bosom of my child. Thou, thou, Lysander, thou hast given her rhymes,
And interchanged love-tokens with my child^ With cunning hast thou
filch^d my daughter^s heart, Turn^d her obedience, which is due to me,
To stubborn harshness." (Act I, Scene I, line 27) In many ways the
opposite of real love, Hermia and Demetrius^ relationship is symbolic
for practicality and sensibility. Hermia does not love Demetrius and
refuses to marry him. It is not even clear what Demetrius^ motives are.
One can speculate, however, that he desires to marry Hermia for her
money or respectable family. Whatever the reasons, it is apparent that
this relationship is quite contrasting in comparison to Hermia and
Lysander^s. It seems to be more of a business arrangement than anything
else. Egeus explains this to Lysander by saying "True, [Demetrius] hath
my love, And what is mine my love shall render him. And she is mine,
and all my right of her I do estate unto Demetrius." (Act I, Scene I,
line 97) With these relationships, Shakespeare illustrates the irony of
love in the values of the community and culture. In this way, The
reader discovers that sensible marriages are more likely to be embraced
by the community than passionate ones and that Bottom^s suggestion that
love should be more closely linked to reason has, form a modern
reader^s eye, already been followed.