Gervero, Jaykee M.

BSED-II
Reaction Paper Article: Phantom Pregnancy

Sir Saturay
TTh (6:30- 8:00 pm)

Every woman wants to be a mother. The true mother is when you experience pregnancy and give birth. Every family wants a child for their family. Well for my family, we believe that therell no more fighting when there is child on the family. We believe that every BABY is a blessing in every family. Every child in the whole wide world is a gift given by God. They can be also an Angel because they save us from hell. But there are some instances that a parent or a mother it hate or do not want to have a child. Like early pregnancy, they accidentally already made a baby on early age and because it is too early, they commit abortion. Another one is a situation that a parent has a child but they have no time for her or act as a parent to their child. But there are some pregnancy cases that they want a child but they cant. Like those who has ovary cancer which they cant have a child or even the case of Phantom Pregnancy. Pregnancya period or a time which a female is pregnanta moment has a special a meaning which is not obvious but other people are aware of. This stage acts a process which is sensitive not just for the mother but also for the baby. But what if you can have a baby if you just do not lose your womb. Phantom Pregnancyit is a case which a person fell that she is pregnant but she is really notalso known as False Pregnancy. There are many reason of having Phantom Pregnancy such ashysterectomy. In this article it has been said that this is case of a woman who removed her womb. Another, when your womb because she has ill or cervical cancer or ovary cancer. Removing her womb is the only way to cure her illness. Even some accidents can be a reason. Or even her husband case of decreasing of releasing of sperm cell. Well actually this is the first time that I hear about Phantom Pregnancy. My aunt has no womb any more, it was removed year 2010. She said it is really needed to remove because her menstruation flow is not normal; 3 weeks a month she has a menstruation which causes a very painful one. As what Ive observe there are some advantages and disadvantageswhen the womens womb removed. The advantages are probably, for those moms who dont want have any child, they cant be pregnant. There will be no money for buying pads or napkins. It will stop using of taking pills or contraceptives. While the disadvantages aretheyll know that they cant be pregnant, in that case can have love affair because there is no prove of being pregnant. They cant have aids or HIVs if they have mate a lot of men. For those who want a child, they cant have one anymore instead of adopting. There is some cause of Phantom Pregnancy which Ive said before. Experiencing Phantom Pregnancy is a serious matter for the mother because it has effects. Well actually the causes itself affects the mother to have Phantom Pregnancy. Effects of Phantom Pregnancy to the mother are a huge problem. Because it damages her brain. The mother was depressing on her situation, or can tell or feel what things or period our life is. We feel that some signs on our body are like pregnancy. Youre too obsessed to have a child. Situation like this is the time with the family. The mother needs a person to talk with or to lean on for them to speak out what they feel. Or even have a friend. Especially to talk your husband to know it because some reason why

mother is pursuing to have a child is because her husband is desperate to have a child. Make them feel that every family member can vanished the pain what a mother had. They need the family because its the moment to feel to have loved ones behind you. Accept what you got. Because your family wants you to be happy even youre so sad. Always talk to someone. But if earlier she has Phantom Pregnancy ask the experts but not just trust with the expert. Even what result or happenings does your body has, accept it because every situations happen for a reason from HIM.

Gervero, Jaykee M. BSED-II

Reaction Paper Article: Stop Spreading the News

Sir Saturay
TTh (6:30- 8:00 pm)

Communication is the systems and processes that are used to communicate or broadcast information, especially by means of media. Communicate is a feeling or an idea to someone, you let them know about it. It is important to communicate with others. You can share or exchange information with others for example by speaking, writing etc. you can learn from others. You can understand more when communicate well. Every person has experiences, even its bad or good experience; we still treasure it because its part of our life. But there is some instance that the process of communications breaks. Well the successful communications is when two of you are aware of each other feelings and ideas. Experience, it is past events, knowledge and feelings that make up someones life or character. It is something that you do or that happens to you, especially something important that affects you. Positive experiences are those events that are memorable and unforgettable to us. It is somewhat makes us happy. The situation that we feel that were very lucky and important person. Negative experience, sometimes happen by wrong decision. Fr me, do not take any decision when youre angry and do not make promises when you are happy. Because every emotions affects our actions. But we cant blame negative experiences; it is part of our life. It is a lesson. All happen for a reason. The best way to release the pain is to share it to others. Sharing is a very important process. It is telling stories to your friends, family or love ones. To share is for positive and negative experiences. Sharing or telling your negative experiences decreases the pain you have. This is also one of the ways for you to release the pain. While positive experiences also decreases your original happy emotions. Repeating a lot stories minus your emotion. But sometimes sharing or telling stories of your hide your real or present emotions. A person who discusses her experience to others intends to talk about more positive instead to talk about negative. Gossip, it is informal and full of interesting but often unimportant news or information about people. It is enjoyment, talking informally to people about the other private affairs; secrecy etc. Gossiper consider as researchers. They are always updated on the happenings of each person on heir neighbors. But they can also affect or influence the person that they talking to. From the article, there are some cases that affect the person such as: Dull Emotions, Rewrite the past, Impede goals, and kill the Mood. Dull Emotionswe cant blame the person who shares experiences because for them it is the way to minus the sadness that they feel when they experienced negative situations or events. But if they share some positive or happy events, it can vanish the true emotions does a person have which are not the same emotions. For example, there is a time that I am very happy on one situations, the level of happiness is high. But when I share it with some friends its not the same happiness. Rewrite the pastwhen a person tell story to other friends or family, we choose those happy moments instead of lonely, right? But we cant blame that for a lot of times we share it to a friend we add or minus some events. We rewrite or remade it. We edit it for us to change the past emotion but the same story. Instead of telling stories accurately or giving information, we

choose to entertain others. Impede Goalswe all have dreams that we want to achieve and were very excited to reach it. But because of too much excitement, we do not know that it can affect your goals in the future. Kill the Moodevery person has different emotions and responses in one story that they can hear. Not all the person you can talk with had same reaction. You better choose a person to share with for you not to be ashamed. Or the person who has a good response on your story. But even you can tell everything to your friend or love ones, always keep one part of your life or time to be private. And because some of your friends can understand or accept you. See yourself first before others. You are the only one who can accept the real you because you are the only one knows yourself. Choose the person, who knows the story of her one friend, they have no right to tell it to others, because theyve trusted you. Earlier before it become worst STOP SPREADING THE NEWS.