16, 2014
(Proverbs 31: 10-13,19-20, 30-31; 1 Thessalonians5:1-6; Matthew
25:14-30)
The reading from proverbs is an excellent example of Hebrew
poetry, although in English the poetry is lost and the Lectionary has
chosen only isolated verses from a poem of twenty-two verses. This
poem in praise of the worthy (or capable in some translations) wife
actually begins with a question: A worthy wife, who can find her?
Each line of the poem begins with a succeeding letter of the Hebrew
alphabet. Our selection is scattered from beginning to middle and then
the end.
Commentators usually say the woman described represents the
ideal wife and when thats done it is evident that it is viewed from a
mans perspective. This woman tends to the needs of her husband,
while at the same time conducting business deals of her own. She
cares for the poor and the needy and teaches her children. She sews,
she weaves. She is, in a wordwait for itSuperwoman!
It is not to say I have not seen many women doing similar tasks
over the years, including in my own family and in the parishes Ive
served. What they do is part of a routine they have developed for
themselves at an early stage of life. I doubt they do it in order to be
praised, but what they do, they do out of love. The woman of Proverbs
becomes a celebration of women in every age who have managed their
households, their families and their lives with praiseworthy deeds, but
who so often go unrecognized and unappreciated.
The Proverbs reading is an interesting pairing with the Gospel
Parable of the Talents. The man distributes his wealth to his (male)
slaves, as is clear from the use of masculine pronouns throughout the
Greek text. The matter of distributing the talents is arbitrary. The
amounts are wildly extravagant. The talent was the largest weight of
the day. It would be like saying he gave one servant 5000 tons of
silver and another 2000 and another 1000. The talent was originally a