all people. Typically triggered by an emotional hurt, anger is usually experienced as an unpleasant feeling that occurs when we think we have been injured, mistreated, opposed in our long-held views, or when we are faced with obstacles that keep us from attaining personal goals. Anger is a completely normal, usually healthy, human emotion. But when it gets out of control and turns destructive, it can lead to problemsproblems at work, in your personal relationships, and in the overall quality of your life. And it can make you feel as though you're at the mercy of an unpredictable and powerful emotion. This brochure is meant to help you understand and control anger. What causes Anger? Anger can be caused by both external and internal events. You could be angry at a specific person (Such as a coworker or supervisor) or event (a traffic jam, a canceled flight), or your anger could be caused by worrying or brooding about your personal problems. Memories of traumatic or enraging events can also trigger angry feelings. !"# %"&' ()& *"%+ ,&-.( /" 012&34 Anger doesnt make the b|ood bo|| or your eyes see red. 8ut |t does cause certa|n changes |n the body. neres what happens: ! ADkLNALINL and other chem|ca|s pour |nto the b|oodstream. ! 1nL nLAk1 pumps faster. ! 8LCCD kLSSUkL r|ses. ! 8LCCDILCW qu|ckens. ! MUSCLL tense.
IN C1nLk WCkDS, the body sh|hs |nto h|gher gear, generanng energy needed for acnon. Learn how th|s energy can work to your advantage or d|sadvantage. Danger!! Danger!! Danger!! Failing to deal with your anger may lead to: " Health Problems " Tension " Accidents " Interpersonal Problems Uncontrolled Anger can be DANGEROUS. It may lead to: CRIME-ABUSE-MORE VIOLENT BEHAVIOR Anger .. It is important to understand anger because the way you express it can be: HELPFUL: Venting anger can get you fired up so you can overcome obstacles and Achieve Goals. HARMFUL: When you ignore anger or express it in a negative way, it can hurt you and others. How does Anger affect Relationships?? ! Anger can resu|t |n domesnc v|o|ence. ! eop|e who are around the angry person tend to shut down |n order not to anger that person. ! Cthers get the|r fee||ngs hurt. ! Cther peop|e become dehant, become |nd|erent, avo|d you, or |ose respect for the angry person. ANGER MANAGEMENT Anger management does not involve getting rid of all anger, but using anger to enhance your life. We can look at the purposes of anger in both a positive and negative light. 567"3(-1.& "8 09:;, <090:;<;9/ 1he goa| of Anger Management |s to reduce both your emonona| fee||ngs and the phys|o|og|ca| arousa| that anger causes. ou can't get r|d of, or avo|d, the th|ngs or the peop|e that enrage you, nor can you change them, but you can |earn to contro| your reacnons. Why are we angry? # Frustration of our goals # Hurt Harassment # Personal attack (mental or physical) on ourselves # Threat to people, things or ideas that we hold dearly.
The following are some tips to prevent/control an Anger A match stick has a head but not a brain ANGER PREVENTION KIT When you are ANGRY and UPSET remember "#$#% &'(&)* 1 Go inside your shell $ THINK before you ACT $ Take a Time Out
$ Time to RELAX $ Calm yourself down 2 Take 3 Deep Breaths $ &+,-. /0 1 2//3 4/567,/- %8915. :;1< =,-155<>>>? Contro| our Anger 8efore |t contro|s you S|nce. Anger |s one |euer short of D..A..N..G..L..k!