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Cutting cords doesnt mean, I dont love you or care about you anymore.
Cord cutting doesnt necessarily lead to break-ups or abandoned
relationships. It simply means that you are releasing the dysfunctional parts
of your relationships. Remember, fear is the opposite of love, and etheric
cords (and all attachments) are created from fear.
Positive and negative cords...
Cords are a method of high speed communication and sharing energy.
Healthy cords create a nurturing sharing of information and energy.
Unhealthy cords can be a huge drain or a means of control.
Energy cords show themselves as that surge that you get when you
connect with someone. It depends hugely on the person, the
circumstances, and on your openness to the feeling. You can easily
suppress feeling it with your own mind. I think it still happens, but you can
shut down your awareness of it.
Etheric cords can form between people, objects, and situations where there
is a fearful attachment, afraid to let go, scared to be alone, afraid to be
It is normal for parents to form cords with their babies, this is both a
necessity and a positive thing, as these cords help parents communicate
with and understand their babys needs. Healthy cords dissolve naturally
over a period of time, as the child grows. Negative cords feed the energy
and emotions of one person to another, both positive and negative, so you
may be feeling particularly angry and not know why, you may also be
feeling depressed for no apparent reason. Cords are normally formed on a
subconscious level, through a persons need for strength, manipulation,
If you have decided to move on from a relationship and you find it
particularly difficult to let-go it may be that there are cords of attachment
from the other person holding you back. A person going through a divorce
may be feeding their anger, rage, stress, and jealousy to the other person
and vice versa. Without realising it, parents feed these emotions to their
children and partners, creating all sorts of problems for everyone.
If you have a cord attached to someone you love and that person is going
through a major crisis, they may be draining energy from you. So you will
feel drained without knowing why. In this case some healthy boundaries
need to be created.
Can you cut them? Ive discovered that just randomly cutting cords causes
more harm than good. Any healing process requires a conscious
awareness and respect for the fact that it is a process. It is better to work
with the cords, and learn how to adapt and understand them. I believe we
have choice about becoming attached by unhealthy cords if we are
operating on an entirely conscious level. The first step you may need to
take is to take a break from being around a person, given the intensity of
the energy that flows between you. Sometimes these cords reach across
time and space, so we have to so we have to work with them on all levels.
When we give power away to other people because our relationship with
self is dysfunctional, we actually allow cords of energy to tie us to those
people. You can cut the cords, but unless you resolve the underlying
reason why you corded in the first place, the cords will keep coming back.
The following methods of Cord removal preclude removing any healthy
cords and offer opportunity to heal the underlying issues.
Releasing the Cords
One method for removing the energy cords is to imagine yourself sitting
on a big green lawn in a circle. The circle can be made of fine silken rope
literally a cord . Sit in it, feel yourself protected by it. Imagine a column of
light coming from the heavens encircling you in high frequency pure light.
Then imagine the people you want out of your life also sitting in a circle
made of cord. The two circles are close to each other but not touching.
Look at the other people from your circle and wave good bye! You are
gently and peacefully allowing other people their space while affirming your
own. Instead of cutting, you are transmuting the cords. Let their cords
remain whole. Let yours remain whole. Just disentangle and detach. Stoke
the fires of love and compassion. Say good bye with love and move on!
As life is lived, the process of sorting and disentangling is obviously much
more complex and subtle. As you make the music of your life less
dysfunctional, the people attracted to the dysfunctional part will fall off.
Chords are better than cords.
Higher-Self work to Remove and Heal Cord Attachments
Connection to high self
First do a Mediation to align yourself with their High self.
Bring in High self of the person with whom you have an unhealthy
imagine and call in the presence of the high self of the person with whom
they feel they have unhealthy cords connected to. Remind them that this is
the person high self without all their fears, doubts and control issues. Have
them imagine the person as their whole, light filled loving self. If they have
difficulty just tell them to imagine it.
Speaking from the heart
Once you feel the presence of the person, think how you feel about the
past. Speak from your heart, telling the person about how they have hurt
you and how you have suffered because of their relationship. you can do
this silently if you are not comfortable speaking it out loud. Get everything
off your chest. And then once that is completed now think what you want
Now it is time for your high self to speak. Remind yourself that you are
safe. This is the your loving, true self, without fear or anger. You are
speaking from the heart now. Listen now with an open heart and be willing
to receive what you are being told. (It may be telepathic or come in as a
feeling ) be open to receive the information however it comes in.
Remind yourself that you have asked for forgiveness that forgiveness is not
condoning it is making the decision not to carry it any longer.
Are you willing?
Now ask your yourself if you are willing and ready to help this person with
what it is that they need. It is okay if you are not willing to do anything for
the other person. Ask yourself what they are willing to do for yourself.
Pruning the Garden.
Once this process feels complete call in a high spiritual being to assist you.
Look at the space between you and this person. There you will see
attachments some will be healthy and light filled some will be unhealthy
looking like the old dead branches on bushes and trees. Now ask your
spirit guide to give you a tool to prune away all the dead and unhealthy
looking connections. As you trim away these attachments your guide heals
the places where they were cut away with healing light.
You may select the prefect color of light to do this work with. Continue
cutting way the unhealthy attachments until only the healthy light filled
connections remain. Your guide will take the old cords and offer them to
Mother Earth to be transmuted into new life. Once the pruning is complete
and all the old connecting points are sealed with light. You now are free to
end this relationship or continue it on a basis that is healthy for both of you.
Thank the high self of the person you are working with and say good bye
allowing them to return to whatever they were doing. Thank your high self
and your guide and come back into waking consciousness
Removing a cord is a three step process:
1. unplugging the cord
2. disposing of the cord
3. cleansing and healing the anchor point / attachment point.
Cord Pulling/Cutting
Some practitioners advocate cutting or removing all cords. Some
attachments simply should not be removed because they are as yet too
deeply engaged with our energy systems. Additionally, cord cutting can
result in shocking both your energy system and that of the person on the
other end, creating a host of unwanted sensations, feelings, and emotions.
Cord pulling, is safer, more effective, measurably gentler, and longer
lasting. Cord pulling does not shock the system of either party, and allows
the practitioner to more effectively heal and seal the connection points.
Although similar to cord cutting, cord pulling requires coming from a very
compassionate perspective.
Pulling cords doesnt necessarily lead to break-ups or abandoned
relationships, unless that is what you are seeking. Cord pulling will help you
move forward with confidence and clarity since it releases the dysfunctional
parts of your relationships. Fear is the opposite of love, and all attachments
are created from fear.
If there are negative energy cords attached. Ask how many, if the number
is large, begin with the most prominent. Begin pulling the cords one at a
time. Handle them lovingly and then connect them to the positive energy of
crystalline Earth grid. Repeat the process and continue pulling cords one
by one and connect them immediately to the positive energy of crystalline
Earth grid or dispose of them by placing them into a violet flame.
Next use high frequency spiritual light to heal the areas where the cords
were attached and create a shield around each chakra to prevent further
Keeping yourself Clear with the Violet Flame
The Violet Flame works by raising vibrations. The Violet Flame transmutes
negative energy by turning it into light which causes us to vibrate to a
higher energy pattern, releasing more spiritual energy into our bodies.
Step 1. Bring the Violet Flame into your body. Ask your Higher Self, a
Master, Guide or Angel to assist you or just ask the flame to be made
manifest. Do your best to visualize it. It doesnt matter if you can actually
see it.
Step 2. Imagine the flame spinning around your body. Bring it inside your
body and through your heart chakra. The flame fills your emotional, mental
and spiritual bodies.
Step 3. Ask the Violet Flame to transmute everything you wish to be
changed or eliminated from your life. You can say transmute anything and
everything standing in the way of my fully embodied God/Goddess self.
Step 4. Use the flame to change negativity into Divine Light and fill your
The Violet Flame Invocations below turn everything into the golden light of
the Divine Consciousness.
The following are two simple invocations which will transmute negative
thoughts, actions and emotions. You can individualize the Invocation using
words from your heart. Say them with feeling and intention.
Saying the words out loud is best because the power and vibration of the
spoken word has energy, which helps create the maximum results of the
Violet Flame. If you are with people who might be uncomfortable with the
spoken word, you can just say it quietly in your mind.
Center yourself. Take a few deep breaths to prepare. Then say these
I AM a being of Violet Fire
I AM the purity God desires
(repeat 3 times)
Beloved I AM presence bright
Round Me seal your tube of light
From Ascended masters flame
Called forth now in Gods own name
Let it keep my temple free
From all discord sent to me
I AM calling forth violet fire
To transmute all desire
Keeping on in freedoms name
Till I AM one with violet flame
(repeat 3 times)