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Abstract
This article describes the
Ideals Standards Model, which
deals with the content and
functions of partner and relationship ideals in intimate relationships. This model proposes
that there are three distinct categories of partner ideals
(warmth-loyalty, vitalityattractiveness, and statusresources), and that ideals have
three distinct functions (evaluation, explanation, and regulation). The model also explains
how perceived discrepancies
between ideals and perceptions of ones current partner
or relationship can have different consequences, depending
on which of two motivating
forces is active (the need to see
the partner or relationship
positively or the need to be accurate). Recent empirical studies that support some of the
main features of the model are
described.
Keywords
ideals; functions; discrepancies; relationships
How do people know whether
they are in a good or a bad intimate
THE IDEALS
STANDARDS MODEL
Relationship and partner ideals
are central components of the social mind that people use to guide
and regulate their interpersonal
worlds. According to our Ideals
Standards Model (Simpson,
Fletcher, & Campbell, in press),
partner and relationship ideals
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EMPIRICAL EVIDENCE
FOR THE MODEL
We currently are testing some of
our models basic postulates. We
initially set out to identify the
structure and content of partner
and relationship ideals (Fletcher,
Simpson, Thomas, & Giles, 1999).
Adopting an inductive approach to
identifying the ideals dimensions
that people spontaneously use, in a
first study we asked men and
women to list all the traits or characteristics that described their ideal
romantic partners and their ideal
romantic relationships.
In a second study, another
sample of men and women then
rated the 78 items gathered in the
first study in terms of perceived
importance for their own standards concerning ideal partners
and ideal relationships (using
7-point scales where 1 = very unimportant and 7 = very important). In
order to determine the underlying
structure of the perceived-importance ratings of the ideals, we carried out two exploratory factor
analyses. A factor analysis of the
ideal-partner items revealed the
three factors we expected: (a) partner characteristics relevant to intimacy, warmth, trust, and loyalty;
(b) personality and appearance
characteristics concerning how at-
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CONCLUSION
Note
It is hard to think of another domain in social life in which the
needs for prediction, control, and
explanation are more pressing than
in intimate relationships. The research and theory we have reported here are part of a burgeoning area within social psychology
that is examining social cognition
in close relationships. For years, it
has been assumed that judgments
and perceptions of relationships
depend mainly on the nature of the
individuals and interactions involved. Our research shows that
there exist hidden third parties
mental images of ideal partners
and ideal relationshipsthat also
play a critical role in influencing
judgments about relationships.
Recommended Reading
Fletcher, G.J.O., Simpson, J.A.,
Thomas, G., & Giles, L. (1999).
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