By Pradeep Maheshwari
(on facebook: Pradeep PK Maheshwari)
First published as notes on Facebook.
Introduction.
The theme of this collection is mainly to
get a glimpse of the corners and shadows
that we may be missing. It is purely my
subjective view as I have seen and
experienced.
The courage to change; look within;
But the courage required..... where is it going
to come from..... from getting disgusted with life
as it is.......and this state very few arrive
at.....and if they do, it is only after a few
lifetimes when they cannot take it anymore;
never by intelligent analysis.
And then we pass it all to the next generation.
For intelligent analysis, a developed mind is
needed and this comes only after lifetimes of
study, search and experiences.........
disenchantment with the pleasures of physical
life, stuck in the "desire mode"
And anyway the human is a creature of habit
(not a good learner by any yardstick) and will
repeat the conditions anyway.
And then there are the virtuous ones who
project themselves as near-saints and refuse to
look at reality and see only good everywhere.
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Growing up scientifically.
PRADEEP PK MAHESHWARITUESDAY, 3 MAY
2016
From reading or observation, if you see
anything reflected in you, become aware and
change it. If you are wondering what to do about
it in others, don't worry. We can only work on
ourselves. The Universe will take care of its own.
I tend to think, that underlying laziness and
wishful thinking is more in evidence in our
decisions than the other way round.
We must dream with expectations and act but
live ready to be disappointed.
Most good parents, so called good and
virtuous by society tend to be rather arrogant
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Awfulysing Life
PRADEEP PK MAHESHWARIFRIDAY, 29 APRIL
2016
* Today the problem is cutting out the useless.
For one, people do not know what is not of use.
The temptations of variety has muddled our
cravings. There is just no end to it. And we dont
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It is all of us
PRADEEP PK MAHESHWARISATURDAY, 9 APRIL
2016
Anita Menon: Every storm passes.....Every
single one...... PK: ...until the next one. The
problem is not the storms. It is the interval at
which they come. Occult knowledge says that
people with "possibilities" and propensities
towards betterment of their personas are the
chosen ones, and the storms are sent to them to
keep them on their toes and assist their Soul's
aspirations. The truer the aspiration, the more
the troubles, peppered with many storms in
continuous waves. But these people are also
provided with intelligence and the means to
weather it all ( of course by the Universe).
Jojo Simons
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Ruminations on my
Birthday
PRADEEP PK MAHESHWARITHURSDAY, 7 APRIL
201625 reads
* The garden may not be Zen but Zen is in the
garden. Following hinduism/buddhism will not
make you vegetarians but meditation and
growth of the spirit into a more balanced Being
will. It is a natural happening.
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PRADEEP PK MAHESHWARITUESDAY, 23
FEBRUARY 2016
When we are honored with a senior post,
recognition and added responsibilities, is it a
burden or honor?
When I was younger, there were many
opportunities offered to me like Start my travel
company, Start a school, Start a Boutique place,
Start a company for some other investors, Big
investors were behind me to do their business.
But all I could see was a trap to tie me to a
post like goat/cow and be milked for all I am
worth. The very thought that I would then be
stuck to a seat of their making with nothing on
my mind other than the bottom line for the
company and being at the beck and call of the
investors gave me the shivers. It was so
claustrophobic that I would end up disturbed as
saying NO in the immediate family circle was
simply not an option Every time these offers
came my way, I was terrified of the burden they
were placing on me. It scared me to death. Not
that I am afraid of taking up a challenge; I rather
thrive on them. But I insist to be at the helm of
it. Being available to others to do their bidding
was never my idea of life.
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Wilful deprivation
PRADEEP PK MAHESHWARIWEDNESDAY, 10
FEBRUARY 201613 reads
This is the first lesson of Zen. Sleep when
sleepy. Eat when hungry.
This is the reason why I have been able to
maintain a certain level of balance in the
biochemistry of my body's working. I attribute
this to the resilience and reserve the body was
able to create with good nutrition, timely support
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PRADEEP PK MAHESHWARIFRIDAY, 29
JANUARY 2016
Millions of words are being said but only some
click with us.
So called sayings of wisdom may even sound
silly out of context. All sayings encompass some
direct experience which is very personal in its
nature. Then every soul is not at the same level.
Therefore to many the experience recounted
may sound odd or even stupid. Then in reality,
the oppositeis also equally true it all depends
on the context.
And this problem is seen with all subjects.
What is beyond the knowledge or
experience/exposure of an individual will never
be understood by that individual.
Sages normally speak from a very impersonal
level and so what they say is universal in nature
but that too can be disliked by people when it
clashes with their personal agendas or
indoctrination.
It is always best to choose your audience more
carefully. When you pass on something, give it a
context like explaining it why you find it
interesting or how an experience of yours is
explained by the saying etc. This makes it easier
for others to grasp the message.
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It needed to be said
PRADEEP PK MAHESHWARIMONDAY, 25
JANUARY 201613 reads
There is a lot of kindness in accepting that
humans are an evolved species and all
individuals are created equal. But facts belie
this. Most humans are already paralyzed with
indoctrination by the time they are adults. Then
life doesnt really require them to do more than
take care of their little patch. Their brains are in
a virginal state and open to brainwashing. In the
democratic system this is now obvious. The right
amount of money and oratory gets you a good
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Self-entitlements &
Disappointments
PRADEEP PK MAHESHWARITUESDAY, 19
JANUARY 2016
It is so obviously clear now that most of our
pains are self-inflicted based mainly on the
positions we take on the foundation of self-worth
and presumed entitlements. Our expectations
from others are fashioned accordingly.
Something that is totally in our mind, others
not being aware of it for the simple reason that
they have no way to learn how your secret
thoughts are forming.
We then obviously crib within and like sourpusses, make our life bitter and for others too
we create a stream of unpleasantness for which
there can never be any resolution. The
bitterness keeps on spreading and engulfing.
Life becomes hell and few know how to break
out of this trap. Normally once we fall in the well
of self-pity and often to sound virtuous we put
up a show of self recriminating drama, the
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A True Being
PRADEEP PK MAHESHWARISUNDAY, 13
DECEMBER 2015
( from my book Connect with the
subconscious)
A true being who is in the process of
identifying his self with the Universe would
never feel comfortable in any of these
regimented and structured mental prisons.
Those who are not afraid to get out and be free
are easily recognisable. For one they do things
rather unassumingly. They wear clothes for
comfort and according to weather or the job at
hand. They eat anything and everything that
takes their fancy. They take their own words
seriously and always deliver on promises which
they make with great consideration and rarely. It
is a charmed life that they lead. They are
intelligent enough to known that they may piss
people off so they stay out of the mainstream
and enjoy the sunsets alone. But they are not
un-social. Simply, they do not run after
approbation and they may be good at what they
do so people come to them and they are always
happy to receive them. Are they afraid? Yes but
of what? They are deeply afraid of not being able
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PRADEEP PK MAHESHWARISUNDAY, 29
NOVEMBER 2015
Most spiritual paths have one thing in
common and that is the path requires the
quietening of the mind.
The mind is not a machine that can be
stopped by flicking a switch. It will be there and
it has a purpose to run the human machinery.
But we can quieten the din so that other
intuitive, vaster impulses tuned into the Great
Silence can use it as an instrument.
Right now in the normal course, the mind is an
instrument of the human instinctive play based
on two things: 1) The need to impress, 2) The
need to seek pleasure
1 makes us lie, falsify, exaggerate, hide, talk
and act continuously because we don't know
when to stop as if afraid if we stopped the
facade will collapse.
2 the the physical world offers many pleasures
and they cannot be reached without 1
So we come to the basic question where is
the need to quieten the mind in the first place?
Everything in life seems to point to the opposite.
The lack of control is terrifying.
The process that has clearly been most
effective is that of keeping the mind open but as
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Behaviour in a group
PRADEEP PK MAHESHWARIFRIDAY, 6
NOVEMBER 2015
In a group you have to maintain the group's
decorum
Too much individualism and focus on what one
wants can be detrimental for the whole. Dont
expect the group to accept your individuality.
The group by its very nature is characteristic of
the common lowest denominator and shuns
individuality as a dangerous element to its
existence.
Of course individuals should live by their
standards and wishes. We all want to that.
But that is exactly what does not allow a
group to go forward together.
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wanted is my first policy. Don't speak where noone is listening is my second. Don't expend
energy in situations where it is not welcome is
my third.
The problem has been and will remain that all
the education and learning we acquire and wish
to pass on goes down with every death. The new
ones start all over again and the earth remains
where it is. It seems like the picture is changing
but the basic canvas, materials and colours
remain the same.
A lot of mental energies are dissipated,
unused or wasted by people who do not know
how to focus. Quietening and focussing your
energies is the first step to better health and
long life.
All this talk of "rights" is irrelevant. What to
wear and how to behave and the constitutional
rights etc are just smoke-screens to vulgar
selfishness and display.
In my thinking it shows a level of stupidity
worse than that of the excitement seekers who
are asked to behave as we would be considered
more educated, and with more discernment.
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PRADEEP PK MAHESHWARIFRIDAY, 2
OCTOBER 2015
like a "I-am-master-here"; the bull:
My friend you are starting your argument with
the basic mistake of defending a generalisation
with an exception. Is there really a need to
contradict me? I notice most of the discussions
that transpire are more in the nature of showingoff that I know better. This is sad.
It is an accepted fact that the human race in
general, at the present state of evolution is still
very self-centered, not using its mental faculties
and more interested in the world to "Grab" than
to give.
The entire feudal system which
psychologically still rules Indian thinking and
behaviour is behind the "Authoritarian" style of
thinking prevalent in India.
Older people do not listen do not even want
to listen. My wife does not listen. The teachers
do not listen. Bosses do not listen. Captains of
industry do not listen. Brothers do not listen. Not
listening is the norm. Exceptions exist so don't
bring them up. Nobody is listening. Minds are
closed. The only motive in every situation is:
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Who cares?!
PRADEEP PK MAHESHWARIWEDNESDAY, 9
SEPTEMBER 2015
When people talk of the world from moralistic
standpoints like in absolutes:
Love will win all
Parents always do for your best
Mothers love their children
Brothers and sisters are closest and life-long
friends to each other
Bosses are impartial
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A Spoonful of Medicine
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AUGUST 2015
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Lost in my fortress
PRADEEP PK MAHESHWARITHURSDAY, 13
AUGUST 2015
Intellectual development has not made a more
humane humanity. Why?
Whenever and wherever humans have been
given the power of knowledge and information
the first movement that arises in their beings is
of entitlements and selfish agrandissement. It is
but natural. Better education and training results
in sharpening of the mental tool and success
among ones class of society. Success is
normally interpreted as more wealth and power
to execute projects to ones wishes this
includes getting humans around us to do more
to suit ones whims and fancies. This is definitely
a potion that goes to ones head and makes one
arrogant, selfish and underlying natural bends
that were under warp come out without fear. A
kind person becomes kinder and a generous
person becomes even more so. Conversely
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