Harassment On-Line
Susan C. Herring
Program in Linguistics, University of Texas at Arlington, Arlington, Texas, USA
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TABLE 1
Participation by gender in #india sample
Total participants
Active participants
Messages (utterances)
Words
Average words /message
Actions and kicks
57.5%
58.3%
57.8%
61.9%
5.8
100%
25%
41.7%
42.2%
38.1%
4.9
0%
Total
N = 40a
N = 12
N = 211 b
N = 1147
5.4
N = 16
Indeterminate
Total
60.1% 37.1%
2.8%
N = 178
72.0% 24.0%
80.3% 17.4%
86.0% 12.5%
315
211
4.0%
2.3%
1.5%
197
N = 25
N = 132
N = 38,807
294
89.7% 8.0%
2.3%
N = 87
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Rhetorical Dynamics
The picture that emerges thus far shows male participants
employing more aggressive tactics than female participants in both samples. This picture comes into sharper
focus when we examine the rhetorical dynamics of the
two discussions as they evolved over time. A common progression of stages is evident in the two interactions, from
a beginning point prior to the initiation of harassment,
to a later state of affairs in which female participation decreases. The stages in this progression can be schematized
as follows:
1. Initial situation.
2. Initiation of harassment.
3. Resistance to harassment.
4. Escalation of harassment.
5a. Targeted participants accommodate to dominant
group norms and/or
5b. Targeted participants fall silent.
Aatank, interpreting this as an invitation to play at harassment, cooperatively follows with two messages directed
toward the women containing sexually crude content:
(5) <Aatank> sm hi u can call me studboy. what color are
your undies
<ViCe> haha
Action: Aatank rushes upto st and yanks her panties off.
BOO!
ViCe and Aatank effectively join forces, encouraging further harassment by appreciating and approving each
other s actions (note, for example, ViCes appreciative
laughter in example 5). This is similar to the off-line phenomenon of gang violence, where two or more individuals
together may commit more violent acts than they would
have had each been alone. Both ViCe and Aatankcontinue
to address crude remarks to the three women, applauding
each others performance, over the next 20 minutes of the
interaction.
On Paglia-L, Mary s message was met with vituperative responses from several active male regulars. 19 First,
Don Ingraham responds to a question Mary asked about
the Yaqzan case by quoting the original newspaper article, underlining several phrases, and appending the single
comment: RTFM. 20 The second response, from Geoff
Markus, employs heavy sarcasm, patronizing Mary by
treating her as if she were slow-witted.
The messages that follow contain more explicitly prejudicial statements. For suggesting that Yaqzan s views on
date rape are problematic, Mary is labeled a censor
by Geoff, and lumped together with PC fascists who
promote feminist dogma by another regular participant,
William Davis:
(6) This is the typical rationalization of the censor. You have
the right to say whatever you want, but of course you should
expect to be punished for it. Sadly, Mary shows an absolute ignorance here of what freedom of speech is all about.
[GM 18]
(7)
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Mary,
(. . .) To argue that because of the content of Yaqzans
speech he ought to shut up, even if not legally required
to, is to go along with fascists of the left. Paglia has had to
use extreme imagery and language to make her point, but
apparently it takes that kind of rhetoric to break through
the incredible bullshit with which the new PC fascists are
trying to structure their new cages for us all. The debate is
about freedonm [sic] and the need to be able to speak and
write freely. Any dogma is an enemy of freedom.
(. . .)
I would like to know, when the values clash, which is
more important, feminist dogma or freedom? [WD 11]
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Another female participant, Gail Aronowski, also resists the move by some males to turn the Yaqzan discussion
into a pretext for feminist bashing. Gail supports Mary,
pointing out that Mary did not say the things she is accused of saying. Moreover, she insists on focusing on the
facts of the case, a stance also adopted by a sympathetic
male participant, Tom Johnson. This just the facts approach not only resists harassment, it resists off-topic and
unsubstantiated comments more generally.
Finally, female users in both samples resist harassment
directed against them by continuing to participate actively.
In particular, st and Mary remain active in the samples until
near the very end, and maintain resistant stances throughout. Continuing participation counts as resistance in that
the ultimate goal of harassment is to exhaust or weaken
the targets of harassment into compliance or silence.23
In both samples, resistance strategies are predicated on
the denial of the intended effects of harassment. Through
their words and actions, resistant women attempt to demonstrate that they are not demeaned or derailed by harassment (cf. Herring et al., 1995). In some cases, they
also appropriate and subvert strategies of harassment used
by men against them.
Escalation of Harassment. Unfortunately, counterharassment did not cause harassment to desist, but rather
incited the harassers in both samples to employ stronger
forms of harassment. In the IRC sample, this involved
the use of the kick command discussed earlier. When
the three women resisted their sexual come-ons, ViCe and
Aatank, the two channel ops, successively kicked Rani
(twice), sm, and st off the channel. The ostensible pretexts for the kicks are imsy: sm was kicked because
she typed good riddance when Aatank left the channel,
and st for speaking Malay with sm. The reasons for rani s
kicks seem especially arbitrary (note that kick reports allow the kicker to append an explanation of the kick in
parentheses):
(11) <rani> Vice: what the fuck is ur prob.?
...
rani has been kicked off channel #india by ViCe
(u bitch - lighten up)
rani has joined channel #india
<Aatank> haha
...
<rani> st: uhh i just got a lot on my mind. . .sorry
<Aatank> rani how would u like a lot IN u
<rani> aatank: whatever
rani has been kicked off channel #india by Aatank (quite
the stupid valley girl talk)
<Aatank> quit even
rani has joined channel #india
<ViCe> hahaha
Rani is kicked for the rst time for protesting ViCe and
Aatank s sexual advances; the message is that she should
lighten up and play along with the men. Of the three
female participants, rani seems most upset by the men s
remarks, and most intimidated by being kicked. After the
rst kick, she apologizes and shows vulnerability. She is
also much more guarded in her choice of words ( whatever, as compared to what the fuck ) in responding to
further harassment. Perhaps because of this evidence that
they have gotten to her, Aatank then kicks her a second time on the pretext that she is using valley girl talk.
These kicks are bald displays of power, which have intimidation as their primary goal.
When the women rejoin the channel after being kicked,
they are met with more verbal harassment, escalating from
sexually demeaning propositions to personal insults. During one exchange, st, sm, and rani are characterized by
ViCe as a friggin sisterhood of Nuns and addressed by
Aatank as u stupid lesbos. The implication here is that
a woman who does not respond positively to a mans sexual advances, no matter how demeaning, must be homosexual or asexual. ViCe and Aatank also resort to racist
comments (st and sm occasionally address comments to
one another in a Malaysian language), calling the women
fucking chinks and referring to their language as chimp
talk. While it is possible to consider sexual come-ons as a
crude form of play (Danet et al., 1997), it is more dif cult
to dismiss racial insults such as these as playful.
On Paglia-L, incontrast, listserv subscribers do not have
the technical ability to interrupt or terminate another subscribers participation; that is, there is no analog to the
kick command. Instead, an escalation of harassment
takes place rhetorically. For example, Don responds to
Mary s resistant de nition of freedom by shifting the
focus of discussion away from the Yaqzan case to a full
frontal attack on feminism:
(12) Oh, and the last line I suspect that many men see this
as an imposition on their freedom to be men, but hey, too
bad! is just the icing on the cake. I love the way Accredited Minorities (tm) will bitch and moan about the incredible
depth of their oppression, and then casually toss off a line
like this, asserting their power to impose whatever limitations they want on Future Dead White European-Descended
Males, who damn well better get used to it! The notion that
all utterances deconstruct themselves is false; but this sort of
nonsense certainly does. [DI 17]
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While this message appears milder in tone than the previous messages, conciliatory even, it is more insidious
in that it deprives the women of any legitimate grounds
from which to voice their concerns. Mary is stereotyped
as hysterical and unreasonable, and hence not to be taken
seriously. Worse, women in general are essentialized as
inferior to men. By invoking an abstract higher good
freedom of expression and associating it with themselves, men in the Paglia-L discussion claim the moral
high ground, relegating to women a problematic position
of weakness, dependency, and ignorance of moral principles. According to the world view assumed in Williams
message, there is no point in women protesting the behavior of men, as they are incapable of understanding the
higher principles that motivate it.
Thus in both interactions, males can be seen as engaging in power plays to intimidate and discredit female
resisters. In this respect, rhetorical manipulation of hegemonic views about gender and free speech on Paglia-L
functions in some respects as an indirect, literate analog
of kicking on #india.
Targeted Participants Accommodate to Dominant Group
Norms. Inevitably, persistent harassment takes its toll on
women in both discussions. Two distinct outcomes can be
identi ed, sometimes occurring separately, and sometimes
occurring in sequence, depending on the woman involved.
The rst outcome is that some female participants modify
their interactional behavior to comply with male norms.
Accommodation is most clearly evident in the #india
sample. After repeated interruptions from ViCe and
Aatank, the three women mostly abandoned their attempts
to converse with one another and instead began interacting
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with males on the channel. Rani allowed herself to be engaged by BOSS, a male who had previously attempted to
interact with sm unsuccessfully, in chatting about common
acquaintances in Hong Kong. After rani left the channel,
st took up the interaction with BOSS. This latter interaction had a irtatious component, as for example when st
complimented BOSS for a put-down he directed toward
another male participant, funny face, who had not been
involved in the previous harassment episodes:
(14) <st> good one boss..doesn t take much to insult a funny
face
<BOSS > st:thank u. . . .
<BOSS > st:ur sweet:)
<st> boss . . . :))))))))))))))))))))))
It is perhaps not coincidental that sm gives in to ViCes persistent demands for interaction only after ViCe mounts
her, a symbolic act of domination that supports the feminist
adage that sexual harassment is not fundamentally about
sex, but about exercise of power. Thus despite their initial
strong resistance, the three young women ultimately acquiesce to the expectation that females on the channel will
interact (preferably irtatiously) with males rather than
with other females, and that this interaction will be largely
controlled by males.
Male interactional norms also prevail in the Paglia-L
discussion. These norms can be characterized as contentious interaction through which male participants seek
to display their intellectual prowess through rhetorical oneupsmanship of their interlocutors, who are primarily other
males (see also Herring et al., 1995). Two female participants in the Yaqzan discussion, Mary and Gail, attempt
to accommodate directly to male norms by resorting to
some of the same adversarial tactics that are employed by
the men.25 This is illustrated in the following exchange
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demographic variables not only in uence the nature of online gender harassment, but also the degree to which it is
likely to be resisted.
affected by social class, race, gender, nationality, and language, with the largest population of Internet users being
middle-class, white, male, English-speaking, and residing
in the United States (GVU 9, 1998; Yates, 1996) not
coincidentally, the same demographic pro le as the designers of the rst computer networks (Hafner & Lyon,
1996). Moreover, the Internet itself is organized hierarchically, with certain individuals system operators, Usenet
administrators, IRC administrators, MUD wizards, etc.
empowered to make policy decisions that affect thousands
of users. The people who occupy these administrative
positions are also overwhelmingly middle-class, white,
English-speaking males.
A case can be made for the existence of a dominant
Internet culture, characterized by a high incidence of aming and verbal aggression (Kim & Raja, 1991), and a civil
libertarian ideological bent that advocates individual freedom of expression and condemns all forms of regulation
as censorship (e.g., Barlow, 1996). This culture is largely
inherited from preexisting social arrangements (e.g., the
practices and values of the male hackers who invented and
populated the rst computer networks; see Turkle, 1984),
rather than negotiated democratically on-line, and it disproportionately bene ts male users.
In the present study, a priori male advantage is evident
in the hierarchical organization of the two groups. All
group administrators are male. Group administrators have
the power to interrupt others participation and terminate
discussions; in the two case studies examined here, they
exercised this power in the interests of their own gender.
Libertarian values of extreme freedom of expression are
also present in both discussions, and bene t the most aggressive participants, who happen (not coincidentally) to
be male. By maintaining (explicitly in thecase of Paglia-L,
and implicitly in the case of #india) that any verbal behavior is authorized, no matter how crude or aggressive, males
justify the use of dominating and harassing tactics in the
name of free speech. 29
Finally, an assumption of greater male entitlement
indeed, a blatant double standard is also evident in both
samples, in that only male participants are entitled to express themselves freely. Women were labeled censors
on Paglia-L for expressing concern about the content of
Yaqzan s views on date rape, despite the fact that they did
not attempt to exclude other views of the situation, and
despite the fact that they explicitly conceded the dominant
male (and Paglian) position that a free speech violation had
occurred. 30 Meanwhile, males hypocritically represented
themselves as heroic defenders of freedom of expression,
even as their behavior showed them to be intolerant of
even partial disagreement with their views. When women
attempted to resist or critique male tactics, they were technologically and/or discursively silenced.
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constitutes censorship. The failure of women on Paglia-L to challenge this equation is indicative of the hegemonic status of free speech
ideology on the Internet. This hegemony is enforced by violence: It
is simply not possible to challenge the sanctity of absolute free speech
in most public on-line forums without attracting a restorm of aming
responses (Pfaffenberger, 1996). Here I suggest that the exaggerated
concern with free speech ideals demonstrated public ly by some men
conveniently masks gender class interest. For a fuller development of
this argument, see Herring (1998a).
31. By IRC I intend the EFNet, the largest IRC network and the
one on which #india is found.
32. Two of the men involved in the Paglia-L discussion Geoff
Markus and Tom Johnson are well-known, respected professionals,
the former a lawyer and the latter a university professor and moderator
of an Internet discussion list.
33. Men who advocate absolute freedom of speech might take issue
with this assessment, or argue that social acceptability is of secondary
concern to the right of the individual to say anything whatsoever, regardless of who is offended by it. Indeed, the dominant free speech
ideology on the Internet legitimizes and encourages socially marginal
behavior, including abuse of the less powerful by the more powerful.
Whether or not particular individuals consider this an acceptable outcome may depend on which of these two groups they belong to.
34. Thus st and sm on #india have gender-neutral nicks and maintain
a low pro le until ViCe outs their gender in example 4 as part of his
invitation to Aatank to join him in harassment. In the LambdaMOO
rape case mentioned previously (Dibbell, 1993), MrBungle violently
rapes women who present their characters as gender neutral.
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