Bob Doyle: Okay, I have 7:00 o'clock and so I would like to begin. I first of all, I just really
want to, to thank you on several levels for being here. Um, first of all, for your enthusiasm and
the great questions I got, we just got a tremendous of so many more questions I could have
possibly imagined came my way with regard to Law of Attraction. Clearly things like The
Secret and just other movement that seems to be going on out there has generated a tremendous
amount of interest in the Law of Attraction, learning more about it, learning how to implement
it, and also I think a lot of people have from what I can gather from reading the, the emails and
the questions, a lot of people have been learning about the Law of Attraction some times for
decades and just not been able to break through to determine these results. And that is definitely
something I want to help you with tonight because it is being able to implement the Law of
Attraction is such a wonderful and powerful thing to do and there's just a few key things that I
think are left out of most of the teachings and that's one of the things that Wealth Beyond Reason
program, we focus on. We certainly talk about the basics and the science, the Law of Attraction.
But then, we want to get right into how you implement it. You know, what are the stopping
points, and that's really what my work in this field is really focused and what it's really all about.
That's where my passion lies. And so, before we really get started I'd like to if you do have
access to the internet, I'd like to invite you to go to a page for me or you can just write this down
and go to it at your leisure. Like I said, I will send it out a little bit later, later on tonight after the
call or tomorrow some time. But it's www.wealthbeyondreason.com/askbobcall.html. So again
that's wealthbeyondreason.com\askbobcall.html, no spaces or dashes or anything like that. And,
that will bring you to a page that has links to some of the resources that we are going to be
talking about during this call that'll help you kind of get deeper into things that I can touch on
without really going into full detail. Uh, so I think, I think you'll find that very helpful and if you
could, you could go there now or go there later, that'd be terrific.
Now, I want to say upfront, I want to try and be as transparent with you as possible and let you
know what my intentions are for this call. I asked you to ask me the tough questions and I
committed to you to answer them as fully and completely as possible and that is what I'm going
to do. I cannot be in integrity with myself if I'm giving you half answers or if I'm trying to make
this call into some sort of a tease for my program. That is not my intention. However, it would
also be dishonest of me to say I would, that I don't want you to be a part of our program. If you
have come this far and you're on this call or listening to this recording or if you have asked me
these questions and shared with me things that are of interest to you, I would like to invite you to
join us in the Wealth Beyond Reason program if you feel led to do so after this call.
Um, but I think one of the things I'd really like to do here is to let you know a little bit more
about sort of my story and how I communicate the Law of Attraction because I know a lot of
you have maybe heard a couple of audios from me or you've heard me interview people or
you've just read my email. And so, it's really hard to get a feel for a person like that. Um, which,
which leads me something else I just want to extend a thanks to. This doesn't apply to everyone
on the call but I have got, since The Secret has really started to explode out there, um, I've gotten
some wonderful emails from some people who've said some extremely nice things about our
contribution to that film and I just want to thank you for taking the time some times just to call to
say that or just to write to say that, because this, this is a passion of mine and, and I can only
wish for every single person on this call that if they know what their passion is and they're out
there living their passion but they can get the kind of appreciation that I am blessed enough to be
getting for just doing what I do and just being who I am. You know, I don't, I really don't
consider myself to be, I, I, some times when I go to speak somewhere, someone will introduce
me as a, a star of The Secret or a movie star and to me, to me that's just bizarre cause that's just
not how I fell. Um, I do, I'm very passionate about the Law of Attraction and I love to talk about
it because I love to see it make a difference for people and that is just really what drives me. It's
why you know we, we have the tremendous amount of information in a program that normally
you know, people would spend if you, if you bought programs big huge curriculums online with
the amount of content that are, had you know, you can spend a couple of thousands dollars and
I'm really trying to make it as accessible as possible for you so I'd like to get you to know a little
bit more about me. But I also want to prove myself to you by delivering on my promise of
answering as many of these questions as I can. Now, with 1,200 plus questions, obviously many
of them are very, very similar and so I'm able to sort of group them together by category or type
of questions so while I'm not going to be reading individual questions that I'm getting, you will
no doubt hear your question in what I'm doing, how I sort of group them together.
Oh, the other thing I'd like you to do is to get, if you have it, the manifestation guide, the daily
manifestation guide because we're going to be going through that at the end of the call. Um,
actually it's funny because I was looking at it today, I printed it out for myself and I thought oh,
actually I've got a lot of instruction in those, there's not really that much explaining to do except I
did get a lot of questions about what is EFP because of course, I've made this assumption that,
because I talk about it so much in some of the emails that I send that everyone would know what
I was talking about which isn't the case. But we will be talking a lot about it today because it
deals with one of the most common issues and that's blocks and limiting beliefs and various
forms of resistance and we'll get to that.
So, I think obviously the, the first thing that it makes sense to talk about is probably one of the
biggest questions I got and that is really what is the Law of Attraction and how does it work.
And if any of you have ever heard me on interviews or whatever, some of what I say here will be
familiar. I'd like to try and go a little bit deeper because we have the time. And by the way, I
want to go, I'd like to try and do this for about 90 minutes but if we're on a roll, if I'm just not
addressing, if I haven't gotten to what I want to cover, I'll keep it going for up to two hours. If
you can't stay on that long, that's totally fine, I understand but again, my commitment is to
answer these questions and to be as thorough as possible.
The Law of Attraction is something that is a lot of times, in this conversation in the personal
development category, we're, we only think about it in terms of well you attract well or you
attract relationships, but it's really something that binds, at, at the risk of sounding like
obie1kenobie here, it really binds the universe together. By, it's how everything exists, how
everything works in the universe. I mean it's all, the universe is all energy and I think that we
know that enough these days. Hopefully, we're all open minded enough to understand that when
you break things down to their, their smallest part that what we all are and what everything in the
universe is, is energy. And, energy vibrates. Okay? And energy in and of itself, when at that
form, doesn't have any form, it's just this wave length, it's just this vibrating wave length out
When we talk about resonance, I think one way that I can sort of explain is, let's think about
music, the kinds of music you like. Have you ever listened to music and you just enjoy it. The
type of music you like, you resonate with and very often you can feel it when you listen to music
and if it's emotional to you or has some other sort of trigger, you can feel it in your body. You're
having an energetic response. You are resonating with that music and you continue to listen to it
because you like it. When you are with a person that you resonate with, you like to be with that
person whether or not their personalities are similar to you or anything. There's something going
on at an energetic level where your vibrations, your energy is in resonance with this person.
Now, it's not just people. It's every single thing in your life including money, your car, your
homes, your careers, everything about your experience that you can look around and see right
now. You are resonating with it. Now to try and figure out how, I mean, if, if just you know,
you can look around at dust on the floor. You're with resonance with dust on the floor. That
does not mean that you are making lists trying to attract it. You know, if you don't have dust on
your vision board. It just simply means that who you are right now and all the things that you've
learned and what you believe and everything that you know about being a human being has put
you in a particular vibrational state which has attracted everything around you. It doesn't mean
you like it. It just means that you have allowed it at a level of vibration, okay. Your, your
frequencies resonate with those frequencies and so they are there. And because it, it happened so
effortlessly, you don't take credit for doing it. In other words, you don't understand what, how,
how much in control you are of what is there. Now once it, you see, when most of us are
attracting by default. We have, we were born into this world and we're just pretty much fresh
clay and we've been taught all sorts of things about what's possible, what's good and what's bad,
what's hard and what's easy and so on. And all of us have learned a little bit differently and
based on what we've learned, it has shifted our feelings, our beliefs, and those are what have the,
the direct impact on our vibration, on what we as this cluster of energy that we call ourselves,
okay. Our emotions are what control that frequency.
Now, for some of us though, it, it's a lot harder to shift in a dramatic way our perception of
reality in any way that's going to cause something to change in front of our eyes and there's a
reason for that and that's resistance and we're going to talking about that a great deal. But I just
wanted to be clear that the Law of Attraction is at work all the time. It is not something that you
turn on and off. It's not even something that you activate, okay. Whether or not you learn about
the Law of Attraction, whether or not you believe in the Law of Attraction, or any of that, you
are constantly in a state of attraction because your energy is always there, it's always vibrating,
it's always putting something out there and thus, it is always attracting something. And like I
said, most of us are, have been attracting by default most of our lives and attracted a tremendous
amount of evidence for our belief system however limiting it may or may not be. But we've
done it, not on purpose, and so that when we start to change the way that we are vibrating if you
will, the energy that we're putting out there, our experience of reality shifts in some ways that
can cause us to freak out some times. I mean, it, it, an example is people start to play around
with the Law of Attraction because they don't really realize how powerful it is. And they don't
realize how exactly the universe responds to your vibrations. And they say okay, well I'm in this
career that I hate. Uh, I want a new career. You know, I want to be out of this job is what
they'll, what they'll most likely do or whatever. And then the next thing you know, they're laid
off because they don't understand how powerful their attractive, that attractive force is. It's the
power of their intention, the power of their emotions and the power of their feelings. So, a very
important part of attracting properly and attracting in a way that makes you happy and this ties
into a lot of questions that people have asked is to be very, very clear on what it is that you want.
Okay, let me, let me jump now to the, um, to that question about how to start attracting what you
want. Even people who, the people who are asking that question, they will very often say to me,
"I've been working with the Law of Attraction for a long time and I still can't attract what I want,
it's not working," all of this. In these emails that I get from people, it's very obvious that all of
their attention is still on what they don't want. They're staring at what they don't want and want
it to go away and that will not work because they're in vibrational resonance with it still being
there. That is a very, very key point and it happens at a very subtle level. You may say well, for
To be in vibrational resonance with being debt free, you have to know what debt free is going to
feel like and this, this dovetails into another question that's commonly asked. How can I know
what that feels like if I've never had it? And this, again if you, if you ask me a question about
how can you know how to feel something, it doesn't have to relate to debt. It can be anything.
How do I know how to feel something that I want when I've never had it before? If you've asked
me that question, then I need you to listen very carefully to this.
You want out of the emotional state that you're in, whether it's being in debt or whatever, in a
bad relationship. For some reason, you want to feel a different way. You don't have to know all
the details of how great it's going to feel when you get the, when you get out of debt. You don't
have to know how great it's going to feel exactly when you find that perfect career or that perfect
spouse, but you do at least need to use that feeling of, that you don't like, as a launching pad to
give you some idea of how you would like to feel. If you could just think in increments, how
would I feel? Just pretend for a moment that you had no debt, if this is your situation, or you
were in that wonderful relationship. Let it, you don't have to figure it all out. It'll just come to
you. If you can spend time imagining what your day, a debt free day would look like and feel
like, how would you move differently? How would you talk differently? Where would you go
differently? And again, apply this to all things you know, whether it's a career or even a car you
want or a bigger house or whatever. Don't, don't spend time wracking your brain trying to figure
out how exactly would I feel. Just imagine it and whatever feeling comes to you, you're on the
right track. They key is to spend more time in that feeling than, than the, the feeling that's
associated with what's wrong or that the house is too small, or that you're in debt, or whatever.
You just, you can pretend that you know how it feels. That's the great thing. You don't have to
know. You can work in increments. How could you feel just a little better? What would just a
little better feel like? And, if you're not a good visualizer, if you're not a good meditator or
whatever, you can sit down and write. You can write about your first debt free day. Write a
letter to, a friend or a relative or something, or write a story. These are all common Law of
Attraction "techniques." You know, these are little things that people do to help them get into
vibrational resonance with what they want. Especially if they're not really clear on it. So this is
another thing that you can do to, to start attracting what you want and that's just to do some
writing. Writing as if it's already happened.
Now, I'm going to start right now to talk about resistance, because this is key and we're going to
talk about it a lot and we're going to kind of, bounce around and come back to resistance a lot.
When you start to do these exercises, visualization exercises, meditations, writing lists, whatever,
you're going to start feeling that little voice saying you'll never get this. I mean, I'm just saying
this if this is your issue. You might start feeling this, you'll never get this, this is too big, you
don't deserve this, how could you ever do this. You know, if you had this, you'd be like one of
them. Okay. All of these things are limiting beliefs that you were taught by probably well-
meaning people throughout your life or just through your experience, you saw, you were in
vibrational resonance or were surrounded by people who were with people who had these
beliefs and because you were young and you were impressionable, you believed them. Because
why wouldn't you? Let's say they were your parents or a teacher or whatever, why wouldn't you
believe these people and because they were in vibrational resonance with those thoughts and
feelings, they attracted all the evidence to show you that yeah, okay money's hard to come by.
Or, rich people are evil or whatever. So you could see with your own eyes what the outcome of
what they had attracted because you were surrounded by that. And because they were older or
had more authority than you or whatever, you just bought into it. And you say, yeah, that's true
but to be somewhere in another part of the world, people who are not exposed to that. People
who didn't have, weren't surrounded by those limiting beliefs who were, in fact, surrounded by
people for whom money and relationships came easily, they never learned anything about stuff
was hard. They had no reason to believe that they couldn't have whatever they wanted or a good
relationship or whatever. And so, it comes to them easily. Why? Because they are in
vibrational resonance with it being effortlessly. Okay? They don't have resistance in those
areas. So it is not a fact that money is hard to come by. It is not a fact that you have work in a
job that you hate for the rest of your life just to make ends meet because that's the responsible
thing to do. Those aren't facts but they can occur to you as being very, very true if you're in
vibrational resonance with those beliefs because you will attract all the situations and the
circumstances and the evidence you need to prove it to yourself each and every day. Further,
you will most likely attract people into your life who share similar beliefs because you're in
resonance with this belief. You are in resonance with them. They will have similar experiences
and you can just point at each other all day long and go boy we're so right, it is hard out there, it's
impossible. Meanwhile, there's another whole group of people somewhere else living it up
where it's easy for them. And it doesn't mean that they were born into it. Okay? It doesn't mean
that they were the luck of the draw and all of this stuff, and they were just born into money,
because you can look all around and find stories of people who started with absolutely nothing.
Who's environment was suggested to them that they stood no chance whatsoever of becoming
wealthy or prosperous or even happy. And yet something somewhere inside them allowed them
to attract a little piece of hope, an idea that they acted upon. You know, they might have seen
It is not necessarily about trying to attract something and then, sitting back and waiting for it to
materialize, okay. But it's also not a lot about doing a lot of hard work. When you have a vision
for something that you want in your life and you're crystal clear on that vision and you can get
into the emotion of it and you can get in the feeling of it and you can eliminate resistance along
the way and we're going to talk about how, how we do that. When you can do that, then you will
start to attract the people and the circumstances and the ideas for inspired action to take, okay.
And if you act on those things, you will get closer to your goal. However, if you don't, if
resistance keeps you from taking action because you feel like oh well, this'll never work or
whatever, whatever it is, then, then you will, you'll basically be, you're placing an order to the
universe and then saying no thank you at the exact same time. So, you have to be aware that the
universe delivers your, your desire some times in increments. And what it does, it'll give you,
it'll lead you down a path and that is exactly how the Wealth Beyond Reason started.
You know, I had just, just briefly my story so you all know that I started very similarly to many
of you out there. You know, I went through years and years of very unhappy careers. Little taste
of doing what, of doing what I liked but nothing that really left me feeling fulfilled, nothing that
allowed me to, to fully express myself creatively and nothing that I had any passion for, and I
just got to a point when I was around what 35 or so, that I couldn't do it any more. You know,
and I think that a lot of people can relate to this. They have been taken down a career path based
on other people's ideas of what they should do with their lives. Not that they were necessarily
told that they had to do this but they were given the idea that this was a responsible career path
for a person of your background or whatever so they just took that career path thinking that they
were, that they had enough interest in it that maybe they could be successful or whatever. If
you're not following your true purpose and your true sense of passion, that's going to catch up
with you. And so what happens is you're late 20s, early 30s, whenever, and you look around you
and you go okay, I may be making good money or I may not or whatever, but I do not feel
fulfilled. I do not feel a purpose and I have no sense of passion and, and that's what life is about.
It is not about just staying alive by making money and paying the bills and buying stuff. That's
why in the Wealth Beyond Reason program we, the very first thing that we do is to have you
define what is wealth to you because if you don't understand what wealth is to you, if you don't
know what you truly want, it's very, very, very, very hard to attract it. And that is why a lot of
people spin their wheels with the Law of Attraction because they don't take the time to figure out
what it is they truly want in their life. They're just, as I said before, fixated on what they don't
want and they figure anything's better than this if I can just get rid of this, then I'll be happy. If I
could just get rid of this debt, I'll be happy or if I could get a million dollars, I'd be happy, and
neither one of those is necessarily true whatsoever.
The Law of Attraction is not about money. Your happiness is not about money. It is about
tapping into who you are as a person and being that person as fully and completely as possible.
Because that is again, one of the other ways to make this whole process effortlessly is to be just
who you are and share it with the rest of the world. There's a lot of times, there's a lot of people
Now I want to talk about this whole thing about, about changing the way you feel and again
while I know I'm not saying, here's Question A and here's Question B, I'm hoping that in this
time that we're talking that your question will be answered so I definitely want you to listen to
this whole thing. Because as I look at these, as I look at these topics and I look at these
questions, it's very hard to just answer one straight out without talking about some of the others
and again, that's one of the challenges of Law of Attraction, of learning the Law of Attraction,
because people try to give really short simple answers for something that we're talking about
works at a quantum level, there's all sorts of things that are going on you know, at a
subconscious level, at a level of energy that need to be dealt with before any of these little simple
answers are going to work. And so my commitment, my goal here is that you understand or at
least begin to understand how these things work together. I'd like you to be listening to me and
say yes, I see that at work in my own life. You know, I've gotten this far and then I get stopped.
Or, I have attracted this kind of situation over and over and over again. Or yes I do, if I'm honest
with myself, feel that although I like to do this or I'm good at it, I still have been playing small
and there's probably something more I can do.
People often ask me how I ended up in The Secret. The story of The Secret is a, the film The
Secret, they interviewed 55 teachers or so. So out of those they chose the handful that was in
there so people asked me well how did you get chosen? And my simple answer is, it's the Law
of Attraction. My vision is the exact same vision as Rhonda Byrne who produced the film and
that is to get this, this message into as many minds as possible. So all I had to do, I mean, I
didn't ever have to think about how am I going to get into The Secret, I didn't even know it was
going on. All I ever had to do in my career and spend my day is do what I passionately believed
in, in my own way, as, as often as I wanted to and as big as I wanted to and try to get it out as
much, to as many people as possible. And it was through doing that that I just naturally ended
up in front of Rhonda Byrne who was a Wealth Beyond Reason student and she knew, she saw
my passion. So, it's just one of those things that you never know, you never know when the big
and exciting things is going to come and where it's going to come from. Your job is just to keep
being who you are and have the vision of what you want in your life and what you want your life
to be. You know, my, part of my vision was to get my message, my method of teaching, in front
of as many people as possible and, and The Secret has helped me to do that and of course, in an
unprecedented way. You know, it was a tremendous opportunity, I'm so thankful for it all the
time. But I didn't have to do anything special for it other than just be Bob Doyle. And that's
And then, what I hope every single one of you can do is to become your own expert at attraction.
To just stop, you'll get to the point where you don't have to think about it any more. You don't
have to do the list and you don't have to cut out the pictures and you don't even have to do the
medications if you don't want to because you'll kind of be in a constant state of meditation.
You'll just be in a place of this is who I am and this is what my day is going to look like because
this is why I'm here on this planet and it will just happen. And that is completely possible and
that is my goal for everybody. You know, so the programs on the Law of Attraction aren't
necessary any more and we can all just be doing other things that we love to do. So, but to do
that, you first have to deal with the resistance and, and that is there and that is because of the
years and years of the limiting beliefs that have piled up and the evidence that I talked about
before.
So let's talk about resistance for a second. Resistance is just like everything else in the universe.
It is energy, and it is vibrating particular frequencies. Now, it shows up in our lives as the
feelings that come up when we are trying to manifest something or to attract something that
we're not a hundred percent, we can't seem to get in resonance with it. Because of our beliefs,
we get this feeling whether it's that I don't deserve that or I don't, that's going to be hard. There's
a big emotion associated with that and it's generally not a good one. That's how we know that
resistance is there. When we sabotage ourselves and then we beat ourselves up for it. That's
resistance and we know what that feels like, it's a familiar feeling. But it is an emotion, it is
energy in motion and we can feel it. So, it is at work in this energy system that is us. And it is
not in resonance with what we're trying to attract. So, if we sit there and we do all the little
exercises and we're filling out our lists and we're doing all those things. We start the attraction
process. We absolutely do. Whenever we have that feeling, the attraction process has begun. At
some point in there, though, that resistance picks up and then you have this vibration going that
is not in resonance with the other one and so it literally pushes it away like if you try to put the
wrong end of the magnets together. That same sort of pushing, it acts like a force field. So I
want you to be able to, to envision what resistance is and how it really repels, it literally repels.
You know, if you got a vision of a particular car that you would like to attract and you get into
the feeling of doing that by going out and test driving that vehicle, and cutting out pictures of it
and really knowing what it feels like to be in there and then when you start thinking about the
how, how am I going to get this, you start to get that feeling. I don't know and it's going to take a
lot of work and your vibration changes in that moment. It, it changes to a frequency that is not in
Now, we do this with several different techniques and they're all called releasing techniques.
They might be called other things too, but, what you're doing is actually releasing that negative
emotion or releasing that resistance, whatever you want to call it, but we call it resistance, or
releasing techniques. And that's where EFT comes in. A lot of people ask what is EFT. EFT
stands for emotional freedom technique and it is the process by which you can literally interact
with the energy that's running through your body and neutralize that resistance, neutralize those
energy systems that are, that are not in resonance with what you want. So, we're going to talk
about how to do that although this is not an EFT course. Um, I'm going to just kind of step you
through what the idea of the process is and then there are on that page that I told you about
before, the wealthbeyondreason.com\askbobcall.html. I've got a couple of different things where
you can get some free information and actually experience what the EFT process, the emotional
freedom technique, if you haven't already.
Now if you have had, there, there's two other categories of people who are going to be on this
call. There's the people, well three in total. One who has no idea what EFT is, two who, another
one who has used EFT for years and knows exactly what I'm talking about, or three, the people
who have tried EFT and not gotten results with it, okay. And I want to talk to all of you at this
point. EFT is, it was, it was created by a guy named Gary Craig. It is based on work, on the
work of a guy from, named Roger Callahan, I won't get into the whole history of it, but, and that
is all based on literally centuries old knowledge that the, the, the Chinese have used in
acupuncture and that is that, that there are meridians, energy meridians that run through our
bodies. And there are certain points within these meridians that, if you are, if you activate them
for example with with needles, with acupuncture okay, or in, in the case of EFT, just tapping
them with your fingertips, okay, does something to, it does something to that energy, okay. And
if you can, the basic premise of EFT is that you first will tune into this emotion that is bothering
you, this, this, this resistance and you'll know it when it comes up. You'll know it when it comes
up as soon as you start to feel a negative emotion, you'll realize that there is an imbalance in
your, a disruption in your energy system. You can go through this EFT process which is just
again, a series of tapping points on your body while you are tuned into this emotion and sort of
giving yourself what they call reminder phrases to keep you tuned into that emotion. And as you
tap on these things, it balances out the disruption and the emotional charge goes away. Now that
is something of an oversimplification of the process but it is not a difficult process at all. And,
and I will also say that I resisted that process for over a year. I was first told about EFT right
almost, when the Wealth Beyond Reason program started. And it just didn't, I didn't, it didn't
make sense to me, it wasn't the right time or whatever and I just kind of resisted it for you know,
and then when I found a little bit about it, I thought okay, tapping whatever. I just wasn't, I just
wasn't ready. But then about a year and a half into the program, I was contacted by Brad Yates,
an EFT practitioner and you can hear some of his work on, on the links that um, I provided there
and just something about his personality, I mean, we just used to goof around a lot and we just
got along. So I resonated with Brad and his personality and so he was, he had me take another
You know, it's interesting because some people just who resist the whole idea of the Law of
Attraction and yet they don't see it at work in their lives. They're the people who get in the same
kind of relationships over and over and over again when there are other people who don't. The,
the people who sabotage themselves at the same point in goal setting or whatever over and over
and over again. They don't see that that is the Law of Attraction in action and specifically, how
resistance is at play in that. So, if they, but if they could just open their mind just enough to say
okay, I'm just going to try this EFT thing or this releasing technique thing to see what happens as
a result of doing it. All I can tell you is this guys, because I did resist it for a long, long time and
then I was playing, I just was playing around with it and you know, emotions that it had were
very familiar to me and negative emotions or negative responses triggers that would occur, I
would just try this and you could just feel the upset melt away. When I introduced EFT into the
Wealth Beyond Reason program, the emails that I got from people talking about the results they
were getting um, so much more powerful and so much more immediate and so on than when
they first you know, were working with the material. Because although we talked a lot about
you know, resistance and how we needed to eliminate it somehow, they, they didn't have a
really strong technique. You know, they had meditation, they had visualization, they had
repetition and so on, but it just wasn't happening. But once I gave them a, a very strong
technique to, to actually interact with that energy then they were able to see results where they
had not been able to see them before. And so because of that, I really started infusing the
I'm going to take a, a just a 15, 20 second break here just because I've been talking non-stop for
however long I've been talking, 45 minutes, just to sip a glass of water and I will be right back
with you.
Okay, so I have addressed, a, a lot of my questions were about negative thoughts and how do you
let go of those negative thoughts and all of those things can be dealt with, with resistance, or
EFT or some other releasing technique. So, let's just think about how this shows up. When, and
this, I want to kind of go over some very common areas where using EFT can be helpful, okay.
One is the if you, if you've got negative thoughts that constantly crop up and these can be things
like you know, like I said, I don't deserve it, what will they think, so on, you've got a limiting
belief that you know, this is too big, I've never done anything like this before or if you have been
taught that, if you think that, I, we've dealt with so many people who felt like if they became
successful, then their family would ostracize them or whatever. And you know, this, this,
apparently this happens all the time and it might be something that, that is going on for you as
well. If you feel like you keep getting blocked and you don't know why, keep getting stopped
think a little bit about you know what your beliefs, and it's not so much your beliefs because
some times your conscious beliefs are hey I deserve this, I can do this but maybe subconsciously
you still have something running that you learned earlier. So think about, maybe the beliefs that
you historically had in your family situation or growing up and, and then you might get some
clue as to why something might be happening or coming up for you. Okay, it's not just always
an issue of deserving or the bad people, or you know, that rich people are bad or whatever it is,
or that relationships are hard or you know, it'll never work. But if you, if you don't, if it's
occurring for you like that and you really don't feel like you believe it consciously, look back at
the rest of your life and the people who you have been surrounded with and maybe they thought
it was true and maybe there's something going on inside of you that you're not aware of and that's
where EFT can really help. A lot of people have told me that, there, in the Wealth Beyond
Reason program, like I said we have a lot of teleseminars where we tap on a very variety of
issues. And, I, I will tell people, always tap on every issue even if you don't think it's yours.
Because a lot of people will say oh well, I don't have an issue with deserving, I mean I know I
deserve to be wealthy. And I'll say go ahead and tap on it anyway. You know, because it can't
hurt, let's see what happens. And then they do the process and I can't tell you how many times
I've heard people just say, and I just burst into tears, I had no idea I had this issue or I had no idea
how angry I was and all of that.
Now, the key at that point is to sit there and go oh I've got an issue, oh I've really got it. It's to
keep going with the EFT or whatever you're using and complete the process and get that
emotional charge down in intensity and free yourself from it. You've got a very powerful
technique and a tool there to do that. It's not about discovering you know, how sad you are or
Another way that resistance shows up is in this whole idea of letting go. And what I'm referring
to there is when you learn about the Law of Attraction, a lot of people say well here, there's three
steps or there's five steps or whatever, but if they can come down to knowing what you want and
visualizing it or they can put it a zillion different ways and then they say you know, allow it to
come or let go and allow. Okay. And people don't understand well, what does let go mean.
Does that mean I'm supposed to stop wanting it or what's the deal with that? How can I want
something or focus on it and then let go of it at the same time. From, from my sort of purist Law
of Attraction standpoint, letting go is about letting go of the resistance. Okay. If you are
wanting something and you want, and this ties into another question that I get all the time and,
and was asked several times about this whole idea of wanting as opposed to having or being or
whatever. If you're concentrating on how you want, generally speaking, we'll say don't use the
word want because when you're saying want you're in that feeling because I want it because why,
I don't have it. So you're in that vibrational space, that feeling space of not having it which of
course, doesn't serve you in terms of attraction. Now, let's, it's not across the board because
some people can use the word want and know exactly what they mean by that and still be in the
space of having it. Uh, it's just a word. You know, but some times the word wants has a very
definite charge to it. So, it's a matter of kind of just rephrasing it a little bit. So what would you,
what would you do if, if you want something, how do you let go. Well again, let's say that you
want to get out of debt. If you're thinking about that which we talked about quite a while ago for
quite a while, if you're thinking about how much you want to get out of debt, what you're really
doing is perpetuating that vibration of debt and the feeling that is associated with wanting debt
has a very distinct emotion or feeling to it and that is resistance. So if you are sitting there
feeling bad about your debt, that is a great time to do the EFT process. And the way the EFT
process works is you, you'll say something like they, they use something they call a set-up phrase
which begins the process of bringing that emotion to the forefront.
So let's talk about, let's use debt as an example. You would tap on the first point which happens
to be on the side of your hand. I'm not going to get into the specifics because you can look at a
chart, at these, at these, with the links that I've given you. You'll tap on your hand and you'll say
something like even though I have this tremendous amount of debt, I deeply and completely love
and accept myself. Now, that's just a very, very commonly used phrase. You can use others and
you'll hear practitioners use different things and you'll do that three times. And what that'll do is
a couple of things. It'll tune you in to the frustrating feeling of associating with that debt and
when you say that you love and accept yourself, that might also bring up some stuff about you
know, well related to, maybe I don't love and accept myself. Maybe I'm mad at myself that this
is happening and this is very common because this is very common and, and that's okay because
you're going through a process that's going to neutralize all of those emotions. And then you'll
continue the process around the various tapping points keying in on the feeling associated with
that debt and the very simple way that is often done if you go download the manual, the EFT
manual, you'll see it done this way, you'll just tap on these points and you'll say this tremendous
debt and you'll tap on the next point and you'll say this tremendous debt, you'll tap on the next
point and you'll say this tremendous debt. All the while, trying to really focus in on that, the
feelings brought up by this tremendous debt. Or it could be, let's use another example, let's say
You'll hear other people describe it as, it's an absence of doubt, all that stuff though, doubt is a
resistance as well. You know, trust, faith, beliefs, and the lack thereof is all resistance and so it
still comes down to balancing out this energy system that is the resistance in your body so that
you become in vibrational resonance with what you want, okay.
So, here's another kind of a question that is common. I can manifest small things but not big
things. So, guess what I'm going to say. He's got resistance to the big things, because it's easy to
say, it's easy for some people to say they deserve or believe they have, believe they deserve to
attract a free cup of coffee that day or finding a quarter on the street. It's just a small thing, right,
to them. They don't have any resistance around that. But when it gets to the car or the house, it
gets big, but it's just for them. See a person who's in a different vibrational stage is attracted
differently but say, a, a million dollar home to them is nothing. But maybe a five million dollar
home, maybe they've got some resistance around that, but to the universe, it's nothing. It doesn't
matter. The universe doesn't care from big and small or hard and easy. That's all us. We are the
ones that define it. Because remember, we're just energy interpreting energy. That's all we're
doing, okay. And so, and it's our belief systems that stay small or hard and easy and all of that.
So we make it as true as we, as you know, as is natural for us to do based on our beliefs that this
thing is big and that it's going to take a lot of hard work. But I'm telling you again from
experience starting from less than nothing. I shouldn't say nothing. You know, when I, when I
started this, I was in tremendous debt okay, but I had a family, I had a home and all of that, I
wasn't, it wasn't nearly as bad as some people. Okay? But, still I had things that I thought were
big but as soon as I could really get to the universe, it's not big at all. And it's just me. You
know, it's, it's kind of like if you saw ****, I'm sorry I'm making a major reference because now
I seem like a total geek but you know, there's that whole famous scene in there where he's talking
to the little kid in that room and he's trying to bend the spoon with his mind and the, the kid says
don't try to bend the spoon, that's impossible. You know, you have to do this when you know
that there is no spoon. So everything out there is how we are constructing it as energetic beings.
Now that's a little deep. That really requires you to go wait a minute, okay do I really need to
know this. No, you don't. Okay, but I'm saying for some people, it might help, it might help to
know that. Again, all of this stuff, the whole teaching of this just really overcomplicates
Another common question that comes up is you know, once we start to learn about the Law of
Attraction, we'll look around the, at the people in our lives and want better for them. And so I
get a question around you know, how can I attract differently for other people, or how can I
attract for other people or how can I help someone help the situation improve. And, when it
comes right down to it, you can't. I mean, and I do have a caveat to that but basically speaking,
you're not going to make a situation better or worse or whatever for another person unless they
want that because they're the ones that need to get in vibrational resonance with it. Now having
said that, you can definitely, it is entirely possible for you to shift your perception of the reality
of another person and here's a great example. If you're in a relationship and you've got an issue
with your spouse like they always look at you this way or oh, they'll always seem so mad or they
always whatever. You have to remember your attracting that. Okay, you're in vibrational
resonance with them being upset or looking at you in a funny way or whatever. You've got your
own triggers, you've got your own resistance but for whatever reason and we'll get into the
relationship thing in a minute. You've attracted that person **** and you just keep telling
yourself they're so upset, they're so mad, they always look at me that way, all of those things and
as a result, they keep doing it of course because you're in vibrational resonance with doing it,
with them doing that. If you can kind of do some work on yourself about how they are, you'd be
amazed at how they magically just change. If they're, now if, but now, that's just sort of you
know, from a day-to-day getting along with people and the relationship thing which like I said,
I'll talk to in a minute. But a lot of times, people want to manifest health as a great example for
other people who are ill. If the person who is ill that needs to get in vibrational resonance with
health, okay. Now you can help.
Now this is what my caveat was. If a person who is ill and this is a, a, an example that's used all
the time, if the person who is ill wants to be better, they conscious-, consciously they want to be
better but they're just not getting better. If, more often than not, it's because they've got
resistance towards getting better. Okay? So they attracted this disease. It's all energy okay,
disease all of these things that's energy. And somehow, they've attracted, it doesn't mean they
wanted it, okay. It doesn't mean they wanted it. It means that they have, that they have
somehow gotten into vibrational alignment with it and not knowing what to do with it. Not
knowing how to do anything different. Not knowing how to not allow it, okay. This is where
you can help them. You can do, you can teach them for example, how to do some releasing
techniques. So many illnesses are emotionally based and that's what we're dealing with in EFT
so much and that's why it's called emotional freedom technique. So many of these, so many of
There's also something called surrogate EFT which is a little bit more advanced that a, that is
where you actually do the process for them even if they're not there. Now I know right now, a
lot of people are going oh my god, what are you talking about. But, and I'm not going to get into
it right now, we've got a whole seminar on it in the Wealth Beyond Reason program but
basically it's this. If you understand that we're all energy and the space between us is energy and
that whole, it almost sounds cliché but that whole idea that we are all connected, if you can
understand how true that is, then you can understand that you can, in fact, have some impact on
another person's energy if they're not resisting it. In other words, if they're not resisting your
help, then you can help them and there are many, many case studies on the EFT side about what
they call surrogate EFT and actually doing this process for other people.
Now I want to, I want to interject again because I don't really think I stated this upfront for those
of you who don't know me, I came into this work a very, and I continue to be, a very kind of left
brain analytical person, I definitely have my creative side but I'm also a show-me-how-this-
works type of person or at least prove to me in some way. I need experiential evidence that this
works. And that's why I'm saying, EFT, I think I resisted it for so long. But all I had to do was
try it and you know, be intentional. Again, I didn't have to believe it, I just had to you know, I
just had to try it and, and now with the understanding I do have about, kind of how the universe
works and that we are all connected and how all that works and it's not just some new-age
concept, then I can understand how you could have an effect over somebody if they aren't, if they
don't have resistance towards you helping them, okay. I hope that makes sense, but they can
basically set up sort of their own energetic resistance force field around anyone helping them.
There are some people who don't want to be helped and all of your effort and all of your desire to
help them, all of that, isn't going to help. So that just needs to be clear about dealing with other
people.
Now let's talk about negative people, because this is a huge question that happens, I get, all the
time about especially if you're in a marriage relationship and one of the spouses decides that,
that they are going to be more intentional about how their life goes and they're going to utilize
these principles and they're going to embrace the Law of Attraction and, and, and be more
intentional. And the spouse, the other spouse says, what are you kidding me? And that can be
very difficult. And this doesn't, this happens in all sorts of, in transformative types of situations.
You know, I came from a, before I came into the Wealth Beyond Reason program, I was
involved with a website called Body Changes, which was a, which was about the V-
transformation. And that has a very powerful impact on a person on all levels. If a person goes
from being sort of unhealthy or out of shape or whatever and then suddenly they get into this
ultra shape, if one spouse does it and the other one doesn't, the V-transformation will change a
person on the inside out. So now you've got a conflict. So in terms of the Law of Attraction, in
claiming your life, if one spouse decides to claim their life and, and really live by design and,
Well, there's two things, there's two ways to do it. One is, you just keep going down your path
and see what happens. A lot of times the people who, have a problem with it just don't believe in
the Law of Attraction. They don't believe it can work, but if you stay true to your vision and
eliminate resistance, you're going to prove to them by the very results that you have in your life
that there is something to this and then they may jump on board. The other thing that could
happen is that you are so affected by their emotional reaction to you doing this that you flip-
flop. Like when you're by yourself, you do your meditations or you do your little vision board or
you do whatever you got to do to get in vibrational resonance with the future that you want, but
then when they're around, they say something that make you feel silly for it or put you down for
it outright and your vibrations just flip-flop and you just stay stuck. And then what happens
there of course is they get to show you that see, it doesn't work. But you have chosen to change
your vibration based on what they say to you to save the relationship or whatever. This is where
it gets really tricky. This is not one of my favorite questions to answer. Because you have to
decide what is more important to you, changing the other person or going back to how they think
you should be or being who you are going to be. And the fact of the matter is, some times you
growing into who you are meant to be means you are going to leave some people behind. I'm
definitely not saying okay, to get in the Law of Attraction, you may as well get a divorce. That's
silly. I'm saying to be who you are, your vision for yourself has to be so strong that you will not
compromise who you, ultimately who you are. Now, in a marriage relationship, you may
compromise how you do certain things or how you handle certain things or whatever, but you're
still, you're still committed to getting to your ultimate goal and, and there are ways that you
could get about it that you think would probably ease your spouse or your friends or whatever
along with you. Instead of you saying look this is how it's going to be and that's it, if not I'm out
of here you know. So, it just some times it takes a little longer for you to, to to act in such a way
that it allows the people around you to allow themselves to shift their vibration. But the fact of
the matter is some times, relationships will fall away and it's appropriate because we, two people
that are in a relationship that they are not being who they are, they're not contributing their full
value, I in my opinion, is not nearly as important as at least one of them going out there and
contributing to the world who they are. Because ultimately if we going to find, if this world is
going to get into this, into the balance that we all want and find a peaceful place, it's going to be
because people are happy with who they are, doing what they're doing without it being at the
expense of other people or putting other people down or stopping them from being who they are.
And some relationships and not just marriages, but friendships and everything, are like that. It's
Here's an interesting one that comes up. Can you use the Law of Attraction to lose weight? And
there are a couple of levels that I would address this and I'll do it quickly. One is, absolutely –
well, first of all, the answer's yes. But there's a couple of ways to look at it. First of all you have
to look at why a person and I'm not even going to talk about things like thyroid and glandular
things and all that because it, that would open up a debate. Let's talk about this. A lot of people
are overweight because they have emotional issues. They're medicating with food, they don't
like themselves, whatever. There's all sorts of emotional issues there. And a lot of is just
resistance that can be dealt with. Carol Look for example has a whole ton of material on weight
loss using EFT. You can definitely eliminate those things, those addictive patterns, whatever,
that resistance so that you can envision a fit and healthy body and attract that. And what you will
attract – you will attract inspiration to do the things necessary to get that body. Okay. You will
attract the inspiration – if you've never wanted to exercise before you will attract the inspiration
to do it because you will have eliminated the resistance that's pushing away that inspiration,
okay. If you are medicating to, if you use food as medication to cover up a sense of you know, a
lack of self worth or whatever, if you can eliminate the resistance that is that lack of self worth
then you don't have to medicate with the food anymore and it just goes on and on and on like
that. Having said that I can't tell you how important I think that it is that people like the way
they look and feel to make the Law of Attraction work. Because you can be as positive in your
head as you want to be and you can do all these things and you can work on resistance and tap all
around this whole weight thing because you just don't want to deal with it or you like the food
too much or whatever, okay. But when you look in the mirror if you don't like what you see you
are going to experience a negative emotion that is probably not in resonance with the joy that
you're trying to attract. And so it will affect your ability to attract. Now, I'm not saying that if
you feel like you're overweight that you're not going to be able to attract what you want. I'm
saying though however if that is tied into a feeling of deserving that you know, if you look at
yourself and say, I don't deserve to get what I want because I can't control my weight then you
will not be able to attract those things you want as powerfully as if you liked yourself. If you felt
I've said this a million different ways during this call but people who say I've been doing the
right things but I'm just not getting the results. I get the Law of Attraction but I'm just not getting
the results. I just want to say, if you haven't heard me already, that is just resistance okay.
You're doing the right things but there are still areas of resistance that you may not know about.
For abundance related issues we've got in the Wealth Beyond Reason program we have a whole
set of processes, Carol Look has a book that you can check out if you want to following the link
on that page that I've given you which again is wealthbeyondreason.com/askbobcall.html that
goes through like 42 different abundance related issues, common areas of resistance related to
abundance that she has come up against with her career and gives you the actual EFT sessions to
go through. In our program we basically brought that program to life by bringing her in and
doing teleseminars with people. And one of the great things about EFT is that you can listen to
somebody else being worked with, do the process on yourself while you're listening and
experience the results for yourself. It's called borrowing benefits. And so for the hours of EFT
sessions that we have on our program, you can borrow the benefits of the participant and so we
go through all these different abundance related issues so that you can, so that all those right
things you're doing will suddenly start to work. Okay?
How can you be positive when things seem negative. Okay, or how can you – because we talked
about, especially in our program, we talk about if you want to attract wealth, if you want to be a
wealthy person you have to be a wealthy person. You can't be trying to be a wealthy person
because then you're in a vibrational state of trying to be a wealthy person and so you'll just
continue to attract things that have you trying to be a wealthy person. Again I know this one
from experience. You know, it's a slow process. It is hard to go from having a tremendous
amount of debt and not feeling wealthy at all to just suddenly being wealthy. But there are
things that you can do to help you think like a wealthy person. And they're so simple. They're
so simple. To go shop for that house you know. Go look for a house that you would love to live
in. Even if you can't afford it, okay. Go look at it anyway. And I understand, oh, you're wasting
the realtor's time or whatever. Maybe not. Maybe not. You have to know what it's going to feel
like. And let me tell you this too. When you start doing those things, when you start hanging
out at the wealthy places and you start looking at those big houses and you start driving those
luxury cars, some resistance might come up, wow, I don't, I feel like I'm out of my skin, I just,
this is intimidating. It's a perfect opportunity to identify areas of resistance and work on them
through EFT or whatever. And you wouldn't feel them exactly the way that you're feeling them
if you don't go out there and try it on. So if you just think about the wealth, if you just think
about the big house, well, that's just one idea. You've got it in your head. Until you walk into
that house and know what it feels like to be in there, whatever resistance you have towards it, the
extent of it won't come up unless you just go do it. Same thing with test driving a car and if
you've got resistance about even test driving the car because I feel like I'm wasting the guy's time
or I don't deserve to do this I can never afford it. Wow! I mean, that's screaming resistance at
you. You have just as much of a right to go test drive a car as the guy who can pay for it in cash.
You got to know what you want. The guy's never going to sell you the car if you don't pick it out
first. Right? So you got to go do it. You got to go know what that feels like. And I'm telling
you that is the habitual thing. A common question is you know, I get it from parents all the time.
Okay, we're coming up on 8:30 so what I want to do – okay, and that really does cover the
majority of the types of questions that I got and if you came in late or whatever you can listen to
the call again. But, really, out of the 1200 or so questions that pretty much hit – I mean, once
you get into the resistance area so many of the questions get answered. What I want to do now
for the last 10 or 15 minutes or so, however long it takes, is to go through the daily manifestation
plan like I promised.
Now, now you know what EFT is a lot of this will make more sense to most of you. And I did
write down explanations here and I won't read it to you because that's silly. But I will at least
kind of just recap what you're going to do. As soon as you wake up in the morning, people start,
people say from the moment I wake up what's the first thing, what can I do to start this
manifestation process working? Well the first thing you want to do is get your head in the right
place right then and sometimes when you wake up in the morning it's before all the stuff of your
day starts leaking in so it's a prime time for you to kind of feel clear and get that vision of how
The second step is to surround yourself with your desire and that goes back to the whole if you
want to write a list, if you want to cut out pictures, if you want to do whatever to remind yourself
of how you want things to be. If writing a list is too burdensome for you don't do it. You can do
a meditation or just another visualization or whatever you want to do that includes going out
there and driving the cars you know or whatever you have to do to get yourself into the feeling of
whatever you want. And I know I'm talking about materialistic things and that's just because
that's a very common thing for people to start to go after because they think that that's going to
give them that ultimate feeling but you have to understand that really it's not the stuff that people
want. It's the feeling on the other side of the stuff. That's why it's so clear to understand why
you really want what it is that you're trying to attract and how you think it's going to make you
feel. Because otherwise, it's hard to get emotionally involved with just an inanimate object. But
if you feel like it's going to give you something like a sense of freedom or peace or love then it's
easier to get into that emotional state and use those things or the idea of those things as a
launching pad for you to get to that space. So if you can surround yourself with those things one
way or the other then that will help you stay in alignment, stay in that emotional space of that
you have it, that it is who you are.
No. 3 is to mind your feelings. And that doesn't mean that you have to guard every thought all
day long it just means that when a negative emotion comes into your experience realize, hey, this
is resistance of some kind. Normally we just take it for granted and go, oh, there's so and so
doing that again or oh, I just did this again or here's traffic again or whatever, this is just how it
is. Now you know better. Now you know if you've got a negative reaction to something it's
some area of resistance and you've got a tool to deal with it. If you dealt with every negative
emotion that came up to you during the course of a day and at first it will be like a zillion times a
day or whatever, it will seem like probably a lot of work, just do it as much as it's comfortable
for you. Your whole life will change as you start to eliminate resistance because the world will
occur to you differently because you will attract different situations and different circumstances.
So, keeping – mind your feelings just means to be aware that you're making a choice in how
you're feeling at all times. Take inspired action. I talked about it in the beginning. It's huge.
When you're in alignment with what it is that you want, when you're clear on your vision you've
got that space and you're dealing with resistance, you can be assured that most of the things that
And finally, and so importantly, is to feel genuine gratitude. And that means for everything you
can possibly feel gratitude for. This is probably the most powerful attracting exercise you can do
because when you think about it, when you're in a feeling of gratitude, what are you going to
attract? You're going to attract more things to be grateful for. Generally that's all good stuff.
You know. And if you've got a list of things that you want and you know you'll feel grateful if
you have them, then if you can feel grateful for the little things in your life that you already have.
You know, tap water, the ability to breathe in and out you know, the beauty of the grass,
whatever it is. I mean, I'm talking about the littlest things, if you can make a gratitude list on a
regular basis, whether it's every day or every week or every month and really just write down all
the things in your life. No matter how bad things are there are some things you can find to be
grateful for. The fact that you have something to write with you know, anything. Okay. If you
can get into that feeling of gratitude then you begin to attract other things for which you can be
grateful and it just tends to amplify. So the more feeling of gratitude you have the bigger and
better things you will attract to be grateful for and essentially you just end up with this
unbelievable experience of abundance and prosperity and joy and more gratitude and it just feeds
on itself. If you can do those things every day there's really nothing else you have to do. There's
nothing else you have to do. But that minding your feelings and dealing with the resistance as it
comes up is absolutely key and of course knowing what you want. That first step of morning
visualization and being clear. What do I want my life to look and feel like? You know. And if
you're not clear then you work on that you know. Sometimes people have resistance about just
even knowing what they want you know because they've been so forced down a road of this idea
that they can't have what they want anyway so why even think about it. You know so that's a
scenario of resistance you can work on and to eliminate so you can allow your passions and your
true desires to come through.