BEING SINGLE

---1. you start feeling too comfterble with each other.. which means, starting to become lazy.. not
trying to impress each other anymore.. woman wears sweats, doesnt do her hair.. male is lazy.. doesnt
feel the need to be romantic anymore since he already has got his woman.

2. the woman dont want to have sex anymore, especially after they have kids.. they tend to be more
involved in the babies needs instead of their own. example.. gaining weight, not dressing up..
becoming more cranky... boobs start sagging, wearing granny panties.

3. men start cheating when wife dont put out.

4. start sharing money.. bank accounts.. which become more of a hassle, which tend to lead to
fights...

living in the same house.. which means no space apart.. which causes fighting.

fawk need i say more?? marriage is awful not to mention the fact that it costs a lot of money to marry
and its one big hell of a mess to divorce.

--*They may, if they want to, but they are not obliged.married=


You can live together without any need of a document. Why should I certify my love/desire? Why
should you care what society thinks? Your children (if any) will get the same rights as the others. I am
confident enough in that person, that I don't need her signature. I guess we can be happy together
without getting married.
--People should not get married.

Although marriage seems attractive, it is not as appealing as many people think it is. Many couples
grow tired of each other after a few years and end up getting divorced. In reality, humans are not
meant to be monogamous. It is natural for people to have many partners in their lifetime, and it does
not make sense to get married to only one.
--No, I don't think so ( married life is happier than single life)

No. You either love/have a bond with someone or you don't. Going through some ceremony, putting a
metal hoop on someone's finger and making a mark on a piece of paper has no consequence to
anything. It's an imaginary status, it doesn't get you anything that you didn't have before... But now
you've got the government involved in your love life? I'm not aware of any really compelling reasons
to do it and I suspect that a large fraction of marriages happen because people think that's just what
they're supposed to do in life, a box to tick.

If your bond is really as strong as you think then you don't need a legal contract forcing you to stay.
What is more, relationships do often turn sour, people do grow tired of each other, and if that happens
then it's best to just be honest about the situation. It's not so easy to be honest when you're legally tied
to someone who can take half your stuff and make your life very difficult if you try to leave, and there
are few things more unhealthy than living a lie. You don't continue any other sort of optional
relationship when it has become a chore, so why this one?

Furthermore I don't think it's a natural state for humans to be in anyway - monogamy is rare in other
primates and we're not as far out of the jungle as we like to think. It's no surprise that, since marital
collapse no longer carries the same social taboo in this mentally liberated modern age, we now see
marriages having such a high failure rate - we're seeing humans behave more true to our nature rather
than hiding/denying it for cultural reasons.
-I do agree that marriage is a great thing, but only when you're with the person that you truly love. If
you were to meet someone else, or even if there was some kind of argument and the relationship
ended, what would happen to your children? They would have to take a side and go with a parent.
Indeed, I agree that marriage is a great thing, but it is not a necessity. People need to be more
careful about who they marry because marriages should never end up stopping like they do. Many
marriages end in divorce. In the U.S.A, the rate of divorce was
3.4. http://www.divorcerate.org... Now, I do believe that marriage is a great thing, as I have already
stated, and do not want to argue that point. I want to argue that being single is alright as well and
you need not be married or single to live a very happy life. I do think that being single can sometimes
be better for you socially, however, in case something were to happen between you and your
significant other.
--Our first point is free, the single person has no need to change himself (herself)
accommodate with another. He (she) can decorate his (her) by his (he) own mind. When
watching TV, he can turn around all channels. He can choose his favorite movie and doesnt
ask others opinions. Be a single person, he (she) can do what he wants to do.
Our second point is friends. Most people lost their friends after they get married. If
someone was married, he must cost lot of time for his family. Taking care of children, doing
housework, and cooking are taking lot of married persons time. The married people become
have little time to go parties with friends. The married people have no time to make new
friends and accompany old friends. The married persons friends will leave him little by little.
Our third point is promotion. The single people have the advantages for convenience.
They can work for a long time, because they dont need to take care of their family. They can
move to abroad because they dont worry about childrens education, husband (wife)s job
and familys feeling. The single person cooperate their company well. It is believed that their
promotions are better than married people.
In conclusion, we have talked about free, friend and promotion, and have shown
that single is better than married. Foe these reasons, we beg to propose.



--being single, what are the advantages ?
You only have yourself to please. Generally, you can do what you want, you are not bound to take
into consideration, the thoughts, likes and dislikes of others. This isn't meant to sound selfish, it
simply indicates that there is, perhaps, more freedom and decision making is easier.
Time, money, etc. are perhaps easier to budget as there are only needs to be met.
There is, perhaps, a greater degree of sexual freedom. If, that is you are able to find a partner.
It is easier to get time for yourself, if you need it.
--being married, what are the disadvantage?
Loss of freedom. The money and time you have, cannot always be spent on doing what you, and you
alone, might want to do.
Arguments. If you are single, you can usually walk away from arguments and, if necessary avoid the
other person (for ever if you wish) but this is not possible in a marriage.
Changing career. If the opportunity or need arises to change your career, you have a little less
freedom to choose, especially if relocation is also needed.

















MARRIED
--BEING SINGLE.What about the disadvantages ?
Society, certainly western societies, are much more geared towards couples and families.
Social events, parties etc, tend to be geared to couples. If invited to a party by married friends, you
may well find that they've invited another 'single' person to try to pair you off. That's if you're invited
at all.
Tax, pay, benefits etc. favor married people.
Time for domestic jobs is limited. If, say, two jobs need doing, a married couple might share the work
by doing them together or splitting them between the two people. If you're on your own, you have to
do both. Things seem to take at least twice as long and you get tired earlier.
Money can be tight (tell me about it!). You may well have only one income coming in. A couple may
have two sources of income. It costs just as much to heat a house for one person as it does a couple
or a family of four.
If there are things you're not particularly good at, you don't have a partner who might make up for it.
Loneliness.
Finding a partner, dating, etc., can become expensive. Lonely, frustrated nights can be ....well,
frustrating !
Stigma. You are thought of as being odd, inadequate, strange, perverted..... just for living on your
own.

--being married, what are the advantages ?
Companionship. There is always someone there to talk to, to support you, to help you, to have a
conversation with, to argue with (if that's your thing)
Regular sex. It may well be with the same person each time but it's probably better than coming
home empty handed after yet another losing date.
Finance. Married people probably don't appreciate this. They may feel they have more expenses
when trying to bring up children but, hey, most of you decided to have children (it was your choice)
and, let's face it, many single parents face the same problems but on their own. The tax, benefits, etc.
systems favour married people.
Social life. Just by having a partner with you, you have a social life which is not as readily available to
single people. It is often easier for you to attend events and parties as these are usually more geared
to couples or families rather than single people of your age.
Longer Life (for men). Studies have shown that for men (not women), being married leads to a
longer, less stressful life than staying single. Even being in a 'bad' marriage seems better for men
than being single !


--Being single will be fine till u reach 26-27and if all friends of your age remain single.But this rarely happens and
slowly n slowly u will see your friends getting married n getting busy in their own married lives.At that time you will
feel lonely and you will have no friends to share ur feelings or enjoy ur life and you will be left alone.At that time
you will realize the need for a companion with whom you can share ur feelings.So each phase of life should be
enjoyed at its right time and at right age.Too early or too late marriage may not give you a chance to enjoy the
freedom of being single or the chance to the enjoy the company of ur soulmate.
--its not like that being single means you can do anything in the world as per your wish, sometimes being single
also creates lots of problems in your life when you see around your best friends are enjoying their married life
with great excitement, fun and romance. so being single is a curse and frustated & losers dont get a best
companion in their life that's they will remain single like Salman khan. Just to hide their frustation they say that
being single is great.
--Being single may connote freedom from commitment and these may provide happiness for short span but in the
long run, we all need a shoulder to cry on.above all commitment infuses in us so many qualities
--With a good partner, getting married is more securied and a commitment.

Getting married can widden our fianance bases and have a new and lovely family.
We can have babies without gossip.
--People should get married

We do live in a hedonistic society, but that is not to say our ideals are healthy. Marriage is a sacred
thing that is good for man and women. It promotes family values. Married people are much more
successful than those who do not marry. Marriage is something that needs to remain in our society.
--Marriage is great!

While, at times, marriage is a complicated thing, more often than not it's a lot of fun and you grow a
lot from it. Everyone (in spite of race, sexuality or other factors) should be able to get married, and if
it's right for them, marriage can be a great thing.
--It makes you happy

It makes you happy... One of the ways that getting married improves your life is by making it last
longer. Various studies have indicated that happily married men tend to outlast their single
counterparts. For example, a 2006 study performed by University of California researchers contended
that single people are five times more likely to die of infectious disease, nearly 40% more likely to die
of heart disease and twice as likely to die accidentally. Other studies suggest that the rate of mortality
is a whopping 250% higher among single men than it is among married men.
You know that big-screen TV you've been saving for? Well, if you were married, you'd probably own it
by now. Being married means sharing expenses and splitting the costs of major purchases. You
cynics out there gripe about the money women cost you, but the money you'd spend on dinner dates
and the occasional gift is dwarfed by the prospect of having an extra income in the household.
Marriage means you can afford the things you could never afford on your own; it means a better
home, a better car, a better vacation, and cooler stuff.
OK, so technically you don't need to be married to have afamily, but marriage is still the standard
method for starting a family. The nuclear family, despite its flaws, remains a sought-after model.
That's why having kids is another argument in our top 10 reasons to get married. Being a father is a
dimension of manhood that just about every guy wants to experience -- and marriage is the most
stable and secure environment in which to start a family.
Sure, you're on a hot streak right now, dating 20-year-oldyoga instructors and baristas, but we both
know that's not going to last forever. How's being single going to work out for you when you're 60,
when you have hair in all of the wrong places and no one can stand to look at you? Marriage is an
investment in your future. Sure, you sacrifice some of your sweet single years, but in exchange you
get to make a long-term investment in one person, building a deep, abiding love that has the
potential to last a lifetime.
As our own Justin Prugh covered in his article, Why Do Single Women Like Taken Men, married men
are more attractive to other women. Now, we're not suggesting that you should get married purely
because it will make it easier to score with other women, but we are suggesting that marriage makes
you appealing to the opposite sex. Getting attention from beautiful women feels good; it's a
confidence booster. Plus, when you go out with all of your single buddies, all of the hot women will
be hitting on you. Who's laughing now?

-- Marriage is not losing your identity. As a matter of fact, if you marry the right person, you gain a
whole new identity, or self image. I never have to be lonely, I always have someone to talk to when
needed, cuddle with when needed, or just be around. On the other hand, I still hang out with outside
people, and have me time. I guess when you hit that age when you are tired of going from bed to bed,
the feeling of having someone who REALLY loves you is great!
On the flip side, I can see the perks of being single. You can live life as you please without having to
consider another person. You don't have to deal with that fear of commitment, and this is it for me that
comes with marriage sometimes. There are other perks too! But still at the end of the day, I love the
fact that I have someone to share every aspect of my life with, someone to get to know everyday. It all
depends on where you are and where you see yourself in life.


*http://www.createdebate.com/debate/show/Are_married_people_are_happier_than_single_people
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