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A free resource compiled by Terran Williams for Common Ground Church to accompany Gospel in Life, which is written by Dr. Tim Keller and published by Zondervan.
CONTENTS
SESSION 1............................................ CITY: The world that is SESSION 2............................................ HEART: Three ways to live SESSION 3............................................ IDOLATRY: The sin beneath the sin SESSION 4............................................ COMMUNITY: The context for change SESSION 5............................................ WORK: Cultivating the garden SESSION 6............................................ WITNESS: An alternate city SESSION 7............................................ JUSTICE: A people for others SESSION 8............................................ ETERNITY: The world that is to come
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b) Ask God by his Holy Spirit to impart his love for the people of your city. Then write out a prayer for the city.
c) Ask the Holy Spirit to show you specific ways that your life can positively impact the city of Cape Town.
2. Listen to a talk by Tim Keller where he more fully opens up Jeremiah 29 http://sermons2.redeemer.com/sermons/meaning-city
Reminder: Please bring your Bibles from next week onwards.
In light of the DVD and conversation, what is one thing you want to change or remember?
Session 2
Religion I obey-therefore Im accepted. Motivation is based on fear and insecurity. I obey God in order to get things from God. When circumstances in my life go wrong, I am angry at God or myself, since I believe, like Jobs friends, that anyone who is good deserves a comfortable life.
The Gospel Im accepted-therefore I obey. Motivation is based on grateful joy. I obey God to get to God- to delight and resemble Him. When circumstances in my life go wrong, I struggle but I know all my punishment fell on Jesus and that while he may allow this for my training, he will exercise his Fatherly love within my trial. When I am criticized I struggle, but it is not critical for me to think of myself as a good person. My identity is not built on my record or my performance but on Gods love for me in Christ. I can take criticism. My prayer life consists of generous stretches of praise and adoration. My main purpose is fellowship with God.
In light of the DVD and conversation, what is one thing you want to change or remember?
When I am criticized I am furious or devastated because it is critical that I think of myself as a good person. Threats to that self-image must be destroyed at all costs. My prayer life consists largely of petition and it only heats up when I am in a time of need. My main purpose in prayer is control of the environment.
Going deeper this week: 1. Listen to a talk by Tim Keller where he opens up Luke 15 more fully: http://sermons2.redeemer.com/sermons/prodigal-sons 2. Reflection exercise: The differences between irreligion (rebellious younger brother) and the gospel are easy to spot. It is often harder to discern the differences between religion (self-righteous older brother) and the gospel (grace-motivated obedience).
My self-view swings between two poles. If and when I am living up to my standards, I feel confident, but then I am prone to be proud and unsympathetic to failing people. If and when I am not living up to standards, I feel insecure and inadequate. Im not confident. I feel like a failure. My identity and self-worth are based mainly on how hard I work or how moral I am, and so I must look down on those I perceive as lazy or immoral.
My self-view is not based on a view of myself as a moral achiever. In Christ I am simul iustus et peccator - simultaneously sinful and yet accepted in Christ. I am so bad he had to die for me and I am so loved he was glad to die for me. This leads me to deeper and deeper humility and confidence at the same time. My identity and self-worth are centred on the one who died for His enemies, who was excluded from the city for me. I am saved by sheer grace. So I cant look down on those who believe or practice something different from me. Only by grace I am what I am.
Source: The Gospel in Life, Study Guide (Zondervan, 2010), page 16 Now prayerfully re-read it, asking the Holy Spirit to identify and remove religion from your relationship with God, and replacing it entirely with gospel-joy.
Session 3
am hurting, in a problem; only then do I feel worthy of love or able to deal with guilt. (Suffering idolatry) my political or social cause is making progress and ascending in influence or power. (Ideology idolatry) I have a particular kind of look or body image. (Image idolatry) I have power and influence over others. (Power Idolatry) I am loved and respected by (Approval Idolatry) I have this kind of pleasure experience, a particular quality of life. (Comfort idolatry) I am able to get mastery over my life in the area of (Control idolatry)
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The final 4 idols in the list above are, according to Alfred Adler, the most basic idols of the heart, so they deserve extra comment: If you seek POWER (success, winning, influence): Your greatest nightmare: Humiliation People around you often feel: Used Your problem emotion: Anger If you seek APPROVAL (affirmation, love, relationships): Your greatest nightmare: Rejection People around you often feel: Smothered Your problem emotion: Cowardice If you seek COMFORT (privacy, lack of stress, freedom): Your greatest nightmare: Stress, demands People around you often feel: Neglected Your problem emotion: Boredom If you seek CONTROL (self-discipline, certainty, standards): Your greatest nightmare: Uncertainty People around you often feel: Condemned Your problem emotion: Worry Source: The Gospel in Life, Study Guide (Zondervan, 2010), page 43-44 Second, repent of your idols. Name your idol(s) and then pray: as a counterfeit god, a Lord, I confess I have treated functional saviour. It is a good thing, yet why have I made it ultimate? What is this compared to you? If I have you, I dont need to have this. This cannot love me and help me and forgive me as you do. This is not my life Jesus, you are my life.
This is not my righteousness and worthiness. You are! It cannot give me that but you can and have. Lord, I now see how dangerous and repulsive idolizing this good thing really is. In yearning after this, I have been trampling on your love for me. Source: The Gospel in Life, Study Guide (Zondervan, 2010), page 47-48 Third, rejoice in Christ. Prayerfully read and ponder this excerpt from Thomas Chalmers: It is seldom that any of our bad habits disappear by natural extinction. It is seldom done through reasoning or by determination. But what cannot be destroyed can be dispossessed one taste may give way to another. For a reigning affection to lose its power it must be replaced by the expulsive power of a new affection (passion). It is through faith in Jesus Christ, as the Spirit of adoption is freshly poured into us it is then that the heart, brought under the mastery of one great and predominant affection, is delivered from the tyranny of is former desires. Its the only way in which deliverance is possible. Source: The Gospel in Life, Study Guide (Zondervan, 2010), page 46-47
Pray this faith-declaring prayer aloud: Jesus Christ you are enough for me! By your death, you have accepted me. By your resurrection, you have made me your own. By your Spirit, you have loved me. You are supremely worthy of my one and only life. Only you can truly satisfy me, forgive me, free me and carry me. Only you will never forsake or abandon me. You are my life, my treasure, my all. I pray that by the power of the Holy Spirit you would become the central passion of my heart. Come and expel every idol from my heart. Let me find my happiness, my meaning and my identity in you ultimately. Let every other desire of my life be secondary to you. And as you sit upon the throne of my life, keep this good thing that I have made an ultimate thing in its proper place. Amen.
This can be done in a time of solitude, but it is also important to do this the moment you catch yourself turning to an idol.
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Session 4
Colossians 3:16: Teach and admonish one another. Ephesians 5:19: Speak to one another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs. Romans 12:16: Live in harmony with one another. 1 Corinthians 1:10: Agree with one another.
PRACTICE 7: Serve one another through accountability James 5:16: Confess yours sins to each other and pray for each other. Romans 15:14: Instruct one another. Ephesians 4:25: Speak truthfully. PRACTICE 8: Serve one another through forgiveness and reconciliation Ephesians 4:2: Be completely humble and gentle, be patient, bearing with one another in love. Colossians 3:13: Forgive whatever grievances you have against one another. Galatians 5:26: Dont provoke or envy one another. James 4:11: Do not slander one another. Matthew 5:23-24, 18:15: Re-establish broken relationships with one another. PRACTICE 9: Serve one anothers interests rather than your own Hebrews 10:24: Spur one another on towards love and good deeds. Romans 15:1-2: Dont please yourself, but please others. Galatians 5:13: Serve one another. Source: The Gospel in Life, Study Guide (Zondervan, 2010), page 58-72 Now, evaluate your current relating to community. In each of the 9 Practices, rate out of 10, your current relating to those Christians youre most tightly connected to. Then take the areas where youre weakest, and ask the Holy Spirit to help you grow stronger in them. Perhaps jot down a single step you can take to do better in that area.
Practice: Affirm one anothers strengths, abilities and gifts Affirm one anothers equal importance to Christ. Affirm one another through visible affection Share one anothers space, goods and time Share one anothers needs and problems Serve one another through accountability Share one anothers beliefs, thinking and spirituality Serve one another through forgiveness and reconciliation Serve one anothers interests rather than your own
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Session 5
In light of the DVD and conversation, what is one thing you want to change or remember?
Going deeper this week: 1. Listen to a sermon by Tim Keller on the theme of cultural renewal: http://download.redeemer.com/rpcsermons/vision2005/Culture_-_10-30-05. mp3 2. Explore the following website, looking through some of its numerous articles that seek to integrate work and faith: http://www.intheworkplace.com 3. Become deeply motivated in your work by prayerfully reading the following article which gives seven reasons God designed work. After each of its seven points ask yourself: 1. Is this a motivation for my work? 2. What prayer can I pray right now that will help me absorb this insight into my approach to work? WHY WORK? Tragically Christians often find it difficult to make meaning of work. Yet the Bible gives seven strong motivations for why God designed work.
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provider. Creating music is about bringing beauty out of chaos of sounds and allows us to better understand the beauty of Gods creation. The doctors job is to bring a falling apart physical body back into unity. Like God, we work toward the flourishing of all humanity, and all creation. We create. We redeem. Oh, the dignity of being an image-bearer! 4. We work in order to earn money to survive, to advance Gods kingdom and to benefit others. For most of us, work will be the primary means of supplying our needs for food and clothing. But Deuteronomy 8:18 tells us that God gives us the ability to create wealth in order to establish His covenant upon the earth. For starters, this means we underwrote kingdom ventures with our money. For example, the book of Acts tells story after story of the church putting their money at the feet of the leaders, entrusting to them to most effective use of that money for the advance of Gods kingdom through the church. Without the consistent generous provision of Gods people, the church would be greatly crippled in its attempts at advancing the gospel. In addition to giving money to the church, we give some of our hard earned cash to help dependents, and the poor. Ephesians 4:28 says, Anyone who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with their own hands, that they may have something to share with those in need. 5. We work to create and transform culture. The first instruction given to humankind has been called the cultural mandate. In Genesis 1:28, God instructs us to create civilization. In Genesis 2:15, were instructed to cultivate the earth. The root word for cultivate is the root word for culture. From the beginning, God intended that man would reflect His glory through mans work, that it might affect all of culture. God cares about our cities and nations and wants to see every person influenced for Jesus Christ. Jesus echoes this cultural mandate in Matthew 5:13-16 where he urges us to be the salt of the earth, and the light of the world. We are to bring out Gods colours and Gods flavour in the workplaces and spheres of industry we find ourselves in. High levels of excellence, thoughtfulness, integrity, humility, working in team, and courageous entrepreneurship are all ways that we renew the culture. So doing we raise the bar, calling even unbelievers to do their very best to promote human flourishing and godly cultural progress. One key aspect of a godly culture is that the strong look out for the weak. For example, when Boaz allowed the gleanings to be left behind from his harvest, he was establishing a kingdom principle for those of us in business. He allowed the poor to come and collect what was left.
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They still had to work, but the owner of the field intentionally left the gleanings for the poor (Ruth 2:16). Businesses should think of how this principle applies to how we benefit the poor. 6. We work because it is the environment in which our character is formed. The great destiny of every believer is not ultimately what they accomplish, but rather what they become. Romans 8:29 says were destined to be conformed to the image of Gods Son. And its the hustle and bustle, the pressures and challenges, the dealings with friends and strangers, enemies and colleagues that happens in daily life that is the raw material with which God fashions our character. Since work takes up the largest share of our daily lives, it is also the number one environment God uses to make us more loving, joyful, peaceful, patient, kind, good, faithful, gentle and self-controlled (Galatians 5:22-23). 7. We work because work exposes us to people who need Christs salvation. God is in the habit of placing his children in the presence of people whom he intends to adopt into his family. For example Acts 18:2-3 tells us how he placed Paul in the same industry and work place as a couple, which then opened up the opportunity for him to share the gospel with them: There Paul met a Jew named Aquila with his wife Priscilla, because he was a tentmaker as they were. He then stayed and worked with them. The amount of hours spent with co-workers provides the ideal environment for relationship to form. And those relationships in turn become natural bridges for sharing our faith. For example, Zachary Levi, an actor says, My job on my set, I believe, is to first just love people and gain that trust with people where they know that I really do love them and care about their well-being, so that when they are running into problems, they will hopefully, at some point, come to me and ask me, What is your peace all about? What is your comfort all about? Where do you get your love? Where do you get your talents? And I can turn to them and say without blinking, Jesus Christ.
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SESSION 6
In light of the DVD and conversation, what is one thing you want to change or remember?
In each case, the Greek word translated household is oikos. Oikos means much more than household. It refers to ones primary relational connections. An oikos tended to include relatives, neighbours, co-workers and just plain friends. Still today, the average person has an oikos of 8 to 15 people with whom they have deep bonds of connection, and therefore people over whom they have the capacity for influence. In this oikos evangelism we see God saving one person, and then reaching that persons entire oikos through them. Gods plan is not just to save individuals, but to then save that persons entire oikos. For example, throughout the New Testament, when Gods Spirit changed a life, a world-changer was born. Whether it was a demon-possessed man, a swindler named Zacchaeus, a royal official with a dying son, a tax collector named Matthew, a Centurion named Cornelius, a businesswoman named Lydia, or a recently unemployed Philippian jailor, they all were sent back home to their oikos.
GoinG deeper this week: 1. Listen to a talk by Stephen Van Rhyn (Jubilee Church) on how the book of Jonah sends us out on a mission. http://media.jubilee.org.za/Jubilee/Sermons/Stephen-GiL-witness.mp3
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Oikos, the Greek word for extended family, encompasses our relational worlds whom God has strategically placed in our spheres of influence. And, if those relationships frame our primary evangelistic targets, then that reality must frame our primary ministry strategies for the church. When believers, representing any generation or culture, come to understand their specific evangelistic assignment, oikos becomes the great equalizer in any churchthe simplest, yet most important common denominator in any ministry. It doesnt matter how good-looking or unattractive you think you might be. It doesnt matter how tall you are or how short you are. It doesnt matter if you have money or if youre flat broke. Your ethnicity, theological background, language, and age dont matter either. We all have 8 to 15 people whom God has placed in our relational worlds. We are all Christs partners in world-change. Oikos is not an evangelism program. It is essentially a worldview, a paradigm through which a Christ-follower evaluates life, its purpose and events. Not only is the oikos formula not new to the Church, its not new to yours. The overwhelming majority of the people in any local church came to Christ through an oikos relationship. If you were to ask the average Christian in the average church how it is that they came to faith, they would refer to someone in their oikos who introduced them to faith. The profound conclusion to draw from this simple exercise is that the oikos paradigm is already alive and well in every ministry. Embracing the oikos phenomenon is not about introducing a new idea to any local church; its about accelerating it through intentionality. For example, imagine a church of 100 people. If someone were to ask a member of this church, How large is your church? an appropriate answer would be About 1500 people. After the questioner reels back, this person could then add: Oh, but 1400 of them dont come yet. Thats intentionality. It is for the 1400 that the 100 have been asked to live another day. In oikos evangelism our life is under observation by those who dont yet believe. Our life is the attractor and evidence for the truth of the faith. The humbling nature of the gospel leads us to approach people in our oikos without superiority, and with deep respect.
In oikos evangelism, because this person will be around for much time, we can pace the process of reaching them. They get to ask questions and determine the speed of the process. The other person is in the drivers seat. Sometimes people in your oikos respond to the gospel immediately, other times they take many years to come to faith. In light of the above article, list 6 people in your oikos who dont yet know Christ. Pray for them often. Thank God that he has placed them within his reach through you. Ask God to give you opportunities to naturally share your faith with them. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6.
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SESSION 7
In light of the DVD and conversation, what is one thing you want to change or remember?
GoinG deeper this week: 1. On YouTube watch Bonos 2006 speech at the USA Presidents National Breakfast: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dJihFEDoLA4 Alternatively, read the script from his speech here
Look, whatever thoughts you have about God, who He is or if He exists, most will agree that if there is a God, He has a special place for the poor. In fact, the poor are where God lives. Check Judaism. Check Islam. Check pretty much anyone. I mean, God may well be with us in our mansions on the hill. I hope so. He may well be with us as in all manner of controversial stuff. Maybe, maybe not. But the one thing we can all agree, all faiths and ideologies, is that God is with the vulnerable and poor.
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2. Listen to a talk by David Adams of Jubilee church, Cape Town. Go to http://www.jubilee.org.za/sermons.html and scroll down to the Gospel in Life series. Download Gospel in Life Justice: A People For Others (10 Apr 2011).
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Session 8
City: The world that is Heart: Three ways to live Idolatry: The sin beneath the sin Community: The context for change Work: Cultivating the garden Witness: An alternate city Justice: A people for others Eternity: The world that is to come
In light of the DVD and conversation, what is one thing you want to change or remember?
Going deeper this week: 1. Listen to a talk by Keller on how life in our city now can be shaped by the promise of the future city: http://redeemercitytocity.com/resources/library.jsp?Library_item_ param=361 2. Think of the 8 topics weve explored. Jot down next to each the primary insight or lasting impression that you gained from it:
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