UPACARA AKAD NIKAH DAN

PROSESI ADAT JAWA PERNIKAHAN

OKRIS & ISNA
Ing Dusun Ngopak Desa Arjosari Kecamatan Rejoso Kabupaten Pasuruan
Setu, 26 Desember 2015
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Performing the Marriage Ceremony

(Upacara Akhad Nikah)
Tamu-tamu wis teko, kabeh podo melu lan nyaksekno upacara penikahan Okris lan Isna
The guests to the ceremony have arrived and are ready to join and witness the ceremony of pronoucing the Islamic marriage
(Para tamu sudah hadir untuk mengikuti dan menyaksikan akad nikah secara Islam)

Wacanan Sholawat
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Sholawat Reciting Activity

(Pembacaan Sholawat)

Sadurunge manten lanang ngucapno akad nikah, poro tamu podo moco sholawat
angarep-arep Rakhmat soko Gusti Allah Kang Moho Welas lan Moho Asih
Before the groom pronounces the Akad Nikah (performing marriage), the gusests
initiate the recitation of sholawat with the hope of Allahs Bless.
(Sebelum mempelai pria mengucapaka akad nikah, para tamu mengawali dengan
pembacaan sholawat agar acara berjalan denga lancar dan agar Allah SWT
melimpahkan rakhmatNya)

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Sarampunge khotbah nikah soko Bapak Keyai, Manten Lanang nglaksakno Akad Nikah
Marriage Sermon
(Khotbah Nikah)

Ngucapno Akah Nikah : Manten Lanang nrimo akad nikah soko Ayahnda Manten Wedok

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Sarampunge pangucapak akad nikah, maten prio nandatangai Kata Nikah

After the pronoucing the marrage is legally accepted (valid) , the groom is let to sign
the certificate of marriage
(Seteleh ucapan akad nikah dinyatakan syah , mempelai lpria berhak untuk
menandatangi akta nikah)

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Semono ugo manten putri

And then the bride does , too.

Pasangan manten sing anyar iki mamerno Akta Nikah kanthi roso bungah banget

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The new couple show the certificate of marriage happily

(Pasangan suami istri yang baru menunjukkan akta nikah dengan bahagia)

Manten Kakung nglebokno ali-ali marang driji manis kemanten putri

The groom is putting the wedding ring into the ring finger of the bride
(Mempelai pria memasukan cicin perkawinan ke jari manis mempelai
putri)

Manten putri oleh ambungan sing paling nyenengno tondho katresnan kang ghede
The bride is presented the sweetest kiss from the groom as the symbol of earning a big
love
(Mempelai putri mendapat hadiah ciuman termanis dari suami barunya )

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Manten putri ngambung astone manten kakung kanthi roso ternyuh yo

campur roso bungah
The bride kisses her husbands hand solemnly.
(Dengan penuh rasa haru, mempelai putri mencium tangan suamnya)

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ACARA TEMU MANTEN

MANTEN KAKUNG LAN MANTEN PUTRI NGANGGO NGUGEMI ADAT JOWO
Ahad, 27 Desember 2015
The Bride and Grooms Javanese Meeting Ceremony
(Acara Temu Manten)

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Manten putri wis siogo ngayahi upocoro temu adat Jowo

The bride ia ready to perform the Javanese Wedding Ceremony

Semono ugo Manten Kakung

The groom is ready, too
Mempelai Putra siap melaksankan acara TEMU MNATEN dngan adat Jawa

KEMBAR MAYANG

(The Symbol of Prayer and Hope in the Hearts of The Bride and Groom)

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Simbule katresnon ono njerone Atine Manten Kakung

Symbol of hope , prayer and true love in the grooms heart
Sebagai tanda harapan , doa dan cinta sejati dalam hati mempelai pria

Reperesentative of the grooms is carrying KEMBAR MAYANG.

According to Javanes tradition they are the symbol of
hope and prayer.

ACARA IJOL-IJOLAN KEMBAR MAYANG

(Swapping-Sharing the prayer and hope)

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Bocah lanang loro lan wadon loro ijol-ijolan Kembar Mayang. Iki mono maknane manten
loro duwe pangarep-arep, dungo lan katresnan sejati sing podho
Two boys and two girls s are swapping the Kembar Mayang . It means the bride and the
groom have the same hope and prayer
Dua anak lelaki dan dua anak perempuan saling menukar Kemabang mayang. Ini artinya
kedua mempelai memiliki harapan, doa serta cinta sejati yang sama dalam memasuku
hidup berumah tangga

Rong ati di temukno lan duwe pangarep-arep nngayahi urip kang tentrem la tansah oleh
Welas Asih , Rakhat lan Pitulungane soko Gusti Allah.
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The two hearts are unified with the hope that they lead their lives peacefully under the
Allahs love, bless and protection.
Dua hati disatukan dengan harapan mereka dapat mengarungi kehidupan mereka
dengan selalu memperoleh Cinta, rakhmat serta pelindungan dari Alah SWT.

ACARA SALING LEMPAR SIRIH DAN BUNGA MELATI

Kulo milih panjenegan kanggo garwaku

I have chosen you as my husband (performing marriage ) based on our
Prophet Muhammads teaching

I promise that I would obey you, my dear husand as it is stated in

Prophet Muhammads teaching, Islam.

ACARA MIDEK ENDOG

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Acara Injak Telur

The groom steps on the egg and the bride witnesses it

ACARA NGUMBAH SUKU

Acara mencuci kaki

The bride washes and cleans the grooms foot.It sybolizes that the wife always supports
every effort of the husband to reah the happines and the peace of their household.

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The groom takes the brides hand to stand up. The philosophy is that Javanese couple
should lead their life by supporting, loving and caring each other (Asah, Asih dan Asuh)
ACARA NGENDHONG MANTEN
Orang tua mengedhong mempelai berdua

The grides parents carry the bride and the groom as the symbol in supporting their
holy committment to lead their marriage life.

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The brides parents seat the bride and the groom as the symbol that they justify their
comitment and advise them to live by cooperatively in order to reach their happines
and peaceful life.

ACARA MENEHI NAFKAH

Sang Suami berkewajiban memberi nafkah sang istri

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How could they lead their life happily and peacefuly? The Javanese
teaching requires the groom work hard and diligently while the
results of his work should be carefully kept and spent by the bride.

ACARA NYELENGI DUWIT /NAFKAH BOJO

Istri menabung/mengelola hasil kerja suami dengan cermat/baik

The bride submits the results of her husbands work to her mother. It
symbolizes that the Javanese wife should always remember to save
their money and manage it carefully.

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ACARA DULANG-DULANGAN
Suami istri menikmati hasil berkerja bersa-sama

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The Javanese parents remind the couple that they should always maintain their
love
The parents of the bride welcome the parents of the groom to accompany the
bride and the bride to sit on the Wedding Chairs

The parents of the bride pick up the parents of the groom to enter main venue
of wedding reception

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The parents of the bride and groom are entering the main wedding venue of to
start the Wedding Reception and welcome the guests

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The bride takes her husband s keris (weapon) to perform sungkeman to her
parents

ACARA SUNGKEMAN
Bagi orang Jawa, Anak/ Menantu selalu memegang dan menujnjukkan rasa hortmat
kepada orang tua/mertua

The bride and the groom are kissing their parents hands and begging their
consent to start their own household life

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Sungkeman One

Sungkeman Two

Sungkeman Three

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Sungkeman Four

PHOTO ALBUM
HAPPY WEDDING PHOTOS OF OKRIS AND ISNA
Pasuruan, Ahad, 27 Desember 2015

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Ahad, 27 Desember 2015

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The happy new couple look forward their coming bright future, carrying their
holy weapon (keris), symbolzing their true love.

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The bride enjoys the time to enter her new marraige life

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Showing their strong committment to live together under the Islamic

Marriage Law

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The bride enjoys the day on which the long dream of marraige life is coming
true.

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Ya Allah Ya Allah Ya Allah Jadikanlah pasangan Okris dan Isna menjadi

pasangan berbahagia di dunia hingga akherat. Dan selalulah dalam
bimbingan dan pelindungan Engkau. Akhirnya jadikanlah kehidupan rumah
tangga mereka selalu sakinah mawadah warahmah. Amiin Ya Robbal Alamin.

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