with EFT
Block 1 – Fear of Failure
Susitha P.
Advanced EFT Practitioner
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Table of Contents
Introduction ................................................... 4
Introduction to Law of Attraction ......................... 6
What is EFT.................................................... 9
EFT Short cut procedure...................................................................................... 11
Sore Spot for Setup.......................................................................................... 12
Tapping points................................................................................................. 12
Combining EFT and Law of Attraction ...................14
Why do we block ourselves from Abundance? ............................................... 15
Healing Fear of Failure with EFT .........................16
EFT Directions ................................................................................................... 16
Fear: What If I Fail? ............................................................................................ 18
Fear: I have failed in the past what if it happens again?........................................ 20
Block: I am not able to trust that abundance is natural for me and it is my divine
right..................................................................................................................... 22
My Message to you ..........................................24
About the Author............................................25
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DISCLAIMER
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Introduction
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which helped me understand the process of conscious co creation
clearly.
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Introduction to Law of Attraction
If you are looking for a new job and your thoughts and emotions
are focussed on receiving an offer from a good company, you
will attract people and opportunities which reflect your belief
and expectations. On the other hand if you operating from a
fear of failure and a belief that you do not deserve abundance,
the universe receives your fears and reflects back to you
circumstances and events which indicate failure and lack.
When you smile at the mirror, the mirror sincerely reflects back
a smile and when you frown it reflects the same. You should not
blame the mirror it is only doing what it designed to do. You
should not blame God/Universe for your failures. The Universe is
always listening to your thoughts and emotions and reflecting it
back as reality. By changing the focus from what you do not want
to what you do want, magical changes happen within you and
also in your external circumstances.
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itself based on your thoughts and desires. You do not have to
activate Law of Attraction, it is always active. You can however
choose to take responsibility for your life and start living
consciously and effectively.
Many wonderful people work extremely hard and endure all types
of hardship and believe it takes hard work, pain and struggle to
succeed. They don’t realise that there is a relatively simpler way.
They do not understand that by continuing to live their life
focussed on scarcity and blame, they create more of the same. It
is easy and sometimes a reflex to blame external circumstances
and feel like a victim but it also means that you are accepting
failure and struggle.
If you have been drawn to this book and the Law of Attraction, it
is time to pause and wonder if you are ready to commit and take
responsibility to live a truly abundant life. Many people who have
seen “The Secret” are so inspired to live an abundant life but old
habits can be hard to change especially if one doesn’t have the
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right tools, and after a few days they are back to their normal
lives where everything outside of them has more power than the
power inside them. Well luckily for us, we have EFT which is a
excellent help for anyone who is applying Law of Attraction to
live an abundant life.
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What is EFT
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When we think of a negative thought or belief (which is also
energy, as everything in the Universe is energy) it disrupts the
energy system and causes negative emotions like fear, tension, or
sadness in us. When a person who is failing in his business hears
the words ‘Failure’, he feels pain and sadness. The word ‘Failure’
disrupts his energy system and causes him sadness. The same
word may have no effect on another person who is successful.
Each of our energy systems are sensitive to different triggers
based on our life experiences and beliefs.
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EFT Short cut procedure
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Sore Spot for Setup
At to the base of the throat about where you would knot a tie,
you will find a U shaped notch at the top of your sternum
(breastbone). From the top of that notch go down 3 inches
toward your navel and over 3 inches to your left (or right). You
should now be in the upper left (or right) portion of your chest. If
you press vigorously in that area (within a 2 inch radius) you will
find a "Sore Spot." This spot is sore and tender because it is a
part of our lymphatic drainage system.
Tapping points
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Collarbone: Place your forefinger on the U-shaped notch at the
top of the breastbone around where you would knot a tie.
From the bottom of the U, move your forefinger down toward the
navel 1 inch and then go to the left (or right) 1 inch.
Under the arm: located about 4 inches below the armpit.
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Combining EFT and Law of Attraction
Feelings of fear, anxiety and low self esteem are natural because
of difficult life experiences. EFT clears all the negativity present
and brings you closer to your true nature which is love, strength,
kindness and abundance. It erases feelings of doubt and lack and
installs feelings of trust and abundance. You will observe that in
the process of healing blocks to abundance you also heal and
transform yourself.
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Why do we block ourselves from Abundance?
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Healing Fear of Failure with EFT
EFT Directions
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9. Repeat the steps 1 to 8 for ‘I have failed in the past what if
it happens again” and ‘I am not able to trust that
abundance is natural for me and it is my divine right’
Note:
• For the third block if there is no emotion, check how
true the statement sounds on a scale of 0 to 10 and
repeat the section till you are able to trust that
Abundance is your divine right.
• Replace ‘Universe’ with God, Divine forces or any
other phrase that you connect with.
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Fear: What If I Fail?
Rub the sore spot as you repeat the setup statement thrice
Even though I fear that I will fail, I deeply and completely love
and accept myself
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Top of the head: The Universe is dynamic
Eyebrow: The universe is listening
Side of the eye: I now believe my thoughts become my reality
Under the eye: I now believe I receive what I vibrate
Under the nose: I now take responsibility to manifest this goal
Chin: I now focus on this goal with trust and passion
Collar bone: I know that I only have to project my desires with
passion and trust
Under the arm: and the Universe will create the reality
Top of the head: I choose to trust the loving, dynamic and kind
universe
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Fear: I have failed in the past what if it happens again?
Rub the sore spot as you repeat the setup statement thrice
Even though I have failed in the past and I fear I will fail again, I
deeply and completely love and accept myself, I choose to
release the past and step into the future
Eyebrow: So what?
Side of the eye: I have failed in the past
Under the eye: In the past I was helpless and alone, now I am
connected to the divine
Under the nose: I have failed in the past
Chin: I have no control over the past but I can create a beautiful
future because now I am a conscious co creator
Collar bone: I have failed in the past
Under the arm: I choose to attract success NOW
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Top of the head: The Universe is dynamic
Eyebrow: The universe is listening
Side of the eye: I now believe my thoughts become my reality
Under the eye: I now believe I receive what I vibrate
Under the nose: I now take responsibility to manifest this goal
Chin: I now focus on this goal with trust and passion
Collar bone: I know that I only have to project my desires with
passion and trust
Under the arm: and the Universe will create the reality
Top of the head: I choose to trust the loving, dynamic and kind
universe
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Block: I am not able to trust that abundance is natural for me
and it is my divine right
Rub the sore spot as you repeat the setup statement thrice
Even though my logical mind doubts abundance I deeply and
completely love and accept myself and I choose to trust that
abundance is my natural state of being and it is my divine right
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Top of the head: The Universe is dynamic
Eyebrow: The universe is listening
Side of the eye: I now believe my thoughts become my reality
Under the eye: I now believe I receive what I vibrate
Under the nose: I now take responsibility to manifest this goal
Chin: I now focus on this goal with trust and passion
Collar bone: I know that I only have to project my desires with
passion and trust
Under the arm: and the Universe will create the reality
Top of the head: I choose to trust the loving, dynamic and kind
universe
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My Message to you
Take a moment and look at your future and think of the kind of
life you really want to lead, what kind of home do you want to
live in, where would you like to travel , the kind of person you
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want to be, how do you want your relationships to be. Everything
that you desire with passion, trust and love will come to pass.
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