Managing
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your Fears
5th
Scientists have found that humans are optimists and hence fear is a danger in itself.
Fear is something we fight and conquer and it is not considered a desirable trait. Is Fear really all of the above ? Can we not look at fear in a totally different way ?
Fear is a story !
Fears are figments of ones vivid imagination. They change with age. A child is afraid what whats lurking in a dark tree , while you are afraid of a false criminal case. Exchange the scenarios and fears disappear. Fear is a story in which you are the author and you are the reader.
Fear and stories have the same architecture. Fears have characters like stories. In fears however the characters are us ourselves Fears have plots, they have a beginning, a middle and an end Fears are accompanied by imagery as vivid as something you might see in a movie or a novel Fears have suspense , you do not know the outcome of your story
Sometime our worst fears do come true. Fears can hence predict the future!
Remember, you wrote your own fear and you also read your own fear. Question is, how well you read your fear ?
5 Managing your fears
Most of us normally respond to the story that is most lurid, most horrifying and the easiest for our imagination to picture after getting hit with criminal cases your family will suffer very badly. o Vikram might respond to the story of his mother committing suicide and father having a heart attack o Vikram might also respond to the story of your sister never getting married because she has multiple criminal cases on her
We choose to ignore the much more likely ,dangerous and severe story of getting this woman back into your life and the long term life long damage she can cause. This story is not as vivid as the stories above.
Moral :- Read your fears like a scientist and read them right.
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