Context: Involves all contextual settings of the self, friends, family, work, health, finances
Impact: On relationships, routines, assumptions about self and the world, roles
Affects the whole person: emotional being, physical being, and mental functioning
The intensity of stress experienced is a function of the degree to which the woman is
required to make new adaptations (Goodman, Schlossberg, & Anderson, 2006)
Moving out – Moving through – Moving in (mourns loss of old life - disequilibrium)
Timing: Always a bad time – although children can serve as the impetus for change they can
also make it harder for the woman to leave and adapt to a new life
Control: Can be both internal and external – the woman decides that she has had enough or
childwelfare/police become involved and make the woman leave
COUNTERACTING ABUSE:
Transition starts at the onset of a trigger or turning point, while still in the relationship
Starts unconsciously and consciously distancing, creating space, creating a leaving
plan, surviving crises
BREAKING FREE:
Woman needs to prepare herself to leave, this may take several months to years –
chronic hassle – process is repetitive and tortuous -
Woman learns that leaving is potentially more dangerous than staying
Energy is directed at minimizing stress, feelings are denied while attention is directed
to practical matters
Puts out feelers, takes risks, steps outside the relationship and pulls back, returning to
familiar situation
Usually goes to a shelter to deal with immediate crises, no home, no money, no safe
place to go, can’t go to friend’s home because partner knows location, no friends or
supports due to partner isolating woman in order to exert control
Woman “gives up” due to difficulties in getting financial assistance, a safe place to
live, and suitable counselling,
MOVING ON:
Adapt and accept the new roles and work to increase self-efficacy
Previous Experience: This may also be a reason for chronic hassle as the woman has no idea
what the outcome of her decision will look like until she actually goes
through with it
Or the woman has previously attempted to leave and faced with extremely
negative outcome and various barriers – becomes discouraged to try again
Concurrent Stress:
Assessment: Ambivalent nature – experiences both losses and gains – fears for her safety
Initially sees herself as the problem, learned helplessness as a result of the abuse
SELF
Woman relinquishes parts of self as part of a survival strategy in the face of relentless abuse that
leaves her feeling fearful and ashamed
This leaves her vulnerable to believe that she is worthless
Personal Characteristics:
SES, Gender, Age and Stage of Life, Health, Culture
Injuries from physical abuse, PTSD and anxiety/depression from psychological abuse, trauma
associated with sexual abuse
Difficult to reclaim her life, looks bad to take charge of her life, breaking norms by leaving
marriage,
Psychological Resources
Ego Development – low level focusing on survival
Self-efficacy, Commitment, Spirituality, resilience
SUPPORT
Being labeled in order to get help from the system – behave as helpless victims, intensifying
humiliation
Families only help if woman promises not to go back
STRATEGIES