Children
Parental Workshop
27th November 2015
What is Self-Esteem?
How a child feels
about him/herself
How s/he feels
accepted by others
Feeling
loveable
Feeling
capable
Why is it important ?
It is important because..
1. It helps children to feel good
about themselves
2. It builds their self confidence
3. It helps them better
understand their own
problems
4. It will cause them to have
better social skills
5. More self respect
6. More respect for others
7. Have better control over
emotions
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Owing to undue
domination exercised
by the parents, our
boys do not get free
scope of growth.
- Swami Vivekananda
Healthy
Enjoys interacting with
others
Is comfortable in social
settings
Is comfortable doing
things on his/her own
Faces challenges
Doesnt belittle him/herself
Is optimistic
Is aware of own strengths
and weaknesses
Unhealthy
.
.
Encourage small
achievements rather
than point out their
mistakes or failures
Enhance the qualities
they have; dont blame
them for lacking others
Reward effort and
completion rather than
outcomes
Give Responsibility
Assign chores that your child can accomplish
daily
Completing chores gives a sense of self-worth
and confidence in his/her abilities
Allows child to make an important contribution
to the family
Establish Routines
Friendships
By 6 years old, peer influence
becomes increasingly important
Help your child recognise peers
who build-up self-worth rather
than tear it down
Help your child develop his/her
own value system and
recognise peers who share
those values
Be A Positive Mirror
Competency
Helping children develop self-esteem is a
matter of helping them gather evidence that
they are competent, capable, successful right
now and being loved by others. Tell them the
most important friend is God, loves you,
through your Mother, Father, Brother, Sister &
Friends.
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Thank You!!