The
repeat function, shows what was communicated verbally and accentuated the message;
Non verbal communication is unintentional betrays our emotion or attitude, even against our
will, which makes us aware of nonverbal messages can sometimes contradict to what we say.
TYPES of non verbal communication:
Sensorial (or sensory) is based on what you received through the senses of sight,
hearing, smell, touch and taste;
esthetics occurs via various forms of artistic expression and communicate different
arts emotions;
non verbal communication based to the use of specific signs and symbols, such as
those related to religion or social status.
motor and gestural paralanguage: arms, shoulders, posture, head and neck language;
1. Facial Expression
Facial expressions are responsible for a huge proportion of
nonverbal communication. Consider how much information can
be conveyed with a smile or a frown. Think for a moment about
how much a person is able to convey with just a facial
expression. A smile can indicate approval or happiness, while a
frown can signal disapproval or unhappiness. In some cases, our
facial expressions may reveal our true feelings about a particular
situation. While you may say that you are feeling fine, the look
on your face may tell people otherwise.
While nonverbal communication and behavior can vary dramatically between cultures, the
facial expressions for happiness, sadness, anger and fear are similar throughout the world.
2. Gestures
Deliberate movements and signals are an important way to communicate
meaning without words. Common gestures include waving, pointing, and
using fingers to indicate numeric amounts. Other gestures are arbitrary and related to culture.
3. Paralinguistics
Paralinguistics refers to vocal communication that is separate from
actual language. This includes factors such as tone of voice, loudness,
inflection and pitch. Consider the powerful effect that tone of voice
can have on the meaning of a sentence. When said in a strong tone of
voice, listeners might interpret approval and enthusiasm. The same
words said in a hesitant tone of voice might convey disapproval and a
lack of interest.
Posture and movement can also convey a great deal on information. Research on body
language has grown significantly since the 1970's, but popular media have focused on the
over-interpretation of defensive postures, arm-crossing, and leg-crossing, especially after the
publication of Julius Fast's book Body Language. While these nonverbal behaviors can
indicate feelings and attitudes, research suggests that body language is far more subtle and
less definitive that previously believed.
5. Proxemics
People often refer to their need for
"personal space," which is also an
important
type
of
nonverbal
factors,
characteristics
and
personality
level
of
familiarity. For example, the amount of personal space needed when having a casual
conversation with another person usually varies between 18 inches to four feet. On the other
hand, the personal distance needed when speaking to a crowd of people is around 10 to 12
feet.
6. Eye Gaze
Looking, staring and blinking can also be
important nonverbal behaviors. When
people encounter people or things that they
like, the rate of blinking increases and
pupils dilate. Pupils decreases is the
expression of unsincerity or disliking.
Frequent
blinking
indicates
anxiety.
7. Haptics
Communicating through touch is another important
nonverbal behavior. There has been a substantial
amount of research on the importance of touch in
infancy and early childhood. Harry Harlow's classic
monkey study demonstrated how the deprivation of
touch and contact impedes development. Baby
monkeys raised by wire mothers experienced
permanent deficits in behavior and social interaction. Touch can be used to communicate
affection, familiarity, sympathy and other emotions.
8. Appearance
Our choice of color, clothing, hairstyles and other factors affecting appearance are also
considered a means of nonverbal communication. Research on color psychology has
demonstrated that different colors can evoke different moods. Appearance can also alter
physiological reactions, judgments and interpretations. Just think of all the subtle judgements
you quickly make about someone based on his or her appearance. These first impressions are
important, which is why experts suggest that job seekers dress appropriately for interviews
with potential employers.
CONCLUSIONS
For having a correct interpretation of non-verbal languages, each person must take account
the characteristics of individual personality , education or life experience.
When people interact, transfer messages through other forms of communication than verbal
or written; even when not interacting, we all communicate something, sometimes
unintentionally. The moment between people exchange information, they can use pictures.
Whenever communicating using pictures and gestures emphasize and implement, in a light as
clear, verbal message.
I saw that often we communicated through facial expressions, gestures, posture, appearance
and color, because the message, our information is need to remain imprinted in our
interlocutor thought as clear and real.
"If you want to be ready to understand more, looking to see what is beyond laughter, smile ,
crying , silence or anger, beyond words! "
REFERENCES:
1. http://psychology.about.com/
2. Soitu Laureniu- Pedagogia Comunicrii Bucureti, Editura Didactic i
Pedagogic, 1997.
3. Dinu Mihai- Comunicarea Bucureti, Editura tiinific, 1997.