef;yifpk wpfcGufwJhAsKdU . . . }}
]]'Dvdk vkyfprf;yguG . . . }} [k oufSnfu [efESifhyefESifh aNymvdkufonf/ pm;yGJxdk;u pyfNzJNzJvkyf
NyD; xGufoGm;onf/ xkdYaemuf vufzuf&nfwpfcGuf vmcsay;onf/ vufzuf&nfwpfcGufrSm xHk;pHtwdkif;
cGufao;ao;av; Nzpf\/ oufSnfu cGufudk rsufarSmifukwfBunfhvdkufNyD;rS oabmaygufoGm;[ef NyHK;
vdkufonf/ wzl;zl;rIwfNyD; wpfusKdufwnf; aomufcsvdkuf\/ NyD;awmh aygufpDwpfvHk;udk aumufudkif
onf/ atmufbufvSefBunhfNyD; . . .
]]'Dqdkifu awmfawmfnpfywfwmyJ . . . rkefYrSmvJ puLpkwfBuD; uyfvdkY . . . }} [k rausreyfa&
Gwfum puLudkcGmNyD; aygufpDpm;onf/ NyD;awmh wpfpHkwpfckarQmfovdk vnfwqefYqefY vkyfae\/ tawmf
BumoGm;aomtcg pdwfrSnf[efNzifh vSrf;atmfonf/
]]a[h . . . pm;yGJxdk; . . . vmygOD;uG . . . }}
pm;yGJxdk;uav; a&mufvmNyD; . . .
]]bmvJ q&m . . . aq;vdyf,lrvdkYvm; . . . }}
]]r[kwfbl;uG . . . ig vufzuf&nfrSmxm;wm BumvSNyD . . . ckxdr&ao;bl; . . . }}
]]Asm . . . 'DrSmav . . . q&maomufvdkufvdkY ukefawmifukefaeNyDyJ . . . }}
pm;yGJay:u yef;uefvGwfudk vufnKd;xdk;Nyonf/
]]a[ . . . 'gu Nrnf;zdkY erlemay;wm r[kwfbl;vm; . . . }}
]][m . . . q&mu aemufaeNyefNyD . . . }}
]]aemufwm r[kwfbl;uG . . . wu,faNymwm . . . BunhfygOD; . . . rif;wdkYyef;uefu vl raNymeJY .
. . aBumifawmif 0rSmr[kwfbl; . . . }}
]]'guawmh xHk;pHygyJ q&m&,f . . . olrsm;awGvJ 'DvdkyJ aomufBuwmyJ . . . }}

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&,farmNcif;vufusef

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]]olrsm;awGaomufayr,fh ig r0bl;uG . . . oGm; . . . rwfcGufeJY azsmfcJh . . . usoavmuf ay;r,f


. . . }}
pm;yGJxdk;av;rSm acgif;ukwfNyD; xGufoGm;onf/
***

ausmfat;? wufykESihf oufSnfwdkY armifwD;udk um;armif;cdkif;NyD; xGufoGm;Buonf/ rl,mu ol


wdkYum; 0if;tNyifa&mufrS bdkaubuf rsufvHk;upm;vdkufonf/ bdkauu {nfhcef;xJSd qdkzmay:rSm tdyf
aysmfae\/ apmapmu aTrd xbD&ifvsm;ESifh a&csKd;cef;xJ0ifoGm;wm awGYvdkufonf/
'Dawmh wpftdrfvHk;rSm olYudkapmihfBunhfrnfhol rSdawmh/ tenf;qHk; taetxm;udk avhvmvdkY&
rnf/ tcsdef&vQif arTaESmufBunhfrnf[k qHk;NzwfNyD; tay:xyfodkY aNcazmheif; wufvmcJhonf/ t&dyf
tNcnfBunhfvdkufNyD;aemuf bkdauhtcef;xJodkY 0ifonf/
rD;cHaowmudk aoaocsmcsmBunhfonf/ 'DavmufBuD;wJh rD;cHaowmqdkvFQif aiGawG awmfawmfrsm;
rsm;SdEdkifonf/ aomhrdSyJ zGifhzdkYawmhrvG,f/ aomhu oHk;aygufawmifSdonf/ aomhudk Sm&rnf/
pm;yGJSd&moGm;NyD; tHqGJudk toHrNrnfatmif qGJzGifhvdkufonf/ olYrsufESm HIUrJhoGm;\/ tHqGJxJrSm
BuufaBumf? bJuif paom pm;p&mawGom Sdaeonf/
rsufvHk;upm;Bunhfvdkuf&m eH&HBuGufavQmufay:rSm pDwifxm;aom bD,mbl;cGHawGudk awGYvdkuf&
\/ ol avQmufoGm;NyD; bD,mbl;cGHwpfckudk udkifrnftNyK . . .
]]a[h . . . rukdifeJY . . . }}
toHBum;oNzifh vefYoGm;onf/ vSnhfBunhfawmh bdkauhudk awGYvdkuf&onf/
]]bmvmvkyfwmvJ . . . }} [k aNym&if; tem;wdk;uyfvmonf/ rl,mu csufcsif; aNEqnf
vdkufNyD; . . .
]]tpfudkBuD; tdyf&mawG odrf;zdkYvm&if;eJY tcef;u IyfyGaewmNrifawmh Sif;ay;rvdkYyg . . . }}
]]aeyap . . . rSif;eJY . . . ighbmom Sif;r,f . . . }}
]][dkbD,mbl;cGHawGu IyfawmifIyfao;w,f . . . nDr,loGm;NyD; vTifhypfvdkufr,faemf . . . }}
]][m . . . vTifhypfvdkY rNzpfbl; . . . 'gu ta&;BuD; . . . tJ . . . }}
]]bmNzpfvdkYvJ tpfudkBuD;&JU . . . bl;cGHawG tvum;odrf;xm;w,f . . . }}
]][dk . . . [dk[m . . . tJ . . . tpfudkBuD; wpfaeY bD,mb,fESbl;aomufovJ od&atmif rSwf
xm;csifvdkYyg . . . tJ . . . tJ . . . 'geJY rl,m bmawG avQmufudkifBunhfao;vJ . . . }}

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]]bmrS rudkifBunhfygbl; . . . [kda&cJaowmBuD;udk zkefokwfwmyJ Sdw,f . . . }} [k aNymNyD;


rD;cHaowmBuD;udk vufnKd;xdk;Nyonf/ bdkauu wHk;&ef t&efaumqdkaom yHkpHNzifh w[m;[m;&,fvdkufNyD;rS
...
]][m; . . . [m; . . . 'g a&cJaowm r[kwfygbl;[m . . . rD;cHaowmBuD;yg . . . }}
]]aBomf . . . t0wftpm;awG bmawG xnfhwmaygh . . . [kwfvm; . . . }}
]]r[kwfbl; . . . [dk[m . . . tJ . . . [kwfw,f . . . tpfudkBuD;&JU t0wftpm;awGu tzdk;
wefawGcsnf;yJ r[kwfvm; . . . 'gaBumihf aomhcwfNyD; odrf;xm;wm . . . }}
]][kwfvm; . . . 'grsKd; wpfcgrS rNrifzl;bl; . . . uJ . . . nDr oGm;r,faemf . . . }}
]]aeygOD; nDr&JU . . . [J . . . [J . . . }}
qdkNyD; bdkauu rl,mhvufudk zrf;qGJNyD; zufvdkufonf/ rl,mu &ifcGifxJwdk;0if&if; . . .
]][if; . . . odyfuJw,f . . . }} [k aNymvdkuf\/ bdkauhukd,fu acR;eHY? bD,meHYawG eHapmfaeo
Nzifh ESmacgif;HIUvdkufrd\/
***

AD'D,dk*drf;pufudk wufyku 0,fvmNcif;Nzpfaomfvnf; upm;BunhfNyD; wu,fwrf;pGJoGm;olu


oufSnfNzpf\/ olonf tcsdefSdoaGU AD'D,dk*drf;om upm;aeonf/ rupm;&onfhtcsdefrSmyif vufr
av;ESpfzufu cvkwfESdyfovdk wvIyfvIyfNzpfaewwfonf/
ckvnf; olu {nfhcef;xJrSm AD'D,dk*drf;upm;aecJhonfrSm reufapmapmuwnf;u Nzpf\/ aTrdu
tem;vm&yfNyD; . . .
]]'DrSmawmh . . . udk&ifoufSnf . . . }}
oufSnfu rBum;yJ qufupm;aeonf/
]]udk&ifoufSnf . . . }}
aTrdu toHNrifhNyD; atmfonf/ oufSnfu vufumNyNyD; qufupm;ae\/
]]tm;&if 'gyJ upm;aewmyJ . . . cP&yfvdkufprf;yg . . . aNymp&mSdvdkY . . . }}
]]at;yg . . . cPav; . . . 'DwpfyGJawmh igEdkifrSm usdef;aoaeNyD . . . }}
aTrdu pdwfrSnfawmhyJ wDADcvkwfudk ydwfvdkuf\/ oufSnfrSm rcsifhr&JNzpfoGm;NyD; . . .
]]b,fvdk NzpfwmvJ[m . . . bmta&;BuD;vkdYvJ . . . }}

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]]aNymp&mSdvdkY . . . 'geJY udk&ifwufykuaum . . . }}

]]rodbl;av[m . . . apmapmuawmh qmw,fqdkNyD; xrif;pm;cef;xJ 0ifoGm;wmyJ . . . }}


]]'gqdk vm . . . vdkufcJh . . . }}
aTrdu oufSnfudk xrif;pm;cef;xJ qGJac:oGm;onf/ txJa&mufaomtcg wufykonf Buuf
aygifwpfacsmif;udk udkufae&mrS aTrdudk Nrifaomtcg vufudkaemufypfNyD; 0SufvdkufwmawGY&\/
]]udk&ifwufyk . . . [if;awG cdk;pm;aewmvm; . . . }}
aTrdu ar;onf/
]]wpfwHk;wnf;yg[m . . . }}
]]naepmtwGuf [if;enf;aeOD;r,f . . . }}
]]eifuvJ[m . . . igwdkYrSm ydkufqHawG trsm;BuD;SdwmyJ . . . [if;rsm;rsm;csufprf;yg . . . }}
]]b,f&rvJ . . . pnf;eJY urf;eJYyJ . . . tbGm;u 'Dtwdkif;rSmoGm;wm . . . }}
oufSnfu . . .
]]uJ . . . aNymp&mSdw,fqdk . . . aNymav . . . }}
]]wNcm;r[kwfbl; . . . udkBuD;bdkauu rl,mqdkwJhaumifrudk odyfta&;ay;wmyJ . . . wpfcgw
av yef;NcHxJrSm ESpfa,mufwnf; pum;aNymaNymaewwfw,f . . . 'DaumifreJY udkBuD;bdkaueJY BunhfyHkIyHk
uvJ wpfrsKd;yJ . . . usrsm; usaeBuovm; rodbl; . . . }}
aTrdu aNymonf/ oufSnfu . . .
]]olY[mol usvJ bmNzpfovJ[ . . . }}
]]usKyfuawmh 'Daumifrudk odyfoabmrusbl; . . . udkBuD;bdkauudk NrLqG,fNyD; pm;aew,fvdkY
xifwmyJ . . . }}
]]eifuvJ[m . . . tvkyfrSd tvkyfSmvdkY . . . bmrsm;ta&;BuD;wm aNymrvJvdkY . . . tvum; . .
. upm;&wmawmif t&omysufw,f . . . oGm;r,f . . . }}
qdkNyD; oufSnfu xGufoGm;\/ wufykuvnf; . . .
]][kwfw,f . . . igvJ pm;&wm t&omysufw,f . . . oGm;r,f . . . }}
BuufaygifudkudkufNyD; xGufoGm;Nyef\/ aTrdrSm rausreyfESifh usefcJhonf/
oufSnfwdkY? wufykwdkYudk aNymvdkYr&awmh ausmfat;udk aNymBunhfonf/ oluawmh . . .

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&,farmNcif;vufusef

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]][kwfw,f aTrd . . . tpfudkvJ odyfoabmrusbl; . . . tpuwnf;u vlpdrf;awG


ac:xm;csifwm r[kwfbl; . . . udkbdkauudk aNymr&vdkY Bunhfae&wm . . . owdawmh xm;rS Nzpfr,f . . .
aTrdvJ enf;enf;apmihfBunhfaeaygh . . . }} [k aNymonf/
***

rl,mu tdrfaSUcef;rSm vSnf;usif;aewkef; ausmfat;a&mufvmonf/ {nfhcef;xJ rsufvHk;a0hBunhf


NyD;rS . . .
]]udkbdkaua&m . . . }} [k ar;onf/
]]olYtcef;xJrSm xifw,f . . . }}
ausmfat; tay:xyfodkY cyfokwfokwfwufoGm;onf/ ausmfat;yHkpHrSm wpfpHkwpfck ta&;BuD;wm
aNymp&mSdyHk&onf/ vufxJrSmvnf; pmtkyfwpftkyfudkifoGm;onf/ taBumif;xl;awmh SdaeNyD[k wGufvdkuf
onf/ xdkYaBumihf tay:xyfodkY aNcazmheif;NyD; vdkufwufoGm;onf/
bdkauonf ckwifay:vSJ&if; yef;oD;pm;ae\/ ausmfat;u okwfoD;okwfysm0ifvmNyD; . . .
]]udkbdkau . . . uRefawmf odNyDAs . . . odNyD . . . }}
]]bm . . . bmodwmvJ . . . }}
]]aNryHkxJu pum;0Sufudk xyfazmfEdkifNyDvdkY aNymwm . . . }}
bdkau vSJae&mrS aigufceJxxdkifNyD; . . .
]]aNymprf;ygOD; . . . aNymprf;ygOD; . . . bmwJhvJ . . . }}
ausmfat;u ukvm;xdkifudkqGJ,l xdkifvdkufNyD; . . .
]]raeYnu uRefawmf acsmif;qdk;csifovdk &ifusyfcsifovdk NzpfwmeJY bmaq;aomuf& aumif;rvJ
pOf;pm;&if; aq;enf;awGrSwfxm;wJh pmtkyfowd&vdkY SmBunhfawmh a[m'DrSm uRefawmfzwfNyr,f . . . }}
ausmfat;u pmtkyfudkzGifhvdkufNyD; rSwfxm;onfhae&mSm . . .
]]BuZkeJY csif;? EG,fcsKdoGif;? ydwfcsif;Z0ufom? yef;em&ifusyf owdcsyf? rNywfoHk;aqmifyg . . . wJh .
. . }}
]][m . . . 'geJY bmqdkifvdkYvJ . . . cifAsm;[mu aq;enf;BuD;yJ . . . }}
]]qdkifwmaygh udkbdkau& . . . uRefawmf Sif;Nyr,f . . . pum;0SufxJrSmygwJh rdk;ay:uusonfha&
acsmif;qdk;aysmufonf qdkwmudk ESpfydkif;cGJBunhf&r,f . . rdk;ay:uuswJha&qdkwm bmvJ . . . a&wHcGefudk
aNymwm r[kwfbl;vm; . . . a&wHcGefqdkwm [dk; tay:u usaewmr[kwfvm; . . . }}

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]]'gawmh NzpfEdkifw,fAs . . . qufaNymygOD; . . . }}

]]aemufpum;0Sufwpfcku acsmif;qdk;aysmufonfqdkwm r[kwfvm; . . . cke uRefawmfzwfNywmu


acsmif;qdk;aysmufwJh aq;enf;yJav . . . tJ'Daq;trnfawGxJrSm bmygovJ . . . ydwfcsif; rygbl;vm; . .
. apmapmuaNymwJh a&wHcGefeJY ydwfcsif;eJYaygif;NyD; pOf;pm;Bunhfawmh ydwfcsif;aNrmifa&wHcGefudk qdkvdkwmyJ .
. . Sif;roGm;bl;vm; . . . }}
bdkauhvufxJrSm udkifxm;aom yef;oD;vGwfusoGm;NyD; . . .
]][m . . . [kwfw,fAsm . . . Bunhfprf; . . . awmfawmfeufeJwJh pum;0SufyJAs . . . aemf . . .
cifAsm;rdkYvdkY azmfEdkifwm . . . cifAsm;aus;Zl;udkawmh rarhbl; . . . &wemawG&&if cifAsm;udk xdkufxdkuf
wefwef ay;r,f . . . }}
]]&wemawGu ta&;rBuD;ygbl;Asm . . . }} [k ausmfat;u olYt"dyg,fESifhol aNym\/ bdkauu . .
]]tdk . . . bmyJNzpfNzpfAsm . . . cifAsm;vdkcsifwmaNym . . . & &aphr,f . . . }}
ausmfat;u auseyfNyHK; NyHK;ae\/ bdkauu qufaNymonf/
]]'gqdk aBumifatmfoHBum;&mt&yfwdkY? bmwdkYqdkwJh aemufxyf pum;0SufawGuaum . . . }}
]]'gu [kda&mufvkdY a'otaNctaeBunhfNyD; t"dyg,faumuf,l&if &rSmyg . . . odyfrcufEdkifawmh
ygbl; . . . }}
]]tif; . . . [kwfw,f . . . [dkudka&muf&if aemufydkif;pum;0SufawGudk vG,fvG,fululazmfEdkifwJh
vrf;pawmhawGYrSmyJ . . . aNymae Bumw,fAsm . . . eufNzefreufyJ NyifOD;vGifudk oGm;Bur,f . . .
ydwfcsif;aNrmifa&wHcGefudka&muf&if qufSmr,fAs . . . }}
]]aumif;w,f . . . 'geJY aNryHkudkvJ aoaocsmcsm odrf;OD;aemf . . . }}
]]rylygeJYAsm . . . 'D rD;cHaowmBuD;u vHkNcHKpdwfcs&ygw,fAsm . . . aomhoHk;acsmif;eJY zGifhrS &wmyg .
. . }}
ausmfat;u acgif;ndwfNyonf/ xdkYtwl tNyifrS acsmif;em;axmifaeaom rl,muvnf; acgif;
wndwfndwfvkyfaeonf/ NyD;rS aNcazmheif;NyD; atmufxyfNyefqif;oGm;av\/
***

]]aBomf . . . 'Dvdkudk; . . . olwdkYu &wemaNryHk &xm;wmudk; . . . pm;&uHBuHKawmh rkwfqdwf


ysm;pGJw,fqdkwm 'grsKd;aygh . . . }}
armifwD;u rkwfqdwfarT;twkudkyGwf&if; aNymvdkufonf/

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&,farmNcif;vufusef

rif;vl
]]udkarmifwD;a& . . . AsKdU udkarmifwD; . . . }}

tNyifu bdkau\ ac:oHBum;oNzifh . . . ][m . . . ta&;xJrSm . . . } qdkNyD; armifwD;u . . .


]vmNyD q&ma& . . .} [k NyeftoHay; xxGufrnfNyKpOf rl,mu . . . ][dk[mawG NyefwyfoGm; OD;av . . .}
[k owday;onf/ bdkau xyfac:Nyefonf/ armifwD; a,mifa,mifuef;uef;ESifh vkyfaeoNzifh
EIwfcrf;arT;ESifh rkwfqdwfarT; ae&mrSm;aeao;onf/ NyD;rS tNrefwyfNyD; aNy;xGufoGm;onf/
cPtBumwGif armifwD; acgif;ukwfNyD; pdwfysufvufysufyHkpHNzifh Nyefa&mufvmonf/
]]NyemyJ[m . . . }}
]]bmNzpfvdkYvJ . . . }}
]]olwdkYu 'Dnae [if;rcsufawmhbl;wJh . . . pm;aomufqdkifrSm oGm;pm;r,fwJh . . . 'Dawmh [if;xJ
tdyfaq;cwfvdkY b,f&awmhrvJ[ . . . }}
]]Sifu um;eJY vdkufydkY&rSmayhg . . . }}
]]at; . . . [kwfw,f . . . }}
]]'gqdk ydkawmifaumif;ao; . . . olwdkY tNyifoGm;aewkef; uRefru &wJhenf;eJY tcef;xJ0ifNyD;
aNryHkudk cdk;vdkY&wmaygh . . . b,fhES,fhvJ . . . }}
]]rNzpfbl;[ . . . ausmfat;qdkwJhaumifu enf;enf;vl&nfvnfw,f . . . eifhudkyg pm;aomuf
qdkifac:oGm;zdkY aNymaew,f . . . bdkauuvJ eifhudk ac:csifaewm r[kwfvm; . . . }}
]]cufwmyJ . . . }}
qdkNyD; rl,mu tBuHxkwf pOf;pm;ae\/ NyD;awmhrS . . .
]]tif; . . . [kwfNyD . . . 'Dvdkvkyf . . . uwHk;udk aNymp&mSdvkdY n 12 em&Davmuf yef;NcHxJ
qif;cJhygvdkY vltvpfrSm aNymvdkufr,f . . . tJ'Dtcgusawmh olYukd tdyfaq;cyfxm;wJh bD,mwdkufr,f .
. . tJ'Dtcsdefqdk wNcm;vlawGvJ tdyfukefNyD . . . uRefrwdkY yef;NcHxJrSmSdaewkef; Sifu uwHk;&JUtcef;xJ
0ifNyD; aNryHkudk &atmifcdk;ayawmh . . . raumif;bl;vm; . . . }}
]]at; . . . aumif;w,f . . . }}
]]uJ . . . atmifNrifygap . . . }}
wpfa,mufESifhwpfa,muf vuf0g;csif; dkufvdkufBuonf/
***
bdkauonf n q,fhESpfem&Dxdk;aomtcg aemufaz;bufwHcg;rS xGufNyD; yef;NcHxJodkY vmcJhonf/
yef;NcHxJu cHkwef;vsm;rSm rl,mu apmihfaeonf/ bD,mESpfAl;uvnf; tqifoifh/ bdkauu rl,mhab;rSm
0ifxdkifvdkufonf/ tdrfab;rSmxGef;xm;aom rD;a&mifu olwdkYqDudk uGufwduGufBum; wdk;0ifaeonf/

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rif;vl
]]vmrS vmyhgrvm;vdkY tpfudkBuD;&,f . . . }}
rl,mu vdIufarmaomtoHNzifh aNymvdkuf\/
]]rl,mucsdef;&if rvmyJ b,faeyghrvJuG,f . . . }}
bdkauu NyefaNym&if; rl,mhvufudk udkifvdkuf\/

]]tpfudkBuD; BudKufwwfrSef;odvdkY bD,mawGawmif ,lvmw,f . . . aomufvdkufygOD; . . . }}


rl,mu bD,mAl;wpfAl;udk azmufay;vdkuf\/ trSefrSm e*dkuwnf;u azmufNyD;om;Nzpf\/ vuf
udkifuGif;udk wnf;wnf;av;csefxm;NyD; ckrS azmuf[efvkyfvdkufNcif; Nzpf\/
]]'gaBumifh rl,mhudk cspfae&wm . . . odyftvdkufodwmyJ . . . }}
rl,mu bD,mAl;udk bdkauhyg;pyfem;awhay;&m bdkauu enf;enf;armhaomufNyD; . . .
]]uJ . . . aNymp&mSdw,fqdk . . . aNymav . . . }}
]]aNymyghr,f . . . 'gav;ukefatmif aomufvdkufygOD; . . . }}
]]aomufrSmaygh . . . Nznf;Nznf;aygh . . . }}
rl,mu pdwfrSnfEdkifyJ Nzpfae\/ xdkYaBumifh . . .
]][if; . . . 'Duawmh olaomufapcsifvkdY rSdrJhSdrJhaiGav;udk roHk;&ufyJ 0,fxm;&wm . . . ol
uawmh a&cJpdrfr[kwfvdkY raomufcsifbl;aygh . . . 'gqdkvJ ay; . . . oGefypfvdkufr,f . . . }}
qdkNyD; pdwfaumuf[efaqmifvdkufonf/
]]tdk . . . 'Dvdkr[kwfygbl; . . . aomufyghr,f . . . aomufyghr,f . . .}}
bdkauu bD,mAl;udk,lNyD; armhaomufvdkufonf/
]]ukefatmifaomufrS auseyfrSmaemf . . .}}
rl,mu xyfNyD; wdkufwGef;NyefoNzifh tukefaomufvdkuf&onf/
]]tm; . . . apwemaBumifhvm; rodbl; . . . 'Dwpfcg bD,mu ydkaumif;ovdkyJ . . .}}
bdkauuaNymNyD; rl,mudk zufvdkufonf/ rl,mu bdkaurNrifatmif NyHK;onf/
***
armifwD;onf *dkaxmifxJrSxGufvmNyD; wdkufab;rS tomuyfavQmufvmcJh\/ yef;NcHbuf acsmif;
Bunhfaomtcg rl,mu bdkauudk bD,mtwif;wdkufaewm Nrif&onf/ 'Dtwdkif;qdk rl,mu aumif;
aumif;xdef;xm;EdkifNyD/ xdkYaBumihf wHcg;yGifhaeaom aemufaz;bufodkY vmchJ\/

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rif;vl

tdrfxJ0ifNyD;aemuf avSum;Sd&modkY xGuftvmrS olvefYoGm;onf/ {nfhcef;xJrSmxdkifNyD; AD'D,dk*drf;


upm;aeaom oufSnfudk awGYvdkuf&aomaBumihfyif Nzpf\/ Bunhf&wmawmh AD'D,dk*drf;xJrSm awmfawmf
pdwf0ifpm;aeyHk &onf/ olxdkifaeyHku avSum;ESifh ab;wapmif;Nzpfaeonf/ avSum;ay:twufrSm Nrif
aumif;NrifoGm;Edkifonf/ olYtmHk b,favmufpGJaeovJ od&atmif toifhygvmaom0uftlvSnfhukd Burf;
ay: a'gufceJ ypfcsNyD; tomykaevdkufonf/ oufSnfu owdawmif rxm;rd/
xdktcgusrS avSum;aemuf tomuyfonf/ avSum;ay: aNcazmheif;NyD; wufvdkufonf/ ESpfxpf
avmufwufrdcsdefrSmyif . . .
]][m; . . . [m; . . . }}
qkdaom oufSnf\&,foHudk Bum;vdkuf&oNzifh wkHYceJNzpfoGm;NyD; BuufaoaooGm;\/ wu,f
awmh oufSnfu olYudk NrifvdkYr[kwf/ AD'D,dk*drf;yGJpOfwpfckrSm EdkifvdkufoNzifh 0rf;omtm;& xatmfNcif;
Nzpf\/ armifwD;rSm toufawmif rSL&J/ odkY&mwGif oufSnfu NyefxdkifNyD; aemufwpfyGJqufupm;zdkY Nyif
ae\/ 'Daumif wpfcgwpfcgupm;vQif ESpfem&D oHk;em&D Bumwwfonf/ tvkyfvkyfzdkY tcsdefaumif;aumif;
&onf/ xdkYaBumihf tay:xyfodkY aNcoHrBum;atmif wufvmcJh\/
owdxm;umrS cvkwfwdkufNzpfatmif wdkufvdkufao;onf/ avSum;ay: b,folypfcsxm;rSef;
rodaom tcsKd&nfAl;wpfAl;udk wdkufrdNcif;Nzpf\/ tcsKd&nfAl;u *vHk*vGrfNrnfNyD; avSum;rS vdrfhqif;oGm;
onf/
'Dwpfcgawmh rdNyD[k xifvdkuf\/ odkY&mwGif oufSnfu vSnhfrBunhfyJ . . .
]]a[h . . . udkBuD;bdkau . . . rtdyfao;bl;vm; . . . bD,mawG eif;uefaomufNyD; trl;vGefae vdkY
eufNzef NyifOD;vGifroGm;EdkifyJ aeOD;r,f . . . }} [k aNymNyD; upm;NrJ qufupm;ae\/ armifwD;rSm
usOf;xJusyfxJrSmyif toHrxGufatmif usdwf&,fvdkufrd\/
***

bdkauonf enf;enf;awmh tmav;vQmav; NzpfvmNyD/ tdyfaq;tSdefu bD,mtSdefeJYa&mNyD;


wufvmNyD/ odkY&mwGif vHk;0owdvpfwmrsKd;awmh rNzpfao;/ pdwfcsvufcsxm;cJhvdkY r&ao;/ ]'DaoemBuD;
uvnf; awmfawmfcHEdkif&nftm; aumif;w,f . . . wNcm;vlqdk ckavmufSd a'gif;aeNyD . . .} [k rl,m
pdwfxJu nnf;nLrd\/
wwfEdkiforQ ywfcRJeyfcRJxyfvkyf&OD;rnf/ bdkauh&ifcGifxJodkY ydkwdk;uyfvdkufonf/ acR;apmfeHvSo
Nzifh toufatmifhxm;&ao;onf/
]]nDrav . . . tpfudku ypfaNy;oGm;rSmudk odyfpdk;&drfwmyJ . . . }}
]]aNy;ygbl; . . . }}
pum;NyefEdkifao;oNzifh taNctaer[efao;aBumif; odonf/

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]]nDrudk b,fawmhrS rrkef;&bl;aemf . . . }}
]]rkef;ygbl; . . . }}

pum;awmh AvHk;AaxG;NzpfvmNyD/ enf;enf;xyfwifay;vdkufzdkYyJ vdkonf/ rl,mu bD,maemuf


wpfAl;udk,l . . .
]]rrkef;bl;qdk&if opma&aomufNyav . . . a&mh . . . }}
bdkau\yg;pyfem; awhay;onf/ bdkauu bD,mAl;udk ,lvdkufNyD; olYbmom armhaomufonf/
aomuf&if;u yg;pyfaygufESifhwnfhatmif rudkifEdkifawmhyJ bD,mawG zdwfpOfusukefonf/ vufwpfzufu
vnf; rl,mudk zufxm;ao;onf/ bD,mawGu rl,mhacgif;ay: zdwfusoNzifh rl,mu . . . ]umvem BuD;
. . . } [k toHwdwf usdefqJvdkuf\/
cPtBumwGif bD,mAl;vGwfusNyD; aNrBuD;ay:vdrfhxGufoGm;onf/ rl,mudkzufxm;aom vufu
vnf; aNyavsmhvmonf/ rl,mu zufxm;aomvufudk z,fNyD; armhBunhfaomtcg ZufusKd;usaewm
awGY&onf/ xdkYaBumihf ab;uopfyifuav;rSm rSDxm;vdkufonf/ NyD;awmh . . .
]]tpfudkBuD; . . . tpfudkBuD; . . . }} [k vIyfEdI;Bunhfonf/ rxl;Edkifawmh/ acgif;udk udkifrBunhf
onf/ idkufpdkufNyefusoGm;\/ aocsmatmif yg;udk wzsyfzsyfdkufBunhfonf/ vIyfawmif rvIyf/ aemufqHk;
uwHk;udk a'gufceJacgufBunhfvdkufNyD; aocsmrS NyefxGufvmchJ\/
***

bdkau\tdyfcef;xJwGif ntdyfrD; rSdefysysxGef;xm;onf/ tvif;a&mifrSm NrifomxifomSdHkNzpf


armifwD; tvkyfvkyfvdkYaumif;atmif wrifxGef;xm;ay;ovm; xif&onf/
rD;cHaowmudk wpfcsufBunhfvdkufonf/ uHaumif;vQif aTawGaiGawGyg &EdkifaBumif; oabm
aygufvdkuf\/ rl,maNymxm;onfhtwdkif; BuGufavQmufay:rSm pDwifxm;aom bD,mAl;cGHawGudk,lNyD; vIyf
Bunhfonf/ wpfAl;NyD;wpfAl; vIyfBunhf&m Al;awGom ukefoGm;onf/ aomhawGudk rawGY&/
ae&maNymif;vdkufNyD xifw,f[k awG;NyD; pdk;&drfoGm;rd\/ pm;yGJtHqGJudk zGifhSmonf? rawGY/ tdyf&m
ay:rSm arTaESmufBunhfonf? rSd/ tcsdefu enf;enf;vifhoGm;NyD/ udk,fhbmom BudK;pm;zGifhrnf[k pdwful; NyD;
ud&d,mwefqmyvmawG xnhfxm;aom tdwfi,fuav;udk xkwfonf/
rD;cHaowmem; avQmufoGm;NyD; aomhaygufawGudk ppfaq;BunhfvdkufpOf ol rsufarSmifwpfcsuf
ukyfoGm;\/ aoaocsmcsmBunhfvdkufawmh rD;cHaowmwHcg;rSm vufESpfvHk;avmuf [aewm awGYvdkuf&
onf/ ol NyHK;vdkuf\/ bdkauonf rD;cHaowmudk NyefydwfzdkY arhoGm;wmygvm;/ uHaumif;csifawmh 'DvdkyJ?
bmrSawmif tyifyef;cHaep&m rvdkawmh[k awG;&if; rD;cHaowmwHcg;udk qGJzGifhvdkuf\/ xdkYaemuf txJudk
acsmif;Bunhfvdkuf&m olYwpfudk,fvHk; zsOf;ceJNzpfoGm;\/ txJrS rsufvHk;pdrf;pdrf;BuD;wpfpHku olYudk pl;pdkuf
BunhfaeaomaBumihf Nzpf\/

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rif;vl
]]tr,fav;As . . . o&J . . . }}

ol vefYatmfNyD; aemufudk ckefqkwfvdkuf\/ txJu rsufvHk;ydkifSifuvnf; tNyifudk ckefxGufvm


NyD; . . .
]]b,frSmvJ o&J . . . }}
xdkolrSm wufykyif Nzpf\/ wufykESifh armifwD;wdkYonf wpfa,mufudkwpfa,muf vufnKd;xdk;NyD; .
. . ]o&J . . . o&J . . . } [k tNyeftvSef atmfaeBuonf/ NyD;rS wufyku armifwD;udk rSwfrdoGm;NyD; . . .
]]rif; . . . rif; bmvmvkyfwmvJ . . . }}
armifwD;rSm taNctae r[efawmhrSef; odoGm;\/ xkdYaBumihf bD,mAl;cGHwpfvHk;udk qwfceJvSrf;,l
NyD; wufykudk ypfaygufvdkufonf/ wufyk vefYNyD;iHkYtaSmifvkdufrSm aNy;0ifNyD; zufvHk;vdkuf\/ wufykrSm
awmom;yifNzpfaomfvnf; NrdKUwufNyD; ZdrfcHaewm BumNyDNzpf odyftarmrcHEdkifawmh/ olYrSm vHk;&if;axG;
&if; atmufrSmcsnf; ususaeonf/ armifwD;u tay:ucGNyD; qifhqifhxkd;aeoNzifh renf;umuG,fae&\/
xdkpOfrSm aTrd tcef;xJ0ifvmonf/ o&J o&J[k atmfoHBum;pOfu bdkau rl;NyD;avQmufatmfae
wm[k xifrdao;onf/ toHu ESpfoHNzpfaeoNzifh rouFmyJ aNy;0ifvmNcif;Nzpf\/ olYvufxJrSm wpf
awmifavmufSnfonfh oeyfcg;wHk; ygvmonf/
armifwD;u wufykudk cGxdk;aewmNrifaomtcg aNy;oGm;NyD; armifwD;\acgif;udk oeyfcg;wHk;Nzifh
dkufcsvdkufonf/ ]]cGyf . . . }} ceJ NrnfoGm;NyD; armifwD; idkufpdkufusoGm;\/
xdktcgusrS wufyku vl;vGefYkef;z,fNyD; xvmonf/ NyD;awmh vJusaeaom armifwD;udk Bunfh .
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]][if; . . . rif; ckawmh bmwwfEdkifao;vJ . . . }}
qdkNyD; aNcaxmufESifh wpfcsufydwfuefvdkufonf/ armifwD;u wkwfwkwfrSrvIyfawmh/ aTrdu
armifwD;udkBunhfNyD; . . .
]]'Dvl aNryHk0ifcdk;wmyJ Nzpf&r,f . . . [if; . . . olwdkYudk rouFmNzpfaewm BumNyD . . . }}
]][kwfvm; . . . }} qdkaom toHudk Bum;vdkuf&oNzifh vSnhfBunhfonf/ wHcg;0rSm rl,m&yfae
onf/
]]w,fvJ vufoHaNymifygvm; . . . 'gayr,fh a[m'gav;udkawmh ,SOfvdkY r&Edkifygbl; . . . }}
qdkNyD; vufxJu ypwdkaoewfav;udk ,rf;Nyonf/
aTrdu aSUwpfvSrf;wdk;rnfNyKpOf . . .
]]rvIyfeJYaemf . . . 'DaoewfusnfqHu rdef;uav;qkdNyD; nmrSm r[kwfbl; . . . uJ . . . ab;udk
uyfvdkufprf; . . . eH&Hbufudk uyf . . . }}

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wufykESifh aTrdwdkY eH&Hbufuyfvdkuf&onf/ rl,mu owdBuD;pGmxm; aSUwdk;vmNyD; rD;cHaowm


em;rSm &yfonf/
xdkpOfwGif ausmfat; tcef;xJ0ifvmonf/ rl,mu aoewfESifh xdk;csdefvdkuf\/ ausmfat;u
taNctaeudk &dyfrdoNzifh aTrd\aSUrSm 0if&yfvdkufNyD; . . .
]]ypfcsif&if usKyfudkt&ifypfvdkuf . . . }}
]]aBomf . . . odyfcspfaeBuw,faygh . . . [kwfvm; . . . tckawmh rypfao;ygbl; . . . vdkcsif
wmav; ,lyg&apOD; . . . vIyfr,fawmh rBuHeJYaemf . . . }}
rl,mu ausmfat;wdkYudk aoewfESifhcsdefxm;&if; rD;cHaowmem; uyfonf/ NyD;awmh rsufNcnfr
NywfBunhf&if; rD;cHaowmxJodkY vufaemufNyefxnhfNyD; prf;vdkufonf/ ol rsufvHk;NyL;oGm;NyD; . . .
]]trav; . . . bmBuD;vJ . . . }} [k tvefYwBum; atmf[pfvdkufonf/ xdkpOfwGif BuufzBuD;
wpfaumifrSm *pfceJ toHNyKNyD; 0SD;ceJ ysHxGufvmonf/ rl,mu vefYNyD; rsufESmudk vufESifhumvdkufpOf
ausmfat;u tvpfray;yJ aNy;0ifvmNyD; aoewfudkifxm;aomvufudk aNcESifh cyfxkwfvdkuf\/ aoewf
vGifhxGufoGm;onf/ rl,m wpfpHkwpfck wHkYNyefrnfNyKpOfrSmyif ausmfat;u rsufESmudk vufNyefdkufxnhf
vdkufonf/ rl,m pdkufqif;oGm;onf/ xdktcgusrS wufyku aNy;NyD; rl,mudk zrf;csKyfxm;vdkufonf/
ausmfat;u aBumifBunhfaeaom aTrdqD avQmufoGm;NyD; . . .
]]aTrd . . . aTrd . . . bmrS rNzpfbl;aemf . . . uHBuD;ay;vdkYomaygh aTrd&,f . . . }} [k aNym &if;
aTrd\vufudk qkyfudkifvdkufonf/ aTrdu . . .
]]udkausmfat;udk usKyf . . . usKyf aus;Zl;wifygw,f . . . }} [k aNymNyD; NyHK;Bunhfvdkufonf/
'Dtcef;xJrSm NzpfysufcJhorQawGudk vHk;0rodolESpfa,mufawmh Sd\/
wpfa,mufu oufSnfNzpf\/ olonf AD'D,dk*drf; aemufqHk;yGJpOfrSm qufwdkufHI;aeoNzifh tm;r
vdktm;r& rausreyfNzpfNyD; oJBuD;rJBuD; upm;ae&m bmudkrS owdrxm;Edkifatmif NzpfaeNcif;aBumifhyif/
aemufwpfa,mufu bdkau/ oluawmh aq;cyfxm;aom bD,mawG aomufNyD; ckxd owdNyefr
&ao;/ yef;NcHxJuxdkifcHkrSm ab;uopfyifBuD;udkzuf rSD&if; NyHK;NyHK;BuD;tdyfaysmfaeavonf/
***

]]'DvdkAs . . . usKyfu usKyf&JU wdkufBuufrsKd;aumif;av;udk aysmufoGm;rSmpdk;vdkY rD;cHaowmxJrSm


oGm;odrf;xm;r,fqdkNyD; oGm;wm . . . aemufawmh aNcoHBum;vdkY bdkauNyef0ifvmNyD rSwfaewm . . .
awmfBum rD;cHaowmxJ Buufudk odrf;&rvm;qdkNyD; ylnHylnHvkyfrSmpdk;vdkY rD;cHaowmBuD;xJ 0ifykef;aevdkuf
wm . . . vufpowfawmh [dkaumifNzpfaewmudk; . . . }}
wufyku nwkef;utNzpfudk NyefSif;Nyaeonf/ ausmfat;u . . .

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]]uRefawmfvJ olwdkYukd rouFmNzpfaewm BumNyD . . . ta&;BuD;wJhpum;aNymae&if rl,mu reD;


ra0;rSm ra,mifrvnf vkyfvkyfaewm owdNyKrdcJhw,f . . . 'gaBumihf nnus&if owdxm;tdyfzdkY aTrd udk
rSmxm;cJhwm . . . }}
]]usKyfuawmh 'Daumifrudk pa&mufuwnf;u BunhfvdkYudk r&wm . . . tckvnf; Bunhfav . . .
udkBuD;bkdauudk tydkifuyfNyD; BuHpnfoGm;wm . . . [if; . . . nwkef;u &Jpcef;udk ac:oGm;cgeD;rSm awmif
&ufpufawmhrSmvm; tpfudkBuD;&,fqdkNyD; ywfcJReyfcRJ vkyfoGm;ao;w,f . . . }}
aTrduvnf; rausreyf 0ifaNym\/ bdkaurSm ckcsdefxd w0g;0g; orf;aeao;onf/ oufSnf
onfvnf; wpfnvHk; AD'D,dk*drf; upm;xm;oNzifh rsufvHk;awG eD&Jaeonf/
]]uJ . . . tJ'gu ta&;rBuD;bl; . . . NyifOD;vGifudk wufzdkYudp pDpOfBuOD;rSyJ . . . }}
ausmfat;u aNymonf/ bdkauu . . .
]]'DaeYyJ oGm;Bur,fAsm . . . apmavaumif;av r[kwfvm; . . . }}
wufykonf ar;aphudkyGwfae&if;rS . . .
]]tif; . . . &wemawG &zdkYuawmh vufwpfurf;yJ vdkawmhw,f . . . usKyfwdkY csrf;omvm&if
bmvkyfBurvJqdkwm BudKNyD;pOf;pm;xm;zdkY vdkvdrfhr,f . . . }}
]]bmpOf;pm;p&m vdkovJuGm . . . &wemawG&vdkY csrf;omvm&if 'DwdkufBuD;udk tydkif0,fvdkufHk
aygh . . . NyD;awmh um;wpfa,mufwpfpD; 0,fpD;r,f . . . rdef;r,lr,f . . . }}
oufSnfu aNym&m bdkauu . . .
]]rif;vdkaumifudk b,frdef;ru BudKufrSmvJuG . . . }}
]][m; . . . [m; . . . ydkufqHuG . . . ydkufqH . . . ydkufqHSd&if bmrqdk vkyfvdkY&w,f . . .
rif;udkawmif [kd rl,mqdkwJhaumifru ydkufqHvdkcsifvdkY 0ifuyfwm r[kwfbl;vm; . . . }}
]]olYtaBumif; aNymraeprf;ygeJYuGm . . . tvum;aumifr . . . }}
ausmfat;uawmh aTrduaum olYudk BudKufEdkifyghrvm;[k awG;rdNyD; aTrdudk zswfceJBunfhonf/
aTrdu bmudkrS odyfpdwf0ifpm;[efrNy/ wufyku 0ifaNymNyefonf/
]]iguawmh BuufNcHtBuD;BuD;aqmufr,f . . . wdkufBuufawG taumifwpfaxmifavmuf arG;r,f .
. . rsKd;aumif;wJh BuufawGusawmh wpfaumifudk rD;cHaowmwpfvHk;pDxJrSm xnfhodrf;xm;r,f . . . NyD;
awmh 'DrSm odyfylw,fuG . . . tdrfavmufSdwJh a&cJaowmBuD;0,fNyD; tJ'DxJrSm 0ifaer,f . . . }}
bdkauu w[m;[m;&,fvdkufNyD; . . .
]]rif; awmfawmfnHhwJhaumifyJ . . . ydkufqHawG trsm;BuD;&rSawmh 'DrSm b,faeawmhrvJuG . . .
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trsm;BuD;,lNyD; wpfcef;udk wpfa,mufxm;r,f . . . NyD;awmh wdkufacgifrdk;ay:rSm wdkifuDtBuD;BuD; wyfNyD;

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bD,mawG tNynhfxnfhxm;r,f . . . NyD;awmhrS tcef;wdkif;udk ydkufeJY oG,fxm;r,f . . . aomuf csifNyDqdkrS


bHkbdkifacgif;av;zGifhNyD; aomufvdkufHkyJ . . . b,favmuf ZdrfusovJ . . . }}
aTrdu rJhGJUvdkufNyD; aemufaz;buf xxGufoGm;onf/ bdkauu . . .
]]a[h . . . aTrd . . . eifaum bmvkyfrvJ . . . &wemawG &&if . . . }} [k vSrf;ar;onf/
]]odygbl;awmf . . . usKyfuawmh tbGm;eJYyJ aecsifwmyJ . . . }} [k NyefaNymNyD; twGif;cef;xJ
0ifoGm;\/ bdkauu ausmfat;bufvSnhf . . .
]]cifAsm;aum bmvkyfr,f pdwful;vJ . . . }}
]]uRefawmfvJ tbGm;eJYae . . . tJ . . . r[kwfygbl; . . . uRefawmf bmrS rpOf;pm;&ao;ygbl; . .}}
ausmfat;u a,mifa,mifuef;uef;aNymonf/
oufSnfu 0ifaNymonf/
]]a[haumif . . . iguawmh &efukefrSm raeEdkifbl; . . . &efukefu rdk;vnf; wtm;Gmw,f . . .
um;awG vlawGvnf; Iyfw,f . . . vlvdrfawG vlIyfawGvnf; aygw,fvdkY Bum;zl;w,f . . . }}
]]rif; rEav;uaum bmxl;vJ . . . zkefxlw,f . . . Ncifaygw,f . . . pufbD;awG Iyfw,f . . .}}
]]bmyJ NzpfNzpfuGm . . . iguawmh &efukefrSm raeEdkifbl; . . .}}
]]iguawmh &efukefrSmyJ aerSmyJ . . .}}
]]raebl;uGm . . . rEav;yJ . . .}}
]]&efukefuG . . .}}
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]]ae . . . aeBuygOD;Asm . . . 'Dudpu aemufrS . . .}}
ausmfat;u 0ifaNymaomfvnf; r&/
]]a[haumif . . . &wemaNryHkudk pawGYwm b,folvJ . . . }}
]]atmifrm . . . igu bmBuD;vJ rodbl;? qufwl; qdkvdkY pOfhtdk;BuD;ay:vmwm r[kwfvm; . . . }}
wufykuvnf; 0ifaNymNyefonf/
]]a[haumifawG . . . bmyJNzpfNzpf 'DaNryHk [dkaumifawGvufxJ ygroGm;wm ighaBumihfuG . . . }}
oufSnfu . . .

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]]at; . . . 'gawmh [kwfw,fuG . . . bdkauuawmh [dkaumifrudk wrf;wrf;pGJNzpfaevdkY uH


aumif;vdkY 'kurrsm;wm . . . }}
]]tHrm . . . rif;ua&m AD'D,dk*drf;xJrSm wrf;wrf;pGJNzpfaevdkY [dkaumif tdrfay:wufoGm;wmawmif
rodvdkufbl; r[kwfvm; . . . }}
]]wu,fawmh igu pGefYpGefYpm;pm; 0ifNyD;wdkufcdkufvdkY [dkaumifawGudk zrf;rdwm . . . 'Dawmh &w
emawG&&if ighudkawmif trsm;qHk;ay;oihfw,f . . . }}
wufyku xyfuGefYNyef&m bdkauu . . .
]]bmuG . . . rif;udk [dkaumifu cGpD;NyD;xdk;aewm . . . aTrda&mufrvm&if rif;taoyJ r[kwf
vm; . . . 'gudkrsm; rif;u ydkvdkcsifao;vm; . . . 'DrSm a[haumifawG . . . wpfa,mufrS pum;rSnfeJY . . .
tm;vHk;xJrSm ig tBuD;qHk; . . . ig qHk;Nzwfwmudk emcH&r,f . . . 'gyJ . . . }}
]]bmvdkY emcH&rSmvJuG . . . }}
wufyku x&yfvdkufonf/ bdkauuyg x&yfonf/ NyD;awmh wpfa,mufESifh wpfa,muf ay
apmif;apmif;BunhfaeBu\/ ausmfat;u . . .
]]awmfBuygawmhAsm . . . 'DtcsdefrSm 'gawGaNymzdkY roifhawmfygbl; . . . }}
wufyku ausmfat;buf vSnfhBunhfNyD; . . .
]]r[kwfbl;As udkausmfat; . . . 'Daumifu oltBuD;qHk;qdkNyD; tNrJwrf; tEdkifusifhcsifw,f . . . }}
]][kwfw,f . . . i,fi,fuwnf;u 'Daumif AdkvfuscJhwm . . . }} [k oufSnfuyg 0ifaNym onf/
]]Adkvfusawmh bmNzpfovJ . . . rif;wdkYu bmvkyfcsifovJ . . . }}
bdkauu ar;&if; aSUwpfvSrf;wdk;onf/ wufyku . . .
]]bmvkyfcsifovJqdkawmh cscsifw,fuGm . . . }}
qdkNyD; bdkauudk ckeftkyfvdkufonf/ olwdkYESpfa,muf vHk;axG;NyD; Burf;Nyifay: usoGm;onf/ wpf
vSnfhwpfNyefpD tay:pD;&onf/ bdkautay:pD;&vQif oufSnfu 0ifwGef;vSJypfonf/ ESpfa,mufwpf
a,mufNzpfaomfvnf; bdkaurSm tawmifhwif;qHk;Nzpf rEdkifyJSdaeBu\/ ausmfat;u 0ifqGJaomfvnf; r
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]][m . . . vkyfBuygOD; . . . aTrda& . . . vmygOD; . . . }}
ausmfat;u atmfoNzifh aTrdaNy;xGufvmonf/ tpfudkoHk;a,mufudk wpfa,mufESifhwpfa,muf
vHk;axG;owfykwfaeBuwm NrifoNzifh twif;0ifqGJonf/ ausmfat;uyg 0ifulawmhrS &efyGJNyD;oGm;\/
]]bmNzpfBuwmvJ . . . b,fvdkNzpfBuwmvJ . . . }}

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aTrdu ar;onf/ bdkauwdkYrSm raNzEdkifao;yJ wpfa,mufudkwpfa,muf rdkufBunhfBunhfaeBu


wkef;/ aTrdu taNctaeudk &dyfpm;rdvdkuf\/ xdkYaBumihf . . .
]][if . . . &wemawGawmif r&ao;bl; . . . ckvdk NzpfaeBuNyDqdk&if &wemawGom wu,f&vdkY
uawmh wpfa,mufudkwpfa,muf taoowfBurSm usdef;aow,f . . . awmfNyD . . . tpfudkwdkYeJY
rvdkufawmhbl; . . . usKyf tbGm;qD Nyefr,f . . . awmNyefr,f . . . }}
ausmfat;u . . . ]][m . . . r[kwfao;ygbl;av . . . }} [k aNymvdkufaomfvnf; bdkauuawmh .
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]]aumif;w,f . . . Nyef . . . Nyef . . . tck igwdkYoGm;r,fhc&D;u Burf;wrf;w,f . . . rdef;uav;
vdkufvdkY raumif;bl; . . . 'Dawmh eif tbGm;qDNyefapmihfaewm taumif;qHk;yJ . . . }}
]][kwfw,f . . . [kwfw,f . . . }}
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]]'gqdkvJ aTrdukd Gmtxd NyefydkYrS NzpfrSmaygh . . . }}
]]ydkYp&m rvdkbl; . . . usKyfudk blwmkHom ydkYay; . . . usKyfbmom Nyefwwfw,f . . .}}
]]b,fNzpfrvJ . . . Gmxda&mufatmif uRefawmf ydkYay;r,f . . . }}
]][m . . . udkausmfat;u usKyfwdkYeJY vdkufrSNzpfrSmaygh . . . GmNyefydkYNyD; NyefvmwJhtxd apmihfae&if
tcsdefvifhukefr,f . . . }}
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aNymvdkY&rSmr[kwfrSef; odoNzifh aTrdudk blwmHk vdkufydkYvdkuf&onf/ b,fblwmrSm qif;NyD; b,f
vdkoGm;qdkwmudk ausmfat;u wwGwfwGwfrSmaeonf/ olu pdwfrcsEdkifyJ Nzpfae\/ bdkauwdkYuawmh
&xm;xGufatmifawmif rapmifhyJ NyifOD;vGifudk wufcsifvSNyD/
olwdkYrSm avmbpdwfuav;awG 0ifvmNyD; udk,fhnDrt&if;udkawmif *krpdkufEdkifavmufatmif Nzpf
aeBuNyD[k ausmfat; owdNyKrdvdkufavonf/
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ydwfcsif;aNrmifa&wHcGefrS qufxGufvmBuNyD;aemuf awmifukef;Nrifhwpfckay:rSm em;Buonf/ oGm;&


onfhc&D;rSm ukef;tqif;twufrsm;oNzifh yifyef;Bu\/ tarmaNy a&aomufaecsdefwGif ausmfat;u aNym
onf/

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zdkYvdkw,f . . . 'Dawmh tm;vHk; nDnDnGwfnGwfSdyghr,fqdkwm uwday;&vdrhfr,f . . . 'grS tvkyfquf
vkyfvdkY Nzpfr,f . . . }}
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tckvdk udprsKd;rSm wwfEdkiforQ trSm;uif;atmifvkyf&r,fqdkNyD; ausmfat;u bdkauukd bD,m vHk;0
aomufcGifhrNyKcJhaomaBumihf Nzpf\/
]]uJ . . . aemufxyf pum;0Sufudk azmfBunhf&atmif . . . ]aBumifatmfoHBum;&mt&yfodkY oGm; avmh
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]]cGD; vdkY atmfwmaygh . . . }} [k oufSnfu 0ifaNymonf/
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]]uJ . . . oGm;BupdkY . . . }}
anmifyifBuD;Sd&modkY OD;wnfxGufcGmcJhBuonf/ c&D;rSm wpfrdkifcefY a0;rnf/ opfyif csKHyifawG?
ausmufwHk;awGudk ausmfvTm;oGm;Bu&rnf/ 'DBum;xJ oufSnfESifh wufykwdkY Nyem vkyfcsifBuao;onf/
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xrf;zdkYaNymonf/ wufyku vufrcH/ udk,fus&myJ[k aNym&mrS Niif;ckefBuNcif;Nzpf\/ ausmfat;u . . .
]cifAsm;wdkYudk nDnGwfBuzdkY uwdcHcdkif;xm;w,faemf . . . } [k qdkrS NidrfoGm;Bu\/
twefBumatmif avQmufNyD;aemuf anmifyifBuD;qDodkY a&mufvmBuonf/ anmifyifBuD;rSm
wu,f txdu&yif Nzpf\/ yHkNyifawGxJrSmygaom vSnf;ig;&m t&dyfcdkEdkifonfqdkwmrsKd;/ tukdif;BuD;awG
u NzmxGufaeBu&m aNrudkyif xdvkrwwf auG;nGwfusae\/

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]]uJ . . . anmifyifBuD;udk awGYNyD . . . aemufxyf pum;0Sufwpfcku [EKrmef nTefNy&mbufodkY wJh


. . . tJ'g bmvJ . . . }}
bdkauu ar;onf/ ausmfat;u anmifyifBuD;udk armhBunhf&if; pOf;pm;aeonf/ wufyku . . .
]][dkt&ifu 'Danmifyifay:rSm arsmufawG Sdvdrfhr,f . . . tJ'DarsmufawGu vrf;nTefNyvdrfhr,f vdkY
aNymwmeJY wlw,f . . . }}
ausmfat;u . . .
]]'Dvdkawmh [kwfr,f rxif . . . tJ . . . cifAsm; ckeuaNymwm bmvJ . . . arsmufawGu vrf;nTef
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