WORKBOOK
Deborah S. Nelson &Patty DeDominic
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CONGRATULATIONS!
You have made it to this stage
in your career and your life.
You are already an accomplished
dream weaver and achiever.
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To the
Worlds First
RBC Coaches
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Acknowledgments
Our clients and children teach us the most. We run to stay ahead till
one day we awoke and realized they are the wind beneath our wings.
Thank you to the following:
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Dedication
To Our Moms
Who knew how to be a best friend.
In celebration of
their joyful, cheerful, singing sayings
Their light-hearted legacy lives on through our
children, who are our best friends now;
Our Moms would always say:
"Beauty is as Beauty Does."
"The sun will come up tomorrow."
And they were right.
P.S. My dad also said "Never let the SOBs get you down," and they never have.
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Table of Contents
F I R S T Q U A R T E R: C O N C E I V E
Step 1Launch Your Courage
CONCEPT PRACTICED: Courage to Dream
Three Plays: Fear Check, Fear Reactions, and Top Fears
Step 2Drive Your Desires
CONCEPT PRACTICED: Conscious Belief Systems
Three Plays: Pure Desire, Core Beliefs, and Perfect Day
Step 3Free Your Imagination
CONCEPT PRACTICED: Imagination Stimulation
Three Plays: Bucket List, The Eulogy, and Genie Grants Three
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S E C O N D Q U A R T E R: B E L I E V E
Step 4Stage Your Dream
CONCEPT PRACTICED: Visualization Expressed
Three Plays: Uniquely You, Visualization Style, and Dream Acting
Step 5Pen Your Dream Script
CONCEPT PRACTICED: Power of WordsWrite it!
Three Plays: Dream Decree, Dream Coaching Practice Theme, and Dream Elements
Step 6Set Your Dream on Fire
CONCEPT PRACTICED: Ignite Dream Momentum
Three Plays: Self-Energy, Focus on the Ball, and Dream Momentum
T H I R D Q U A R T E R: R E C E I V E
Step 7Publish Your Coaching Vision Book
CONCEPT PRACTICED: Connect with the Thinking Stuff
Three Plays: Title It, Input It, Publish It!
Step 8Inspire Your Dream with Action
CONCEPT PRACTICED: Power of the Present Moment
Three Plays: Meditation Action, Now Action, Proactive Action
Step 9Awaken Your Dream with Thanks
CONCEPT PRACTICED: Attraction Action of Gratitude
Three Plays: Now Thanks, Daily Thanks, Proactive Thanks
F O U R T H Q U A R T E R: A C H I E V E
Step 10Making it Real
CONCEPT PRACTICED: Live, Share, Expand Your Coaching Niche
Final Play: Now Dream Big
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Introduction to Part 2:
Coaching Vision Workbook
Yo u r Coaching Vision Wo r k b o o k is a 10-step guide, designed for you to practice and
internalize the concepts in the Make it Real course book. It guides you through the process
of thinking about your coaching niche, your own plan or story, to author and publish your
own Visionary Coaching Book. The purpose of this phase of your work is two fold.
a. In the pre-certification phase, it is important that your heart and your head are
involved in your life planning and goal setting process. These exercises invite you to go
deep within your own spirit to come up with ideas, wishes, and answers. While some
people can tap into their true desires easily, most of us need some help sorting out our
"politically correct story. from our real feelings.
b. Your written answers in the following pages can be used by you for the basics of your
"business plan. Thats the Coaching Vision Book we refer to in both the textbooks and
this workbook. You will soon publish your own RBC Certification required Coaching
Vision Book. This is an essential step for all coaches, experts, and consultants who
become RBC certified and it is one of the reasons the public has confidence in RBC
certified coaches. We arent perfect, but we do guarantee that you walk your talk; and
that it was from your heart as well as from your head.
WARNING: The challenging part of this course is doing it; yet creating your Coaching
Vision Book is the receive part of this course. Follow through in doing Your Coaching
Vision Workbook to receive your prize!
Once you start building your own personal Coaching Plan Book, the creativity, excitement, inspiration, and enthusiasm awakening in you will exceed the entertainment value
of any Oscar winning movie. After all, you are the producer, director, and star of your own
dreams! You can create your own dream coaching practice and do the things to Make it
Real.
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The average American spends 29 hours a week watching TV. Why not devote three to
five hours a week to your own story, your own lifeto direct your own personal dream
story, what can be more exciting than this?
In the same way professional sports teams benefit from a coach and a playbook to learn
winning plays; you will use the playbook to develop your winning strategy to conceive and
write your ideal coaching practice story. You will end up with a beautiful, "business vision
plan" for your ideal coaching niche.
Its time to stop watching other peoples dreams come true, and instead invest in your
own dreams. Your Coaching Vision Workbook will act as your personal coach, but only you
can take the action. We invite and challenge you to do so! Become the author of your
coaching practice. So what are you waiting for? This is truly exciting. Lets get started
NOW!
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The Believe section of the book covers Chapters 610, and Steps 46 in Your Coaching
Vision Workbook. In this section, you think and write about your dream niche for your
Coaching Vision Book.
The Receive section of the book covers Chapters 1115, and Steps 79 in Your
Coaching Vision Workbook. In this section, you collect photos and graphics to illustrate
your Coaching Vision Book, and select a title for your Coaching Vision Book.
The Achieve section of the book covers Chapter 16, and Step 10 in Your Coaching
Vision Workbook. In this section, you will read, feel, meditate, and review your Coaching
Vision Book, and are encouraged and inspired to live, share, and expand your dreams.
Once you have experienced the joy of thinking and writing about your feeling and your
personal motivators, you may find it hard to stop! We have seen the power of dreaming
and creating at work and we are eager to work with you in this way. You can design your
own specialty niche coaching practice. You will explore many of your unique strengths and
find your genius zones. Using your skills and devises youll define your ideal clients and a
unique and valuable coaching practice.
O.K. Now lets get started!
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F I R S T Q U A R T E R: C O N C E I V E
Read Chapters 15, Make it Real: First Quarter
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Step 1:
Fear is an illusive giant. What is it? What color is it? How is it shaped?
Where can it be found? Fear is everywhere and nowhere at the same
time. It has no shape, color, sound, form, or solid visibility. We can see
and feel only its effects. What to do when fear is stalking? STOP. TURN
AROUND. Look at it square in the face, And what? Fear has no eyes,
no face, and no form. The truth is that fear is:
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EVIDENCE
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This step prepares you to overcome fear, and gather up the courage to write your reality plan and
to build your Coaching Vision Book.
A wise Eddie Rickenbacker once said, "Courage is doing what youre afraid to do. There can be
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Fear of Intimacy
Fear of Poverty
Fear of Illness
Fear of Change
Fear of Disapproval
Fear of Authority
Fear of Selling
Fear of Talking about Myself
Fear of Cold Calling
Fear of Rejection
Fear of Selling Myself
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SAMPLE CONCLUSION
Fears create limitations and becoming aware of them
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physical danger, these fears are simply built-in protective
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Now that you have practiced these plays, make an inspirational comment to yourself about launching
your courage to dream! Write your personal conclusion summary for launching your courage to
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Step 2:
Drive Your Desires
Concept Practiced: Conscious Belief systems
Consciously scan the UNCONSCIOUS beliefs that no longer server
your highest purpose.
Consciously and continuously replace them with your truest,
deepest desires, passions, and purpose. These God-given desires will
drive your dreams!
Do you drive your desires? Or do unconscious belief systems drive you?
The purpose of this step is to bring your truest desires to the surface of your imagination; to
spark up your own true dreams, and discard dreams others have imposed upon you.
You will learn, through these plays, to apply your true desires to change unconscious belief
systems driving you to serve others visions. You will direct your true and pure desires into conscious belief systems that serve your visions and your dreams.
What is desire? It is the power of pure passion. We are trained to believe that our desires are
wrong; that they will betray us. Yet our truest desires fuel personal power seeking to be manifested. If we want to be powerful enough to realize our dreams, we will acknowledge our desires
as a natural expression of who we are. To deny our desires is to deny the truth within ourselves.
We believe that deepest, truest desires are given us by our Creator, with intent to inspire
something unique and significant. The following plays are designed to help you bring out your
truest desires so that you may better conceive your dream.
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Belief Systems
As children, we are raised with traditional belief systems, which we automatically and subconsciously have applied to adulthood. However, if we are to get beyond survival, to live our
dreams, we must inevitably examine the belief systems passed down that have taught us to play
it safetrading safety and comfort for the passions of life.
All of our lives most of us have been unconsciously accepting and living by belief systems
implanted in us by "powers that be. We will examine these belief systems to see if they serve
our highest potential or if they serve the highest potentials of others.
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PLAY 2-1: Write why you wished for these gifts. What is the commonality in the things that
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Check to the left of the items if this is a core belief for you. Continued on next page.
There is not enough
I am not good enough
I am not pretty or handsome enough
I am not young enough
I am not smart enough
I am not rich enough
I am not giving enough
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Check off these core beliefs that will serve you to achieve your best self
I accept and love myself as I am
I am becoming the best version of myself
I am whole, healed, and perfect
I love my life
There is always enough
All my needs are met
There is no failure, only adjustment
I completely and wholeheartedly approve of myself
I enjoy and respect myself
My wisdom came from experience
I care about helping others and myself, we can all win
I am attached to winning people and ideas
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PLAY 2-2: Practice daily substituting unconscious and worn out beliefs with self-empowering
thoughts and feelings! Write down your new thoughts, and feelings and beliefs here.
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Consider aspects of your ideal coaching clients and the practice itself. Include some fantastic probable outcomes you help your coaching clients achieve.
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SAMPLE CONCLUSION
My inner desires are natural and normal and are
meant to drive me to my lifes purpose!
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The purpose of this step is to stimulate your imagination. In preparation for writing your
Coaching Vision Book, you will identify your desires and dreams! Once you identify your
deepest desires, you will get clues about your true purpose, and your most heartfelt dreams
will awaken something unique and significant in you. The following plays are designed to
bring out your truest desires and will help to conceive your dream.
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PLAY 3-1: Make a statement that includes the top three things that you want to do before you
leave this life. For those of you who have done this before, you will be delighted in doing this again,
since you will realize how many of those things you listed previously have already come to pass. You
may update or create your "bucket list" statement to include your top three items now.
My Bucket List
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On this Bucket List please include at least two statements about your coaching clients of people or
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A Genie grants you three wishes for your favorite clients. Write your three ideal clients descriptions
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S E C O N D Q U A R T E R: B E L I E V E
Read Chapters 6-10, Make it Real: Second Quarter
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To stage your dream you will first discover your most natural styles of expression. Then you will
go on field trips, interviews, and shopping jaunts.
Write three areas here where you feel you can make the biggest difference for your coaching
clients.
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Send out emails now to some of your past clients and people who know you will. Ask them for
quotable comments and/or testimonials you can use in your business. You may already have some
great quotes and recommendations in your social networking profiles. Do this now so your network
can supply you with great options of quotable matherial to use in your Coaching Vision Book.
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PLAY 4-1: Choose one or two key things in your professional life that are unique about you and
about which you are also passionate. (These may help you declare your personal niche for your
coaching practice)
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Different ways I can express, stimulate, and practice my Dream Statement for my Coaching Vision
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List on the next page activities that you can practice which will create the picture, thought, feeling,
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to write it. Just be yourself! You may dream of a large consultancy, a ministry or a small niche
coaching practice. The dream is yours.
Now that you have already written your dream statement, and collected your dream elements, the script is nearly written. The last part of writing the script is to combine your dream
statement, with detailed dream elements, to form a final pronouncement of your dream.
Patty and Deborahs vision looked like this in 2010 when they originally conceived the idea.
Reality Based Coaching Certification is critically needed to help connect mentors and consultants to people realizing their dreams. In 2011 RBC Process with our first 10 "dream coaches, as
leaders, will certify 100 of the finest professionals in a variety of fields. With the help of many,
Deborah and Pattys dream will grow and help over 1,000 coaches become certified.
By 2011, we had expanded our goals for RBC to becomes a trusted and highly respected high
quality brand for professionals worldwide.
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My Dream Decree: You say it, you feel it, and you BELIEVE IT! Make a simple decree regarding
the endpoint of your coaching business story. Begin with the end in mind. This dream decree will
define the end of your dream. You will input this dream decree as text near the end of your Coaching
Vision Book.
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PLAY 5:2: Keeping in mind that a theme is the emotional glue and purpose for a dream come
true, write a theme for your dream. This dream theme will be input into your Coaching Vision
Book forming the basis of the story plot.
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PLAY 5-3: Write a simple paragraph stating the beginning, middle, and end of your Coaching
Vision Book. This dream script will form the basic outline for the text of your business or vision
plan; your published coaching vision book; which will be part of your RBC Certification.
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You may wish to include some of the language your endorsers gave you when you asked for quotes
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Energize your dream statement, dream theme, dream decree, dream script, and your developing
dream story, by investing personal energy with action to give it life! Spin your dream to life.
Continual practice of thoughts that enhance your self-energy will build momentum for your dream.
It matters less what you call it and more about acting it out now. You can Make it Real now.
Getting momentum started requires an initial investment of energy, and the more focused the
energy the better. To invest energy, a belief structure must be present. Use energy to add action to
your dream coaching practice and to building a more magnificent life for yourself and others.
You have created the dream statement, dream elements, and dream decree. These next plays
guide you to practice building self-energy and to focus that self-energy on envisioning your dream,
to give your dream and niche coaching focus more belief, more energy, and more momentum.
Limit the friction that you experience and maximize your self-energy in the form of physical,
spiritual, and mental energy.
You may choose to spend physical, spiritual, and mental energy or you can invest it. Develop
awareness in choosing between energy investment or energy depletion. Choose energizing activities
and people for yourself. The power is magical. The return on investment is tremendous.
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To check off the items, click in the desired boxes then click to the right of the words to enter the order of
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Joy
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PLAY 6-2: Practice this play by being aware of your states. Mark the states you feel this week, and
train yourself to live in higher energy states. When you find yourself in energy deleting states,
remind yourself to "focus on the ball! See the prizes, the greater good you give your clients.
This requires continuous practice; but conserves energy for a focused investment, rather than
thoughtless expenditure of unproductive emotional energies. Invest energy and action in your
dreams. Your clients will thank you too.
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Momentum Elements:
In three weeks of steady visualizations and affirmations, combined with message enhancements and feedback to and from my network, I have received 5
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T H I R D Q U A R T E R: R E C E I V E
Read Chapters 1115, Make it Real Textbook
Dear Coach...
"Your Certification Has Arrived"
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one, make it longer, and add details and even more illustrations later. You can simply create an
updated Coaching Vision Book and will not need to purchase this entire course again!
If you havent done so already, download the BOOK SMART software to your computer. Next
you will create a title for your new Coaching Vision Book to become author of your dreams!
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Keeping in mind your true dream objective, (why you want to coach, why you want to build a big consulting business, etc.) write a title that sums up the big picture of your story. Remember how powerful
it is to write in the present tense. This title will be input when you create the new file for your Coaching
Vision Book. Title of my Coaching Vision Book.
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Read, review, and recite your Coaching Vision Book dailybe inspired
to take action steps that bring you closer to the realization of your dream.
We talk about steps because making your dreams come true on purpose involves a series of steps.
The Make it Real system has endeavored to gently walk you through these 10 steps to plan for your
dreams success!
In the first seven steps of the Make it Real process, AKA, RBC Process, we have guided you to
position yourself to envision your dream! In step seven, together we have brought you to the brink
of your dreams by enabling you to publish your Coaching Vision Book. Once you receive your
Coaching Vision Book from the shipper, you will have be best possible vision of your dream. The purpose of this step is to practice the power and forms of action to speed the receiving of your dream.
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Now that I have completely outlined my dream coaching
practice, I am assembling my advisors, refining my elevator speech, and learning new coaching techniques. Ive
learned that to help my clients I will learn their goals and
motivation. I leverage my skills for the benefit of my
clients. People love to send me referrals because in one way
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List below proactive steps you may take to bring your dream into your present moment!
Warning: These proactive leaps of faith can be risky, and we do not advise doing these unless your
faith is strong. Be prepared to move forward with no second-guessing, regrets, or guilt. These states of
mind may pull you even further away from your dream than this action will take you. Be sure your faith
is in place. Things I can do to draw my dream from the future into my present.
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F O U R T H Q U A R T E R: A C H I E V E
Read Chapters 16, Appendices
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Strengthen your dream muscles and take dream achieving to the next level. Be as courageous as
those who have gone before you, and dont forget to shoot for the moonand the stars!
Share your dream successes with the RBC Certification team online at www.MakeitRealSystem.com
and share your dreams with those who are supportive. Sharing your dream successes will give you the
incentive to follow through.
We are building it better and together we make a big, positive, extraordinary network of some of the
worlds best professionals and with your help we know we can make a difference in the world.
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the workbook-journal play 7-1); and your name as author in the space allowed. Then choose the
square 7 x 7 size for your Coaching Vision Book. Click on "Continue.
Select Layout: The New Set Up window will say: "Choose Your Starting Point. Suggested layouts for reality plan Books are text & photo, portfolio, blog to book, and poetry. Click on any of those
layouts to see which layout you prefer. This will depend on the amount of text versus amount and size
of photos you have collected in the workbook-journal process. You may change the layout later, so for
now select a layout you like, and then click "Continue, or "Start Book Now. If you click on Start
Book Now, it will open up the BOOK SMART SOFTWARE and you can start manipulating the components of your book right away.
Get Photos: The New Set Up Window will say, "Get Photos. This can also be art you have
scanned in and saved in your computer. All photos and artwork needs to be in a jpg format, and with a
300 dpi format. You may browse your computer for your photo files, or search for photos by going to
www.freefoto.com or www.dreamstime.com. The software will give you the choice to download photos
from your computer or from various photo sources. Note: If the photo or graphic arts arent the highest quality, and the software shows a "low resolution" warning message, and if it looks fine to you,
ignore the warning; or you may reduce the size of the photo until the alert disappears. At this point if
you click "get started now, it will launch to the software. Or click on "Continue" to choose a theme.
Choose a Theme: You have a choice of three looks. Click on one you like and then click
Continue. The cleanest, most simple one is called "viewfinder. You can change this later after you see
what your photos and text look like together. Click Continue to add your title.
Add Your Title: Fill in the name of your Coaching Vision Book, from your workbook-journal in
Step 7-1. Click on "Add Your Book Title Here" and type in the title. At this point the Book Smart
Guide has launched you into to BOOK SMART SOFTWARE. You have now created a new book,
with title, a layout, theme, and photos. Next you will add your text consisting of your dream statement, your dream script, and a dream decree from Play 3-4 and 5-1; 5-2; and 5-3. Once you get these
text items input into your book, you may also add additional quotes, or thoughts as your Coaching
Vision Book begins to take form.
Bring in Text: Input your dream statement from play 3-4 at the end of the conceive section, your
dream theme, dream script, and dream decree from Play 5-1, 5-2, and Play 5-3 of the believe section.
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page. Your may find quotes online at www.quotationspage.com; and can search by keyword for the
quote you want; or take pertinent quotes from your journal, if you have one; or from your favorites
books.
Preview: Depending on how adept you are, or how much of a perfectionist, expect your Coaching
Vision Book to take from 4 hours, and as long as a week to complete. Some will complete it in one sitting; others are extra creative and will make use of borders, decorations, and color options available.
Looking at these options can take time. Simply use the "Preview" button on the lower right hand corner of the BOOK SMART window to see what your book will actually look like when published. Then
click on "edit" to go back to your work.
Pages: Use up to 40 pages in the square 7 x 7 book size. Or use as few as 10 pages, if you want
to keep it simplethere is no pressure to use all 40 pages.
Proofing: "Four eyes are better than two. There are a couple things to do before ordering your
final book. Run spell check, which is in the edit menu at the top of the BOOK SMART menu. Be sure
all images, photos, and text are yours unless you have written permission to use the work, or give proper credit. Check fonts to be sure they are what you wantthe correct size, bolded or italicized, lower
or upper case. Finally, printout a hard copy proof to check it for errors. Have an RBC colleague proof
your print out to catch errors you may easily miss while involved in the creative process.
Upload and Order: To order, click on the "preview" at the bottom right of the window. Then,
click on "order" in the lower right hand corner of the BOOKSMART SOFTWARE. You will be
brought to an Upload and Order Screen. Depending on the size of your file, it will take time to upload
to the publishing site. You will be required to login, provide your password, and physical shipping
address. Make payment with your credit card, gift card, or promo code. When your order is complete,
you will see the book cover, and may scroll down to "edit book settings" to "turn on book preview.
This is coolthe pages actually flip as you turn them! Click on save, and then click the book cover
icon to preview the pages of your final Coaching Vision Book right away. After you've finished loading,
another screen will appear that says, "Upload Complete. Click on order and follow the instructions.
Privacy: Your Coaching Vision Book is for your use and for your RBC Certification. You may also
want to order extra copies for friends and prospective clients. Once you have ordered it, you may set
your book to "public" or the "private, option provided in "edit book settings" tab; or discuss with us
how to have your book featured on our site to receive RBC referrals. Questions not covered: Email us
with any other questions at support@MakeitRealSystem.com, or patty@dedominic.com.
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P A R T T W O: B E L I E V E
Step 4 Stage Your Dream
Step 5 Pen Your Dream Script
Step 6 Set Your Dream on Fire
P A R T T H R E E: R E C E I V E
Step 7 Publish Your Coaching Vision Book
Step 8 Inspire Your Dream with Action
Step 9 Awaken Your Dream with Thanks
F I N A L: A C H I E V E
Step 10 Become an RBC* Achiever!
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Dictionary of Terms
RBC Certification: Reality Based Coaching Process: A professional designation earned by people
who wish to share their expertise and gifts with coaching clients. RBC Certified Consultants and
Coaches come from all walks of life and adhere to a strong code of ethics. RBC Certification
requires a renewal process and referrals clients or members in good standing.
Dreaming Muscles: The idea that the Make it Real concept can be learned and developed as a
skill; and strengthened with use and practice to conceive, believe, receive, and achieve a dream on
purpose.
Make it Real Process: The on-purpose process, from beginning to end, that propels its creator
through conceiving, believing, receiving, and achieving a dream objective.
Dream Writer: A dream writer is a deliberate dreamer who creates a dream statement, script, and
story to become the author of his/her own person Coaching Vision Book.
Dream Deniers: Those emotions, obstacles, and persons who would try to separate dream achievers from the manifestation of their dreams.
Dream Doers: Those persons who are determined to follow their dreams and make them come
true!
Dream Elements: Creative graphic pieces of meaningful artwork, personal photos, quotes,
thoughts, words, poetry, designs, colors, shapes, and scanned images brought together to tell the
dream story in a Coaching Vision Book.
Dream Implementer: A dream implementer is an advanced and practiced dream writer able to
dream dreams so powerful that they reach beyond their own lives and times, to create dream
wealth for others.
Dream Objective: A passionately desired outcome.
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Make it Real System: The first three parts: introduction to coaching reality planning, your
Coaching Vision Workbook), and you published Coaching Vision Book; with use of proprietary
software for creating a self-published reality plan. Your coaching vision book is used in the RBC
Certification Process.
Dream Script: As Dream writers, we become the author of our dreams. We deliberately write a
story line from which to build our dream stories, and explore our gifts and define our niche, and
which ultimately become the storyline of our published coaching vision book.
Dream Statement: A simple explanation in 15 words or less, defining a vision, goal, or idea that
one has decided to conceive, believe, receive, and achieve. This statement forms the basis of the
dream script.
Dream Story: The narrative that a dream writer creates in preparation for writing their Coaching
Vision Book.
Coaching Vision Book: The physical outcome of the Make it Real system. It is a 7 x 7 1040
page storybook, authored by the reader in the simple format of a childrens storybook. It is the
dream writers illustrated, creative narrative of their defined deliberate dream objective. It will
define, describe, and share your vision for your ideal coaching practice.
Dream Theme: It is the emotional component, which emerges from the dream script to drive the
dream storyline.
Dream Wealth: A concept coined by the authors of Make it Real referring to unlimited abundance expressed by the soul when united with its source. Worldly success pales in contrast to
dreamwealth that yields unlimited abundance and fulfillment. It is a beautiful by-product of the
practice of gratitude.
www.AuthorYourDreams.com: Membership website for Dream-writers, who intend to become the
author of their dreams and their own personal Dream Plan Book.
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Powerful Resources
AngelArts: Dana Susan Beasley, graphic artist, publisher, writer, entrepreneur. Websites:
www.angelarts.biz, www.angelartswebstore.com.
Author Your Dreams, Author Your Book: website for Dream-writers, who intend to become
the author and planner of their dreams; by writing their own personal Dream Plan Book. It is a
website of resources for the Dreams to Reality system.
The Bible: The scripture quotes of Jesus Christ can be found in the New Testament of the Holy
Bible.
Creative Visualization, by Shakti Gawain: This is a simple and powerful book on how to activate the power of imagination and visualization in a purposeful way. Website:
www.shaktigawain.com.
DeDominic.com: Patty DeDominic & Associates, Strategic Consulting Firm, Santa Barbara,
California. She coaches high-achieving professionals and organizations.
Do what you Love, The Money Will Follow: Marsha Sinetar, 1989, Random House.
www.marshasinetar.com.
Friendly Ways to Organize Your Life, by Judith Lokberg and Kathleen Nadearu, Ph.D.
Website: www.addcoaching.com
Magnificent Mind at Any Age, Dr Daniel Amen: A book about brain health and natural and
preventative steps we can take to keep our brains healthy and energetic.
Website: www.amenclinics.com.
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The Power of Now, by Eckhart Tolle; 1999, Namaste Publishing. This book teaches the incredible power of the present moment, and gives ways to overcome the habit of living in the past
and projecting fears into the future. Website: www.eckharttolle.com.
The Science of Getting Rich, by Wallace D. Wattles: Originally published 1910, free PDF
download at website, www.scienceofgettingrich.net.
The Theory of Reality: Learn Quickly and Easily How to Change Your Life and Live Your
Dream! By Larry and Diana Bogartz: published by Xlibris Corporation. This is a book about
faith as it relates to reality written from a scientific view. Included are great techniques for
building and practicing faith. Website: www.theoryofreality.com.
The Secret: A unique, independent documentary film addressing the idea that we attract that
which we focus on. Website: www.thesecret.tv.
The Way They Learn, by Cynthia Ulrich Tobias, Focus on the Family Publishing, 1998. An
informative book which addresses the unique learning styles of different types of personalities.
Website: www.applest.com
The Wizard of Oz, by Frank Baum (1939). A film starring Judy Garland, about ordinary people who go on a journey from wishing to dreaming, to living their dream; they ultimately take
responsibility for their desires and dreams.
What the Bleep Do We Know? Down the Rabbit Hole: A documentary of interviews with scientists and Spiritualists involved in the research of quantum physics and where reality/perception meets up with physics. Website: www.whatthebleep.com.
Working without a Net, Morris A Shecttman.
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Patty DeDominic dreamed of becoming a teacher during her tender years. Her vision of teaching
morphed as she grew up, became a successful entrepreneur. Once she and Deborahs worlds connected, there was no stopping the synergy. First Deborah coached Patty to author her second successful
book, and next Patty coaches Deborah to leverage her teaching skills in the RBC process. Together
DeDominic & Nelson are inspiring thousands, soon to be millions, as they gain new skills, sharing
the process with quality coaches.
DeDominic is married to Gene Sinser, and they are grandparents. She has been driving her dreams
for all of her lifeas a mother, an award-winning CEO, entrepreneur, and philanthropist. In 1995,
she bought a small horse ranch in Montecito, California. In 2006, The Los Angeles Business Journal
named DeDedominic CEO of the year at their annual "Women Making" a Difference Event. That
year she also sold a firm she had been building since 1979. The acquirer grew to become a billion dollar company within 3 years of the PDQ and TEngineering buy out.
In 2007, DeDominic launched her specialized coaching practice focused on high achieving professionals. DeDominic and her team have coached over one million people in her 30 year career, helping to launch over 250,000 careers. She has coached U.S. presidents, countless governors, board of
directors, entrepreneurs, CEOs on the way up, and on the way out. She is a lifetime member of the
Young Presidents Organization.
DeDominic and Gene Sinser live in Santa Barbara, California. She is the mother of Eric, Chris, and
Nik.
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