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We now return to our study of God's law as contained in Deuteronomy. We turn now to consideration of one of the more perplexing laws in Deuteronomy. It has caused consternation not only in regard to its particulars, but in regard to its general subject matter. The law is one regulating the very important and touchy question of divorce. When we actually get to the law's application later on in the message, we will see why Moses included it in the section dealing with the eighth commandment: "Thou shalt not steal." The word "divorce" means "rutting off." It has to do with the fact of "cutting off' of a spouse, in a moral, spiritual, legal, and even physical sense. We must remember that in God's sight and in a certain literal sense, husband and wife become "one flesh" when united in marriage. Divorce severs or cuts off that relationship. But let us see how and under what circumstances this is done.
We now return to our study of God's law as contained in Deuteronomy. We turn now to consideration of one of the more perplexing laws in Deuteronomy. It has caused consternation not only in regard to its particulars, but in regard to its general subject matter. The law is one regulating the very important and touchy question of divorce. When we actually get to the law's application later on in the message, we will see why Moses included it in the section dealing with the eighth commandment: "Thou shalt not steal." The word "divorce" means "rutting off." It has to do with the fact of "cutting off' of a spouse, in a moral, spiritual, legal, and even physical sense. We must remember that in God's sight and in a certain literal sense, husband and wife become "one flesh" when united in marriage. Divorce severs or cuts off that relationship. But let us see how and under what circumstances this is done.
We now return to our study of God's law as contained in Deuteronomy. We turn now to consideration of one of the more perplexing laws in Deuteronomy. It has caused consternation not only in regard to its particulars, but in regard to its general subject matter. The law is one regulating the very important and touchy question of divorce. When we actually get to the law's application later on in the message, we will see why Moses included it in the section dealing with the eighth commandment: "Thou shalt not steal." The word "divorce" means "rutting off." It has to do with the fact of "cutting off' of a spouse, in a moral, spiritual, legal, and even physical sense. We must remember that in God's sight and in a certain literal sense, husband and wife become "one flesh" when united in marriage. Divorce severs or cuts off that relationship. But let us see how and under what circumstances this is done.
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God's Law as contained in formal, legal action that is biased against the woman, here Deuteronomy. We tum now to required to secure divorce, just as and elsewhere. They note that the consideration of one of the more such is required for establishing law is framed only in regards to perplexing laws in Deuteronomy. marriage: "When a man hath the sending out of the wonian, as It has caused consternation not taken a wife, and married her, and if the man was the only one who onlY,in regard to its particulars, it come to pass that she find no had the right of divorce. But let but in regard to its general subject favour in his eyes, because he hath us notice: First, case laws matter. The law is one regulating found some uncleanness in her: are often cited in reference to one the very important and touchy then let him write her a bill of particular sex when it is obvious question of divorce. When we divorcement, and give it in her the laws apply equally to both. In actually get to the law's hand, and send her out ofhis Deuteronomy 19:11 we read, "But application later on in the house.. .. And if the latter if any man hate his neighbor, and message, we will see why Moses husband hate her, and write her a lie in wait for him, and rise up included it in the section dealing bill of divorcement, and giveth it against him, and smite him with the eighth commandment: in her hand, and sendeth her out mortally that he die .. .. It is "Thou shalt not stea1." The word of his house .. ." (Deut. 24:1,3). painfully obvious that the law "divorce" means "erutting off." It Divorce is a legal action that against murder must prohibit has to do with the fact of women from murdering, "cutting off' of a spouse, in as well. Second; often a moral, spiritual, legal, JB ibnrr.e when the case law is and even physical sense. framed in terms of the We must remember that in in (H)n!l- I s 111 afu woman, it is done in order God's sight and in a certain r to protect the woman as literal sense, husband and 24:1-5 the one most likely to be wife become "one flesh" abused in the situation. h d Rev. Kenneth L. Gentry,]r. La '11' h w en unite in marriage. . ter we WI see JUSt ow Divorce severs or cuts off this law is very pro- that relationship. But let us see judidally declares the marriage woman. It does not treat her as how and under what contract to be null and void in its mere property with no legal circumstances this is done. obligations. It is no small or light rights. The Legality of Divorce As previously mentioned, lifelong marriage is God's holy ideal and our spiritual duty. Jesus not only reminds us of this by reference to Adam and Eve, but by direct command: "What God has joined together, let not man put asunder" (Matt.l9:6). But He then teaches that divorce is allowed -- on certain grounds. Because of sin, God's Law establishes certain actions that would not be necessary in a sinless world. For instance, just war, capital punishment, divorce, and so forth. The legislation before us clearly allows for divorce. Divorce may be legally secured under the terms of God's matter that may be easily gained. . There is a judicial process. It involves civil court action. Notice that there is a certain amount of paper work necessary. A legal document must be drawn up -- a ''bill of divorcement." Then there must be the formal serving of the papers: twice in the text it not only mentions the drawing up of the bill, but also the fact that it must be given "in her hand." Commentators suggest that this repetitiOUS statement was a legal formula. This is followed by the actual severing of the ties as the spouse Is "sent out of the house." Clearly the basics of legal action are outlined in God's Law. But before we move on to other matters, it should be noted that 18 'F THE COUNSEL of Chalcedon f May, 1997 Limits to Divorce Perhaps the leading quesrion regarding divorce for Christian is whether or not it is allowed in God's Law. But the second most fundamental question regards the grounds upon which it may be justified. Unquestionably the Scripture allows for divorce within limits. But what are those limits? Much debate among Christians , has been generated over this matter. But I am convinced that a careful study of Deuteronomy 24 and Matthew 19 will provide the sure direction that we need. Thus, we will spend our greatest time on this perplexing question. The ancient rabbinic tradition of the Jewish scholar Hillel tended to emphasize one phrase in Deuteronomy 24: 1: "she find no favor in his eyes." Hillel interpreted this to allow for divorce on such grounds as a wife's ruining a meal, growing older and less attractive, and so forth. This is precisely the idea behind the question presented to Jesus in Matthew 19:3 "111e Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?" As was too often the case, this error arose by improperly fOCUsing on one portion of a passage to the neglect of another. The total legislation interprets the "no favor" clause: "she find no favor in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her." We need to understand also that Jesus used the Greek equivalent to this word "uncleanness" in Matthew 19:9. Remember that He came not to "abolish the law, but to fill it up" (Matt. 5:17). In Matthew 19:9 Jesus substitutes "fornication" for "uncleanness" when he says, "And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. " Unfortunately, the Hebrew and Greek terms are not as narrowly defined as the English translation "fornication". Let us consider the word here in. the Hebrew and then some of its uses elsewhere. The Hebrew tenn nanslated "uncleanness" in the IqV is nanslated "indecency" in the NASB and "indecent" in the NIV. Other words that may translate it are: "repulsive," "offensive," and the like. The dictionary treannent of the tenn all by itself is not precise and clear. Several commentators suggest that it may have been a legal phrase covering several ideas that was more clear in ancient times than it is today. However, the tenn does refer to something of a serious nature. It cannot apply to burning a meal or , growing less attractive. Although the term may in fact include the idea of "adultery" in its broad range of applications, it cannot be limited to it. Such is impossible in light ofjesus' statement in Matthew 19:9: "Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery." Jesus uses two distinct and unrelated words to refer to these two sins. The ideas are related, but the words are not. How then may we understand the tenn? One way to discover its range of meaning is to see in what circumstances it is employed elsewhere in the Old Testament. This will help us to grasp more fully its full range of meaning. First, we must agree that both the Hebrew and Greek terms include the idea of immoral conduct of a sexual nature. These are fundamental to the leading idea of the tenns. Thus, illicit sexual contact with another is included in the terms' meaning. Thus, adultery, homosexuality, incest, and rape are forbidden by this law. Each of these are not only sex sins, but criminal sex sins that serve as adequate grounds for divorce in God's Law. Second, the term is translated "vile" in Deuteronomy 25:3 where it speaks of a public, judicial flogging being given for one convicted of a crime: "Forty' stripes he may give him, and not exceed: lest, ifhe should exceed, and beat him above these with many stripes, then thy brother should seem vile unto thee." It would seem that the use of the tenn here involves the idea of "public disgrace and humiliation". Thus, the "uncleanness" clause covers both public disgrace and criminal conduct. For instance, for a spouse to be a topless dancer, a snipper, pornography queen, or something of that sort would seem to justify divorce, even though sexual contact might not occur. Third, the tenn is translated "dishonor" and used in a civil context in Ezra 4: 12-14: "Be it known unto the king, that the Jews which came up from thee to use are come unto Jerusalem, building the rebellious and the bad city, and have set up the walls thereof, and joined the foundations. Be it known now unto the king, filat, if this elty be bUilded, and the walls set up again, then will they not pciy toll, tnbute, and custom, and so thou shalt endamage the revenue of the kings. Now because we have maintenance from the king's palace, and it was not meetfor us to see the king's dishonour, therefore have we sent and certified the king. " The historical context of this situation is this. Israel is under the dominion of Persia. Jerusalem has been destroyed, but the Persian government was allowing the Jews to rebuild it. But some among the Persians resisted theil' rebuilding. They feared the Jews would be Criminally disobedient to their laws. They feared the Jews would "dishonor" the king by their criminal activities. The word "dishonor" is the same word translated "uncleanness" in Deuteronomy 24:1. The word then covers acts of criminal conduct. Thus, it would seem that divorce is tolerated in God's Law when a spouse engages in criminal activity. If you are married to an armed robber, a May, 1997 t- THE COUNSEL of Chalcedon t- 19 drug addict, or a child abuser, you are not obligated by your marriage vows to conp,nue in that marriage. God protects you from the lawless. His Law provides that if your spouse has committed "uncleanness" you may sue for divorce. And that term is used in cases of Criminal behavior. The Christian is not obligated to remain in a marital relationship with a rebel, a criminal, a dangerous convict. Now the Law does not demand that you get a divorce, but it does morally justify a diVQrcein such situations . . LessonS from . We must be careful to notice that, as yet, we have not come to the main point of the divorce legislation here. And. that is in verses 2- 4: "And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man's wife. And if the .latter husband hate her, and write her a bill of divorcement, and giveth it in her hand, and sendeth her out of his house; or if the latter husband die, which took her to be his wife; Her former husband, which sent her away, may not take her againto be his wife, after that she is difiled; for that is abomination before the LORD: and thou shalt not cause the land to sin, which the LORD thy God giveth thee for an inheritance . The legislation here is clear, even if We might be. surprised at it: When a couple is divorced, if one of them marries someone else, God does not allow the one who remarried another to again remarry their first spouse later. God says that such is an "abomination" to Him; it is detestable and defiles the land. This law is mentioned again in Jeremiah 3:1. The word "defile" is used of adultery in Leviticus 18:20 and Numbers 5:13-14. Apparently, in God's sight, to 'divorce a person, marry another person, divorce them, and return to the first marriage partner is equivalent to adultery. It is a defiling, as adultery is a defiling. It is forbidden by God. But we might wonder why God forbids such by His Law. There are a variety of reasons for this law. It is a very practical law that protects marriage, as we shall see. It should be noted that the context protects marriage. This may be seen in two ways. On the one hand, the next law protects the newlywed: "When a man hath taken a new wife, he shall not go out to war, neither shall he be charged with any business: but he shall be free at home one year, and shall cheerup his wife which he hath taken" (Deut. 24: 5). On the other hand, this law occurs in exposition of the eighth commandment, "Thou shalt not steal." We have shown that Moses begins explaining and applying this commandment at Deuteronomy 23:15. Here the command forbids, in essence, "wife-stealing." But how does it protect marriage? First, this law protects the wife (as the weaker vessel) by deterring ''wife- rotating. In ancient near eastern culture, men could easily divorce and remarry. Frequently, they would tire of a wife for awhile, marry another, then return to the first wife. If a man is prone to 20 THE COUNSEL of Chalcedon May, 1997 view divorce as an easy method of getting his way, then thislaw would forewarn him that to leave his wife to marry another would preclude his returning to his first wife. The first wife, thus, was protected from such flippant legal actions. It kept the wife from being treated like property. Second, this son oflaw would cause men to move more cautiously in seelting a divorce. It slowed down the process and warned of a future cut off from his first love. Did he really want to do that? Was her action really that criminal? Third, the second spouse is protected when a legitimate marriage is established with them. The. husband or wife would be forbidden by law from leaving him or her to return to their first love. It .prevented aluring:back of the first spouse by law. Thus, the second marriage was given more stability . . Conclusion . In God's Law, marriage is held as one of the highest priorities of men and women. Thlis, we have . these case laws (here and elsewhere) which are designed to protect it. There must be serious reasons for gaining a divorce. Legal process must be gone through. There are impediments thrown in the way of spouse swapping. But at the time there are just ways of getting out of a wicked relationship where the Spouse is unfaithful, wicked, or criminal. God's Law is designed to bring us riot only holiness before God, but peace and harmony and joy. Q