Re: Low set or short little finger Post Parender on Fri Feb 04, 2011 5:31 pm Dear GM,

I cannot say relating the features on the hands or palms that show under -developed or over developed sexual organs, but can say about compatibility among the partners i.e. whether they are undersexed or oversexed? I am convinced that analysis of hand features show compatibility between two persons especially based on subconscious factors like personality makeup, temperament, and certain basic needs such as sexual drive or the urge to power- all of which are of vital importance in relation between a man and a woman. With reference to the most important needs, palmistry has the answers to these important questions. Is the person undersexed or oversexed? Are they dominating or the dependent type? As developed Mount of Venus and Deep good Heart Line gives the possessor the ability and capacity to love, but an ideal sex partner must know how to do more than make love artfully- he must know how to communicate. Therefore, to the palmist, the little finger (Finger of Mercury) is vital in this connection. We could call it truly the messenger of love since it represents the individuals ability to communicate, especially with the opposite sex. I associate it with the sexual glands and the speech center of a person. A very short and pointed little finger on a woman hand shows who has underdeveloped uterus, is often very rigid, and has a low sex drive especially when Mount of Venus is found underdeveloped, flabby or thin. Where a strong developed much rayed Mount of Venus on a womans hand with a longer little finger and deep long Heart Line proceeding towards Mount of Saturn denotes strong pelvic muscles hence strong urge to enjoy sex. Mount of Venus represents the basic energies of the person, the driving force and instinctive potential of an individual and makes a person sufficient sensual. By Venus Mount we can truly measure ones sexuality. Now, consider this too, if both husband and wife are undersexed or are oversexed, no problem will arise.

The best result is obtained when one partner is as dominant, as the other is submissive psychologically. One does not need to be told what happens when both marriage partners are dominant types. The dependent woman could be considered the one in whose hand the Fate Line starts clearly from Mount of Moon and could easily be described as old-fashioned wife who loves, honors and obeys. But this type is becoming rarer today. Straight Mercury finger usually indicates that you are a "straightforward" in your communication. You say it like you see it. If the finger is curved, it usually indicates some breakdown in your ability to communicate effectively. It is often the result of an emotionally distant or unstable relationship with your parents in childhood, if it is found in non dominant hand If I were a matchmaker and someone came searching for a suitable mate, I would look for one well developed little finger, a strong Mount of Venus and a long clear Heart Line. Besides all this trouble awaits a husband and a wife who both have faulty Fate Line or no Fate Lines at all. If both have strong Fate Lines both have the willpower and common sense to bring harmony to the relationship. The Trust Issues in Love are also shown by this little finger. Hand must be analyzed in totality.

Post jeanette on Fri Feb 04, 2011 5:34 pm Know nothing about this. Considering palmists are supposed to help people and knowing this feature is about communication, I do not think mentioning this would help with confidence and communication. I would think quite the opposite. Jeanette.

jeanette My take on the low set Mercury is issues of abandonment by a parent at some point. It's the perception of the person with the marking that they were abandoned, not necessarily the reality of the situation on the part of all involved. For example, it could be that a parent traveled a lot, or would come home from work every day and disappear just

after dinner, not being available physically or emotionally. Or it may look like a parent who only talked and never showed interest in the person with the low set Mercury. Based on that assumption, improved communications are going to come from that person realizing that abandonment is not necessarily the response everybody will have. It's important to observe the behaviors of others with whom the low set Mercury person is communicating. Are they acting like they are abandoning the low set Mercury person - what does that look like? Not listening, leaving the room, interrupting? Or is only the perception of the low set Mercury person that the behavior LOOKS like abandonment. The bottom line is that the low set Mercury person needs to realize their role in expecting to be abandoned, and find another perspective by trusting others. Mercury, in many aspects, requires trust to create intimacy. Pamelah Post Lynn on Wed Apr 13, 2011 3:21 am hi Pamelah, nice to see your posts tonight. I completely agree with you about these abandonment issues in low-set Mercury finger. Thumbs up! Lynn wrote:hi Pamelah, nice to see your posts tonight. I completely agree with you about these abandonment issues in low-set Mercury finger. Thumbs up! Thanks, Lynn. It's good to have time to chat here on the forum. I've missed it. Pamelah wrote: Based on that assumption, improved communications are going to come from that person realizing that abandonment is not necessarily the response everybody will have. It's important to observe the behaviors of others with whom the low set Mercury person is communicating. Are they acting like they are abandoning the low set Mercury person - what does that look like? Not listening, leaving the room, interrupting? Or is only the perception of the low set Mercury person that the behavior LOOKS like abandonment. The bottom line is that the low set Mercury person needs to realize their role in expecting to be abandoned, and find another perspective by trusting others. Mercury, in many aspects, requires trust to create intimacy.

Hi Pamelah, I really like how you phrased it regarding how a person with a low set/ short little finger is seeing themselves as abandoned because of the other person "Not listening, leaving the room, interrupting" ! Made me wonder about how we attract people in our lives that play out the polarity of our own 'craziness'. Like a person with Abandonment Issues drawn to someone with ADHD and perhaps Narcissistic Personality Disorder and then they live in a cycle of perpetually reconfirming their Issue to themselves as being abandoned. Patti Post Parender on Wed Apr 13, 2011 9:00 am In my experience, if the finger sits less than quarter an inch below your ring finger from the upper edge of your palm, this could be normal and if more than that it can indicate that you are not getting enough closeness and affection and that you probably want more. You feel solitude and loneliness. The antidote, of course, is to get out there and be social! What usually causes this marker is a severe emotional loss in childhood. Possessing a small pinkie and low-set pinkie are two different things. Low-set but long finger is always better than low-set and short pinkie. A normal pinky finger equals about 1/3 of the full hand length. It could be voluntary give it away, surrender of ones rights without attempting to reclaim it. It could be withdrawing support of influenced people or help despite allegiance or responsibility. It also indicates a low self esteem.It's such a position reduces the self-worth in a person. I try to establish combinations.And I believe that dermatological study and Palmistry are made for each other. A weak or defective directional transverse and Lowest Rank patterns on Right Middle fingertip and Right Little fingertips will confirm the abandonment. Owners of these patterns with low set pinkie are routinely ignored first by their families, then by their friends, and eventually by their spouses and children. He must learn to deal with rejection abandonment or betrayal possibilities without either selling out or running away. People do not listen to him because due to lack of self esteem he himself doubts what he speaks. He must believe in the value of what he say or speak it out loud.

Parender Sethi Parender Hello friends, Smile

short little finger with whorl finger print in it. Here, the result may vary . Smile

Patti wrote: I see here how the predictive palmistry and character reading palmistry evolves in the same plane . When a particular character act in a particular given situation(fate), the outcome remains invariably more or less predictable and expectable. This way, the predictive palmistry and character reading palmistry gives same idea. but, In predictive palmistry, palmists could read the result of action as well. Here, i see many peoples talk about abandonment issue in related to low-set little finger. Let me explain a few facts regarding this idea. Let we consider a couple have 3 children and one among the 3 has low set little finger and other 2 childrens have the finger sets in perfect line. In this particular situation, how the first child loses it's parental care or experiencing insults or having inferiority complex? When a child begin to speak pleasantly in the family, that child has been well recognised in the family, even though the parents are seemed to be brutal in nature. on the other hand, children who are lacking communication and being reserved all the time get opposite result from family. However, The confident level should be verified with various other factor as well. For example, i have low set finger set. my parents are supporting me from the begining though i experienced reserved and bad school days. They supported me lot to make me become a doctor. Now, i see that they have good communication and relationship with me after my education. At the mean time, i have two whorl fingerprints in my thumb and ulnar loops in my remaining 8 fingers. I think this phenomena of confidence, boldness, and persistence helped me to win over my hard period of life. Hence, It is sure that lack of adequate communication with family and society causes problem to the peoples who have dropped little finger. It is the cause for the further abandonment feeling. However, other feature in the palm either helps or ruins the further consequences. For example, strong major and minor palm lines with the dropped little finger shows successful person who remain reserved. However, i am not sure whether is there any cases who has dropped and Pamelah wrote: Based on that assumption, improved communications are going to come from that person realizing that abandonment is not necessarily the response everybody will have. It's important to observe the behaviors of others with whom the low set Mercury person is communicating. Are they acting like they are abandoning the low set Mercury person - what does that look like? Not listening, leaving the room, interrupting? Or is only the perception of the low set Mercury person that the behavior LOOKS like abandonment. The bottom line is that the low set Mercury person needs to realize their role in expecting to be abandoned, and find another perspective by trusting others. Mercury, in many aspects, requires trust to create intimacy. Hi Pamelah, I really like how you phrased it regarding how a person with a low set/ short little finger is seeing themselves as abandoned because of the other person "Not listening, leaving the room, interrupting" ! Made me wonder about how we attract people in our lives that play out the polarity of our own 'craziness'. Like a person with Abandonment Issues drawn to someone with ADHD and perhaps Narcissistic Personality Disorder and then they live in a cycle of perpetually reconfirming their Issue to themselves as being abandoned. Thanks, Patti. I think so much of whom we attract in our lives helps us heal our deep wounds, whether or not we are conscious about it. The great value of hand analysis as a tool is becoming conscious of what our wounds and strengths are so we can focus our attention and be aware of who are attracting, and what purpose they serve. For me, recovering from 'victimhood' as a child has been a HUGE change in my life as an adult. It's taken many people over time, many types of relationships for me to see the victim role played out and how that has shifted. Do I still get caugh in it sometimes? Yes. But I'm conscious of it within a very short amount of time now.

Feeling abandoned, as a perception of the person who feels it, shows up also as betrayal in some people's language. I've been watching somebody I know recently go through some difficult times. Her 'abandonment' marking is strong on the low set Mercury. Her language is that she's been betrayed. Pamelah Post Lynn on Thu Apr 14, 2011 2:07 am Thanks for interesting discussion folks. Low set little finger is something I have been interested in for a long time. NB I only class it as low set when crease between lower & middle phalanx of mercury finger is level with the base crease on apollo - where apollo finger meets the palm. Thumbs up!