Can stress make us sick? Can places of peace, prayer, meditation, rest, music, and friendship help us to live
well? Through this discussion guide, I invite you to explore how, in the context of our particular histories and
our physical and spiritual details, we can use science to our benefit while learning to attend to what our own
bodies are telling us.
In her book, The Balance Within: The Science Connecting Health and Emotions, author and physician
Esther Sternberg explores the topic in depth. Sternberg, a rheumatologist internationally recognized for
her discoveries about how the central nervous system and the immune system interact, describes how the
language of genes, neurotransmitters, and hormones is helping science to use knowledge that human beings
have always possessed intuitively.
At one time, Sternberg shared her profession’s modern bias that emotions are distinct and perhaps altogether
separate from physical health. Without measurable and logical proof of their direct connection to disease or
healing, such a correlation could not be taken seriously.
But in recent years, parallel to her colleagues in many other disciplines, Sternberg underwent a period of
scientific and personal discovery. While dying of cancer, Sternberg’s mother urged her daughter to ask not
only whether stress can make us sick, but whether “loving” and “believing” can help us to live well. Sternberg
began to pose these questions for herself when she became exhausted and simultaneously developed a form
of arthritis, a disease she studies.
For a thousand years “the balance of the four humours”—blood, yellow and black bile, and phlegm—was a
central principle of medical teaching. These were visible secretions and therefore could be used as windows
into the workings of the body. Contemporary scientists are on the cusp of a new world of understanding, says
Sternberg, because they now know genes, hormones, and neurotransmitters to be as real and measurable
as blood and bile. They know that what we call feelings—both physical and emotional—are caused by myriad
biochemical connections.
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This leaves me with an appreciation of the positive function of the human stress response. It is an ancient
faculty, part of our body’s built-in capacity to guide us in new environments and protect us from danger. Stress
does not make us sick, per se. But prolonged stress sets off a cascade of reactions that can leave us with
over-stimulated or suppressed immune systems. Memory and perception add to those physiological effects.
Knowing such details, we can understand when it’s appropriate to seek medical care and when and how we
can help ourselves to heal. Such an approach is at the core of integrative medicine, a branch of health care
that is growing across this country.
Science—with its insistence on what can be seen and measured—took us away from our ancient intuition
about the connection between health and emotions. But now science is bringing us back, putting the
experience of prolonged stress so many of us know into a very different context and giving new layers of
meaning to the phrase, “feeling sick.”
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2. The word “stress” did not appear in dictionaries until about the
mid-twentieth century. Before then, it was called “nervousness”
and was thought to be caused by changes in the environment
or culture. We live in just such an era of exponential change
characterized by rapid leaps in technology, and great economic
and social upheaval.
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»» If you believe that your problems are not “real” as many were
led to before recent advances in our understanding of the
connection between illness and emotions, how might that
affect the way you seek solutions or look for help?
»» So often we are not dealing with simply one stressful factor
but two or three at once. Given the difficulty of dealing with
or controlling the sources of stress, how does it help us to
understand the relationship between stress and illness?
»» Now that we have scientific proof that we heal better when
our stress is reduced, how can we better manage our period
of recovery? What environmental and/or personal changes
could we make in order to enhance our healing?
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8. When your computer gets jammed up, you shut down and reboot
it. When our lives get jammed up with stress, we might follow suit
and “go off-line” by taking a vacation or employing other strategies
to distance ourselves from the causes of stress.
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10. Part of the reason scientists and physicians have been hesitant
to consider the role of emotions comes down to language.
“Scientists and lay people speak different languages. But so do
emotions and disease,” says Esther Sternberg. “Poetry and song
are the language of emotions. Scientific precision, logic, and
deductive reasoning are the language of disease.”
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