The Effects of Premarital Sex Based on Physical, Spiritual, Social and Emotional

A Term Paper
Presented to
Professor Helen Betonio
Department of English
CASS, MSU IIT

In Partial Fulfillment of the Requirements for

ENGLISH 2 (Writing the Discipline)
Second Semester, SY 2014-2015

By
Restauro Ardana Rae C.

March 24, 2015

I.

Introduction
Pre-marital sex is sexual

activity practiced

by

persons

who

are unmarried.

Historically considered taboo in many cultures and considered a sin in numerous

religions, it has become more commonly accepted by large portions of populaces
in developed countries within the last few decades. A 2014 Pew study on global
morality found that premarital sex was considered particularly unacceptable in
"predominantly Muslim nations" such as Indonesia, Jordan, Pakistan and Egypt, each
having over 90% disapproval, while many people within Western European nations
were the most accepting, with Spain, Germany and France having less than 10%
disapproval.
Mostly 13-20 year old in this generation have practiced pre-marital sex due to their
consciousness, he/she thinks that practicing this fits in into the society. Others are peer
pressured the fact that their friends tell them to do it because it is fun or if he/she is not
doing this he/she is a loser, ignorant or he/she is out of their group. Some are proud or
they even boast saying that I am not a virgin anymore thinking that they will be
praised and have more experience than those who have not practiced it.

II.

Body

Some people their appearance change. Noticed how people who have had practice premarital sex begin to look different? They begin to look old and worn. Like a toy that has been
used multiple time it begins to lose its physical appeal, so does a person who continually has sex
unmarried. Many try to mask this used up look by adding more make-up or wearing more
revealing clothes to take the attention off their face and put it on their body. Many girls who are
sexually active and taking birth control gain up to 25 lbs. This unnecessary weight gain can also
change his/her appearance. Somehow people who do pre-marital sex their face will be haggard.
Their face may not glow the way it was before and his/her countenance will change. Pre-marital
sex often leads to unplanned pregnancies. Teenagers have more odds stacked against them than
older women do. Statistics said that Teens are two more times more likely to die in childbirth or
pregnancy than older women. They have difficult deliveries, scarring, stretch marks, low birth
weight babies, along with the standard sagging breast and tummy, weight gain, nausea, tears, and
dark circles under the eyes. According to Dr. Jennings, diseases like Sexually Transmitted
Disease (STDs) are spread through sexual contact. STDs reveal themselves through burning,
itching, oozing, and pus filled sores on your genitals. Even if you do not visibly see a sore on
your genitals it does not mean that you are not infected. You can both practice self-control and
wait until you are married or you can take your chances and hope you do not catch anything that
will require taking medication several times in a day. Some STDs are incurable and if you catch
them you have it for the rest of your life.

As a Christian, when he/she engage premarital sex, he/she is consciously sinning against
God. This can lead to perpetual cycle of self-destruction. He/she develop low self-esteem, low
self-worth and diminished expectations. In many cases, the devastation that comes from giving a

holy thing, his/her body, to an unholy cause will lead to feeling of emptiness, embarrassment and
confusion. Many students grade drop and they lose interest in things they once liked or loved.
His/her soul joins with the soul of the one he/she have had sex. Soul ties as they call it because
his/her soul is tied together. It is considered as a carry-on luggage because it is unwanted,
hindering, emotionally draining baggage that attaches itself to a persons soul.
Do not fool a person thinking that he/she can hang around with sexually active people
who drink and not be influenced by their actions. When he/she starts to make bad decisions,
he/she often find his/her self surrounded by others who are making the same bad decisions.
He/she easily become jealous or insecure and begin to compare his/her body to others. He/she do
not even trust his/her self to do right and control his/her own body. He/she may overreact out of
insecurity.
Pre-marital sex almost always ends with a broken heart. Once he/she is heartbroken
his/her whole outlook on life and love are different.. Recovering from a broken heart is painful
and can scar for many years or worse a lifetime. According to Prof. Norry Guard your heart
diligently; it is the only one you got. He/she is emotionally unstable and he/she starts to develop
irrational responses to ordinary situations. Fear, stress, depression, apathy, isolation and hopeless
crowd his/her mind and cause his/her emotional growth to be stifled. He/she have no idea what
he/she wants. He/she do things he/she will regret and saying things I wish I can take it back.

III.

Conclusion
Pre-marital sex means a sexual intercourse between a man and a woman who are not

married to each other. It has an effect on Physical because his/her appearance will change if

he/she continues to do sex. Spiritual, he/she is consciously sinning against God and this can lead
to perpetual cycle of self-destruction. Social, rumors are spread and they think they know all
about a person who does pre-marital sex. Emotional, big effect on emotion because sometimes
he/she can not handle what one can feel that they just want to explode.

I.

Introduction
A. What is pre-marital sex
B. What is the cause of premarital sex

II.

Body

A. Ways a person is affected on pre-marital sex

A.1 Physically
A.2 Spiritually
A.3 Emotionally
A.4 Socially
III.

Conclusion

Bibliography:
www.gnosticteachings.org
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https://thepurity.wordpress.org/premarital_sex
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http://www.popline.org/node/378528/effect_ of_pre_marital_sex_on_emotional