Being 100% Responsible For The Problems of y !lients
By Ih"le"#"l" He$ %en& Ph'D' "n( !h"rles Bro$n& %T In tr"(ition"l "ppro")hes to problem sol*ing "n( he"ling& the ther"pist begins $ith the belief th"t the sour)e of the problem is $ith the )lient& not $ithin him' He belie*es th"t his responsibility is to "ssist the )lient in $or#ing through his problem' !oul( these beliefs h"*e resulte( in systemi) burnout throughout the he"ling profession+ To be "n effe)ti*e problem sol*er& the ther"pist must be $illing to be 100% responsible for h"*ing )re"te( the problem situ"tion, th"t is& he must be $illing to see th"t the sour)e of the problem "re erroneous thoughts $ithin him& not $ithin the )lient' Ther"pists ne*er seem to noti)e th"t e*ery time there is " problem& they "re "l$"ys present- Being 100% responsible for ")tu"li.ing the problem "llo$s the ther"pist to be 100% responsible for resol*ing it' /sing the up("te( Ho'oponopono "ppro")h& " pro)ess of repent"n)e& forgi*eness "n( tr"nsmut"tion (e*elope( by 0"hun" %"p"'"u orrn"h 1"l"m"#u Simeon"& " ther"pist is "ble to h"*e erroneous thoughts $ithin himself "n( $ithin the )lient tr"nsmute( into perfe)t thoughts of %234' Her eyes brimme( $ith te"rs' Deep tren)hes en)lose( the )orners of her mouth' 5I "m $orrie( "bout my son&5 !ynthi" sighs softly' 5He's b")# on (rugs "g"in'5 6s she tells her p"inful story& I begin the )le"ning of the erroneous thoughts $ithin me th"t h"*e ")tu"li.e( "s her problem' 6s erroneous thoughts "re repl")e( by lo*ing thoughts in the ther"pist "n( in his f"mily& rel"ti*es "n( "n)estors& they "re repl")e( too in the )lient "n( in her f"mily& rel"ti*es "n( "n)estors' The up("te( Ho'oponopono pro)ess "llo$s the ther"pist to $or# (ire)tly $ith the 2rigin"l Sour)e $ho )"n tr"nsmute erroneous thoughts into %234'Her eyes (ry up' The tren)hes "roun( her mouth soften' She smiles& relief ("$ning ")ross her f")e 5I (on't #no$ $hy but I'm feeling better'5 I (o not #no$ $hy too' Re"lly' %ife is " mystery e7)ept to %234 $ho #no$s "ll' I 8ust let it go "t th"t& "n( 8ust th"n# %234 from $hom "ll blessings flo$' In problem sol*ing using the up("te( Ho'oponopono pro)ess& the ther"pist first t"#es his I-Dentity& his in( "n( )onne)ts it up $ith the 2rigin"l Sour)e& $h"t others )"ll %234 or 92D' :ith the )onne)tion in pl")e& the ther"pist then "ppe"ls to %234 to )orre)t the erroneous thoughts $ithin him th"t "re ")tu"li.ing "s the problem for himself first "n( for the )lient se)on(' The "ppe"l is " pro)ess of repent"n)e "n( forgi*eness on the p"rt of the ther"pist---5I "m sorry for the erroneous thoughts $ithin me th"t h"*e )"use( the problem for me "n( for the )lient, ple"se forgi*e me'5 In response to the repent"n)e "n( forgi*eness "ppe"l of the ther"pist& %234 begins the mysti)"l pro)ess of tr"nsmuting the erroneous thoughts' In this spiritu"l )orre)tion pro)ess& %234 first neutr"li.es the erroneous emotions th"t h"*e )"use( the problem& be they resentment& fe"r& "nger& bl"me or )onfusion' In the ne7t step& %234 then rele"ses the neutr"li.e( energies from the thoughts le"*ing them in " st"te of *oi(& of emptiness of true free(om' :ith the thoughts empty& free& %234 then fills them $ith Itself' The result+ The ther"pist is rene$e(& restore( in %234' 6s the ther"pist is rene$e( so is the )lient "n( "ll in*ol*e( in the problem' :here there $"s (esp"ir in the )lient& there is %234' :here there $"s ("r#ness in her soul& there is no$ the he"ling %ight of %234' The Self I- Dentity Through Ho'oponopono tr"ining te")hes people $ho they "re "n( ho$ they )"n sol*e problems moment to moment& "n( in the pro)ess be rene$e( "n( restore( in %234' The $on(er of the up("te( Ho'oponopono pro)ess is th"t you get to meet yourself "ne$ e")h moment& "n( you get to "ppre)i"te more "n( more $ith e")h "ppli)"tion of the pro)ess the rene$ing mir")le of %234'I oper"te my life "n( my rel"tionships "))or(ing to the follo$ing insights; 1' The physi)"l uni*erse is "n ")tu"li."tion of my thoughts' <' If my thoughts "re )"n)erous& they )re"te " )"n)erous physi)"l re"lity' =' If my thoughts "re perfe)t& they )re"te " physi)"l re"lity brimming $ith %234' >' I "m 100% responsible for )re"ting my physi)"l uni*erse the $"y it is' ?' I "m 100% responsible for )orre)ting the )"n)erous thoughts th"t )re"te " (ise"se( re"lity' @' There is no su)h thing "s out there' 4*erything e7ists "s thoughts in my min(' Dr' Ih"le"#"l" He$ %en h"s been pr")ti)ing the up("te( Ho'oponopono sin)e 1o*ember of 1AB<' He $"s t"ught the pro)ess by 0"hun" %"p"'"u orrn"h 1"l"m"#u Simeon"& $ho $"s (esign"te( " %i*ing Tre"sure of H"$"ii in 1AB=' He $"s st"ff psy)hologist in the forensi) unit for the )rimin"lly ment"lly ill "t H"$"ii St"te Hospit"l for se*er"l ye"rs' He h"s t"ught the up("te( Ho'oponopono "roun( the $orl( "n( "t the /nite( 1"tions se*er"l times' Dr' He$ %en h"s " (o)tor"te from the /ni*ersity of Io$"' Inform"tion on up)oming le)tures "n( )l"sses )"n be foun( on the Foun("tion's $eb site; $$$'hooponopono'org