By Shaykh Abdul Muhsin Al Qassim

All praise is due to Allaah, Lord of all the worlds. Peace and blessings of Allaah
be upon the Messenger, his household and companions.
Fellow Muslims! Allaah created His servants on a sound and balanced nature.
He sent Messengers to confirm and perfect that. Young people are fertile and
open ground for all that is introduced to them, either good or bad; and they
readily accept whichever of the good or false ideologies, and excellent or bad
morals that comes their way. The Messenger of Allaah said, Every child is
naturally born on Islaamic Monotheism. It is his parents that makes out of him a
Jew, a Christian or a Magian.
Youths minds are a target for the enemies of Islaam who have different ways of
luring young Muslims into their snares through temptations or misconceptions.
They do this in order to drag them into the abyss of lusts, whims and forbidden
things. Hence, the only way to protect the youths against these wolves is to
fortify them with the Islaamic knowledge that increases man in light and
cognizance and keeps him away from filthy actions. The seeker of knowledge is
counted among the great people. Allaah says, Allaah will raise those who have
believed among you those who were given knowledge, by degrees. (AlMujaadilah 58:11)
A learned person will behave in a way that will make him live eternally in
Paradise. All creatures will be pleased with him and they will ask forgiveness
for him. The Angels will love keeping his company. Respecting Islaam and the
law of Islaam necessitates respecting the scholars of Islaam, for they are the
heirs of the Prophets, as affirmed by the Messenger of Allaah, blessings and
peace be upon him. It is our obligation to respect them and honour them. That is
the way of our righteous predecessors. Sulaymaan bin Rabee said, I would not
dare drink water while Imaam Ash-Shaafiee looked at me out of respect for
him.

Asking questions from them is knowledge, sitting with them is happiness,

keeping their company refines character and protects the youth from going
astray, by the will of Allaah. Maymoon bin Mahraan said, I found the
refinement of my heart in sitting with the scholars.
The benefit of sitting with the scholars does not end with acquiring knowledge
only; it also includes emulating them in their guidance, conduct, highmindedness and other desirable traits. Youths keeping away from them leads to
lack of interest in knowledge, intellectual arrogance and insufficient acts of
worship.
The youths must keep away from causes of temptation, misconceptions and
lusts. Our Prophet sought protection against temptations and asked his
companions to do the same. The Prophet said, Whoever seeks for fitnah, he
will be overwhelmed by it. (Al-Bukhaaree)
The pure religion of Islaam commands us to adhere to two lights: the Quraan
and the Sunnah; and it forbids us from following all that cause corruption to the
hearts.
Whenever a doubt or a misconception enters the heart, it would be difficult to
remove it. Shaykhul-Islaam Ibn Taymiyyah said, Whenever a man exposes
himself to a calamity, Allaah will leave him to himself.
Negligence in performing obligations, committing forbidden things, addiction
of the youth to satellite channels and his running after objectionable things; each
of these is a gateway to moral corruption and perverted ideologies. When the
heart is darkened by sins, it becomes difficult for it to carry out good deeds and
it becomes easy for it to accept falsehood. Causing doubts in the hearts of young
children as regards their educational curricula weaken their aim of achieving
knowledge.

Changes and events of our contemporary world and occurrence

necessitate that our religious curricula be increased in content. They
adequately explained and the students should not be burdened with
unnecessary non-religious subjects. There is a dire need for
knowledge.

of crises
should be
too many
religious

An educational system that is based on religion and practice is the factor that
made this country blooming with erudite scholars of Islaamic law, who are
consulted for religious counseling and have won the confidence of many
Muslims in the area of guidance and propagation of Islaam.
By the grace of Allaah, it is in the light of this religious-based educational
system that ministers, government advisers, writers, journalists, physicians and
economists were nurtured. It is this educational system that produced all those
who took part in the development of our cultural and religious values. It is
therefore, an act of gratitude to praise an educational system that produced these
fruits.
Brethren in faith! Mass media is the window through which the society sees the
world. It should pay an adequate attention to the youths through guidance,
sincere advice and giving religious counseling. Demeaning the religion or
mocking religious people or attacking them only poisons the youths minds
against their religion. Praising the youths and guiding them are proper ways of
protecting them against the enemies whose aim is to kidnap young people with
their sweet talk and rhetoric.
The noble Quraan is the Word of Allaah. Its recitation brings down tranquility,
and reflection over its meaning increases faith and removes darkness. Allaah
says about the Quraan, There has come to you a light and a clear Book. (AlMaaidah 5:15)
Abundance of Quraanic memorization classes in the mosques throughout this
country and the care that the authorities have for them is a source of pride and

gratitude. Allaah has guarded many youths from corruption through these
classes and He has protected His religion by them. These classes have done
good to many an orphan, blocked many an evil way, and increased many in
knowledge and understanding. The Quraan is the foundation of all sciences and
the source of all good morals. Directing youths to memorize the Quraan is a
protection for them against evils, temptations and perverted ideas.
Having excessive free time is an element of ideological and moral perversion.
The unlawful modern games and the satellite channels also play an unenviable
role in corrupting the youths ideologically. A wise father would not allow these
channels and games into his house in other to avert an avoidable sorrow and
distress.
Fellow Muslims! The widened gap between a father and his child is one of the
factors that prevent the child from revealing what is in his heart to his father and
revealing it to others who do not know how to educate or how guide a young
person, and who neither loves him and have affection for him as his father does.
Therefore, bringing your children closer to you, speaking with them freely and
exchanging views with them, without neglecting fatherly respect is a safety for
the children, peace of mind for the parents and a foundation for dutifulness to
parents.
Friends also play a vital role in corrupting or reforming an individual. The
Messengers of Allaah attached great importance to a good company. Allaah
informs us that Prophet Eesaa told his disciples, Who are my supporters for
Allaah? (As-Saff 61:14)
Our Prophet Muhammad also appointed a companion who helped him in the
cause of his mission. He said, If I had to appoint an intimate friend among my
followers, I would have appointed Aboo Bakr as my intimate friend. But he is
my brother and companion. Aaishah said, I entered into the age of discretion
and found my parents already practicing Islaam. The Messenger of Allaah then

used to come to our house every morning and afternoon while he was in
Makkah.
The righteous companion brings you good. He reminds you when you forget,
encourages you when you appear negligent, shows you love when you are with
him and guard your name when you are absent. The bad companion on the other
hand only runs after his passions and whims. Whenever he attains what he
wants from you he abandons you. He brings you close to every evil and keeps
every good thing away from you. He cannot be trusted on worldly things and on
the Day of Resurrection you will regret your companionship with him. Allaah
says,
And the Day the wrongdoer will bite on his hands (in regret), he will say, Oh I
wish I had taken with the Messenger a way. Oh woe to me, I wish I had not
taken that one as a friend. He led me away from the remembrance after it had
come to me. And ever is Satan to man a deserter. (Al-Furqaan 25:27-29)
Dear brother! Befriend only the righteous people and take pride in their
company. Keep away from those who will harm you in matters of your religion
and worldly life.
Brethren in faith! Women have an influential role to play in nurturing and
guiding the youth. When the woman abandons her role in the house, neglects
her home and frequently goes out, the children will not find the motherly
compassion and love that they need and they will not find in the house except
the maids, who are not of their race and culture. In this case, the children will
lose their mothers compassion and eventually opt for those who will deceive
them with sweet talk and future dreams.
Islaam places a great and noble responsibility on the mothers shoulder. The
Prophet said, The woman is a shepherd in the house of her husband.

It is from the bosom of the woman that scholars and noble men emerged. There
is greater honor and respect for the woman more than the responsibility of home
management. It is therefore incumbent on her to shoulder her responsibilities
lest she regrets. She should not listen to those who are calling her to abandon
her kingdom and neglect her children. Allaah says,
Whoever is guided is only for the [benefit of] his soul. And whoever errs only
errs against it. And no bearer of burden will bear the burden of another. And
never would We punish until We sent a Messenger. (Al-Israa 17:15)
Fellow Muslims! Family is a strong foothold in Islaam. It is in the shade of it
that souls meet in love and compassion. Allaah swears with the children and
fathers to underline the importance of the family. He says in His Glorious Book,
And [by] the father and that which was born of him. (Al-Balad 90:3)
Taking proper care of the children is the habit of the righteous ones and the
childrens uprightness is the source of happiness for the pious fathers and
mothers whose invocation is always, Our Lord, grant us from among our wives
and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us a leader [i.e., example] for the
righteous. (Al-Furqaan 25:74)
The first thing to implant in the hearts of the children is god-consciousness. The
Prophet, blessings and peace be upon him, told Ibn Abbaas while was a young
boy, O lad! Be conscious of Allaah, He will protect you. Be conscious of
Allaah, you will always find Him wherever you face.
The children are in need of education and knowledge and they need to know
how to spend their time in useful things. The Prophet, blessings and peace be
upon him, said, Be keen on that which benefits you.

The father should provide his children with things that will benefit them and
keep off them those things that are harmful to them. Pious friends should be
sought out for them.
Fellow Muslims! Childrens good upbringing depends on their parents
adherence to the Islaamic injunctions and whenever the parents are upright, the
children will emulate them and they are thereby saved from negligence and
error.
As for you the son, you should know that your parents hope is to have a good
repute and excellent conduct and to be upright in your religion. They also hope
that you stay away from humiliating traits and that you do fall prey to moral and
ideological perversion and lusts. Do not, therefore, disappoint them in the face
of a moments lust. Keep only good friends and keep the company of the
scholars and righteous men in order to achieve success in this world and the
Hereafter.