All Relations Appear To Disappear, by Tisziji Muoz. Copyright 1989 by Tisziji Muoz. All rights reserved.

Chapter 3 Being Responsible For Love

It is important to see and know how you unconsciously create disruptive, negative experiences in your life and in your relationships. Not being able to see the person you are with, or see into the person you are with to the degree that you already know when the situation, regardless of the Love, is going to change, without having to fuss about it. Then you can really know the person. However, if you do not know when or if that is going to happen, you may neither truly know the person nor yourself. Genuine heart, mind and body sharing makes all such changes obvious and irrelevant. You are going to Be Here Now or are you going to have to go. I didnt create you, so lets just enjoy this relationship Now. Thank God we are together for the moment. And if this is great, maybe there are some greater ones waiting for me when I let this one go? Maybe there is a progression? Wow, this one was good, but hey, you got anything better up there? Well, I am ready now. I am all cleaned up, waiting for the next one. I hope the next one is better. That last one was sure juicy. That is trusting in the process instead of using the process of change to upset your way of life, clog your circuits and destroy your relations. That is just one way it can happen. You have to consider if your real destiny is to be upset and broken hearted and a mere spiritually broken ego or if your destiny is to be Happy, Free and in Love with Life Itself? You can say, what do you mean by you? This lower-part you or this higher consciousness you? There are different yous in you. The body you is one you. The emotional you is another you. The intellectual you is another you. The spiritual you is another you. Somewhere along the line, you have to reckon with all of these yous or Is. Some people will bring about a different quality of your yous, from out of your large bag of yous. So when somebody asks you, who are you, it sounds like an astoundingly profound question. Who knows, right? Beats me.

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Dont know? Your guess is as good as mine because there are so many yous in everybody. What I am saying now is that there are probably a good number of other yous in you that other beings will bring out. Ideally, they will be at least as ecstatic and joyous as the other times and other beings you have enjoyed. You have to trust in the process of change, not only in terms of its negative returns but its positive ones as well. That is why it is important to keep things positive in a relationship when you see it is going somewhere else. You want the ending of that to be as sweet as possible so that the sweetness can then open up, bring about or lead into the next relationship. And you clear the waves for it. There are too many beings out here. Too many gorgeous, hot, juicy and powerful waste-organs out there. There are just too many of them out there. There is an infinite variety of them, in other countries too. All you have to do is go over seas and you have to fight some of them off of you. You have only to move around and circulate. Waste-organ flesh bag beings are operating everywhere! Today, in this day and age, there is a lot of toxic waste in those waste-organs, and you have to be very careful about that. Clearly, you have to assume a new intelligence relative to letting the waste-organs determine how you feel, how you show up at work the next day, and so on. You have to be aware of the paradox that you, as Soul, are not the body, you are not the waste-organs, yet you are, to some degree. The waste organs are a temporary function of the body-being which is not only who or what a person or being is. What ordinary relationship brings is a temporary form of joy or illusory happiness followed by suffering because of a timechange and not wanting to let it go or not wanting to see it change or let it be. What that not wanting change or clinging to what was does is negate whatever illusion there was or is of Love. What is happening is contraction, withholding or resist12

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ance instead of expansion. Love is not resistance. Love is Being which is infinite expansion. That is why Love has been the object and God of all the great poets and mystics. It is so indescribable, it is so great. Real Love is not a thing that you or anyone can kill. It is not a thing that is limited to waste-organ activity. Love may find momentary expression through the waste-organs, but waste organs, of themselves, have nothing to do with Love. If you truly love somebody, what difference does it make if you shake their hand or some other part of their body? What is the real difference? The part doesnt make the relationship any more than the relationship already is. Shaking a body part certainly wont make Love happen. You can love shaking somebodys hand or another part of their body, but that act is not necessarily what Love Is! Unless individuals who are engaged in the mechanical round of being in time and space in the illusion of painful or pleasurable relations or unless there is an awareness that is above the duality of all of that and the see-saw interaction of polar possibilities, it is going to be unnecessarily hard to survive in this dump-yard of the universe of experience. It is being said from all quarters now that there is too much toxic waste. Waste dumping is harmful for the body, the Earth body. That is an interesting point. Which Earth body? Everybodys Earth-body is a part of the planetary Earth-body. You have to start properly dealing with all of that in order to heal, you heal in order to deal with what you have left. I teach that a persons understanding can be expanded beyond their self-suffering. You can go or Be beyond that. I thought I was suffering just a week, a day or an hour ago. Now it is just a joke, see? Each being is recommended to participate in that Intelligence Awareness which is not always suffering. Each can presently participate in that Free Awareness which is not controlled by the waste-organ approach to life or negatively controlled by a relationship or controlled by anyone else. Such an activity of understanding, however radical it might 13

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appear to be, is appropriate and appropriate to the degree where it may even be Sacred, Sacred to the degree where it can save you from that psycho-emotional ruin which is a result of not having Spiritually Understood the true nature of the illusion of relations and their time-change karmas. Such non-understanding or ignorance causes suffering to the degree of self-destruction and being distracted from your real mission which is to Be Happy, despite the changes and flows of the universe which are basically self-destructive, sacredly or time-determinedly self-destructive. Dissolution is what the universe is set up to accommodate, allowing things and beings to appear and disappear and perhaps reappear again. That is its process, and since that is the way it is, it must be sacred! It is sacred and Divine because it is what is actually happening. No body and its changes can alter the process. The process of change Is the Universe! Therefore, the process, if not the Universe, has got to be Divine, especially if being Conscious of the process leads to True Love, Freedom and Enlightenment. This is the Way the Spirit of God as Consciousness of Itself, by virtue of laws that are in no way touchable by human effort whatsoever, is operating out of or through this garbage-can planet and its inhabitants. The Earth is one of Its playgrounds. You dont look at it that way because you are too involved in the waste-organ level of life and what appears to be its infinite promises of absolute, exquisitely painful pleasure of ownership and possession. Oh, my goodness, oooh, wow! But that illusion is a farce. You can go through or even be that illusion until death and then say, What am I doing in this cold vacuum of void-space with no practical understanding of what is happening? You get caught up in the excessive over emphasis of waste-organ pleasure and the painful attachments which accompany it. And the law is, if one is talking about gravity, for the waste-organs to be operating, they have to draw, borrow or steal from the higher parts of the body! Therefore, there is an ordinary wasting of precious energy or fuel that need not carelessly or unconsciously happen. Such wasting should not happen at all. 14

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To the great degree that wasting is happening, it is no wonder that we have toxic waste, waste up here between the eyes and waste down there between the thighs. Everything is wasted. Most beings are having lots of fun getting or being wasted. They waste themselves and naturally, everything they do is relative to this waste activity. There is an Intelligence which, when accessed, enables this higher view to become a Realization to the degree that Free-Action or appropriately wise responses can be used to bring about Balancement to oneself, to ones environment, to ones human relations and ultimately to ones relation to the Earth-Mother.

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