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Dipl. Ing. Rastislav Kme .....................................................................................................................4
Dear my friend, ..................................................................................................................................5
What love really is? ............................................................................................................................6
START AT YOURSELF......................................................................................................................... 12
Do you have confidence? Do you believe in yourself? ....................................................................... 15
DO I LIKE MYSELF? ........................................................................................................................... 17
I VALUE AND RESPECT MYSELF ......................................................................................................... 19
FORGIVENESS .................................................................................................................................. 21
REGRET ............................................................................................................................................ 23
FEAR ................................................................................................................................................ 25
Feelings: I am not good enough and I do not deserve ........................................................................ 28
HOW TO DO IT? ............................................................................................................................... 32
MY CONFESSION .............................................................................................................................. 36
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Reading for all who want to find the love of their dreams
and for those who want to live in a full and long
relationship based on pure love.
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He has hundreds of individual and companies clients all over the world. He provides his
services for ordinary people, young children, parents, doctors, lawyers, professional
sportsmen and also top politicians.
At companies clients he works at changing of feeling motivation at employees, he helps
owners to find new and key visions, he is like a couch of psychohygiene, a manager in
relationships, stress, etc.
He makes trainings, he teaches and supports people at their way for big visions.
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Dear my friend,
I wholeheartedly greet you everywhere, where you get this information. It does not
matter who you are, how old you are, if you are a woman or a man, what religion.
By this information I would like to open your eyes in questions and topics, which are not
usual. And thus that it is not usual, we are not interested in it. And trust me, that right it
is responsible for that if you are satisfied in your relationship or marriage. If you feel
love and if you feel to be loved.
And so you also belong to people, who want to have full and happy relationship, or to
have a family full of pure love, understanding and pleasure?
Do you know, that this relationship or volume is being built? That we create it? We are
not talking about love at one night. Neither at two nights, or month. I am talking about
something, what when you discover inside yourself, will be forever.
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Love is the strongest positive emotion, which we have and know. It is dominant by the
final feeling of happiness and pleasure. It is an inseparable part of a glad and harmonic
family.
It is mentioned almost in all literary works of world and national authors. It is spoken
every day on TV and the radio about.
You can find countless amount of articles about it on the Internet. Surely, everybody of
us knows it and has heard about it.
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When you say I know, that I do not want love, you say only this:
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Does it have a sense to try for love all life? To hound it? Or to look for it? Just so, this
does not have a sense. We want to feel love, to sense and live it, do not we?
How is it really?
What should you do to have love, feel it, not only to look
for it?
As small children we know, see and feel, that our mother gives us love most. Gradually,
as we grow up, we look for love in pets, toys, even in friends subconsciously and of
course in our relatives.
When we grow up, we focus on people, who are the most congenial for us-do you
remember the feeling butterflies in stomach? This is the exposure of love, liking and
excitement.
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It is a normal way of growing up and progress, which we live all life and in all areas. We
learn best on the basis of what we experience. If we evaluate it like something
unsuitable, painful, sad and bad, we say: I do not want this any more.
Attention:
This is the most important finding in our life, because
thanks to it we define what we want, what makes us
happy and we reach that what we really desire.
In Europe one statement is used: the wise learn at others faults. But I can agree with
this only partly. Why? Because if we do not experience some things personally, we do
not know, if they are or are not suitable for us.
Appreciate and value even it what hurts you sometimes.
Appreciate and value even it, that something did not manage according to your visions,
because you know that next time you will do it by another way.
If you have experienced it, you know, that you do not want to experience it again, do
not you? And happened to you, that even though you did not want it is happened
again?
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And then the same again? The more you wanted to avoid it the more you fell into it. If it
was a violence, infidelity, arguments, simply it happens again and again.
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START AT YOURSELF
START AT YOURSELF.
What do I mean?
I mean it simply and clearly.
If you want somebody to love you, it is necessary to learn to love yourself...
You might answer: but I like and love myself. It can be true, if you have a relationship,
which you are happy in.
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If it is not so, than you lie to yourself...I repeat you lie to yourself.
I am telling you surely if you do not have a relationship, which you wish, only you are
responsible for it.
How to do it?
What should and can I do for it?
Wait a minute, patience. We are not at the end yet, we are starting right now.
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Exactly...If your relationship with anybody is to be strong, full of love, trust and happiness,
you must work at:
Confidence start to believe yourself.
Start to like yourself.
Value and respect yourself.
Forgive yourself and all definitely.
Get rid of regret.
Get rid of shame.
Get rid of fear.
Get rid of feelings like I am not good enough and I do not deserve.
Just working at these things, changes your view at yourself and your life radically. By that
you will change your setting at your partner...
You might said Uff, but that is a lot. How to find out what concerns me and what not?
Do not worry. I will give you an advice with pleasure.
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A lot of you say: Sure, I have confidence. I have a big house, a great car, great friends, big
muscles, girlfriends, huge money, prosperous business, or job...
Please, be honest to yourself. I am talking about confidence, which you will have also
when you will not have so much or nothing. I am talking about something, what is within
you, what you have, only to discover it. And we all have it, regardless of it if we have big
houses or cars...
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Answer No.1.
I know that I have confidence. It is so.../you can say something similar/
A Result: Believe me, you do not have the real confidence.
Answer No. 2.
I feel it somewhere on my chest, around my heart. /something similar/
A Result: THIS is it. This is the real unplayed confidence, which will bring you everywhere
you want...
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DO I LIKE MYSELF?
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Answer No. 1.
Did you name anything concretely? For example hair, eyes, breast, teeth, belly, you
should lose weight, etc.
A Result:You do NOT LIKE yourself.
Answer No. 2.
You name nothing concretely, you feel beautiful, that feeling comes from your chest and
you have no need to change something at yourself.
A Result: THIS is it. This is the real feeling, I realy like myself.
Lets go on.
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Answer No. 1.
Did you answer at least yes?
A Result: You do NOT VALUE your partner and you do NOT RESPEKT each other. And so,
you do not respect and value yourself.
Answer No. 2.
Did you answer almost at all questions negative /no/
A Result: THIS is it. You respect and value each other. Because you have created it, it is
your part and you know it. You value and respect yourself.
And we continue.
Hold your hats-we are going faster.
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FORGIVENESS
It is one of the strongest abilities in our life. Forgiveness is so strong ability, that it can
cure, it will get rid of your pain, worrying and sadness and many others.
After forgiveness you will have a feeling when like a stone fell down of your heart. If
you can not forgive somebody, it always takes you back to you past and you have a need
to solve the same situation again and again.
Without forgiveness you can not build a loving relationship based on the truth, trust and
respect. This statement is a big truth and it is an experience of million of people.
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Answer No.1.
I remembered one or more situations, which hurt me, make me angry, make sadness or
worrying. Even it is only one situation...
A result: You have not forgiven yourself
Answer No. 2.
You can not remember any negative memory? You can not remember any
compunction? GREAT.
A result: THIS is it. You HAVE FORGIVEN YOURSELF and EVERYBODY.
Again my question: Is it clear? Did you understand this topic? Yes? Great. If you do not
understand something, please write you question HERE.
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REGRET
Regret is the most destructive emotion, which exists. I understand that you can disagree
with me. But understand, that when we regret somebody, we do not help him/her, but
the contrary.
When we regret somebody, we are telling him/her indirectly: what you do, you do well.
Regret gets rid us of ability to change things. It prevents us to do an activity, which can
help us to solve or change some unpleasant things.
Instead of this, we are angry, we are going to bed and we are sad, melancholy or we are
crying.
Let me say, that regret is a disease of the whole humankind and it kills thousands of
people every year.
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Answer No. 1.
I can not just tell the truth everybody. It will hurt them, worry, or they will be angry.
They are poor and I feel with them. /something similar/.
A result: Regret destroyed you every day.
Answer No. 2.
I tell the truth and I do not feel something like that. I respect their status and I accept it.
I know, that they are responsible for themselves and for that they are in a hospital, in
the streets. /something similar/. If they want to change it, the will do it by themselves.
A result: THIS is it. You do not know what regret is and it has no influence at
you.
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FEAR
Fear is the opposite of love. It is the strongest emotion, which all other negative emotions
come from. Everything what we sense as bad is made by fear. I understand, that you do
not have to agree with me.
Fear is responsible for hunger, for mental pain, for that we destroy the planet. It is
responsible for our fear, for wars and also for terrorism. And again I understand, that you
do not have to agree with me.
If you do not see it like this, it does not mean, that it is not so. You will find it out, when
you get rid of fear.
But think about the following: how can you have full relationships, when you have fear?
Fear causes, that you lie to yourself and all others. You have fear to name the truth what
it is. And then you can not do the right solutions.
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Answer No. 1.
Well, it is not possible all the time. It can not be. This can nobody
/similar answers/.
A result: You have fear. It is in you and it influences everything in your life.
Answer No. 2.
I say only the truth according to what I feel. Even if it sometimes brings me small and
bigger challenges /a similar answer/.
A result: THIS is it. You do not know fear. You do not follow it.
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So, is it clear? If you do not understand something, go back or write me your question
HERE.
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We call these sentences persuasions and there are a lot of them. But these two influence
your life the most negatively.
We call them persuasions, because they come into existence in our head. We persuade
ourselves about our inability on the basis of our own weakness.
Everybody of us has some weakness. But if you are interested in them too much, you
create your negative persuasions. And this has been happening since our childhood.
They often come into existence by situations or words which are said by people, who are
sensed like authorities. Our parents, teachers, coaches, classmates, etc.
The result is you feeling, when everything what you do, you do not do well or is
inadequate. And these persuasions are linked with everything what we do. They are
linked with a job, prosperity, money, love, health, etc.
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Answer No. 1.
This is not for me. He/ she does not want me. And why so beautiful house or car? I do not
need them. And the holiday? Beautiful pictures. It is not for me. I do not need to relax. It
is enough when I am in a corner caf. I can not afford it. /something similar/.
A result: You have your persuasions in you, which block you in your life.
Answer No. 2.
You say hello to the man or woman /because you do not have to meet him/her anymore/,
wauuuu great, what a beautiful car and house. I will buy it immediately if I want it. You
will call to a travel agency and you will book a holiday. Simply, you will do what you want.
A result: THIS is it. No persuasions can block you.
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Imagine, that you have a person, who loves you and you
love him/her.
You attract each other, trust each other and you will build a amazing family with beautiful
and healthy children, who you will teach what you know and you will be their examples.
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Only you know this. But what can I tell and guarantee you is, that all is able to reach and
change.
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HOW TO DO IT?
There are a lot of fiction books, magazines, newspapers, articles on the Internet. From my
experiences, I know it takes years, until you reach everything what you want, because it
depends only on you.
It depends on your will and on that you must learn it.
I have read a lot of books and I have been working at myself. I can tell you, yes, it is
sometimes really hard but it is worth it.
I have managed to do it. I was a homeless. I lost more than 2mil. USD. I nearly commited
suicide and nevertheless I am here. I am writing, that if you are in the same situation as I
was, you can manage it. It is possible.
If you are interested in where I was, what I experienced, what I reached, you can read it
HERE.
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More details about the technology MYL you can find HERE.
I discovered principles, which can help you in short time. This way can save you years and
years of your life, during which you would be still looking for something new, you would
be trying it and the most important is, that you would not live your life full.
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You will get what you wish. You will be there where you want to be. And you will be the
person you want to be- you will understand the principles of healthy, happy, rich people
and you will start to live according to them.
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MY CONFESSION
/who is Raso Kme/
I have always been thinking about how to be happy, glad and reach that own right nut.
I have been looking for it in a back round which often judged me as a black sheep. Just
this back round invoked a feeling within me that I am another, not good enough, you
are not normal, I am ill, demanding, etc.
Given that, I am a man and I had a hard upbringing, I built strong even extreme ego and I
was very bad, hard, feisty and vain. Gradually I had to learn to manage my masculine
essence, which was associated with the amount of pain, misery, sorrow, diseases, losses,
farewells and disappointments.
I have always been doing active sports, comparing myself, proving and competing
whether at the sports /football, ice-hockey, combat sports/even at work /from
representatives to executive directors and managers /. I have always belonged to the
bests at achieving aims, at power but however I was not happy.
I was attending hundreds of courses, couching, trainings, individual interviews to be
happy and to be cool. I was improving my education even by studying MBA and...again
nothing. How is it possible? Why? I was asking myself again and again. Because I have
everything, what a man may want to in the world today- business, health, women,
money...
Money
Carrier
Physical love
The first key turning point happened in 2000, where I lost absolutely everything twice:
job, relationship, all money, friends, I lived under a bridge- I was a homeless.
In 2007 the next key moment came for me, I lost 3 mil. Euro / 2 mil. SC were my own/.
And the hardest mental moment came in 2011, when I was thinking about the essence
of my life and about its unnecessary...
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You are asking, why you should just listen to me? Well, just because it is ME... The man,
who has a balanced life, has giant visions, says the truth, has absolutely pure intentions,
knows to listen to, cares about to live HIS life and at last can give professional advices, can
motivate, because he passed through many extremes. I love to make people happy, glad
and I feel it like a business with gratefulness. And gratefulness is inexhaustible.
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Raso Kme
+421 905 883 902
rastislavkmet@gmail.com
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