Dear Reader,
I welcome you to the month of October. I see you being outstanding in
every facet of your life this month in Jesus name!
This month, I shall be teaching on Understanding Your Uniqueness.
It is important for you to know that every thing about God is unique; He
excels in varieties. There are no two persons who are exactly alike. An
understanding of your uniqueness will help you to be a greater blessing to
others.
This week, I want to start by sharing on the Creation Of Male And Female
Genders!
Men and women are unique in their own different make-up. One star is
different from another in glory. Gods Word says: So God created man in
his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female
created he them (Genesis 1:27). God created them male and female.
It is clearly stated in the above verse of scripture that the man and woman
are unique, even from creation. That is, you are not an afterthought of
Gods creation, and this will make you get excited, happy and joyful. Dont
feel inferior about your uniqueness. If you are a man, God has a purpose
for creating you the way you are. God equally has a purpose for making
you the person you are, so get excited!
The purpose behind Gods creation of man is to receive love. Gods Word
tells us that God is love (I John 4:8, 16). From this scripture, it means that
God doesnt just give or show love, He is love. He desires to share His love
with us because love is His essential quality. Gods Word says:
Behold, what manner of love the Father hath bestowed upon us, that we
should be called the sons of God: therefore the world knoweth us not,
because it knew him not(1 John 3:1).
When God said, Let us make man in our image, in our likeness (Genesis
1:26), He was saying, in essence, Let us make someone to love, and call
that creature man. God wanted man to be the object of His love, and that
is why He made man in His own image and likeness. Therefore, in the
creation of man, God drew man out of Himself, so that the essence of man
would be just like Him.
Among Gods creations, man is the only being that is like Him. That is to
say, man is so unique. Man is a spirit and spirit has no gender. The Bible
never talks about a male and female spirit, so God created the spirit-man
without gender. God refer to male and female as man.
God took the spirit man, and He placed him in two physical forms
and He called them male and female. Gods Word says: So God
created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him;
male and female created he them (Genesis 1:27).
Therefore, for God to fulfill His eternal purposes, He used two physical
forms, called male and female, to express the one entity of man. When
God speaks to humanity, He uses the term man. He doesnt address male
or female unless He is talking to individuals. God deals with the man inside
us because God is a spirit, and His worshipers must worship in spirit and in
truth (John 4:24). It is important for you to know that we worship God with
our spirits, not with our gender. In Gods programme, therefore, neither is
the spirit of the husband dependent on the wife or vice versa.
The Creation Of Male Gender!
God gave the spirit-man dominion over a physical earth, He gave him a
physical body to live and to function in the world and rule over it. Gods
Word says: And the Lord God formed man of the dust of the ground, and
breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living
soul (Genesis 2:7). God formed a house from the dust of the ground and
made a house called male. Then God housed the spirit-man in the male.
Then He put the male in the Garden of Eden so that the man could rule
over what He has created (Genesis 2:8, 15).
beliefs and values I hold dear. Without respect, there can be no true
understanding of your uniqueness. Without respect, there can be no love.
Men hold respect in high esteem and so, for the married, they want to be
respected by their wives. They want to be reverenced and respected to the
best of your ability, after all, they are in the position as the head. This is
stated clearly in Gods Word, And the wife see that she reverence her
husband (Ephesians 5:33).
To the wives, your husband may not be refined as you are, but to maintain
peace at home, you need to respect him. Respect allows you to accept
your spouses point of view wholeheartedly, consider and value his
perspectives or suggestions. Thus, let your partner know that your respect
and value for him supersedes the specific issue you are discussing.
Obedience!
Men admire obedience, and especially from their wives. No man gets
excited with an argumentative wife. It is important for you to know as a
woman that your arguments can cause more trouble at home than good.
You must learn to obey your husband, because he is the head of the home.
Whatever you want to discuss with your husband, wisdom demands that
you communicate and not in arguments. Arguments must be avoided by all
means in your home, in order to enjoy peace; rather than engaging in
arguments, make use of spiritual weapons at your disposal. Never allow
any issue to degenerate into arguments, which can build up anger and
graduate to physical fight.
Good Food!
There is no man who does not like good food, no matter how spiritual he is.
Remember, the way to a mans heart is his stomach, and a hungry man is
an angry man. Man needs physical food to survive. As a woman, take out
time to study what food your husband really likes, what is good for him, and
cook it the way he likes it. When he is satisfied, his soul blesses you. If
there is any particular meal you dont know how to cook as a woman, for
instance, you should go and learn it and prepare it for him. Gods Word
says: Who satisfieth thy mouth with good things (Psalms 103:5).
Cleanliness!