CONCLUSSION

1. What is meant Divorces?

understanding Divorce
Repudiation is an Arabic word which carry sentences mean "divorce" or "let go". Follow the
terms Personality is: Releasing the bonds of marriage or marriage with a sentence or lafaz
showing divorce or divorce .

The psychological impact of divorce on children can vary . Children whose parents divorce
are usually suffering from various psychological problems such as :
Have a sense of guilt and self-blame liked .
Feeling no confidence or low self-esteem .
Feeling unwanted or rejected by their parents
Feeling safe and not feel alone / lonely .

There is no obligation to pay ( dowry ) for you , if you divorce
wives before you mix with them and before you
determine the dowry . And you shall give a mut'ah ( gift )
to them . People who are capable according to his means and the poor
according to his ability ( as well ) , namely provision according to the worth . which
Thus it is a provision for those who do good .
(Qur'an 2:236 )
cause of divorce
causes of divorce among others, are as follows :
Disharmony in the household
The crisis of moral and character







WHAT IS DIVORCES

1. What is meant Divorces?
Repudiation is an Arabic word which carry sentences mean "divorce" or "let go". Follow the
terms Personality is: Releasing the bonds of marriage or marriage with a sentence or lafaz
showing divorce or divorce . If this sentence melafazkan husband over his wife, then
naturally they both had separated and his wife were in a state of waiting period. If during the
waiting period and the wife in the couple want to make peace, they should refer to the
original without going through the wedding process. Types of Separations lafaz Lafaz
divorce terbahagi to two: 1) Talak sharih 2) Repudiation kinayah. Separations sharih bring
mean "real" or "clear" namely a divorce pronounced by the husband to his wife with the
sentences clear and bright. Lafaz is like this only brings the intention of divorce and there is
no sense in others, such as the sentence "Divorce" or "Divorced". Examples are sharih lafaz:
1. I divorce you with a divorce
2. I have already removed (dropped) divorce for you
3. Starting today I divorce you
If the husband divorces say using the sentence "sharih" This is like the above, it is thought to
fall despite divorce without intention and witnesses. While Divorces kinayah also carry
sentences mean that indirectly having two or more sense, for example if the husband to his
wife melafazkan passages such as the following:
1 . I do not kid you again, you may return home to your parents
2 . Get thee here, where you like
3 . We've both gone any more
Lafaz - lafaz is like this falls into the category kinayah, if the husband did not intend to
divorce his wife, then divorce is not falling, but otherwise have a husband namely intention
to divorce his wife when melafazkan this sentence, then the thought of divorce fall.
However, couples must obtain authorization from the Court regarding lafaz which has been
pronounced by the husband.
What is meant Ta'lik?
Divorced Ta'lik
Ta'lik carry or hang intent requires something to something else. Ta'lik divorce is valid in
several ways:
1 . Ta'lik husband uttered in the presence of witnesses after Kadi and consent kabul as
embodied in the sijil marriage.This is like a divorce should only by Judge at the perbicaraan.
This case applies if the wife wants to file for divorce before the Judge, while the husband is
not to divorce his wife and mahu melafazkan not divorce him. that to prove something wife
desired her husband had violated the agreement (Ta'lik) that was created when get married
first.
If the husband has violated Judge dapati ta'lik with clear evidence, presented by the wife in
the perbicaraan, then the judge has the right to separate the two and punish couples divorce
over wife's fall.
2 . Ta'lik spoken by the husband to his wife as an example:
"If the crew out of the house, then fell down divorce only to you" If the wife stays out of the
house after understanding the speech made by her husband, then divorce fell down onto it.
But if there are additional lafaz instance sentence "today" in lafaz spoken by a husband, if the
wife out of the house on the next day, the next day or so then itdoes not fall to the divorce.
What is meant Fasakh?
Fasakh is decided marriage, this case can only be decided when the wife made a complaint to
the Court and Judge after say. Fasakh may apply to some reasons as contained in chapter 49
(1) Amla legislation as follows:
1 . Husband has giving money or not make a living for him for three months.
2 . Husband has been sentenced to imprisonment for three years or more and the penalties it
has become muktamat.
What is meant Khulu '?
Khulu' is date. According to the definition of Personality ' Khulu ' are: Divorce is requested
by the wife to her husband by giving money or so. Among the Malay community, Khulu '
also brings mean "redeem divorce". This case applies due to some things that are not liked
by the wife against her husband. A proportion of those cases that cause Khulu ' is
1 . If both parties can not implement the law no thought of God.
2 . If no thought his wife could not obey her husband.
IMPACT OF DIVORCE
Divorce has an impact on the ex- spouses and children . However, in this description will be
discussed the impact of divorce that will be experienced by the child
Reactions of children to parental divorce depends on their assessment prior to the
marriage of their parents as well as a sense of security in the family . It is undeniable that the
psychological impact of divorce on children . It is known that more than half of the children
who come from unhappy families showed that the reaction yagn divorce is best for his
family . Whereas children who come from a happy family more than half expressed sorrow
and perplexity at the divorce of their parents .


"One of the psychological effects of divorce on children is when children take on the role as
one of those old entertainer , trying to embrace their brothers and sisters to stay together and
be stronger in the separation of their parents , and help do the housework at home , this
situation is psychologically devastating for psychiatric children . Children sometimes become
angry because they feel trapped by the actual " problem resulting " parent and feel " robbed "
of life .

At first the child may be difficult to accept the decision of his parents to split up . But along
with berjaannya time and with the help of parents and other family members , the children
can eventually adjust to the changes that occurred in their family .
Psychologists impact of divorce on children

The psychological impact of divorce on children can vary . Children whose parents divorce
are usually suffering from various psychological problems such as :
Have a sense of guilt and self-blame liked .
Feeling no confidence or low self-esteem .
Feeling unwanted or rejected by their parents
Feeling safe and not feel alone / lonely .
The feelings of the child above results tibulnya divorce can trigger the development of such
behavior :
Depression and rebellious
Quiet , not cheerful and sad
Easy to anger , aggression , tantrums or act rude mischief .
It's hard to concentrate on studying mengakibatkn decreased school achievement .
Fear of starting a relationship with the opposite sex for fear of failing as parents.
It is important to note that the effects of divorce are not always the same family , because
every child is different and parents . In some children , they not only will have a
psychological impact when small , but their impact can continue to mature as well .

Children of divorce are managed through a process of adaptation , will not experience
significant kesulitn when forwarding to the future development of the next life . But for
children who fail to adapt to the new environment after the divorce , then the child will carry
this impact into adulthood like feeling rejected , insecure and unloved .
I quote short passages relating thereto .

If you mentalak wives, and then discharged iddahnya , then do not
You ( the trustees ) to prevent them from going to marry her husband ,
kerelaaan if there have been among them in a way that ma'ruf .
That is advised to people who believe in you
to God and the Last Day . It is better for you and more holy . God
aware , are you not aware of . (Qur'an 2:232 )

There is no obligation to pay ( dowry ) for you , if you divorce
wives before you mix with them and before you
determine the dowry . And you shall give a mut'ah ( gift )
to them . People who are capable according to his means and the poor
according to his ability ( as well ) , namely provision according to the worth . which
Thus it is a provision for those who do good .
(Qur'an 2:236 )

If you divorce your wives before you mix with them
when in fact you have determined the dowry , then pay half
of the dower ye have set it, unless it's wives
mema'afkan or excused by those who hold the bonds of marriage , and
pema'afan you that much closer to piety . And you're forgetting jangajlah
primacy of you . Surely Allah sees well all that ye
working on. (Qur'an 2:237 )

To waniat - divorced woman ( must be given by her husband )
mut'ah according ma'ruf , as an obligation for those who taqwa .
(Qur'an 2:241 )

If they separate, Allah will provide abundance for
each of the overflow of His grace . And Allah is All- Area adanlah
( His gifts ) , Wise . (Qur'an 4:130 )

O Prophet , when you divorce your wives, then be ye
their divorce when they can ( face ) iddahnya ( reasonable )
and count the waiting period time and bertaqwalah to God your Lord .
You shall not remove them from their homes and they do not
( allowed ) to the outside unless they are guilty of lewdness
bright . That the laws of God and anyone who violated laws
Allah , then indeed he has done injustice to itself .
You do not know maybe it's something God hold after it
new ones . (Qur'an 65:1 )

Divorced women shall refrain ( waiting ) three times
quru ' . They should not conceal what Allah has created in
her womb , if they believe in Allah and the Hereafter . and
husbands are entitled to refer to the waiting period if they ( the
husband ) wants him ishlah . And women have equal rights
with its obligations under ma'ruf way . But the husband ,
have a degree of advantage rather than his wife . And Allah
Mighty, Wise . (Qur'an 2:228 )