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Part 2: Your Coaching Vision Workbook
WORKBOOK
Deborah S. Nelson &Patty DeDominic
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CONGRATULATIONS!
You have made it to this stage
in your career and your life.
You are already an accomplished
dream weaver and achiever.
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CONCEIVE
BELIEVE
RECEIVE
ACHIEVE
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To the
Worlds First
RBC Coaches
We are honored to work with you in

your lifes worthy mission.
Like you, we have passion for helping others.
We serve you and your clients
with gratitude and wishes for
many blessings.
Deborah S. Nelson & Patty DeDominic
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Acknowledgments
Our clients and children teach us the most. We run to stay ahead till
one day we awoke and realized they are the wind beneath our wings.
Thank you to the following:
Too Fun SueCover Design

Gwen EllisSeaside Creative Services, Editor
Wendy WeisingSeaside Creative Services, Proofreader
Michael ChaneyDeborahs "Dream Papers" Partner
Minguito Deshommes & Djounio ValCourtDreams to Reality Grads "Making it Real" for Haiti
Dreams to Reality Graduates Reverend Maryum Morse, Cindy White, Maya Shaw Gale
Kathy, Suz, and BillThe best siblings on earth, according to Patty and Mom
Barry Bruder Who helps people make it real all the time
Valerie Sobel When help cant wait
Fabulous ClientsIts a joy to work with you, and we thank you!
Gene Sinser Living with you made me stronger
Eric, Nik & Chris DeDominicBecause I love you so
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Dedication
To Our Moms
Who knew how to be a best friend.
In celebration of
their joyful, cheerful, singing sayings
Their light-hearted legacy lives on through our
children, who are our best friends now;
Our Moms would always say:
"Beauty is as Beauty Does."
"The sun will come up tomorrow."
And they were right.
Deborah S. Nelson & Patty DeDominic
P.S. My dad also said "Never let the SOBs get you down," and they never have.
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Table of Contents
F I R S T Q U A R T E R: C O N C E I V E
Step 1Launch Your Courage
CONCEPT PRACTICED: Courage to Dream
Three Plays: Fear Check, Fear Reactions, and Top Fears
Step 2Drive Your Desires
CONCEPT PRACTICED: Conscious Belief Systems
Three Plays: Pure Desire, Core Beliefs, and Perfect Day
Step 3Free Your Imagination
CONCEPT PRACTICED: Imagination Stimulation
Three Plays: Bucket List, The Eulogy, and Genie Grants Three
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S E C O N D Q U A R T E R: B E L I E V E
Step 4Stage Your Dream
CONCEPT PRACTICED: Visualization Expressed
Three Plays: Uniquely You, Visualization Style, and Dream Acting
Step 5Pen Your Dream Script
CONCEPT PRACTICED: Power of WordsWrite it!
Three Plays: Dream Decree, Dream Coaching Practice Theme, and Dream Elements
Step 6Set Your Dream on Fire
CONCEPT PRACTICED: Ignite Dream Momentum
Three Plays: Self-Energy, Focus on the Ball, and Dream Momentum
T H I R D Q U A R T E R: R E C E I V E
Step 7Publish Your Coaching Vision Book
CONCEPT PRACTICED: Connect with the Thinking Stuff
Three Plays: Title It, Input It, Publish It!
Step 8Inspire Your Dream with Action
CONCEPT PRACTICED: Power of the Present Moment
Three Plays: Meditation Action, Now Action, Proactive Action
Step 9Awaken Your Dream with Thanks
CONCEPT PRACTICED: Attraction Action of Gratitude
Three Plays: Now Thanks, Daily Thanks, Proactive Thanks
F O U R T H Q U A R T E R: A C H I E V E
Step 10Making it Real
CONCEPT PRACTICED: Live, Share, Expand Your Coaching Niche
Final Play: Now Dream Big
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CoaChing Vision Book TUTORIALGetting Started with Your Coaching Vision

Book
MAKE IT REAL STEPS Ten Make it Real Steps
DICTIONARY OF TERMS Key word definitions
POWERFUL RESOURCES Books, movies, and websites you may access to enhance
and further your study and understanding of the Make it Real process.
ABOUT THE AUTHORS Deborah S. Nelson and Patty DeDominic
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CONCEIVE
BELIEVE
RECEIVE
ACHIEVE
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Introduction to Part 2:
Coaching Vision Workbook
Yo u r Coaching Vision Wo r k b o o k is a 10-step guide, designed for you to practice and
internalize the concepts in the Make it Real course book. It guides you through the process
of thinking about your coaching niche, your own plan or story, to author and publish your
own Visionary Coaching Book. The purpose of this phase of your work is two fold.
a. In the pre-certification phase, it is important that your heart and your head are
involved in your life planning and goal setting process. These exercises invite you to go
deep within your own spirit to come up with ideas, wishes, and answers. While some
people can tap into their true desires easily, most of us need some help sorting out our
"politically correct story. from our real feelings.
b. Your written answers in the following pages can be used by you for the basics of your
"business plan. Thats the Coaching Vision Book we refer to in both the textbooks and
this workbook. You will soon publish your own RBC Certification required Coaching
Vision Book. This is an essential step for all coaches, experts, and consultants who
become RBC certified and it is one of the reasons the public has confidence in RBC
certified coaches. We arent perfect, but we do guarantee that you walk your talk; and
that it was from your heart as well as from your head.
WARNING: The challenging part of this course is doing it; yet creating your Coaching
Vision Book is the receive part of this course. Follow through in doing Your Coaching
Vision Workbook to receive your prize!
Once you start building your own personal Coaching Plan Book, the creativity, excitement, inspiration, and enthusiasm awakening in you will exceed the entertainment value
of any Oscar winning movie. After all, you are the producer, director, and star of your own
dreams! You can create your own dream coaching practice and do the things to Make it
Real.
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The average American spends 29 hours a week watching TV. Why not devote three to
five hours a week to your own story, your own lifeto direct your own personal dream
story, what can be more exciting than this?
In the same way professional sports teams benefit from a coach and a playbook to learn
winning plays; you will use the playbook to develop your winning strategy to conceive and
write your ideal coaching practice story. You will end up with a beautiful, "business vision
plan" for your ideal coaching niche.
Its time to stop watching other peoples dreams come true, and instead invest in your
own dreams. Your Coaching Vision Workbook will act as your personal coach, but only you
can take the action. We invite and challenge you to do so! Become the author of your
coaching practice. So what are you waiting for? This is truly exciting. Lets get started
NOW!
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Instructions for The Workbook

Yo u r C o a c h i n g Vi s i o n Wo r k b o o k is designed to serve as your coaching planning
workbook. However, instead of giving you exercises, we provide select plays. The plays are
intended for fun learning because seeing dreams come true, is the ultimate fun!You will
have the chance to envision your ideal clients, develop your specialty niche and even
become RBC Certified.
Just as a championship team practices certain plays to position themselves to win, you
can practice these select plays to position yourself to mine the desires of your heart and
write your story and to your dreams!
The plays are preparatory, and transformational. Their purpose is to wake up your courage,
desire, imagination, and the genius hiding deep within you. Trust that they are gently and
subtly doing so.
Even if you do not consider yourself a great writer, you will uncover an abundance of
ideas including what and how to write your own personal coaching practice plan!
Your Coaching Vision Workbook consists of 10 dream stepseach with select plays, and
divided into the four basic sections: Conceive, Believe, Receive, and Achieve. You may
expect each play to take 510 minutes, and each of the 10 steps to take 1530 minutes.
Read the sections in the Make it Real text book, also entitled Conceive, Believe,
Receive, and Achieve, concurrently while working through the same sections in Your
Coaching Vision Workbook. (Books 1 and 2 in the RBC Certification process)
The Conceive section of the Make it Real textbook covers Chapters 15, and Steps 13
in Your Coaching Vision Workbook. In this section, you will conceive and write your
dream statement.
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The Believe section of the book covers Chapters 610, and Steps 46 in Your Coaching
Vision Workbook. In this section, you think and write about your dream niche for your
Coaching Vision Book.
The Receive section of the book covers Chapters 1115, and Steps 79 in Your
Coaching Vision Workbook. In this section, you collect photos and graphics to illustrate
your Coaching Vision Book, and select a title for your Coaching Vision Book.
The Achieve section of the book covers Chapter 16, and Step 10 in Your Coaching
Vision Workbook. In this section, you will read, feel, meditate, and review your Coaching
Vision Book, and are encouraged and inspired to live, share, and expand your dreams.
Once you have experienced the joy of thinking and writing about your feeling and your
personal motivators, you may find it hard to stop! We have seen the power of dreaming
and creating at work and we are eager to work with you in this way. You can design your
own specialty niche coaching practice. You will explore many of your unique strengths and
find your genius zones. Using your skills and devises youll define your ideal clients and a
unique and valuable coaching practice.
O.K. Now lets get started!
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CONCEIVE
BELIEVE
RECEIVE
ACHIEVE
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F I R S T Q U A R T E R: C O N C E I V E
Read Chapters 15, Make it Real: First Quarter
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Step 1:
Launch Your Courage
Concept Practiced: Courage to Dream
Fear is an illusive giant. What is it? What color is it? How is it shaped?
Where can it be found? Fear is everywhere and nowhere at the same
time. It has no shape, color, sound, form, or solid visibility. We can see
and feel only its effects. What to do when fear is stalking? STOP. TURN
AROUND. Look at it square in the face, And what? Fear has no eyes,
no face, and no form. The truth is that fear is:
FALSE
EVIDENCE
APPEARING
REAL
This step prepares you to overcome fear, and gather up the courage to write your reality plan and
to build your Coaching Vision Book.
A wise Eddie Rickenbacker once said, "Courage is doing what youre afraid to do. There can be
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no courage unless youre scared.

This truth brings us straight to the condition of fear. Fear is instinct gone wild! It is a protective
mechanism designed to keep us safe in the wild.
What is fear? Its the hidden evil monster under our childhood bed; the unseen wild animal that
caused our ancestors to hover in caves to avoid being eaten, and today, its the dreaded Friday
afternoon "pink slip.
Modern day fear has transformed into massive social pressure. If we dont look good, smell good,
drive the right car, wear the right clothing, pay our bills exactly on a schedule; we feel and fear our
very livelihood is threatened.
When we combine analytical thinking with instinct, the dangerous result can be unrealistic,
unhelpful fears, and negative imaginations. In fear we expect the worst; imagine something bad
that happened before, or imagine our survival threatened while perfectly safe. By focusing on fear
we create a self-fulfilling prophecy. Untreated fear can cause procrastination, indecision, blaming,
immobilization, insecurity, and excuses, which all slow the realization of our dreams. Faith neutralizes fear. Instantly. When we act in fear, our nightmares come true. When we act in faith, we see our
dreams come to life.
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PLAY 1-1: Fear Check

PLAY 1-1: Write numbers 1 through 5 next to the fears listed below; with 1 being the weakest
intensity to 5 being the strongest intensity0 if not a common fear for you. Then draw a circle
around your three most intense fears!
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Underlying fears that I have been suppressingfear of
poverty, fear of people, fear of the world, and fear of
authority are my most intense fears.
Fear of the Unknown

Fear of Failure
Fear of Success
Fear of Dying
Fear of Flying
Fear of Abandonment
Fear of the World
Fear of People
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Fear of Intimacy
Fear of Poverty
Fear of Illness
Fear of Change
Fear of Disapproval
Fear of Authority
Fear of Selling
Fear of Talking about Myself
Fear of Cold Calling
Fear of Rejection
Fear of Selling Myself
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PLAY 1-2: Fear Reactions

PLAY 1-2: Check off the reactions your fears cause and list the fear associated with it next to it.
SAMPLE PLAY 1-2

My reaction to the fear of actually picking up the phone
to prospect for new clients creating habitual procrastination and preventing me from reaching my full potential
and seeing my dreams come to reality.
Check off appropriate boxes then fill in the blanks to the right of the reaction. Enter the associated fears
that tend to cause that reaction.
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PLAY 1-3: Top Fears

PLAY 1-3: Choose your top fears (in order of intensity); and write down what reaction these fears
typically cause in you.
SAMPLE PLAY 1-3
I am aware of my fear of flying, speaking, and death. I will

replace these fears with newer, happier affirmations and
beliefs, the moment I become aware that these fears are clouding my focus.
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Release Fear to Launch Your Courage

Franklin D. Roosevelt once said, "There is nothing to fear but fear itself.
And that was such a profound statement, because the object of our fear is not what harms us
the most. What harms us the most is our fearful reaction. We have only to shine a flashlight under
the bed, to make the invisible fear monster disappear.
We can neutralize fear most effectively by cultivating awareness of "pet fears" to move through
them. Shine the lighttalk about them, write about them, and take note of them during the day
when they pop up in thoughts. Instead of pushing them away, begin to substitute with words of
faith. The more they hide, the bigger they get! Feel the fear; shine your light of your awareness and
faith on them to release your hold on fear, and fears hold on you. It takes practice to make courage
a new habit. Step into the new "promised land" of faith and personal success.
SAMPLE CONCLUSION
Fears create limitations and becoming aware of them
allows me to release them. Unless I am in immediate
physical danger, these fears are simply built-in protective
instincts that do not apply to most situations; and misapplied fears are detrimental to my growth.
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Now that you have practiced these plays, make an inspirational comment to yourself about launching
your courage to dream! Write your personal conclusion summary for launching your courage to
dream.
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Step 2:
Drive Your Desires
Concept Practiced: Conscious Belief systems
Consciously scan the UNCONSCIOUS beliefs that no longer server
your highest purpose.
Consciously and continuously replace them with your truest,
deepest desires, passions, and purpose. These God-given desires will
drive your dreams!
Do you drive your desires? Or do unconscious belief systems drive you?
The purpose of this step is to bring your truest desires to the surface of your imagination; to
spark up your own true dreams, and discard dreams others have imposed upon you.
You will learn, through these plays, to apply your true desires to change unconscious belief
systems driving you to serve others visions. You will direct your true and pure desires into conscious belief systems that serve your visions and your dreams.
What is desire? It is the power of pure passion. We are trained to believe that our desires are
wrong; that they will betray us. Yet our truest desires fuel personal power seeking to be manifested. If we want to be powerful enough to realize our dreams, we will acknowledge our desires
as a natural expression of who we are. To deny our desires is to deny the truth within ourselves.
We believe that deepest, truest desires are given us by our Creator, with intent to inspire
something unique and significant. The following plays are designed to help you bring out your
truest desires so that you may better conceive your dream.
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Belief Systems
As children, we are raised with traditional belief systems, which we automatically and subconsciously have applied to adulthood. However, if we are to get beyond survival, to live our
dreams, we must inevitably examine the belief systems passed down that have taught us to play
it safetrading safety and comfort for the passions of life.
All of our lives most of us have been unconsciously accepting and living by belief systems
implanted in us by "powers that be. We will examine these belief systems to see if they serve
our highest potential or if they serve the highest potentials of others.
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PLAY 2-1: Pure Desire

Concept Practiced: Conscious Belief Systems
PLAY 2-1: Imagine yourself as a young child once again. Make a list of gifts you want for
Christmas. If you do not celebrate Christmas, make a list of gifts you want for your birthday. Or
list gifts you would want now.
SAMPLE PLAY 2-1

The theme of most of the gifts that I want is the prevalent
desire to be in and around beauty, and beautiful places.
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PLAY 2-1: Write why you wished for these gifts. What is the commonality in the things that
you desire? What is the predominate theme? Where is the heart of your desires?__________________
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PLAY 2-2: Core Beliefs

PLAY 2-2: Check off core beliefs you have held that no longer serve you.
SAMPLE PLAY 2-2

I resolve to replace the core belief that I am not good
enough with the empowering belief that says I approve of
myself! Every time I hear my inner self say that I am not
good enough, I will replace the thought with "I wholeheartedly and enthusiastically approve of myself!
Check to the left of the items if this is a core belief for you. Continued on next page.
There is not enough
I am not good enough
I am not pretty or handsome enough
I am not young enough
I am not smart enough
I am not rich enough
I am not giving enough
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Check off these core beliefs that will serve you to achieve your best self
I accept and love myself as I am
I am becoming the best version of myself
I am whole, healed, and perfect
I love my life
There is always enough
All my needs are met
There is no failure, only adjustment
I completely and wholeheartedly approve of myself
I enjoy and respect myself
My wisdom came from experience
I care about helping others and myself, we can all win
I am attached to winning people and ideas
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PLAY 2-2: Practice daily substituting unconscious and worn out beliefs with self-empowering
thoughts and feelings! Write down your new thoughts, and feelings and beliefs here.
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PLAY 2-3: Perfect Day

PLAY 2-3: Your ideal day consists of the following components. Write components of your
ideal day below.
SAMPLE PLAY 2-3

When I wake up in my ideal home, I hear the birds
singing, and I feel the sun shining into my windows. I
spend some time in prayer, in meditation, I have a cup
of Latte, and I go to the gym in my basement and I work
out. Then I go to work writing in my home office for 6
hours. At the end of the day, I walk along my private
beach as I watch the sun set down the oceans horizon
for the end of another incredible, beautiful day.
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Consider aspects of your ideal coaching clients and the practice itself. Include some fantastic probable outcomes you help your coaching clients achieve.
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SAMPLE CONCLUSION
My inner desires are natural and normal and are
meant to drive me to my lifes purpose!
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Step 3:
Free Your Imagination
Concept Practiced: imagination stimulation
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here is a thinking stuff from which all things are made,

and which, in its original state, permeates, penetrates,
and fills the interspaces of the universe. A thought in
this substance produces the thing that is imaged by the thought."

Wallace D. Wattles
The purpose of this step is to stimulate your imagination. In preparation for writing your
Coaching Vision Book, you will identify your desires and dreams! Once you identify your
deepest desires, you will get clues about your true purpose, and your most heartfelt dreams
will awaken something unique and significant in you. The following plays are designed to
bring out your truest desires and will help to conceive your dream.
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PLAY 3-1: Bucket List

PLAY 3-1: List 10 things you want to have, do, or experience before you leave this life.
SAMPLE PLAY 3-1

Before I leave this world I will be the personal coach for
at least 3 famous high profile entertainers.
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PLAY 3-1: Make a statement that includes the top three things that you want to do before you
leave this life. For those of you who have done this before, you will be delighted in doing this again,
since you will realize how many of those things you listed previously have already come to pass. You
may update or create your "bucket list" statement to include your top three items now.
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On this Bucket List please include at least two statements about your coaching clients of people or
organizations you would like to help.
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PLAY 3-2: The Eulogy

PLAY 3-2: Write Your Own Eulogyin 10 words or less. Write what you would love for your
eulogy to say!
SAMPLE PLAY 3-2

Here lies so and so...He/she diligently paid all the bills on
time.
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PLAY 3-3: Genie Grants 3

PLAY 3-3: A genie grants you three wishes.
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I wish to be healthy, wealthy, and wise.
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A Genie grants you three wishes for your favorite clients. Write your three ideal clients descriptions
or their names here and why:
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Summary of Conceive Section

Select a dream area from below. Refer to Chapter 4 in the course book for details.
S-Space (What would you like your office or coaching venue to look like?)
E-Energy (Which clients give you energy?)
L-Love (What do you love to help clients with?)
F-Finance (Which clients will be the most financially rewarding for you?)
Write a simple dream statement in 15 words or less in the present tense regarding a dream
objective selected from one of these categories. You will input the dream statement into your
Coaching Vision Book.
CONCEIVE SUMMARY PLAY

LOVE CATEGORY
I absolutely love coaching people who are making a life
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S E C O N D Q U A R T E R: B E L I E V E
Read Chapters 6-10, Make it Real: Second Quarter
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Step 4:
Stage Your Dream
Concept Practiced: Visualization Expressed

To make it believable, stage your coaching practice dream using your
favorite visualization styles. Collect dream elements for your dream
script; by speaking, thinking, and practicing bits and pieces of your dream,
and lastly, by investing high level self-energy to build momentum to spin
your dream into reality!
Congratulations! You have conceived and written a simple 15-word dream statement.
Now its time to make it believable! The purpose of this step is to strengthen and enhance your
dream statement with belief. To build belief, your dream statement enters a stage, your Coaching
Vision Book. Your dream is attracted to you by giving it a visualized form. Some find it easy to form
a picture in their minds eye. Others do not.
Some are visually oriented; still others can feel the wind in their hair as they imagine themselves
walking along that beach hand in hand with the love of their life. They are kinesthetic. Whatever
dream you have, you will find your own way of presenting it to your minds eye. Enlightened visualization is the concept of identifying the visualization style that best resonates with you.
Your visualization will build on your dream statement, with details from your dream elements; to
include photos, artwork, and quotes, to build your published dream script, AKA, your Coaching Vision
Book.
To hold your vision, you will practice speaking, thinking, and even rehearsing your dream, as
well as adding the energy momentum and action strategy to bring it about.
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To stage your dream you will first discover your most natural styles of expression. Then you will
go on field trips, interviews, and shopping jaunts.
Write three areas here where you feel you can make the biggest difference for your coaching
clients.
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Send out emails now to some of your past clients and people who know you will. Ask them for
quotable comments and/or testimonials you can use in your business. You may already have some
great quotes and recommendations in your social networking profiles. Do this now so your network
can supply you with great options of quotable matherial to use in your Coaching Vision Book.
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PLAY 4-1: Uniquely You

PLAY 4-1: Identify five unique things about you whether big or small.
SAMPLE PLAY 4-1

Ever since I can remember, I have always been good at
reading, writing, and communications! I love to read
and write; especially writing.
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PLAY 4-1: Choose one or two key things in your professional life that are unique about you and
about which you are also passionate. (These may help you declare your personal niche for your
coaching practice)
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PLAY 4-2: Visualization Style

PLAY 4-2: Number your expressive and visualization style below in order of preference, with 1 being
your highest preference.
SAMPLE PLAY 4-2

Using Dream Statement:
I run an extensive, week-long retreat for my clients and
get break through results.
Visual: Watch videos of inspiring orators, video myself and
rehearse my finest moments.
Verbal/Auditory: Play audio to listen to the best facilitators
and speakers.
Kinesthetic: Practice in front of the mirror then with a
small ground in a friendly audience.
Cognitive: Read and research other super retreat agendas.
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Different ways I can express, stimulate, and practice my Dream Statement for my Coaching Vision
Book.
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PLAY 4-3: Dream Acting

PLAY 4-3: Now that you have thought about your ideal coaching practice and written your simple dream statement, you have some ideas how to visualize your dream. Use this play to practice
the bits and pieces of your dreams.
SAMPLE PLAY 4-3

I find the love of my life and fall deeply in love.
Visual: I find photos of attractive people, body style, face
style, etc.
Verbal/Auditory:I record a collection of my favorite romantic
songs.
Kinesthetic: I give mini workshops to friends, even to myself
in front of my bathroom mirror weekly!
Cognitive: I read and study the latest, greatest relationship
books.
List on the next page activities that you can practice which will create the picture, thought, feeling,
or idea of your dream statement.
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Step 5:
Pen Your Dream Script
Concept Practiced: The Power of WordsWrite it!

To transform vision into words is the most powerful step in the Make it
Real process. Writing your dream script is simple. There are three parts.
The beginning is your initial dream coaching practice statement; the middle includes your detailed practice elements; and the end is the final
proclamation of your dream coaching business in its fullness!
By now, you are feeling inspired, creative, and motivated with many exciting and intuitive
ideas stirring.
Now is the time to capture them. Feel the Power of the Pen, and with courage, move your
dream forward right now!
The purpose of this step is to write the dream decree, dream script, and dream theme, to
form the storyline of your Coaching Vision Book.
With these three plays, you will embellish your simple dream statement in vivid detail by
merging your dream elements with your dream statement to form your dream script. You will
soon have a beautiful four-color book to show clients about your coaching practice.
This is where the rubber meets the road. This is the powerful moment where your dream
begins to enter the physical world. This is where you put your pen to the paper. Here you are
going to write your dream script or story. Be strong and courageous. Do not let fear overcome
you. Write it! This is your unique story and your unique book. There is no right or wrong way
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to write it. Just be yourself! You may dream of a large consultancy, a ministry or a small niche
coaching practice. The dream is yours.
Now that you have already written your dream statement, and collected your dream elements, the script is nearly written. The last part of writing the script is to combine your dream
statement, with detailed dream elements, to form a final pronouncement of your dream.
Patty and Deborahs vision looked like this in 2010 when they originally conceived the idea.
Reality Based Coaching Certification is critically needed to help connect mentors and consultants to people realizing their dreams. In 2011 RBC Process with our first 10 "dream coaches, as
leaders, will certify 100 of the finest professionals in a variety of fields. With the help of many,
Deborah and Pattys dream will grow and help over 1,000 coaches become certified.
By 2011, we had expanded our goals for RBC to becomes a trusted and highly respected high
quality brand for professionals worldwide.
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PLAY 5-1: Dream Decree

PLAY 5-1: We begin with the end in mind. This play guides your dream story to the next level of
reality. How is that? We start with Power of the Pen and enhance the dream with faith. Below write
out the feelings, thoughts, and visual images you sense when you imagine the endpoint of your
dream.
SAMPLE PLAY 5-1

I expand my coaching practice and serve more than 100
interesting people in the coming year.
I decree that my word of mouth "advertising" is growing
beyond my original dreams due to happy client referrals.
I travel and consult all over and have been put on
retainer by three of the top companies in my region.
I decree that my travel to clients goes well and that the
waiting list for my services enables me to become a great
referral source to my favorite coaches and other
professionals. I decree USA Today asks me for a quote regularlythat my radio show is a big hit!
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My Dream Decree: You say it, you feel it, and you BELIEVE IT! Make a simple decree regarding
the endpoint of your coaching business story. Begin with the end in mind. This dream decree will
define the end of your dream. You will input this dream decree as text near the end of your Coaching
Vision Book.
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PLAY 5-2: Dream Theme

PLAY 5-2: The beginning and the middle of the script for your dream coaching practice story are
starting to take form and from this you can expect a theme or an inspiration to emerge. The
theme is the emotional glue that holds a story together. You may have some deeply unique skills
which can drive a specialized coaching niche.
Below are some themes that have emerged for Coaching Vision Books.
This part is entirely unique and entirely personal, but here are some suggestions and titles of
how dreams have been written in story format.
"VeteransSpecial Contributors to Society"
Niche-Vets, returning to careers or dealing with disabilities or heros
Theme: Heros
"Writers, Authors, and Poets-My Coaching Practice for Global Communicators.
Theme: Communications
"Journey to Greece, Winning the Coach of the Year Award."
Theme: Achievement
100 days to My Most Beautiful Body"
Theme: Fitness
"My Perfect Day"
Theme: Perfection
"I Love My Clients"
Theme: Purpose
"The Most Incredible Family on Earth"
Theme: Love, A great theme for family therapist or relationship coaches.
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PLAY 5:2: Keeping in mind that a theme is the emotional glue and purpose for a dream come
true, write a theme for your dream. This dream theme will be input into your Coaching Vision
Book forming the basis of the story plot.
SAMPLE PLAY 5-2

I love to coach women in transition and am able to help
them with quantum personal leaps
Theme/Niche: Women on the Move
I help people in recoveryand move them towards more
positive life outcomes; away from violence, hurt, and disability to happy, productive livelihoods
Theme/Niche: Helping Victims
My Dream Theme or Coaching Specialty is________________________________________________________________

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(Examples: Veterans, High Achievers, Technology CEOs, Recovery Achievers, Former Lawyers,
Non-Profit, Organizations, Financial Professionals, College Students, Job Hunters, Retirees)
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PLAY 5-3: Dream Elements

PLAY 5-3: Dream elements are collected in preparation to input and upload to your Coaching
Vision Book. These include poetry, quotes, photos, artwork, drawing, scanned images, etc. Write
down the dream elements that you have collected and will collect to enhance your dream statement.
SAMPLE PLAY 5-3

I take an extensive month-long course to perfect my craft
and deepen my network.
Dream Theme: Professional Development
Dream Decree:My journey to the mountains of Utah enables
me to meet new professional coaches who are also passionate about perfecting their craft and building their
practice. The money for my living expenses came easily
when four of my best clients renew. I learn key practices
and some special exercises which I add to my tool chest. I
am devouring the best books written on my niche and on
skilled coaching practices. It touches me deeply and
becomes a part of who I am. I see myself written up in
newspapers, magazines and on radio next as I humbly
accept awards of as a gifted community leader.
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PLAY 5-3: Write a simple paragraph stating the beginning, middle, and end of your Coaching
Vision Book. This dream script will form the basic outline for the text of your business or vision
plan; your published coaching vision book; which will be part of your RBC Certification.
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You may wish to include some of the language your endorsers gave you when you asked for quotes
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Step 6:
Set Your Dream On Fire
Concept Practiced: ignite Dream Momentum

Formula for Dream Momentum:
Hold steady a magnifying glass to direct a beam of light to spark up tiny
pieces of dry grass. With a prepared strategy, you are able to ignite the
kindling, which fuels large logs able to produce massive heat energy. All
this started with a sliver of sunlight and a simple magnifying glass.
Dream step starts with pure desire (sliver of light) directed through a
magnifying glass (faith) onto dry twigs (thinking stuff). Write a dream
statement for your coaching practice, (spark); add a dream script, (your
kindling); fuel with self-energy, (large logs) to create such dream momentum, and set the dream on Fire!
Momentum is the unstoppable spinning force that once started, produces a power of its own.
It is so powerful that pure momentum without friction has been theorized to create perpetual
motion. The purpose of this step is to energize you to follow through with creating your Coaching
Vision Book. You could call it your reality plan or business vision too.
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Energize your dream statement, dream theme, dream decree, dream script, and your developing
dream story, by investing personal energy with action to give it life! Spin your dream to life.
Continual practice of thoughts that enhance your self-energy will build momentum for your dream.
It matters less what you call it and more about acting it out now. You can Make it Real now.
Getting momentum started requires an initial investment of energy, and the more focused the
energy the better. To invest energy, a belief structure must be present. Use energy to add action to
your dream coaching practice and to building a more magnificent life for yourself and others.
You have created the dream statement, dream elements, and dream decree. These next plays
guide you to practice building self-energy and to focus that self-energy on envisioning your dream,
to give your dream and niche coaching focus more belief, more energy, and more momentum.
Limit the friction that you experience and maximize your self-energy in the form of physical,
spiritual, and mental energy.
You may choose to spend physical, spiritual, and mental energy or you can invest it. Develop
awareness in choosing between energy investment or energy depletion. Choose energizing activities
and people for yourself. The power is magical. The return on investment is tremendous.
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PLAY 6-1: Self-Energy

PLAY 6-1: Select the top five states that energize you most and number them in order of highest
energy level created. This is an optional exercise. You can enjoy this introspective exercise. Skip it if
you are ready to focus and are on a fast track to write your RBC Plan (your Vision Coaching Book.)
SAMPLE PLAY 6-1

My 5 most energizing states
1. Thankfulness
2. Inspiration
3. Creativity
4. Joy
5. Bliss
To check off the items, click in the desired boxes then click to the right of the words to enter the order of
specific numbers. Continued on next page.
Peace
Frustration
Desperation
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Joy
Honor
Acceptance
Bliss
Enlightenment
Love
Guilt
Inspiration
Creativity
Rest
Revenge
Jealousy
Reason
Grief
Fear
Pride
Desire
Courage
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PLAY 6-2: Focus on the Ball

PLAY 6-2: List states from play 6-1 in order of energy level and quality, from highest to lowest.
SAMPLE PLAY 6-2

This week I noticed that frustration was a state repeatedly triggered while prospecting for clients. I remind
myself to "focus on the ball, and I change my focus to
envisioning the next step in making my dream for a
new career to be realized. My energy is invested in my
dream, rather than in the frustration. I realize that
over time, this energy invested brings me closer to what
I want, than what I dont want.
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PLAY 6-2: Practice this play by being aware of your states. Mark the states you feel this week, and
train yourself to live in higher energy states. When you find yourself in energy deleting states,
remind yourself to "focus on the ball! See the prizes, the greater good you give your clients.
This requires continuous practice; but conserves energy for a focused investment, rather than
thoughtless expenditure of unproductive emotional energies. Invest energy and action in your
dreams. Your clients will thank you too.
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PLAY 6-3: Dream Momentum

PLAY 6-3: Dream momentum shows up in bits and pieces entering the circumference of your life.
Dream momentum hastens events, people, and situations attracted to your physical reality. You
have created dream statements, dream elements, and dream decrees. You have been working with
imagination and words. Now you will begin to see things starting to fill in your reality plan and
strategies. Your dream is moving from the believing phase into the receiving phase.
SAMPLE PLAY 6-3

100 Days to A Prosperous Coaching Practice
Momentum Elements:
In three weeks of steady visualizations and affirmations, combined with message enhancements and feedback to and from my network, I have received 5
referrals, made 4 referrals to others and signed two new retainer clients.
I plan to increase momentum by refining my "elevator speech" and niche pitch.

I am gathering testimonials from happy clients and people I have worked with
and helped along the way. Just last week two former school buddies reentered
my life and were thrilled to learn that I now make my living as a coach. The
mayors office even referred a new client to me. I am filled with energy, which
gets fueled and fed by others too. It touches me deeply and I am eager to share
my special gifts and wisdom gained by years of hard knocks and successes with
my clients.
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Identify Momentum Elementsphotos and graphics you have gathered for your Coaching Vision
Book.
List Momentum Elements below.
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Identify how you may add energy and action to these elements entering your space to further
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To add believability to my dream script and dream decree; I have collected the following photos,
graphics, quotes, and third part endorsements and testimonials.
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I realize that I really do have deep skills to share with others and I want to share them because:
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T H I R D Q U A R T E R: R E C E I V E
Read Chapters 1115, Make it Real Textbook
Dear Coach...
"Your Certification Has Arrived"
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Step 7:
Publish Your Coaching Vision Book
Concept Practiced: Connect with the Thinking stuff

T his is where the rubber meets the roadactually where the pen meets
the paperwait, no where the coach/author meets software!
Bring your dream statement, dream elements, dream theme, and
dream script together to input and upload them using BOOK SMART.
In a few moments you will click the publish button; and in a few days
you will receive your Coaching Vision Book via ground shipping. You
are 90% of the way to earning your Reality Based Coaching
Certification.
You are going to ignite the thinking stuff with your published Coaching Vision Book.
The purpose of this step is to build and publish your Coaching Vision Book. You have composed
your dream statement, collected dream elements, and written your dream script. These will be
typed into your Coaching Vision Book from your playbook notes into the BOOK SMART software.
You may have a very simple, short dream, "part time practice, that only requires a couple of
pages of photos, and a couple of pages of writing; or you may create a 40-page business or vision
plan. The choices is yours, but we encourage you to launch your dream now.
The first one you may consider a trial or a sample, it does not have to be perfect! You may go
back and create another storybook for other niches, at a later time. You can improve upon this
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one, make it longer, and add details and even more illustrations later. You can simply create an
updated Coaching Vision Book and will not need to purchase this entire course again!
If you havent done so already, download the BOOK SMART software to your computer. Next
you will create a title for your new Coaching Vision Book to become author of your dreams!
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PLAY 7-1: Title It

PLAY 7-1: Remembering how powerful words are, list keywords, theme, (your special niche), and
emotional words that describe the heart and action of your dream coaching practice.
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List unique qualities and special details that you will bring to your dream coaching practice It
might be helpful to ask your oolleagues and clients:
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Keeping in mind your true dream objective, (why you want to coach, why you want to build a big consulting business, etc.) write a title that sums up the big picture of your story. Remember how powerful
it is to write in the present tense. This title will be input when you create the new file for your Coaching
Vision Book. Title of my Coaching Vision Book.
SAMPLE PLAY 7-1

Sample Titles for Coaching Vision Books:
100 Days to My Most Fantastic Life as a Relationship Coach
Journey of a Life-Creating the Dreams Come True
Clear Path-The Road to Recovery in 10 Steps
"Helping Achievers Soar-Enabling Superstars to clear obstacles and Move Mountains"
Service Disabled Vets, Americas Untapped Resource-
My Coaching Vision Book Title: (you can always change it later).

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PLAY 7-2: Input It!

PLAY 7-2: You are nearly ready to click the "order book" button.
Use the title you created in the previous play to name your new book project in the BOOK SMART
software.
Your dream statement, dream elements, dream theme (special gifts and niche), and dream script are
the basis for your storyline. These are located in PLAY 3-3, 4-3, 5-3; and you may type these into the
text area of the book started in your BOOK SMART software.
Next, upload your graphics, to include the dream elements that you have collected. For example, if
your Coaching Vision Book has become your guide for more education, then upload photos of course
descriptions, the curriculum you have collected, and your the details of your travel schedule, day by
day.
The "get photo" button at the top allows you to browse directly from your computer. Photos and graphics will need to be in a 300 dpi jpg format. If not, it may come out fuzzy or pixilated, but that isnt necessarily the end of the world. This book is for you; it doesnt have to be your final book, for the whole
world to see!
My Coaching Vision Book 100 days to My Most Fantastic Life, has its focus on fitness, stress reduction and meditation and strength training. I uploaded key training exercises, as well as a "before
photo. I created a file folder in my computer for photos and graphics to be uploaded to my Coaching
Vision Book!
The "page view" feature allows you to preview your book in various layout forms. You may click on edit
if you want to move things around, edit your words, type style, add frames or borders; or change the
style of the layout, Click on the preview button at the bottom of the screen to see how it will look in
its final form.
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SAMPLE PLAY 7-2

Input it:
I type in my dream statement, dream theme, and dream
script from my workbook, into the text areas of my book.
Upload it:
I uploaded photos and graphics from my computer, which I
have been collecting in a file. I upload quotes and endorsements collected from colleagues and clients.
Upload it:
Cover photographs and back cover graphics or illustrations.
Input Text
Upload Images
Upload Cover
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PLAY 7-3: Publish It!

PLAY 7-3: Before you click on the button in the bottom right hand corner of BOOK SMART software that says "order book, it is advisable to print out a preview copy.
Preview your Coaching Vision Book using the "preview" button on the bottom right of the page. Look
for obvious spelling errors, misplaced graphics, spacing issues, and layout
Before you click print, which is in top left FILE menu, be sure the paper size is set properly. Select a
custom size, rather than the normal 8.5 x 11 paper. Type in 7 x 7 for paper size within the printer set
up box.
Once you print your pre-production book, you now may proofread it. It is a good idea to ask one or
two of your RBC colleagues to proof it for you . And if you are not too anxious, give it a day or two to
sit, before you actually click on the "order book" button at the far right bottom of the BOOK SMART
software. You might get some additional inspiration to add some nice finishing touches. Dont worry
about perfection. You can enhance your book tomorrow for less than $25. Incorporate the best suggestions from your colleagues without worrying about becoming a professional editor or publisher.
When ready to publish, click on the "order book" button, and you will be asked for your password and
login name. Once you provide that, your book will be uploaded to the publishing site. Then go to
check out, make payment, and input your shipping address!
At the end of this workbook, you may follow a detailed step-by-step Coaching Vision Book tutorial.
Once you have published your Coaching Vision Book, you will receive notification via e-mail, when your
book ships, and it will include a tracking number. Wait for your published Coaching Vision Book to
arrive by ground shipping. Congratulations, You are now the author of your dream coaching practice
plan! You will soon become RBC Certified. We strive to find the finest professionals from a wide variety of specializations. We are thrilled to welcome you, now a published coach to our growing network
of some of the finest professionals in the world.
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SAMPLE PLAY 7-3

I will print out a copy of my Coaching Vision Book before
publishing so that I may proofread it. I can still rearrange
the graphic components and text before clicking on the
ORDER BOOK button.
Print a proof copy on your home printer.

Ask one of your RBC Colleagues to help you proof and edit it to catch easy fixes.
Mark changes on the proof copy.
Changes are made in the BookSmart File.
Print out a second proof copy after the changes are made in the BookSmart File.
Order your Coaching Vision Book!
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Step 8
Inspire Your Dream With Action
Concept Practiced: Power of the Present Moment
"T
HE DREAM: To see it in the distance is but the first

step; to go the distance requires taking the rest of the
steps.
Read, review, and recite your Coaching Vision Book dailybe inspired
to take action steps that bring you closer to the realization of your dream.
We talk about steps because making your dreams come true on purpose involves a series of steps.
The Make it Real system has endeavored to gently walk you through these 10 steps to plan for your
dreams success!
In the first seven steps of the Make it Real process, AKA, RBC Process, we have guided you to
position yourself to envision your dream! In step seven, together we have brought you to the brink
of your dreams by enabling you to publish your Coaching Vision Book. Once you receive your
Coaching Vision Book from the shipper, you will have be best possible vision of your dream. The purpose of this step is to practice the power and forms of action to speed the receiving of your dream.
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PLAY 8-1: Meditation Action

PLAY 8-1: When your Coaching Vision Book arrives, set aside five powerful minutes each morning
and evening for meditation on your book. Click the "share" button in your BookSmart Account after
you have ordered your book so that we can review it and expedite your RBC Certification. Email the
link to support@ makeitrealsystem.com
This will help you to focus and envision your dream and stimulate thoughts and energy required to
create the momentum to bring your dream into reality.
SAMPLE PLAY 8-1

After reviewing my Coaching Vision Book, which outlines
100 days to my most fantastic life, I am inspired to add
another layer of training to my professional credentials. I
issue press releases and update my Social Network with
tweets,buzz, links, and press releases about my expanded
Coaching Business and RBC Certification.
List additional action steps you are inspired and intend to take now when reading, reviewing, and meditating on, your Coaching Vision Book.
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PLAY 8-2: Now Action

PLAY 8-2: Sometimes our dream seems dim and far away, and we may become discouraged. But
NOW is the most powerful moment we have. We can only act in the present moment. List things
you can do NOW, each and every day that will bring your dream closer to you everyday. If you use
NOW wisely, time is on your side!
SAMPLE PLAY 8-2

When I look at these photos and inspirational quotes, I can hear
the applause I give my coaching clients as they over power lifes
hurdles to quickly achieve their goals. I can envision the referrals
and testimonials they give about the magic I helped them to find
in their own heart and with their own power. I have earned my
expertise by years of successes and overcoming setbacks, I help my
clients realize their goals faster and with more clarity and quality
than ever before. I am a living example of how fortunate a person,
a coach, can be when they focus their desire, actions, and vision
in the direction of helping others. I do remarkably well by doing
wonderfully good work.
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PLAY 8-2: Now Action (Cont.)

PLAY 8-2: Speak and think of your dream as if already here. List feelings, thoughts, and visions that
come to you when you think of your dream as being RIGHT NOW. Infuse your thoughts with the reality of how your dream feels, and thinks, and looks like right now. Things to do to give my dream "nowness!" Take some action in the present moment, for example create a new design and print branded
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PLAY 8-3: Proactive Action

PLAY 8-3: This play is exciting, and risky. It involves applying extreme faith to the present moment.
These are actions you take that may catapult you into your dream. When we planned our trip to Haiti,
we did not have the extra money, and did not know how we were going to do it.
We moved quickly into manifesting the dream because we took a proactive leap of faith. We selected a date, and wrote guides. This was months in advance. Over the next few weeks, we gathered
our dream start up team, and then all we had left to do perfect our curriculum derived from
decades of passionate experience. Our colleagues and new friends found us!
Once you make a proactive move, you become invested in the dream, and the dream becomes
energized. How "lucky" we are!
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SAMPLE PLAY 8-3
Now that I have completely outlined my dream coaching
practice, I am assembling my advisors, refining my elevator speech, and learning new coaching techniques. Ive
learned that to help my clients I will learn their goals and
motivation. I leverage my skills for the benefit of my
clients. People love to send me referrals because in one way
or another, the encounter is always beneficial.
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List below proactive steps you may take to bring your dream into your present moment!
Warning: These proactive leaps of faith can be risky, and we do not advise doing these unless your
faith is strong. Be prepared to move forward with no second-guessing, regrets, or guilt. These states of
mind may pull you even further away from your dream than this action will take you. Be sure your faith
is in place. Things I can do to draw my dream from the future into my present.
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Step 9:
Awaken Your Dream with Thanks
Concept Practiced: attraction action of gratitude

Many books have been written, and documentaries made regarding the "law
of attraction. The concept is that you attract events, people, and situations
into your life, through the power of thought. If this is true, then the ultimate
law of attraction is the Action of Gratitude!
If you take away ONE concept from this series, let it be this step, because gratitude is the most effective step in the entire Make it Real process.
The purpose of Step 9 is to practice thanks in order to magnetize your dream towards you! The
"attitude of gratitude" is more than being polite, creating small talk of your blessings, or acting happy
and positive. The "action of gratitude" is powerful. It is the idea that you are continuously connected
with your source, thankful for every dream that has come true, and for those dreams that you are living right now. We feel great humility and gratitude for our lifes journey and how it is bringing us
together. Thank you for being here.!
True gratitude is so powerful that if you were to practice gratitude every day in every way, your life
would be a total dream come true. The "on-purpose" action of gratitude accomplishes so many of the
dream steps. It brings you closer to your source continuously, it keeps your thoughts focused on high
energy, and it takes your thoughts away from the things that you dont want. People seem to love to
help others who sincerely appreciate what is given. Without groveling or becoming a supplicant you
can multiply your connections, gifts, and results with gratitude.
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PLAY 9-1: Now Thanks

Concept Practiced: attraction action of gratitude-Extra Credit, optional activities
PLAY 9-1: List the dreams that have come true and you are living right now.
SAMPLE PLAY 9-1

I am living the life of my dreams right now; I have the
career of my dreams! I am working on the body of my
dreams, and home of my dreams, the coaching practice of
my dreams; and I am truly thankful for the people in my
life.
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PLAY 9-2: Daily Thanks

PLAY 9-2: This is the most powerful play in this playbook! Simply make a list of the 10 things,
people, or situations for which you are thankful every single day.
When I first started practicing this play, I sat down at my computer every morning and made a list
of Ten Thankful Things. I printed out the list and posted them in my office! Now upon waking, I
make the list in my mind, it became a powerful habit.
SAMPLE PLAY 9-2

I wake up each morning and say my thanksgiving
prayers.
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PLAY 9-3: Proactive Thanks

PLAY 9-3: This play is similar to 9-2, except we are going to practice thankfulness for parts and
pieces of the dream we are envisioning that is on its way. Because you are thanking ahead for what is
to come, I have called it proactive thankfulness.
SAMPLE PLAY 9-3

Each night before I go to bed, I read my Coaching
Vision Book and thank God for those dreams in the
process of coming to me.
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F O U R T H Q U A R T E R: A C H I E V E
Read Chapters 16, Appendices
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Step 10:
Become an RBC Achiever
Concept Practiced: Live, share, Expand Your Dream

T he most exciting thing about being a successful dream achiever, is sharing
it. To experience a dream come true, without sharing it, is truly sad.
Therefore, it is imperative we learn to live, share, and expand our dreams to
include our world, and those we love. Now its time to actualize your BIG
DREAMS, get your RBC Certification and help more clients!
At the beginning of this series, we asked you to start small to learn the skill set of Make it Real. Small
successes create confidence, and confidence creates more success, which builds dream momentum.
Once you learn the dreams steps and personalize them as yours, you may create big dreams. The
purpose of this step is to encourage you to apply these steps again and again to dream big for your
world!
At the time of this writing, Barack Obama celebrated his anniversary of becoming the first African
American President of the United States. We reflect on the larger dream that started playing on the
American stage some 40 years ago. Martin Luther King had a dream. That dream was larger than
Martin Luther, It was so big that it reached into our "now" and has affected all of mankind; having set
the stage for Barack Obama, another big dreamer. We have big dreams for a healthier planet, conscious
evolution, and a truly ethical business world. We know this is possible with the RBC team and we are
so grateful to share this journey of learning and achieving with you.
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Strengthen your dream muscles and take dream achieving to the next level. Be as courageous as
those who have gone before you, and dont forget to shoot for the moonand the stars!
Share your dream successes with the RBC Certification team online at www.MakeitRealSystem.com
and share your dreams with those who are supportive. Sharing your dream successes will give you the
incentive to follow through.
We are building it better and together we make a big, positive, extraordinary network of some of the
worlds best professionals and with your help we know we can make a difference in the world.
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PLAY 10-1: Now Dream Big

Concept Practiced: Live, share, Expand Your Dream
PLAY 10-1: List Your Big Dreams
SAMPLE PLAY 10-1

Having identified my big dreams, I have plans to create
another Coaching Vision Book, which announces my RBC
Certification, shows the news articles about me, and features 3 fabulous new endorsements
My big dreams to affect the world around me and my next books.
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Coaching Vision Book Tutorial

C ongratulations! You have read the course book, and completed your Coaching Vision Workbook. You
prepared to write and publish your own coaching vision book. If you havent already started, use this
tutorial to write, create, and publish your Coaching Vision Book.
If you havent yet downloaded and started to put together your Coaching Vision Book, this section
is for you. These are the steps in order to build your Coaching Vision Book, starting at the very beginning.
Important Getting Started Hints, Timing
Since you have done the preparatory work in Your Coaching Vision Workbook for creating your coaching vision book; this part will go rather quickly. Once you get started, it is going to be engaging and
exciting. Therefore, if possible, start when you have an uninterrupted span of time. Starting on a Friday
evening or Saturday morning, may allow optimal time for your creative focus.
Download Software: Go to www.authoryourdreams.com to download the BOOK SMART
SOFTWARE. This is where you will build your Coaching Vision Book. Have login information that
came with this course handy.
Undo Button: The BOOK SMART software is organized similarly to WORD. Heres a helpful
hint, which can save you "oodles of time. It is the UNDO optionits the first item on the drop
down menu of the Edit function. If you accidentally type something or hit a wrong key, immediately go
to Edit at the top left, next to the File button, and click on UNDO at the top of the drop down list.
New Book Set Up: Click on the BOOK SMART ICON on your desktop or Start Menu to open
it. If you want more detail about the software right now, click on "Getting Started Guide. If you are
ready to get started right now, click on "Start a New Book.
Book Title and Size: At the top of the window, it will say, "Choose a Size, and below it will be a
place to type in Book Title and Author Name. Type the name of your Coaching Vision Book, (from
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the workbook-journal play 7-1); and your name as author in the space allowed. Then choose the
square 7 x 7 size for your Coaching Vision Book. Click on "Continue.
Select Layout: The New Set Up window will say: "Choose Your Starting Point. Suggested layouts for reality plan Books are text & photo, portfolio, blog to book, and poetry. Click on any of those
layouts to see which layout you prefer. This will depend on the amount of text versus amount and size
of photos you have collected in the workbook-journal process. You may change the layout later, so for
now select a layout you like, and then click "Continue, or "Start Book Now. If you click on Start
Book Now, it will open up the BOOK SMART SOFTWARE and you can start manipulating the components of your book right away.
Get Photos: The New Set Up Window will say, "Get Photos. This can also be art you have
scanned in and saved in your computer. All photos and artwork needs to be in a jpg format, and with a
300 dpi format. You may browse your computer for your photo files, or search for photos by going to
www.freefoto.com or www.dreamstime.com. The software will give you the choice to download photos
from your computer or from various photo sources. Note: If the photo or graphic arts arent the highest quality, and the software shows a "low resolution" warning message, and if it looks fine to you,
ignore the warning; or you may reduce the size of the photo until the alert disappears. At this point if
you click "get started now, it will launch to the software. Or click on "Continue" to choose a theme.
Choose a Theme: You have a choice of three looks. Click on one you like and then click
Continue. The cleanest, most simple one is called "viewfinder. You can change this later after you see
what your photos and text look like together. Click Continue to add your title.
Add Your Title: Fill in the name of your Coaching Vision Book, from your workbook-journal in
Step 7-1. Click on "Add Your Book Title Here" and type in the title. At this point the Book Smart
Guide has launched you into to BOOK SMART SOFTWARE. You have now created a new book,
with title, a layout, theme, and photos. Next you will add your text consisting of your dream statement, your dream script, and a dream decree from Play 3-4 and 5-1; 5-2; and 5-3. Once you get these
text items input into your book, you may also add additional quotes, or thoughts as your Coaching
Vision Book begins to take form.
Bring in Text: Input your dream statement from play 3-4 at the end of the conceive section, your
dream theme, dream script, and dream decree from Play 5-1, 5-2, and Play 5-3 of the believe section.
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page. Your may find quotes online at www.quotationspage.com; and can search by keyword for the
quote you want; or take pertinent quotes from your journal, if you have one; or from your favorites
books.
Preview: Depending on how adept you are, or how much of a perfectionist, expect your Coaching
Vision Book to take from 4 hours, and as long as a week to complete. Some will complete it in one sitting; others are extra creative and will make use of borders, decorations, and color options available.
Looking at these options can take time. Simply use the "Preview" button on the lower right hand corner of the BOOK SMART window to see what your book will actually look like when published. Then
click on "edit" to go back to your work.
Pages: Use up to 40 pages in the square 7 x 7 book size. Or use as few as 10 pages, if you want
to keep it simplethere is no pressure to use all 40 pages.
Proofing: "Four eyes are better than two. There are a couple things to do before ordering your
final book. Run spell check, which is in the edit menu at the top of the BOOK SMART menu. Be sure
all images, photos, and text are yours unless you have written permission to use the work, or give proper credit. Check fonts to be sure they are what you wantthe correct size, bolded or italicized, lower
or upper case. Finally, printout a hard copy proof to check it for errors. Have an RBC colleague proof
your print out to catch errors you may easily miss while involved in the creative process.
Upload and Order: To order, click on the "preview" at the bottom right of the window. Then,
click on "order" in the lower right hand corner of the BOOKSMART SOFTWARE. You will be
brought to an Upload and Order Screen. Depending on the size of your file, it will take time to upload
to the publishing site. You will be required to login, provide your password, and physical shipping
address. Make payment with your credit card, gift card, or promo code. When your order is complete,
you will see the book cover, and may scroll down to "edit book settings" to "turn on book preview.
This is coolthe pages actually flip as you turn them! Click on save, and then click the book cover
icon to preview the pages of your final Coaching Vision Book right away. After you've finished loading,
another screen will appear that says, "Upload Complete. Click on order and follow the instructions.
Privacy: Your Coaching Vision Book is for your use and for your RBC Certification. You may also
want to order extra copies for friends and prospective clients. Once you have ordered it, you may set
your book to "public" or the "private, option provided in "edit book settings" tab; or discuss with us
how to have your book featured on our site to receive RBC referrals. Questions not covered: Email us
with any other questions at support@MakeitRealSystem.com, or patty@dedominic.com.
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Ten Make it Real Steps

P A R T O N E: C O N C E I V E
Step 1 Launch Your Courage
Step 2 Drive Your Desires
Step 3 Free Your Imagination
P A R T T W O: B E L I E V E
Step 4 Stage Your Dream
Step 5 Pen Your Dream Script
Step 6 Set Your Dream on Fire
P A R T T H R E E: R E C E I V E
Step 7 Publish Your Coaching Vision Book
Step 8 Inspire Your Dream with Action
Step 9 Awaken Your Dream with Thanks
F I N A L: A C H I E V E
Step 10 Become an RBC* Achiever!
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Dictionary of Terms
RBC Certification: Reality Based Coaching Process: A professional designation earned by people
who wish to share their expertise and gifts with coaching clients. RBC Certified Consultants and
Coaches come from all walks of life and adhere to a strong code of ethics. RBC Certification
requires a renewal process and referrals clients or members in good standing.
Dreaming Muscles: The idea that the Make it Real concept can be learned and developed as a
skill; and strengthened with use and practice to conceive, believe, receive, and achieve a dream on
purpose.
Make it Real Process: The on-purpose process, from beginning to end, that propels its creator
through conceiving, believing, receiving, and achieving a dream objective.
Dream Writer: A dream writer is a deliberate dreamer who creates a dream statement, script, and
story to become the author of his/her own person Coaching Vision Book.
Dream Deniers: Those emotions, obstacles, and persons who would try to separate dream achievers from the manifestation of their dreams.
Dream Doers: Those persons who are determined to follow their dreams and make them come
true!
Dream Elements: Creative graphic pieces of meaningful artwork, personal photos, quotes,
thoughts, words, poetry, designs, colors, shapes, and scanned images brought together to tell the
dream story in a Coaching Vision Book.
Dream Implementer: A dream implementer is an advanced and practiced dream writer able to
dream dreams so powerful that they reach beyond their own lives and times, to create dream
wealth for others.
Dream Objective: A passionately desired outcome.
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Make it Real System: The first three parts: introduction to coaching reality planning, your
Coaching Vision Workbook), and you published Coaching Vision Book; with use of proprietary
software for creating a self-published reality plan. Your coaching vision book is used in the RBC
Certification Process.
Dream Script: As Dream writers, we become the author of our dreams. We deliberately write a
story line from which to build our dream stories, and explore our gifts and define our niche, and
which ultimately become the storyline of our published coaching vision book.
Dream Statement: A simple explanation in 15 words or less, defining a vision, goal, or idea that
one has decided to conceive, believe, receive, and achieve. This statement forms the basis of the
dream script.
Dream Story: The narrative that a dream writer creates in preparation for writing their Coaching
Vision Book.
Coaching Vision Book: The physical outcome of the Make it Real system. It is a 7 x 7 1040
page storybook, authored by the reader in the simple format of a childrens storybook. It is the
dream writers illustrated, creative narrative of their defined deliberate dream objective. It will
define, describe, and share your vision for your ideal coaching practice.
Dream Theme: It is the emotional component, which emerges from the dream script to drive the
dream storyline.
Dream Wealth: A concept coined by the authors of Make it Real referring to unlimited abundance expressed by the soul when united with its source. Worldly success pales in contrast to
dreamwealth that yields unlimited abundance and fulfillment. It is a beautiful by-product of the
practice of gratitude.
www.AuthorYourDreams.com: Membership website for Dream-writers, who intend to become the
author of their dreams and their own personal Dream Plan Book.
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Powerful Resources
AngelArts: Dana Susan Beasley, graphic artist, publisher, writer, entrepreneur. Websites:
www.angelarts.biz, www.angelartswebstore.com.
Author Your Dreams, Author Your Book: website for Dream-writers, who intend to become
the author and planner of their dreams; by writing their own personal Dream Plan Book. It is a
website of resources for the Dreams to Reality system.
The Bible: The scripture quotes of Jesus Christ can be found in the New Testament of the Holy
Bible.
Creative Visualization, by Shakti Gawain: This is a simple and powerful book on how to activate the power of imagination and visualization in a purposeful way. Website:
www.shaktigawain.com.
DeDominic.com: Patty DeDominic & Associates, Strategic Consulting Firm, Santa Barbara,
California. She coaches high-achieving professionals and organizations.
Do what you Love, The Money Will Follow: Marsha Sinetar, 1989, Random House.
www.marshasinetar.com.
Friendly Ways to Organize Your Life, by Judith Lokberg and Kathleen Nadearu, Ph.D.
Website: www.addcoaching.com
Magnificent Mind at Any Age, Dr Daniel Amen: A book about brain health and natural and
preventative steps we can take to keep our brains healthy and energetic.
Website: www.amenclinics.com.
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National Association of Professional Organizers: Website: www.napo.org

National Association of Women Business Owners: Website: www.nawbo.org
The New New World of Work: A Career website with lots of free tips, and resources.
www.thenewnewworldofwork.com
Jamie Nelson Studios: Jamie Nelson, Fashion and Beauty Photographer. Website:
www.jamienelson.com.
Power vs. Force, the Hidden Determinants of Human Behavior, by Dr. David Hawkins,
MD., PhD: His research correlates vibration frequency measurements with states of mind and
emotion. Website: www.veritaspub.com.
Psycho-Pictography: The New Way to Use the Miracle Power of Your Mind, By Vernon
Howard: 1965 by Parker Publishing Company, Inc. Author uses the power of word stories and
parable visualization to teach the ages greatest wisdom.
Pre-Paid Legal Services: Legal membership/insurance, and New York Stock Exchange
Company, and business opportunity. Website: www.prepaidlegal.com/hub/debnelson.
Seaside Creative Services: Gwen Ellis, Editor, Author, Speaker. Website:
www.SeasideCreativeServices.com
Secrets of Manifesting: Paul Bauer, Dreams Alive, website: www.dreamsalive.com.
The Astonishing Power of Gratitude, by Wes Hooper: There is a free PDF download of book
at the website, www.dailygratitude.com. This book explains the power of gratitude goes beyond
a spiritual principle, as it will also attract things of tremendous value into your life.
The Power of Intention, by Dr. Wayne W. Dyer, Hay House, Inc., Carlsbad, California, This
book is about harnessing the power of what you strongly desire to bring it into reality. Website:
www.drwaynedyer.com.
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The Power of Now, by Eckhart Tolle; 1999, Namaste Publishing. This book teaches the incredible power of the present moment, and gives ways to overcome the habit of living in the past
and projecting fears into the future. Website: www.eckharttolle.com.
The Science of Getting Rich, by Wallace D. Wattles: Originally published 1910, free PDF
download at website, www.scienceofgettingrich.net.
The Theory of Reality: Learn Quickly and Easily How to Change Your Life and Live Your
Dream! By Larry and Diana Bogartz: published by Xlibris Corporation. This is a book about
faith as it relates to reality written from a scientific view. Included are great techniques for
building and practicing faith. Website: www.theoryofreality.com.
The Secret: A unique, independent documentary film addressing the idea that we attract that
which we focus on. Website: www.thesecret.tv.
The Way They Learn, by Cynthia Ulrich Tobias, Focus on the Family Publishing, 1998. An
informative book which addresses the unique learning styles of different types of personalities.
Website: www.applest.com
The Wizard of Oz, by Frank Baum (1939). A film starring Judy Garland, about ordinary people who go on a journey from wishing to dreaming, to living their dream; they ultimately take
responsibility for their desires and dreams.
What the Bleep Do We Know? Down the Rabbit Hole: A documentary of interviews with scientists and Spiritualists involved in the research of quantum physics and where reality/perception meets up with physics. Website: www.whatthebleep.com.
Working without a Net, Morris A Shecttman.
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About the Authors

In the Make it Real plan, a synthesis of 25 years
of study, reading, and life experience, DeDominic
and Nelson masterfully merge recurring themes
Deborahs love of writing, and both their ability to
set dreams in motion. What is their next big
dream? It is to enable millions of people to make
their dreams come true! As a Certified Reality
Based Consultant, you are part of that dream.
Patty DeDominic
Deborah S. Nelson
Photo by Katie Moos
Photo by Deb Halberstadt
Dream and WritingWhat do they have in

common? Perhaps it is Deborah S. Nelson, who has
united her two greatest talents with her recent book series, Dreams to Reality: Author Your Dreams
Action Plan and the Make it Real system, co-created with Patty DeDominic.
Deborahs first big dream, at 14, was to become a newspaper editor and writer. And she fulfilled that
dream early, within her first year of junior high. Her next dream was to fund her college education.
Still in love with writing, between studies and work she made time to write for her college newspaper. Dreaming and writing, she graduated in the 70s, debt free, with a BS from the University of
Texas. Soon after, she joined The Austin Sun, a weekly entertainment and cultural magazine. pattys
dream was to join the Peace Corps; together they are now internationally know social entrepreneurs.
In the 80s, Ms. Nelson emerged from a difficult divorce in the role of sole functioning parent. This
challenge created just one thing for Nelson, a new dreamto raise her daughter as a happy, healthy,
successful person, rather than as another statistic of a broken home.
Concern for her childs future propelled her into a new era and a new dreamto start one of the
first "home-based businesses. That dream realized gave her freedom to be a full-time, on-purpose, solo
mom. Eventually, Nelson was able to fund most of her daughters education at Brooks Institute of
Photography, her daughters dream college!
It was helping her daughter fulfill her dreams that brought her to Santa Barbara where she met Patty
DeDominic.
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Patty DeDominic dreamed of becoming a teacher during her tender years. Her vision of teaching
morphed as she grew up, became a successful entrepreneur. Once she and Deborahs worlds connected, there was no stopping the synergy. First Deborah coached Patty to author her second successful
book, and next Patty coaches Deborah to leverage her teaching skills in the RBC process. Together
DeDominic & Nelson are inspiring thousands, soon to be millions, as they gain new skills, sharing
the process with quality coaches.
DeDominic is married to Gene Sinser, and they are grandparents. She has been driving her dreams
for all of her lifeas a mother, an award-winning CEO, entrepreneur, and philanthropist. In 1995,
she bought a small horse ranch in Montecito, California. In 2006, The Los Angeles Business Journal
named DeDedominic CEO of the year at their annual "Women Making" a Difference Event. That
year she also sold a firm she had been building since 1979. The acquirer grew to become a billion dollar company within 3 years of the PDQ and TEngineering buy out.
In 2007, DeDominic launched her specialized coaching practice focused on high achieving professionals. DeDominic and her team have coached over one million people in her 30 year career, helping to launch over 250,000 careers. She has coached U.S. presidents, countless governors, board of
directors, entrepreneurs, CEOs on the way up, and on the way out. She is a lifetime member of the
Young Presidents Organization.
DeDominic and Gene Sinser live in Santa Barbara, California. She is the mother of Eric, Chris, and
Nik.
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