by Lawrence Lanoff
Website: http://www.DigitalRomanceInc.com
Email: support@digitalromanceinc.com
Sexting
Sending sexual texts is the easiest way to get dirty when miles separate
you. You can say crazy perverted things without showing your nerves.
And you don't have to worry about privacy or scheduling logistics like you
do with a phone call or Skype.
Stop . . .
Mmmm . . .
I have an idea . . .
Using the ellipsis after the thought tells her there is more to the thought.
She may feel confused at first, but soon, they will become a powerful
trigger for her erotic brain.
From there, you can steer the conversation in any direction you like. You
can jump right into the action with a sexting quickie or draw it out for a
long sexting tease.
Here are some possible ideas for you:
Playfully innocent
If you were here . . .
. . . I wouldnt be able to control myself.
. . . youd see just how much you turn me on.
. . . Id have you bend over
I wish . . .
. . . I was inside you right now.
. . . you could see how much you turn me on.
Sexting Quickie
If you were here . . .
. . . Id be licking your wet pussy until you beg me to fuck you.
. . . Id have your ass up in the air and Id be pounding you hard.
. . . youd be enjoying my big, hard cock.
Sometimes you might not get a response right away after firing off a sextstarter. You can decide to continue on and send the second part of your
message after a few minutes, or you can simply wait. Perhaps turn it into a
tease when you see or speak to her next. Ask if she saw your text.
When she says, Yes, what were you going to say?" you can say, Only
good girls who reply back get to know what was on my mind, and change
the subject. This trains her to pay attention and reply if she wants the
reward.
Last summer when we were on that hike and you were wearing
those hot, little, booty shorts and how I shoved you in the
backseat of the car after the hike and fucked the hell out of
you?
If you want to get a dialogue going, you can ask something that requires a
longer reply:
First, Im going to torture your clit with slow, soft licks. Then,
when you cant control yourself one more minute, Im going to
have my way with you.
These are just a few basic formulas that make it easy for you to get started.
And as you can see from the examples, sometimes you have to tweak them
slightly so they make sense for the specific instruction you are giving.
As you grow comfortable, by all means unleash your creativity and write
out your own explicitly specific texts!
Phone Sex
Lots of people talk about phone sex but have no idea how to initiate it or
how to actually do it. The good news is that it's easy to learn.
Talking dirty over the phone adds other elements that digital
communication lacks. Your voice and the immediate back and forth of
conversation definitely add another level of sexiness. The bonus is that
you still have the safety of appearing confident without her actually seeing
if you are nervous, but it's slightly more risky since it's live.
Phone sex is engaging in explicit sexual conversation for the purpose of
sexual gratification (orgasm). Now that can certainly be a goal for some
conversations, but not every sexy phone call needs to end with a big
finale. I'm going to have you build up to the main event. We will start out
just by getting comfortable bringing up sex over the phone.
Those are two really great ways to start. When she asks What? you
launch into a dirty description.
You: Know what Im thinking about?
Her: What?
You: That way you get all flushed when we have sex.
Her: Oh really?
You: Your chest turns all red and I know you are really turned on.
It makes me so horny to think about you looking that way.
From there, you can decide to continue the sex talk, launching into more
description. She might decide to take the lead and start asking you
questions or feeding the conversation.
Get naked.
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I find that the best way to do this is to plan on following a bit of a script.
There are countless variations, but what needs to happen is that you
describe the scene, give her lots of juicy details with adjectives, and talk
through having sex.
Here is an example script you can follow. This is just a guideline; I want
you to read it through and then determine ways you can make it personal.
Recalling intimate memories of times you spent together in the past is a
great way to personalize the experience.
Her: Hi!
You: Hello, are you alone?
Her: Yes. What did you want to talk to me about?
You: I want you to close your eyes, sit back and relax, and listen
very carefully to everything Im about to tell you.
Her: OK.
You: Im lying on my bed, naked, thinking about you. What are you
wearing?
Her: Im sliding out of my clothes right now. I will soon be naked,
too.
You: Good girl. Im thinking about some very naughty things right
now. Want to know what they are?
Her: Yes.
Now you are going to run the show, narrating in detail step by step what
would be happening if she were with you.
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Skype Sex
Skype sex is powerful and fun! It is the most intense way you can share
your bodies with each other when you can't be face-to-face or touch each
other.
And as I've mentioned all throughout this program, women yearn to feel
desired. They want to know that you find them irresistible and that they
have the power to turn you on and drive you wild. Allowing her to witness
your unbridled passion because of her sexual prowess, and letting her see,
uncensored, just how fucking turned on she gets you is probably one of the
most powerful ways you can bridge the distance between the two of you.
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Lick my balls.
Suck my cock.
Eat my ass.
Deepthroat my cock.
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I want you to . . .
A Couple of Variations
If she is timid about talking, Skyping, and masturbating at the same time .
. . or if you are into the dominant/submissive angle with sex . . . you can
do this: Tell her you want to do a Skype call where you direct her to
orgasm. You will tell her the dirty things you want to do to her body while
she closes her eyes, leans back, and gets herself off to climax while you
watch.
The Reversal
If she is flat out uncomfortable with masturbating on camera but doesnt
fear talking dirty, you can do the opposite. Let her talk you through a sex
scene while watching you masturbate.
Either of these options still accomplishes the goal of sharing a sexual
experience together.
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