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Talk & Discussion Slide Show

September 11th, 2001

Equally-yoked
Relationships
Definitions
Concepts

Perspectives
Talk & Discussion

Hook Up
Cultural/Casual
1.

A specific time when two people meet to join

in together- for a mutual event, or,
2. Two individuals from diverse backgrounds
form a cheap/easy intimate relationship, or...
3. An epiphany moment-a time- when a certain
couple are shaking hands and discover that
they are equallyoked.
- Slang Dictionary/Urban Words

Morality
o ..is a valuable personal code, based on..
o a set of spiritual values, that
o ....affects attitudes, motives, and there
for..
o ..effecting an individuals trademans skills,
appropriateness of behavioral patterns,
and the upholding ethical and legal societal
standards.
- Word Meanings / Philosophy

Positive Regard
o Also, unconditional positive regard
o Means: a complete acceptance, love,
favor towards of an individual especially
those who are equallyoked, also...
o parents who devotedly and deliberately
indoctrinate their children with a clear
sense of civil identity in a multicultural
society with respect for the childs future.
- Word Meanings / Psychology

Soul-mates
A couple who experience their very first

sexual encounter together and their baby is born

out of that union are Soul-mates1 for life and,..

..a couple who bond with each other, falls

deeply in love and is the happiest they
have ever been with each other are Soulmates2 and,
..a couple who are married and truly
equallyoked are Soul-mates., i.e., of the
same or very similar civil-identities. 3
- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology

Endogamy
Endogamy means, In-marriage and is when

an individual according to his/or her own social

customs1(Comment: this maybe more like community
health-a social mores or an actual religious law).

.marries another individual within his or her

own cultural2 Social group*.
*Note; a Social group may be a village, a
tribe, a sect or cult, a geographic region, or a
de facto Civil identity, etc.

- Sociocultural Anthropology

Intimacy
Latin: Intimus, innermost
The process of ..stating or making known
ones innermost thoughts, moral values, and
feelings.
sharing something from the inside
Genuine intimacy in human relationships
requires dialogue, honesty/transparency,
vulnerability, and mutual reciprocity.
- Word Meanings / Philosophy

Unequally yoked

- Internet Search

Equallyoked
Also, equally yoked

o Equallyoked, (is pronounced, Eek quel ee yoakd) and is

when a couple-who believe in, bonds with, and marries
one other purposefully of the same (or nearly the same)
Civil identity* thus are multi-cultural society,
equallyoked1.
- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology

o * Civil identity is a Social Psychology term -describing

a collective of features concerning an individuals
present ethnicity, political party membership, race and
color, religious membership, disability/handicap, age
group/ generation, sexual orientation and marital
status.2
- Introduction to Social Psychology

Civil Identity
Simple Example:
Ethnicity: Scandinavian-American
Political Party: Registered Green Party

Race: Anglo

Color: Light complexion

Religion: Fundamental Bible Christian

Disability: None Known

Gender: Female

Sexual Orientation: Heterosexual

Marital Status: Single/No previous marriages

Couples who share: the same (or very similar) civil
identity, identify with each other, share beliefs,
bond with one another, commit to marriage - living in a
multicultural society are considered to be
equallyoked.1
- Introduction to Social Psychology

Equallyoked

(also, equally yoked)

The term 'Equallyoked' (also, equally yoked)
an adverb:

Equally - means alike 1, in a balanced manner, the

same or to the same degree of, etc.
an verb:

Yoked - means (Latin; jungere to join) 2, something

fastened around the neck to joined together, burdened with.

in history:

Evolved from synonyms, with similar meanings, such as:

Equitably, Fairly, Justly3
Sentence: They were an equally yoked couple from
families of just ordinary means.

- Word Meanings - Etymology

Life Partner
A Life Partner refers to a lifetime,

romantic and very close mate. A couple who are

truly life partners are equallyoked.1

It is true that life partners usually

develop strong platonic relationships as a
mutual serious long term goal together.2
Life partners may based their
relationship on moral/or immoral grounds
whether married/ monogamously or can be
individuals such as divorcees/celibate.3
- Introduction to Social Psychology

Sharing of
Vision & Mission in
life.1

God, Religious Beliefs

& Spiritual Values.4

Activities of Daily
Living & Routine.2

Family life &

Friendships.5

Reflection of
meaning of life &
Devotion to duty.3

Good Health &

Preferred
Enjoyments.6

- Biblical, Moral, and Doctrinal Studies

..a Social Phenomena

A couple (usually a heterosexual dyadic)
who are of very similar or the same Civil
identity 1
Any couples who are bonded together and
who are of the same or very similar Civil
identities2 - Sociology 101:Social Phenomenology
A marital couple who marries-with their
backgrounds related to their Civil
identities. 3
- Introduction to Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology

Multi-cultural Statistics

Caucasians (European)
- Marrying amongst those who were from their own
tribes, social culture, and nation.1

Negrozoids (Africa)
- Marrying amongst the same in their own areas.2

South Americans (Indians)

- Intermarrying within their own (native) peoples.3

Oriental (Asians)
- Couples mates were often chosen by their own
parents from own family lineage.4
- Sociology 101

Equallyoked
(also, equally yoked)

The term 'Equallyoked' (also, equally yoked)

probable came about from the Bible wherein

Jews marrying Jews, Muslims marrying
Muslims, Christians marrying Christians, etc,
etc, etc.1
- Word Origins/Philosophy

It is a phenomena that exists in all

multicultural societies-peoples of the same de facto

Civil identity' marrying one another for reasons of
self-esteem, religious beliefs, and preserving the
integrity of their family identity-for abiding in social
mores (contributing to) community health.2
- Sociology 101

Dyadic: Social Psychology

Equallyokedtarians are of interest to social
psychologists because they represent dyadic groups
of the same Civil identity.1
Couples who primarily choose to bond and marry
together because they are the same or very similar
Civil identities, among other reasons, may contribute
to marital longevity-staying together for a lifetime
as * evidenced.2
The measured self esteem of individuals of a marital
couple who marry with backgrounds related to their
own Civil identities are worthy of marital
satisfaction studies as well.3
- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology

Boundaries
I will not wait for

anyone.1
I will halt unequal
relationships.2
I will not idealize
others.3

I will conduct my

life by inspired
truth.4
I will assert
against any
disrespect.5
I will abide in
social ethics and
laws. 6

- Biblical, Moral, and Doctrinal Studies

Social Perspectives
Equallyokedtarians are those people-who are
equallyoked yet having varying points of
views* about marriage:1
- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology

* Liberals: a couple marrying one another while

sharing in vague beliefs, i.e., explained as the
same spirit or attitude about some issue.
* Moderates: marrying one another r/t very
similar civil identities-close enough for them.
* Conservatives: marriage between two people
who share the same or fairly equal Civil identities.

- Introduction to Social Psychology

Coupling up.
Nonequallyoked

in a hook up culture

Couples who do recognize equallyokedtarianism as a

social mores and yet for their own ulterior motives
still choose to violate social mores as an rash option.1

Unequallyoked

Couples who are nave, thus inadvertently

demonstrate opposition to equallyokedtarianism-as a
social mores.2

Anti-equallyoked

Couples who are a bit mentally/emotionally disturbed

and are deliberately active against proper
socialization, contrary to equallyokedtarianism and
social mores,3

- Introduction to Social Psychology

Why Equallyoked?

Motives - a couple who are equallyoked may

do so for a variety of reasons-some of which
include:
Beliefs about life, self-image, truth and God, death, etc.
Bonding for long term love, romance, and sex.
Marriage, family/children, and financial goals.1

Self esteem individuals with a clear sense of selfmarrying someone of a like civil identity.2
Family identity to maintain the integrity and the
longevity of the extended family identity.3
Social mores a preserved cultural standard in a
multicultural society for the sake of community health.4

- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology

Equallyokedtarians

.are couples who are equally yoked

Pronunciation: Eek quel ee yoakd tar ee ins 1.

Definition: - are any individuals who by choice, i.e.,
purposefully choose to bond with and marry another
of the same (or very nearly the same) Civil
identity*, within any culture are called,
Equallyokedtarians i.e., couples equallyoked.2
*Recall: a Civil identity - describes a collective of
features about a persons present: ethnicity, political
party membership, race and color, religious membership,
disability/ handicap, age group/ generation, proper sexual
orientation, and marital status.3

- Introduction to Social Psychology

Social Mores
The term Social Mores* refers to.
adjective
Social meaning - to associate in a social way,
i.e., folkways, socializing, socialization 1,
plural noun

Mores - concerns that of moral codes,

mental health values, standards, spiritual
ideologies 2.
*Also, customs, proper conduct/etiquette, 3
health behaviours/norms, healthy lifestyle.
Use in a Sentence: Their family abided in good
social mores
that reflected their sense of
4
integrity.
- Word Meanings - Etymology

..a Public Health Issue

As a Public Health Issue, Equallyokedtarianism as a social

mores is a phenomena observed amongst the most

conservative segments of a multi-cultural society.1
Marriage Family and Child Psychology addresses the
Self-esteem of the individuals who are (or arent) equallyoked
as an important issue in mental health/ emotional health/ and
naturally, self-preservation, as well as of the integrity of their
family identity.2
As a Civil Rights issue, justice of the peaces-as civil
servants who perform marriage ceremonies attaching a
signature may be held responsible as attesting to the
competence (or incompetence) of the individuals present while
performing marriages considering community (psychosocial)
health matters.3

- Introduction to Public Health

An UnpreferedYoked

A Couple:
One very fat weight one very skinny weight
One very poor income one very rich income
One is very sociable one is very homebody
One talks very fast one talks very slow
One very tall in height one very short in height
One highly educated one lowly educated
One ill mannered one well mannered1
- The True Phenomenology of Opposites Attract

Love is a
..a conscious, meaningful, and focused
attention towards a special mate1 and,
..a person toward whom love is shared; a
dearly beloved; an equallyoked help meet,
an heterosexual love mate2 and,
..a feeling of warm personal attachment
or deep affection for, as for a
sweetheart, or as for a spouse.3
- Word Meanings / Philosophy

Social Forces

Equallyokedtarians are the most targeted

social groups for destruction by world tyrannical

powers there is in global multi-culturalism.1

Degradation of peoples self esteem comes

from the of demise of family and destruction

of individual Civil identity by the powers2 that

be in order to attain and maintain governmental rule.

The empowered liberal: media, public education,

and multicultural secularism perpetuates community
amalgamation for the sake of cultural confusion - and
in such, thereby ruining the individual identities of a
countrys peoples.3

- Concepts in Social Psychology

Un-equally Yoked
Out of place
priorities.
Misused gifts.

An unforgiving spirit.

A wrong association.

Killing God for secularistic

Unconfessed sin. pleasure.1

- Biblical, Moral, and Doctrinal Studies

an Art and Science

Couples-who are bonded together and who are
equallyoked help meets- amongst a class are worthy
of (scientific) study-not unlike those who arent.1
the study of theoretical equallyokedtarianism as an
social science and as a (humanities) art - as an
inquiry into biologic genetic wholesomeness. 2
A marital couple who becomes engaged-with
(freedom of) intension of preserving the integrity of
their family identity related to their backgrounds
and related to their civil identities.3
-The Humanities & Biopsychosociocultural Sciences

Equally-yoked
Principles

On the Same Page: Love Mapping.

Nurturing: fondness and admiration.
Face-to-face: in total sincerity.
Sharing: in each others personal power.
Co-solving: solvable-problems and
overcoming any gridlock/barriers.
Creating: communication with shared
meanings as valuable moments.

- Marriage & Family Therapy

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