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TWO. B Y U . E D U 5
TWO
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9 Strategy
Giving Flowers
Everything
Basic Hygiene
Dating Diary
12
Spending Big
Dos and Donts
Red Flags
21 Caution
A Second Date?
15 Beauty Isnt
23 Sharing Time
Child Experts
16 Fantasy Land
Dating Bingo
Awaiting the
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Conversation Skills
Nonverbal Skills
Cute or Creepy?
Fair Expectations
26 Be the Better
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She has her own independence.
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Basic Hygiene
too long.
Its also important to smell good, but
not to be overwhelming about it. Men and
women shouldnt put on large amounts of
cologne/perfume. People want to be able to
breathe when they are near you.
Maggie Andersen, a sophomore studying psychology, said, It is important to smell
good, but dont be drenched in cologne, its
distracting.
Finally, everyone needs to brush his or
her teeth twice a day. Not only does brushing teeth help prevent cavities and help teeth
look clean, but it also helps with bad breath.
People dont want to look at yellow teeth or
have to deal with someones smelly breath.
For the sake of your social life and for
those around you, practice hygiene every day.
She is a lot more feminine. She has the hourglass figure with
the skirt. She still wants to be edgy with the leather.
Mason Collett, Arizona
Professional. She looks like the business type. She looks like
she would attract an older crowd by being the business type.
She doesnt look like she is focused on dating; instead she is
focused on other things. I like the scarf; it looks nice.
Joseph Lawrence, Washington
There are a few simple tips to keep in mind when putting on makeup. Breecia Lunt, studying at Paul Mitchell, shared the most helpful ones:
Dont have a
heavy hand.
Dont pack
the makeup on. Less
is more. Start light
and slowly build.
Keep blush
light. A
lighter blush
allows for a soft, less
dramatic look.
Magnify the
eyes. Always
curl lashes,
even if you already
have curled eye
lashes.
Control the
shadow.
For eye
shadow and also
foundation, start
light and build.
Watch the
powder.
A woman should
put on just enough
powder that her face
doesnt look oily.
TWO. B Y U . E D U 15
Intelligence
Finances
Celestial
Being
Never had a
problem
Reads minds
Has done
everything you
could think of
Heir to Bill
Gates fortune
Perfect body;
never sweats
Makes everyone
laugh without
trying
Temple-ready
Feels natural
Always there
when you need
them
Smarter than
you
Takes care of
themselves
Laughs at your
jokes
Tries to answer
every question
Doesnt find
time to eat food
Never laughs
What
relationship?
Dumber than
you
Doesnt spend
a dime or spent
every dime
Couch potato
Thinks all
your jokes are
inappropriate
Crazy
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Describe your
last date? We went
bowling. I got
a turkey.
We play
dumb but we
know exactly what
were doing
Maybe. If
you have always
wanted a song
about you.
Of
course!
Do you complement
We never
each other?
go out of
Yeah
So youre going
to New York then?
Nope,
anywhere
but there.
Are we out
of the woods
yet?
Is her name
Becky?
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dressed like a
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I am totally team
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I dont read.
I dont like ice cream,
chocolate or sugar.
High-five! (to
everyone)
I just dont have time
to be with you.
I could bench two
for everything.
I got over 500 likes
on my picture today.
Babe, honey or
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Its my fifth year
wedding reception, so
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you afterwards.
I have at least 15 cat
sweaters because
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and famous.
I want at least
50 children.
You look just like
my dog Beast.
I think mustaches
are so attractive.
I love Tinder.
My favorite band
is Nickelback.
This is my boyfriend/
without my phone.
You dress just like
If your date says something that makes you think eww what? This
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irst dates can get awkward especially when the conversation is dry and you start rambling
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TWO. B Y U . E D U 23
Nonverbal Communication
Have you every talked to a person, only to
find out later they thought you were flirting
with them? Most people dont realize the
messages they send through eye contact,
facial expressions and body language can have
more meaning then the words they say.
Albert Mehrabian, Ph.D., studied
nonverbal communication. His research
found that, Nonverbal communication
takes 93 percent of communication. This
means only seven percent of a persons words
How do you
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marriage?
You have to make
your wife happy to
have a happy life.
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What should a
boy bring a girl
on a date?
He would give me money.
What should
they do on the
date?
I dont know!
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a boy do on
a date with
a girl?
Be romantic.
What is romantic?
I dont know.
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member to a missionary
lesson, Andreas said. They
are there to make everyone feel
comfortable and not let things get
too awkward.
Not only are you in control over the
atmosphere, but also the destination.
Its like a tricycle. Youre there to steer
while they sit back and cuddle,
Magnusson said.
No matter what your third wheel
situation is, there are things you
can do to improve it. If you
are unhappy that you are the
third wheel, remember it
could always be worse: you
could be the fifth wheel.
HANNAH C. LUNT
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Sometimes hes got to do stuff thatll make him
look bad, in order for me to look good. Its not
fun, but thats the mark of a really good wingman,
says Chris Tryon, a criminal justice major.
In addition to the aforementioned social savvy,
the wingman has to be willing to sacrifice himself
for the good of his buddywhether thats to break
up a pack of females or spend the evening with the
targets wing-woman.
GETTI NG SET
UP
Letitia Baldrige,
author of New M
anners for New
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s to approach bl
ind dates with
an open mind, if
not enthusiasm.
Her tips are:
Be grateful to yo
ur friends for tr yi
ng to set
you up, even if th
ey have no idea w
hat you
find attractive in
the opposite sex.
It would
be a lot worse if
they never tired.
Remember the
statistics, said Ba
ldrige.
There is a chance
you could be one
of the
statistics who mee
ts their spouse on
a blind
date.
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our best friend just got a boyfriend. At first you are filled with joy
for her, not to mention pleased that your texting tips and curling iron skills helped this moment happen in the first place. But
as the relationship develops, you realize your friendship is changing.
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1 medium green bell pepper
1 medium red bell pepper
1 small pineapple
1 medium white or red onion
Teriyaki sauce (below)
Trim and cut chicken into large chunks.
Place in zip-top bag and add 1 cup teriyaki sauce.
Marinate in refrigerator for 1 to 3 hours. Chicken
can marinate overnight.
Cut peppers, pineapple and onion into large
pieces (about the same size as the chicken). Set
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Brush with teriyaki sauce and place on grill. Cook
until chicken is cooked through, carefully turning
skewers to ensure even cooking.
TERIYAKI SAUCE
cup brown sugar
cup soy sauce
2 tablespoons sugar
1 teaspoon minced garlic or garlic powder
1 teaspoon minced ginger or ground ginger
cup pineapple juice (optional)
Summer
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GRILLING TIPS
AND TECHNIQUES
Get It Hot Preheat your grill 15 to 25
minutes before cooking.
Brush It Off Remove debris from grill with
wire brush after its hot.
Marinate Marinating meat not only gives
great flavor, it also inhibits the formation of
HCAs (heterocyclic amines) which can form
when grilling poultry, red meat and fish.
Warm It Up Allow meat to reach room
temperature before grilling to keep it from
sticking to the grill.
Is It Done Check meat with a thermometer
to ensure it is cooked properly.
Give It a Rest Let meat rest 10 minutes
before slicing to redistribute juices evenly.
Let It Lie Allow meat to cook through on
one side before turning.
Keep It Plump Dont flatten meat with a
spatula. Keep the juices inside.
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2-3 strips cooked bacon
1-2 slices onion
Steak sauce
Begin with about 1/3 pound ground beef or ground turkey. Split meat in half with a slightly larger
portion for the bottom. Flatten meat to be slightly larger than your bun size. The meat will shrink
while cooking. Place fillings of your choice in the center of the meat making sure it doesnt protrude
over the edge. Flatten other half of meat and place on top. Gently seal edges of meat together
securing the stuffing inside. Generously put your favorite seasoning on both sides of the burger or
use any of the ones listed to the right.
HELPFUL HINTS
Place meat on either foil or waxed paper
sheet to flatten.
Layer your filling beginning with a slice
of cheese and finishing with a slice of
cheese.
Dont fill the meat too full or your burger
will be out of proportion.
Be careful with sauces or condiments, go
sparingly to avoid leaking out.
Seal all edges before cooking.
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BURGER SEASONING
OPTIONS
Sea salt
Ground black pepper
Garlic salt
Onion powder
Canadian steak seasoning
McCormick Grill Mates Worcestershire
Pub Burger Seasoning
McCormick Grill Mates Fiery 5 Pepper
Seasoning
TWO. B Y U . E D U 43
SUPPORT
You can do it!
44 TWO. B Y U . E D U
Thank you.
BY HANNAH C. LUNT
All relationships are different, and during unexpected events or hard times couples need
to work together to find and provide support
that helps them.
It depends on the relationship and each
individual, Drean said. Some people need
more support than others. The couple must
constantly talk about things because the situation may change. They need to have open communication.
It is not OK to back out of a relationship
if boyfriend or girlfriend is not willing to work
through the unexpected hard times. Sometimes hard times bring a couple closer together.
An example of open communication is
when a persons close friend or family member
dies and the significant other doesnt know
what support to provide. Drean said it is important to talk to the partner about it. One
way to approach this conversation is by saying, Hey, I know this person is important to
you. How can I help you? Would you like me
to come with you to the funeral? Along with
communicating comes the willingness to accept their decision and act on what they ask.
By having open communication, neither party
is guessing on what they should or shouldnt
do.
UUSS
Fear can tempt you to cut ties or never make them at all because
you may wind up with your heart broken. It can confuse you
when something about your girlfriend or boyfriend doesnt meet
your expectations. It can demotivate you when you and your
romantic interest go through a rough patch together. It can paralyze you when its time to make a decision of such eternal scale.
FEAR
BY M I R AN DA FAC E R
TWO. B Y U . E D U 45
Conflict
By Hannah C. Lunt
Every couple
has to find
their own
way to handle
conflict.
&
&
Compromise
A final tool is validating. Validating is
a form of listening, said Bailey. Being able
to restate what the person said is a way to
show one is listening. It helps a couple to
feel that they are being listened to, said
Bailey.
Another way to show validating is
through empathy. Empathy is feeling
what they feel and showing you care, but
it doesnt mean you have to agree with
them, said Bailey.
However, before a couple decides
what tools to use and how to handle conflict, they need to have an open discussion.
In the discussion, each individual needs to
express his or her emotion prior to coming up with a solution.
There are many solutions to conflicts,
but one possible solution is compromise.
Bailey said a couple should compromise
frequently. For both people to feel satisfied, there has to be some form of compromise, but it will look different for every
couple and each conflict.
Compromise is not always easy. An
individual may feel like they are letting
someone have their way, and they are not
getting theirs. Compromise becomes easier when one listens to the other person
and tries to understand where the other
person is coming from. By doing this, it
wont feel like they are losing and letting
the other person win.
Compromise is not the only solution, so if it doesnt work there are other
solutions to try. Compromise is a possible solution when approaching conflict
and helping you feel better, said Bailey.
For more solutions to conflict, Bailey
suggested reading The Seven Principles of
Making Marriage Work by John M. Gottman
and Nan Silver.
There are dos and donts when in a
conflict or compromising. Do approach
Compromise
is a possible
solution when
approaching
conflict and
helping you
feel better.
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Dessert . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 58
Explore . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 50
Festivals . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 52
First Dates . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 56
Food Adventures . . . . . . . . . . . 58
Food Trucks . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 61
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Learning . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 56
Local Events . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 53
Local Parks . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 50
New Movies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 58
On Campus . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 56
On-campus Performances . . . 54
Outdoors . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 50
Restaurants . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 60
Serious Relationships . . . . . . . 54
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Play tennis
Go boating
Indoor archery
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Outdoors
Seven Peaks
provo.org/community/recreation-center
66 $
Go to a fruit orchard
and pick fruit
Hike
Battlecreek falls
Stewart Falls
1.8 miles
40 minute hike
6 free
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1.5 hour hike
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3 hour hike
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2 hour hike
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Concerts
Local Parks
Bicentennial Park
1489 E 1440 S
7 minute drive
Carterville Park
2400 N Carterville Rd
8 min drive
Exchange Park
900 N 750 W
5 min drive
Grandview Park
1460 N 1050 W
7 min drive
50 TWO. B Y U . E D U
Kiwanis Park
820 N 1100 E
1 min drive
Lions Park
950 W 1280 N St
7 min drive
North Park
Pioneer Park
500 W Center St
7 min drive
Ed Sheeran
vanswarpedtour.com
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edsheeran.com
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2-man $45
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Mon-Thurs $15
Weekends/Holidays $30
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The Outdoor Summer Cinema features
several free movies to watch.
facebook.com/RooftopConcertSeries
6 $
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Firesides
Go birdwatching
Cloud watch
Star-gaze
Fly a kite
Balloon Fest
Go to a high rooftop
and enjoy the view
52 TWO. B Y U . E D U
Pool hop
com
66 $
Have wood/soap
carving contest
ARI DAVIS
Festivals
Downtown Yoga Festival
at the Leonardo
lehi-ut.gov/discover/roundup
6 $$
news-events/family-festival
6 $$
Orem Summerfest
Pleasant Grove
Strawberry Days
fiestadays
6 $$
Alpine Days
Snowbirds Oktoberfest
oktoberfest
6 $$
Go to a concert at Muse or
Velour
Prenatal
Prenatal
Ultrasound
Ultrasound
& Maternity
& Maternity
Massage
Massage
freedomfestival.org/event/stadium-of-fire
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for Fine Arts event
festivalprovo.com
6 $$
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www.laserassault.net
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freedomfestival.org/event/freedom-days
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you
Games
Three-legged soccer
byu.edu
6 free
Relay Games
Play Skittle-bowling at
the Wilk bowling alley
Do a puzzle together
Mini-golf at Trafalga
Play croquet
Play chess
Serious Relationships
University Bands
arts.byu.edu/events/5626
6$
arts.byu.edu/events/5642
6$
Road trip
54 TWO. B Y U . E D U
Evening of Percussion
arts.byu.edu/events/5643
6$
arts.byu.edu/events/5628
6$
arts.byu.edu/events/5638
6$
arts.byu.edu/events/5630
6$
University Chorale
arts.byu.edu/events/5649
6$
arts.byu.edu/events/5631
6$
Evening of Dance
arts.byu.edu/events/5650
6 $$
Princess Academy
arts.byu.edu/events/5632
6$
BYU Philharmonic
Share embarrassing
photos of each other
Hint. hint.
666 free
Ballroom in Concert
events/5635
6 $$
academy-6
6 $$
Serve
Give away flowers
SKYROOM
Wedding Celebrations
temples/provo-utah?lang=eng
66 free Z
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First Dates
On Campus
Comedy Sportz
comedysportzutah.com
6$
Humor U
Laugh the night away at BYUs standup comedy club. They have shows all
the time, so check their Facebook page
for updates. facebook.com/officialhumoru
6$ Z
Go to Nickel City
Rent a puppy
Learning
Carve a watermelon
Go ice blocking
56 TWO. B Y U . E D U
Workout class at RB
aerobics-fitness
666 $
Make/design the
handle of a spoon
Laser Wars
blogspot.com
6 $$ Z
educationinzion.byu.edu
6$
6 $$
Education in Zion
byu.edu/programs/Service-Dates
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Divine Comedy
Go tunnel singing on
Sunday night
www.thecocoabean.net
801.422.2840
campusfloral.byu.edu
One-of-a-kind flowers
for a one-of-a-kind wedding
31179AK
New Movies
Divergent Series: Insurgent
Opens March 20.
Furious 7
Opens April 3.
Hot Pursuit
Opens May 8.
Pitch Perfect 2
Opens May 15
Tommorrowland
Opens May 22.
ARI DAVIS
Spy
Aloha
Jurassic World
Opens June 12.
Inside Out
Opens June 19
Terminator: Genisys
Opens July 1.
Ant-Man
Pan
Dessert
Baskin-Robbins
Ice cream
29 E 1230 N, Provo
801-377-0031
baskinrobbins.com
6 $
brugeswaffles.com
6 $
BYU Creamery
Ice cream
1209 N 900 E
801-422-2663
dining.byu.edu/creamery/cone.html
6 $
The Chocolate
Cakes, bakery
212 S State St, Orem
801-224-7334
thechocolatedc.com
6 $
Food Adventures
Fake night in Paris or Rome
Ikes Creamery
Ice cream
The Shops At Riverwoods, 4801 N
University Ave #210
801-224-5001
provobeach.com/food-icecream/ikes
6 $
JCWs
Ice cream
396 W 2230 N
801-374-5297
jcws.com
6 $
La Michoacana
1700 N State St
801-404-5046
yelp.com/biz/la-michoacana-provo
6 $
Farrs Fresh
Malt Shoppe
farrsfresh.com
6 $
yelp.com/biz/malt-shoppe-provo
6 $
Ice cream
1073 S 750 E, Orem
801-616-5001
gloriaslittleitaly.com
6 $
Ice cream
1290 N University Ave
801-373-5295
Mrs Cavanaughs
Chocolates
1163 S State St, Orem
801-764-1085
mrscavanaughs.com
6 $
Popn Sweets
Roll Up Crepes
58 TWO. B Y U . E D U
mpc.byu.edu
6 $$
Italian ice
1283 N University Ave Provo
801-980-5475
ritasiceutah.com
6 $
Yogurtland
Frozen yogurt
534 E University Pkwy, Orem
801-225-5440
yogurt-land.com
6 $
Zekes Cafe
Frozen yogurt
facebook.com/YO2froyo
6 $
Pie shakes
27 N 100 W
801-805-9208
yelp.com/biz/sammys-cafe-provo
6 $
Ice cream
1200 Towne Centre Blvd
801-919-0040
subzeroicecream.com
6 $
Sodalicious
Soda
30 W 300 N
801-800-7317
sodaliciousutah.com
6 $
thesweettoothfairy.com
6 $
Taste
dancing
here not limited to floors and
holding
not limited to hands
Chocolate
117 N University Ave
801-900-4061
havetaste.com
6 $
Tokyo Sweets
Candy
Provo Towne Centre, 1200 Towne
Centre Blvd
801-691-0709
tokyosweetsutah.com
6 $
Waffle Love
Waffles
1796 N 950 W St
801-228-1636
waffluv.com
6 $
Day or night
Always fun
Bring a date
or your friends
Climb 2-FOR-1
Restaurants
Bajio
Communal
shopsatriverwoods.com/dining/bajio.html
6$
communalrestaurant.com/lunch-menu
6 $$$
Z
Mexican Grill
4801 N. University Ave, Suite 760
801-224-6668
European, American
102 N University Ave
801-373-8000
Bombay House
cubbyschicagobeef.blogspot.com
6$
Burger Supreme
Burgers
1796 N University Pkwy
801-3735713
burgerssupreme.com
6$
brassas.weebly.com
6$
Brick Oven
Pizza
111 E 800 N
801-374-8800
brickovenrestaurants.com
6 $$
Cafe Rio
Mexican
2250 N University Pkway
801-375-5133
caferio.com
6$
Caf 300
Pizza/Italian
575 E Universtiy Pkway B28, Orem
801-765-1777
cpk.com
6 $$
Carrabbas
Italian Grill
683 E Universtiy Pkway, Orem
801-765-1222
carrabbas.com
6 $$$
Z
China Garden
Chinese
225 W Center St
801-373-7203
chinagardenprovo.wix.com/chinagardenprovo
6$
60 TWO. B Y U . E D U
Sandwiches/Subs, Vegetarian,
Barbecue
1258 N State St
801-919-3023
crankyprovo.com
6 $$
Z
DP Cheesesteaks
Cheesestakes, Sandwiches/Subs
1774 N University Pky
801-709-2996
www.dpcheesesteaks.com
6 $
El Azteca
Mexican
46 E Bulldog Blvd
801-375-9690
elaztecatacoshop.com
6$
emanuelsfreshgrill.com
6$
Firehouse Subs
Sandwiches/Subs
64 Bulldog Blvd
801-224-5800
firehousesubs.com
6$
Five Guys
yelp.com/biz/four-seasons-hot-pot-anddumpling-provo
6 $$
Golden Corral
Steakhouse
225 W University Pkwy
801-225-6299
ARI DAVIS
goldencorral.com
6 $$
Z
Goodwood
BBQ Company
777 East University Pkwy, Orem
801-224-1962
goodwoodbbq.com
6 $$$
Z
yelp.com/biz/green-panda-cafe-provo
6$
Gurus
Hruskas Kolaches
Breakfast/brunch
434 W Center St
713-962-9364
hruskaskolaches.com
6$
Iggys
Grill
1087 S 750 St, Orem
801-434-7800
iggyssportsgrill.com
6 $$
Z
J-Dawgs
Hot dogs
858 N 700 E
801-373-3294
jdawgs.com
6$
Joes
Burgers
490 N Freedom Blvd
801-377-5637
yelp.com/biz/joes-provo-2
6$
La Jolla Groves
Macaroni Grill
Italian Mediterranean
4801 N University Ave, Suite 50
801-765-1688
macaronigrill.com
6 $$
Z
Mollys
Barbecue
735 W Columiba Ln. Provo
801-3740879
marvellouscatering.com
6 $$
mountainwestburrito.com
6$
Nicolitalia Pizzeria
Pizza
2295 N University Pkwy
801-356-7900
nicolitaliapizzeria.com
6 $$
noodles.com/locations/716
6 $
Olive Garden
Italian
olivegarden.com/locations/provo/
provo/700233
504 W 2230 N
801-377-0062
6 $$ Z
Italian
575 E University Pkwy, Orem
801-224-6199
osf.com
6 $$
P.F. Changs
Chinese
575 E Universtiy Pkwy A-20, Orem
801-426-0900
pfchangs.com
6 $$$
Z
Pier 49 Pizza
Pizza
3210 N University Ave
801-377-4499
pier49.com
6 $$
Z
Pita Pit
Sandwiches
1240 N University Ave
801-356-7482
pitapit.com
6$
Italian
2230 N University Pkwy
801-812-0200
breadtwist.com
6 $$
Z
Pho Plus
Vietnamese
68 W Center St
801-377-8808
yelp.com/biz/pho-plus-provo
6$
Red Lobster
See food
1261 S 800 E, Orem
801-724-3500
redlobster.com
6 $$$
Z
Roccos
American, Mexican
Center Sta dn University Ave
435-669-4252
yelp.com/biz/roccos-big-city-deli-provo
6$
Rice King
Chinese
275 W Center St
801-818-2278
yelp.com/biz/rice-king-provo
6$
Saigon Caf
Chinese
440 W 300 S
801-812-1173
saigoncafeprovo.biz
6$
Food Trucks
Find the current location on their web site/social media page.
Art City Donuts
Mini donuts
artcitydonuts.com
6$
Boba Shack
Boba smoothies
518-400-2622
facebook.com/bobashack
6$
Boudreauxs Bistro
Cajun, Creole
801-404-4602
facebook.com/pages/BoudreauxsBistro/266520546694063
6$
Casa De Soul
Southern, Latin
415-359-4689
facebook.com/pages/Casa-De-Soul/
545773525544981?fref=photo
6$
Green Me
Smoothies
801-830-3097
greenmetruck.com
6$
facebook.com/pages/The-Grill-SergeantFood-Truck/659668734062485
6$
Kona Ice
Shaved Ice
801-228-0058
kona-ice.com
6$
La Table Crepes
Crepes
801-471-5612
latablecrepes.com
6$
Macarollin
charlieboysbbq.com
6$
macarollin.com
6$
Barbecue
801-427-0600
CheddaTruck
Mad Mac
cheddawasted.com
6$
facebook.com/madmactruck
6$
Gourmet burgers
602-865-9797
Corndog Commander
Malicious
facebook.com/pages/
Corndog-Commander/1450450331852879
6$
facebook.com/eatmaclicious
6$
Corndogs
801-210-0213
Cravings Bistro
cravingstwincompanies.com
6$
Country boil
435-612-0633
Mama Zs
Gourmet calzones
facebook.com/pages/Mama-Zs-FoodTruck/303669099787831
6$
facebook.com/Cupbop
6$
facebook.com/pages/The-Mouse-TrapTruck/603212013090134
6$
Pico Norte
thehawtdawg.blogspot.com
6$
facebook.com/piconorte
6$
Hot dogs
801-874-4842
Mexican
713-416-7044
Eggrollin
yelp.com/biz/eggrollin-provo
6$
facebook.com/pages/Pizza-ConeZone/378054332367596
6$
Filipino
801-921-2377
fiorepizza.co
6$
Greek N Go
Greek
208-697-1188
Pizza
801-616-2014
Pound It Kebabs
Turkish, Pitas
406-231-6874
facebook.com/pages/Pound-ItKebabs/1416893685194042
6$
facebook.com/GreeknGo
6$
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yelp.com/biz/sam-hawk-korean-restaurantprovo
6 $$
Se Llama Peru
Latin American
368 W Center Street
801-377-4792
Station 22 Caf
Taqueria El Vaquero
Mexican
286 N 100 W
801-607-2149
yelp.com/biz/se-llama-peru-provo
6 $$
Z
yelp.com/biz/taqueria-el-vaquero-provo
6$
Sensuous Sandwich
Texas Roadhouse
sensuoussandwich.com
6 $
texasroadhouse.com
6 $$$
Z
Shoots
Which Wich
Chinese
4801 N University Ave, Suite 840
801-225-0445
Steakhouse
1265 S. State Steet, Orem
801-226-2742
Sandwiches
1077 S 750 E, Orem
801-224-9424
shootsrestaurant.com
6 $$
Z
whichwich.com
6$
Slab Pizza
Zupas
Pizza
671 E 800 N
801-377-3883
slabpizza.com
6 $$
Pyromaniacs Pizza
Pizza
801-896-7976
pyromaniacspizza.com
6$
ritasiceutah.com
6$
facebook.com/pages/Roccos-Wing-Wagon/411
064702309449?sk=timeline
6$
Special Courses
American (new)
801-427-1624
facebook.com/specialcoursesfoodtruck
6$
Stooks BBQ
Barbecue
801-362-7592
yelp.com/biz/stooks-bbq-provo
6$
Sweeto Buritto
Tex-mex
801-980-1020
sweetoburrito.com
6$
facebook.com/UncleBobbysFoodTruck
6$
Savour Foods
American
801-368-4477
facebook.com/Savourtruck
6 $
Waffle Love
Waffles
801-WAFFLUV
waffluv.com
6$
408 W 2230 N
801-377-7687
cafezupas.com
6$
180 Tacos
Mexican
3368 N University Ave.
801-356-8226
180tacos.com
6 $$
ARI DAVIS
Explore
Self-guided Historic Provo
building walking tour
62 TWO. B Y U . E D U
Go antiquing
Go to Utah Lake
skeletons. thanksgivingpoint.org/visit/
museumofancientlife
6$
Go on a mini-road trip
and explore the area
tracyaviary.org
6$ Z
crandallmuseum.org
6$
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& A MOVIE?
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64 TWO. B Y U . E D U
NORTHAMPTON
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801-492-1100
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