Marriage Elephants and Ants is the first time the ants encounter elephants, ants fell love, how

not, the elephants who so handsome, big and strong benar2 look great in the eyes of the ant. In contrast elephant so, he feel that tiny ant, adroit, diligent and beautiful woman she is dambaannya ketemukan who he had never before. They benar2 each other love the one with the others based on their kelebihan2 from the point masing2 eyes. Although many who menentarng their marriage, because of the differences which so plugged it, but they still impose their will to marry with the other one with thoughts of love will be able to cope with all sorts of problems, besides that, as also saying love is blind. Because they believe that their love is sincere, then pernikahannyapun carried out in their house of worship and are blessed with the promise and oath to lively semati. But after they got married only their eyes open, that many once problem which is not likely to be resolved, because the differences which such drastic. Starting from sex until communication and relationships with family. Elephants should not come to see the ant family, because his body into gedean, DTG ants can not place the elephant, because it is not visible. Likewise Dlm sex. Perhaps this problem can still be resolved if they could still communicate with the other. If an elephant talk, ants feel voice violence, whereas if the ants can not talk intelligibility by elephant because his voice is too soft. In addition problemnyapun different, elephant problem different from the ant problem, and therefore felt the elephant ants do not want to understand and comprehend the problem as well opposite. Finally they live with each other to deceive one with the others, they live glutted to pura2an, just for the sake of the family, for children, for status, for the sake of environment and for the sake of religion. Now ask the same of ourselves how many marriages in

about we, maybe even who is on a personal experience by ourselves, such as like elephants and ants. The first wife to marry her husband because he is rich, intense, his famous etc., although perhaps the existence of differences in religion, age, ethnicity or status even may be impotent. In contrast to marry the first husband and wife, because he beautiful, diligent, dear husband, his sacrificial etc., but reality, the wife has no education as expected by her husband, could not give a child, different religion, family wife no willing to accept or reverse, even different cultures and nations once. The husband could not satisfy her sexual needs. Of course we can handily say the words for the sake of compassion, they should be able to beat each other with the other one, this easy to say but difficult to be implemented. Do I need to convert for the sake of my wife? Is I must change my life habits of Asian people being Caucasian? Do I have to force my family to be able to receive the wife / husband I? Will I be able to force the husband to be rich, young and handsome again? What is the feeling that love can be imposed or changed by a sense of kesian neither by the demands of religion? Feelings of love is a deep sense out of our hearts and our feelings. It can not be imposed only for the sake of religion, for the sake of others, for the sake of children, for environment or for status. Although religion can not sue me divorce, but can not force religion and demanded me to love someone. Reply to my question to rekan2 and readers of all, what should be done by the elephant and the ant Should elephants have (WIL) any other woman of your dreams only to preserve his marriage? Is pura2 ants have to play a play on, play a role as a good wife, even though there is no compassion in his heart Dlm? Religion can demand that we go through life in accordance with our choice, but whether religion can claim elephants and ants to live in full lies and to pura2an only to maintain a marriage with the motto which is important not divorce because it violates religious law? Which is more innocent life to be glutted glutted pura2an and lies well

hypocrisy, or whether divorce and separation in baik2? While living like in hell Dlm without any sense of happiness and love, but because for the sake of the child, for family, for status and for the sake of religion, our forced to live in lies and kepura2an and hypocrisy. Whether I may be frank mengkapkan told my wife that I have not love him anymore? Is May I say to him frankly, that there is no more a sense of self-love in Dlm this? That we are engaging in sex rather than based on the taste of love again, but because only a biological need, or because they feel required to serve him. How many women who do not defend her marriage despite No more compassion, for fear of staying by her husband. Treasure no their have, education and jobs they do not have, while anak2 still small?? Do I have to accept and continue to be patient if wife / husband meretricious every day, just for the sake of marital status? Religion gives many rules and ban this and that, but does not provide a way out, except the standard answer is pray and plead with the Creator. Did the Creator would change ant or an elephant so opposite? poor, had been the fate of 031 204