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Juan Carlo M.

Ona
04/04/2015

First, I would like to say a little about myself. I came from a Christian School
which is run by Salesian Brothers. I was already exposed to the Christian World at a
very early age and with guidance from my teachers. This, however, is a very basic
understanding of the Christian World. I would like to say that most of the Tred
subjects was already taught in my years in High School which lead me to be bored
in most of these subjects. However, we didnt tackle anything such as relationships
and marriage which made me very interested in this subject.
I was however shocked that most of these doesnt cover the conventional
wisdom the Church talks about marriage because it doesnt talk about sacredness
of marriage or the archaic teaching of the Church. Well, firstly before we went into
marriage and relationship. We first delved into the relationship between God and his
people thats why there are different vocations in the church. We however, delved
deeper and deeper to this. That there are different types of love in each of the
vocations and different symbolisms for each which we didnt delve in High School.
We now delve deeper into what is one of my favorite teaching on the subject
which talks about marriages and relationship of people. This however doesnt delve
into the more Christian side of things. It focuses more on why we are in the vocation
and who we do it for. It shows our love for God. This is separated into 3 sectors
which is marriage, vocation, and single blessedness.
This is then separated to the loves we have in our religion and how it
translates from Jesus public ministry.
We then delve into relationship between us Christians. We plunge into the
love for each other and how dating works. I would say that I was not impressed with
the speaker but the book about Venus and Mars on a date was pretty good. It wasnt
about make it work but also it talks about not being right for your partner. This
wasnt in any Christian teaching I was thought it was making things work but in the
book it says make things work if it doesnt then find another partner you will love.
We then learned that there are different stages of courting and relationship.
There are five stages which was separated into different parts: Attraction,
Uncertainty, Exclusivity, Intimacy, and Engagement.
This is what usually transpires in courting or when you find someone. The
subject aimed to discuss this in detail. I, however, wont be discussing it in detail
but aims to promote that not every relationship works and there are certain things
that men and women do wrong that turns off the other sex.
We then turn to marriage which seals the deal with this if you found the
company you have been looking for. Which is one of the last steps in marriage.

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