Patria Potestas the Roman form of patriarchy, as well as the sense of family
being controlled by the oldest or most capable male with a strict legal
authority yet there was also limitations upon this power. This was similar to
the kyrios system in Athens except that the son could not take over as the
potestas until either the father had passed away or gave him control of the
family. There wasnt a coming of age handoff and the son couldnt start his
own potestas after being married without his fathers say so. However,
daughters would be married into their husbands potestas whoever it was on
that side of the family. As Rome grew, these rules became more liberal and
sons were free to start their own families and become the leader.
Nomos empsychos the living law that dictated that a king could become
the law and change it as well. This only occurred when the people loved and
had complete faith that their king had been delivered directly from the Gods.
If a king was this perfect, no amount of written law could tell him how to act.
However the rule of no tyrants was still in effect but in practice nomos
empsychos led to absolute rulers. Many of the Hellenistic Kings were
included in this practice and established complete authority during their rule.
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