Getting Her To Initiate Sex More

By 'Whacking The Monkey'

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Tobealittletransparentanddirect,mostofthetimeIcreateareportthelessonis
gearedtowardhavingasuccessfulrelationship. Sotheidealreaderisaguyinarelationship(orplanstobeinoneatsomepoint) whocaresabouthiswoman+doesn'tapologizeforwantingtolearnnewwaysto getherturnedon. Thisreportisnodifferent. Todayinthisreportwe'regoingtofocusonafewthings,butmainlyon:The conceptofgettinghertoinitiateandhowitreallyworks. Toputitinperspective,inacoupleofrecentreports,Idiscussedcaseswhereguys haveexperienceda'sexualexplosion'whichwecanofficiallydefineasanextended periodoftimewherethewomaninmoresexuallychargedthannormal. Onecharacteristicthat'softenpresentinasexualexplosionisanincreasedamount ofinitiatingonthewoman'spart. (Howelsewouldtheguybeabletorecognizeit?) Soinordertounderstand'theseexplosions',youhavetounderstand'initiating'. Andontheothersideofthecoin:Ifyouwanttomanage,grow,andextendthelifeof them,thenyouhavetoknowtheingredientsthatkeepthemalive. Solet'sdissecttheentireprocessforasecond. Thereare3basicparts. Part1:The'thing'thatcausedthefeeling. Part2:The'intensefeelingofarousal'thatsheisexperiencing(asaresult). Part3:The'reaction'tothefeeling. AsfarasPart1itcouldbesomething: thatyoudidonaccident thatyoudidonpurpose thatshedidonaccident thatshedidonpurpose thatsomeoneelsedidonaccident thatsomeoneelsedidonpurpose thatresultedfromsomethingelse etc.

SoPart1isbasicallyanythingthatbuildssexualtension.

Question: So if we looked at 'something you did on purpose' (the one marked in green), the question becomes will it always lead to a sexual explosion?

Inotherwords,ifyoubuildtensionanditgetsherhorny,willshealwaysinitiatesex constantly. Theansweris:Itdepends. Itdepends.onhowshereactswhensheexperiencesthisfeeling. Let'sdigdeeper. Yousee,herreaction(tofeelingaroused)isbasedonasetofbeliefsandthose beliefsarebasedon:pastexperiences(memories),beliefsabouthowyou'll perceivedher,responsehabits,etc. Tounderstandthis,imaginetwowomenthatareintwoseparatehotelroomswitha manthatsheadmires.You'relookingattwomonitorsandsecretlywatchingthese twowomenintheroomswiththeirhusbands.Andsomehow,youknowforafact thatbothofthesewomenareextremelyhornyfortheirhusbands. Asyouobservedthemonitors,youseethattheyhavetwowaysofreactingtotheir arousalmeaningtheybothare'wetlikecrazy'(asanunpoeticwayofdescribing it)andhaveanintensecravingtohavetheirspecialmanmakelovetoher. however,onewomanreactstoherarousalbysendingvaguesignalsthattheguy nevernotices. Inhermind,shehasinitiatedsex! Inhermind,shehasbasicallysaid'willyouhavesexwithme?' Unfortunately,theguynevernoticed.Andit'sprobablybecausehedoesn'tknowher subtlesexsignals. Youthenlookattheothermonitor. Theotherwoman(whoalsohasthesameintenseurge)walksuptotheguykisses himpassionatelypullshispantsandboxersdownatthesametimeandsendsa moreobvioussignal.

 Again,theywerebothequallyaroused,it'sjustthesecondwomanreacted differentlyto'herhorniness'. Andyet,(inbothoftheirminds)theyinitiatedsex. Toreview: Thereareonly3partstosexualexplosions(oronetimeattacks)

Part 1: The 'thing' that caused it. Part 2: The 'intense feeling of arousal' that she is experiencing (as a result). Part 3: The 'reaction' to the feeling.

Inourexample,weskippedwhatevercausedit(Part1),becausethat'snotthefocus ofthisreport. AnytimeIhavecreatedareportforincreasingSexualTension,thatcouldbe considered'Part1stuff'. TomaximizeyoureffectivenesswithPart1stuff,youMUSTknow(andrememberat alltimes)all3parts! Failingtodosocouldleadtosomethingthat'sprobablyhappenedtoyouinthepast. It'shappenedtomeit'shappenstootherguysinthepast AndthatisdoingSOMETHINGandnotrecognizingthatitworked. Forexample,youdosomesortoftechniqueitgetsherturnedonbutyoudon't realizeitbecauseyouhavethisideaofhowsheshouldbehavewhenshe'saroused. .wheninrealityitdid. Doesthatmakesense? Ihopeso.... becausewe'regoingtointroduceapowerfulsolution. FirstIwantyoutoreallythinkabouttheanswertothefollowingquestion.

Question: Can you change her?

(Whatdoyouthink?) (Isthispossible?) (CanyouCHANGEaperson?) Inotherwords,morespecifically,canyouMAKEHER(bysomemethod)initiatesex whenshehasahistoryofnotinitiating*? (Andlater,we'llgettowhythereisanasterisksnexttoinitiating) Youranswertothatquestionwilloftenbearesultofyourbeliefsabout'changing people'ingeneral. Althoughthereareseveralwaystoclassifypeople(personalitytypesandstufflike that),ingeneralpeopleareveryflexibletochange. Peoplegetoffdrugs. Peopletransformtheirbodies. Peopletransformtheiroutlooks. Somepeoplewillsay:Youcan'tchangeaperson. Otherpeoplewillsay:Youcanchangeaperson. Andasmaller(moreintelligentgroup.That'susbtw,lol)willsay:Itdepends. Youseewe(thesmallermoreintelligentgroup)realizethatyou'renotlikelyto changeherdesiresonacorelevelinotherwords,ifshelikescountrymusicand hateshiphop,you'renotlikelytoCHANGEHERinsomewaysothatshenowloves hiphopandhatescountrymusic. That'sbecausethedesiretolistentocountrymusicisonacorelevel(aswe're goingtocallitinthisreport) Whenitcomestoinitiatingsex,that'sdrivenbyasurfacelevelbelief.Inother words,it'snodifferentthanwhenagirlwasinhighschoolanddidn'twanttoaskfor theguy'sphonenumberbecauseshewastoldthathewouldthinkshewasaslutfor beingsoaggressive.I'msureyou'refamiliarwiththis.Thesegirlsweretoldthatthe ladylikethingtodowaswaitfortheguytomakethemove.Andinsomeeras and/orplaces,thiswasreallyextreme.

It'sanexampleofsomethingthatisdrivenbyasurfacelevelbelief(thatsomeone putinherhead)thatifyouaskforhisnumber,he'llthinkthegirl'stoopushyor sluttyorsomethingsillylikethat. Thepointis,surfacelevelbeliefsareeeeeaaasssssssytochange!!!! Yousee,thehighschoolgirlwhostronglydoesn'twantanyonetothinksheisaslut isdrivenbeacorelevelbeliefofwantingtobelookedatinafavorableway. Inotherwords,mosthumanswantotherhumanstorespectthemandperceive theminagoodway.Thereisnothingwrongwiththat.That'snormal. Andsince'wantingtobeseeninarespectfulway'iscorelevelstuff,you'renotlikely tochangethat. Thereasonwhysurfacelevelbeliefsaresoeasytochangeisbecauseit'snormally basedonaspecificactionlinkedtoacorebelief. Tomakethiscrystalclear: Askingfortheguy'snumbertranslates(specific/surfacelevel)=>Theguythinking she'saslut(corelevel). Inmanycases,tocorrectitisassimpleassaying: "No that's wrong. Guys think it's sexy when a woman goes after what she wants."

VeryImportant:Andbecausemostbeliefsarechangedviarepetition,allyouwouldhaveto doisrepeatedlysendthatsignaloverandoverandoveragaininsomanycreative waysandthenBAMyouhavestartedtheprocessofchangingherbeliefs(onasurface level).

Shehasbeenchanged. Tokeepinsimple,let'sbreakitdowninto2supersimplestages. Stage 1: The repeated message Stage 2: The confirmation (reward signals, praise, and 'some other interest stuff') Inaguyisinasituationwherehewantshislovertobemoreobvious,hewanttodo those2stages.ForStage1(Therepeatedmessage)he'llwanttocommunication: "it'soktobemoreobviouswhenyou'rehorny"forthepurposeofgettingherto initiate*sexmore.However,hehastosayittherightwayandithelpstorepeatitin variousways.

 Sobyarepeatedmessage,wemean:

Day1:

You:Ithinkit'shotwhenawomangoesafterwhatshewants.

Day2:
You:IlovethefactthatwhenyouwantsomeofDaddy'slove,youjusttakeit! You:Therewasthiswomanwhowastalkingabouthowfrustratedshewasthather boyfriendcouldn'ttellwhenshewantedsex.Shesaidshefeltlikehewasn'tinthemood. Shethenreadthisbookthatbasicallysaidmenhaveadifferentbrain.Tomakealongstory shortpriortoreadingthebook,shewentseveralmonthsthinkingthathewasignoringher sexualrequests.Thenoneday,shefollowedtheadviceinthebookandjustwentuptohim andwhisperedinhisear,'makelovetomelaterontonight'anditworked. Her:Ittookabookforhertofigurethatout? You:IknowrightIlovethefactthatyou'reobviousaboutwantingmetogiveittoyou. That'ssohot.95%ofwomenaretoovaguesomewhatofaturnoffactually.Itranksup therewiththewishywashygirlwhousesthe'boywhocrieswolf'methodofseduction. Again,Ilovethefactthatyou'reobvious.Irememberthattimewhenyoujustpulledmy pantsdownwithoutsayingawordanditwason Her:(smiling)Thatwasfun. You:Bytheway,thatcountsasbeingobvious. Note:Asyoucansee,thisdialoguemarksthethirdtimethemessagehasbeenputinher brain. Youcanalsoseehow'Stage2'hasbeenintroducedinthisexample.Stage2isallabout rewardmessages."Ilovethefactthatyou'reobviousaboutwantingmetogiveittoyou. That'ssohot." Thisisclassicconditioning101:Repetition+Reward. Weknowthatapersoncanchangeanotherperson'sMETHODforgoingaftercoredesires (feelingrespected,feelingsexy,etc.)

Day5:

Day8:

You:Ilovethefactthatyou'resoobviouswhenyouwantsome. Her:Wheredidthatcomefrom? You:Idon'tknow.Iwasjustthinkingabouthowhotitis.Imean,mostwomenaresuper vagueandtheyactuallythinkguysareturnedonbyvagueness.Irememberthattimewhen

youjustgrabbedmeandsaid'CanIhavehimlateron'andIsaid'becauseyou'reagoodgirl, I'llthinkaboutit'andyouwerelike'Please!Please!Please!andIwaslike'OkIguessyou deserveit' Her:(smiling)Thatneverhappened. You:Areyousure? Note:Asyoucansee,youcanbeplayfultogetthepointacrosswhichisonewayofsending themessagewhenyoudon'thaveafreshmemorytoworkfrom.

Day21:
You:Ilovethefactthatyou'reobviouswhenyouwantsome. Her:Wheredidthatcomefrom? You:Idon'tknow.Iwasjustthinkingabouthowhotitis.Imean,mostwomenaresuper vagueandtheyactuallythinkguysviewthatasbeinghot.Ithinktherearesomanycreative waystobeobvious.Wouldyouagree? Her:Definitely. You:Youhaveaverycreativewayofinitiatingthatpassesthe'DirectPlusCreative'Test. You'reamasteratit!

Asyoucansee,thereareatonofwaystosendthesubtlemessagethatshe'sdirect whenitcomestoinitiatingsex. It'ssoeasyyetnotsointuitiveformostguysYousee,mostguys(andI'vebeen guiltyofthisinthepast)usetheamazinglyineffectiveComplainApproachtogetting hertoCHANGEinsomesortofsexualway. CPlusser:Howcomeyouneverinitiatesex?It'salwaysme. Her:Whatdoyoumean? CPlusser:ItseemslikeIinitiateallofthetimeblahblahblah(abunchof complaining). It'salways100,000xbettertorememberthetwosimplestages: Stage1:Therepeatedmessage Stage2:Theconfirmation(rewardsignals,praise,and'someotherintereststuff') ForStage2,youmayhavenoticedthatsomeofthedialogueaboveinvolvedgiving herrewardsignals(compliments)abouthowsexy[coredesirethat99%ofwomen have]itistobesomeonewhoinitiatesorsendsanobvioussignal. WhiletheCPlussercomplainsandwhines,weinsteadencourageherandmakeher feelgoodaboutherself.Wecompliment.Webelieveinbeingsexuallyplayful. Webelieveinsendingindirectmessages(repeatedlyinaplayful,loving,nonhostile way).Let'smoveon

Butfirstwe'regoingtobackupforasecond. Toget[train/condition]hertoreacttoherarousalbasedonhowyouwantherto react'whenevershehasthissortoffeeling'isadifferentsubjectthanbuilding sexualtension. Insimpleterms,youshouldhave2differentstrategies. Strategy#1:Dothingstobuildsexualtension(forthepurposeofgettingherhorny) Strategy#2:Excessivelyuseparenthesis(I'mjustjoking.)Dothingstogetherto initiate*(bemoreobvious)(actonherarousal). Let'stalktheasterisks[*].Thereasonwhyithasbeennexttotheword'initiate'a fewtimesinthisreportisbecause,technicallywomenareinitiatingsexmorethan guysrealize. SowhileI'vebeensayingyouhavetodothingstogethertoinitiatesexthecorrect wayofstatingitistosayyouhavetodothingstogetherto'bemoreobvious'when sheinitiateswhichisthegoaloftherepeatedmessages. Somepeoplewillstillbeconfused.HowdoIcomplimentheronbeingobviousabout initiatingwhenshe'snotobvious. It'ssimple. Youconvincethatyoubelieveshe'sobviousuntilshebreaksdownandstartsthink 'Iamobvious.I'vealwaysbeenthatway'and/oryouconvinceherthatyou're shockedthatshedoesn'trealizehowobvioussheis(kindoflikesayingtoherthat shehasanunconscious'tell'). Howsneakyisthisonascaleof1100? Personally,Iwouldsayaboutan87.5. Forsomeguysthelevelof'sneakiness'istoohighfortheircomfortlevel. That'sfinejustaslongastheyunderstandthatiftheywanttogethertoinitiatesex inamoreobviousway,theyhave2basicoptions: Option#1:Thedirect100%honestway.Thisiswheretheguyattemptstoreason withher.Ihavetestedthisoptiondozensoftimes.It'swheretheguyinanattempt togethertodosomethingTALKSaboutitasawayofchanging.Forexample:"Listen IwanttobemoreobviouswhenyouinitiatebecauserightnowIdon'tthinkyou're goodatit.Blahblahblah."Althoughyou'rebeing100%honestaboutyourTRUE feelings,itleadstoherfeelinglikeasexualfailureinthiscase.

 Option#2:Complimentheraboutherbeingobvious.Makeherfeelgoodabout herself(eventhoughitdoesn'treflectyourTRUEfeelings).Makeherfeellikea sexualwinner. Hopefully,youunderstandthatOption#2ismoreeffective(eventhoughit'spretty sneaky).However,you'renotconvinced,feelfreetotestthembothtoseewhich methodworksforyou. Note:Onasomewhatrelatednote,ifyouhaveachildwhoyoubelieveiscurrently lazy(orsomeothernegativebehaviorpattern),hopefullyyoudon'tactuallytellthe childyour100%TRUEfeelings.HopefullyinthespiritofCHANGINGthechild's futureactionsyoudecidetoconvincehimthathehasastrongworkethic(even thoughyoumaynotbelieveitdeepdowninside)bycreativelypickingmemories thatmakehimfeelgoodabouthimself.Bytheway,I'mnottryingtopassmyselfoff asaparentalspecialist,butIfeelsostronglyaboutOption#2(basedonresults)that Ihopethatyouputittothetestinallaspectsoflife. Gettingbackontrack. Soasfaras'traininghertoinitiate'therealproblemisn'tthesmallpercentageof womenwhowilljusthidetheirhorninessandnotletyouknowinanyway... Therealissueisnotunderstandingherinterpretationof"aninitiation"... Withwomentherearelevelsofvagueness...onewomanmightconsiderinitiatingsex aswalkinguptotheguykissinghimpassionatelyandsaying'let'sscrewright now!!!' Anotherwomanmightconsiderinitiatingsexas'touchingtheguy'sarmmoreoften' andsayingIloveyou... Againthereisanexceptionallysmall%ofwomenwhowillnotdoanythingwhen theygethorny Theonlyexceptionisifshe'spurposelytryingtohideforareasonthatmakessense toher(i.e.shedoesn'thavegoodfeelingsaboutwhat'sgoingtohappenduringor aftersex). Sotherealproblemismostguysdon'trecognize'hertype'ofinitiation...agood example,isaguywhowastellingmeallofthisstuffhedidhebelievedthatworked greattogethiswifehorny.Hedidabrilliantcombinationofstuffandhegotthe impressionthatitwashavinganeffectonher,buttheyendedupjustgoingto sleep...hesaidatsomepointshewokehimupinthemiddleofthenightandstarted talkingtohimaboutdifferentstuffandtheneventuallybegantalkingdirty[sexual]

tohim...hethensaid,aftershegavehimapassionatekiss,hedecidedtoinitiate sex Icouldn'thelpbutlaughalittlebitbecauseifthathappenedtome,Iwouldhave consideredthatasherinitiatingsexevenifIendedupmakingthefinalmove Sopartofthestrategyofgettingawomantoinitiatemoreisto: 1.Understandingwhensheisactuallyinitiatingsex. 2.RealizingthatalackofamoreobviousinitiateisoftendrivenbyaSurfaceLevel Beliefwhichissoincrediblyeasytochange.Wecoveredonesupereasyway(of manypossibleways)todothiswiththerepeatedmessageapproach. Whenyouaretraininghertobemoreobvious,therearesomereallycoolthingsyou cando(i.e.theinfamouspantiestacticmentionedinanotherreport).Yousee, sometimestraininghertobemoreobviousvia'repeatedconversations'canbea tooltogiveherpermissiontoactonherdesires... Mostwomenarehorribleatinitiating!It'snormallyaresultofbadadviceand/ora wackybelief. Forexample,shemaybelievesomethingcrazylikewomenshouldneverinitiate sex!!! That'sawackybelief. Alotoftimeswhenyou'retalkingtohershe'llrevealherbeliefsaboutsex,menand relationshipssoifshesaidsomethinglike'atrueladyneverinitiatessex',thenyou couldsay(insteadofarguing)
You: I agree 100% a true lady never initiates sex because it's the man's job [replaying back what she said in a different way] to initiate sex - a true lady realizes this. Sexy women don't have to initiate sex. Of course a true lady gets horny, but when she does, all she has to do is lick her lips [or whatever specific/small action] and the guy will be under her spell and she'll get HIM to initiate sex!

Sowheneveryourunintoawackymonkeybeliefitcouldbearesultofbadadvice passeddownbysomeonewhogotbadadvicepasseddownbysomeonewhogot badadvicepasseddownbysomeonewhogotbadadvicepasseddownbysomeone whogotbadadvice

 Asatip:Ifyoueversuspectshe'soperatingwith'badmonkeyadvice'+the repeatedmessagesapproachisn'tworkingbecauseshe'ssuperinflexiblyinher thinking,theninthatcase,don'tfightit.Justagreeandredefine.(i.e.Aladyshould NEVERinitiate.Whenshegetshornysheknowsthatallshehastodois'winkathim andtellhimhelookslikeagentlemen'andmakehiminitiatesex.Whatever.Youget theidea.Tieittoherbeliefsaboutsex[oranaspectofsex]COMBINEDWITH howshewantstoperceiveherselfandthenreframetheprocess.) Again:Wheneveryourunintoawackymonkeybeliefitcouldbearesultofbad advicepasseddownbysomeonewhogotbadadviceetc..

Thistypeofapproachcanbedonewhenshe'sbeingexcessivelyinflexibleabout somethingorasabackupmethod. Ofcourse,mostwomenaren'tthatinflexiblewitheverything100%ofthetime. Whetheryoutakethe[DaybyDay]Repetitions+RewardApproachand/ortheNon arguingProcessReframeApproach,you'llwantto: 1.Giveheracomplimentwhensheinitiates 2.Givehertheperceptionthatsheinitiated(followedbyacompliment).In otherwords,evenifsheinitiallydidn'tconsiderherselfastheonewhoinitiated, makeherfeelsexuallyfunandsuperiorForexample,let'ssayshe'sokwith initiatingsex,butit'srare....anditjustsohappenedthatlastnightsheinitiatedsex (inamoreobviousway)andyoutwoendeduphavingsex.. Thenextmorningyoucouldsay:
You: I have to tell you, last night when you just out of no where starting kissing me and grabbing me, I was turned on so fast my head was spinning secretly and most women don't realize this but men loooooooove the type of woman who initiates and goes after what she wants in life.

Congratulations!! Youjustsentherasimplerewardmessage! Overtime(orinstantly)thistypeofsignal/dialoguewillcanceloutFALSE [MONKEY]BELIEFSand/orthefeelingsofdiscomfortwithinitiating...(onereason whypeopledon'tactontheirdesiresisFEARofanegativeoutcome(orfearofan imagined/falsenegativeoutcome...i.e."What if he thinks I'm a slut? Blah Blah Blah = The Horny Girl Decides Not To Act Her Sexual Urges" .becauseforthatgirltheslutperceptionissoemotionallypainful,sheiswillingto notactonherhorniness(potentialphysical&emotionpleasure)justtobethe"girl thatguysadmire"...that'swhywhenyoushifttheperceptionto"ALL GUYS
secretly ADMIRE the type of woman who blah blah blah (goes after what she wants)",yougiveherpermissiontoactonherdesiresandasabonus,

shegetstheemotionalpleasureof'beingadmiredfordoingit'...Basically,you're gettinghertoinitiatemorebywhackingthemonkey(beliefs)! Allofthismakessense,right? Well,notforeveryone.

I'vefoundthatsomeguysfindithardtobelievethatonedaytheirpartnerwill initiatesexmoreofteninthefuture.(orsomeotheraspectofimproving) Theycan'tseeit. Tobreakitdown.Theconceptandtheorymakessensetotheseguys.They're intelligentguys.Infact,theyunderstandeverythingcompletely! However.They.Just.Can't.See.It. Itjustdoesn'tfeellikesomethingthatwilleverhappen. It'snormal. It'sonlybecause(unfortunately)somepeopletendtobuildtheirexpectations(of what'spossible)MOREONwhathashappenedinthepast...andLESSONthereality ofwhatotherpeopleareexperiencing+clarityofwhat'sgoingoninsideofhermind thatmakesherreact(ornotreact)inagivensituation+thestrongbeliefthatit's easytochangehersurfacelevelreactions... Intermsofalifestrategy,neverbuildyourexpectationsaboutwhat'spossiblebased on'pastpatterns'.Never!APastPatternisjustaresultofconsistentlyusingaflawed system.That'sallitis. That'sgoodnews. Thatmeansifa723lb(327.947kg)(51Stonesand9pounds)womanwearingapink bikiniate18.5donutseverymorningandrefusedtoworkoutandit(andrelated pooreatinghabits)resultedinthecurrentweight,thenher'pastpattern'of weighing700+isonlyaresultofconsistentlyusingaflawedsystem. Shejustadjustedher'eatingstrategy'herresultwouldbedifferent! Theideathata'pastpattern'(resultofaflawedprocess)beingsomesortof predictionmodelforwhat'spossibleinthefuturemakesnosenseatall. Intermsofalifestrategy,neverbuildyourexpectationsaboutwhat'spossiblebased on'pastpatterns'becauseitdoesn'tmakesense. Instead,dosomethingsensiblydifferent(consistently)! (IknowI'mprobablypreachingtothechoirwiththatparticularmessage.)

 Themainlessonsinthisreportare: 1.SurfaceLevelBeliefsareveryeasytochange. HaveRepetition&Rewarddialogues[DaybyDay]thatcomplimentherforbeing obviouswithherinitiating(oranyaspectofherbehaviorthatyouwanttochange) insteadof'Option#2:ExpressingTRUEfeelings'. 2.Thereare3basicpartstoasexualexplosion(oronetimearousal) Part 1: The 'thing' that caused the feeling.
Part 2: The 'intense feeling of arousal' that she is experiencing (as a result). Part 3: The 'reaction' to the feeling.

Quick Recap Sheet:

3.AgreewithherMonkeyBeliefsandthenreword.(whenshe'sbeingtotally inflexible) Tieittoherbeliefsaboutsex[oranaspectofsex]COMBINEDWITHhow shewantstoperceiveherselfandthenreframetheprocess. 4.Intermsofgettingmoresex,youshouldhave2differentstrategies. Strategy#1:Dothingstobuildsexualtension(forthepurposeofgettingherhorny) Strategy#2:Dothingstogethertobemoreobviouswhensheinitiates 5.Intermsofalifestrategy,neverbuildyourexpectationsaboutwhat's possiblebasedon'pastpatterns'becauseitdoesn'tmakesense. 6.Instead,dosomethingsensiblydifferent(consistently)!

Hopefully,youhavefoundtheinformationinthisreporttobehelpful. BestRegards, CRJames Muchsuccess! (Any questions, comments, or suggestions about this report, let me know crjames100@gmail.com) Best Regards, CR James Author of "Super Seduction Power" http://SuperSeductionPower.com P.S. If you're interested in more ways to initiate, check out my new report: 32 Ways To Initiate" and right now it's at the dirt-cheap intro price: http://SuperPowerMedia.com/ways-to-initiate.html OR: Download the **NO COST TRIAL VERSION** and read the first 9 pages at: http://SuperPowerMedia.com/32StrategiesTRIAL.zip