86% more
risk taking
Hormone Changes
Cortisol
Testosterone
Improves endurance
Sharpens cognitive
abilities
Increases muscle mass
Seating
Shorter sentences
Solution:
Solution:
Avoid Pockets
Avoid Underarm
Crossing
Interesting Fact:
Strength
Direction
Motion
Speed
Timing / Pumps
Dryness
Doubling Up
High Confidence
Expansive
Claiming Territory
Shoulders Back
Interesting Fact:
Low Confidence
Contracted
As little space as
possible
Vitals Protected
Shoulders In
Elbow Touch
Elbow Touch
REVIEW:
Beginner
Optimize Seating
Elbow Touch
Self-Soothing Gestures
Wringing Hands
Suprasternal Notch
Cracking knuckles
Rubbing Arms
Rubbing Tongue
Along Teeth
Positive Cues
Chin stroking
Toes pointed towards
the sky
Licking lips
Nodding
Rubbing hands
together
Loose Arms
Face Up
Non-Contracted Legs
Expansive Arms
...
Chest Up
Shoulders Down
Hands Visible
Above Traps
Chair Height
Sitting vs Standing
Product Experiences
Stages
Blocking
Sales Dos
Unclenched Fists
Head Tilt
Encourage Pro-Connection
Feelings:
Empathy, interest,
openmindedness, fondness,
admiration
Sales Donts
Discourage Anti-Connection
Feelings:
Sarcasm, Criticism,
Defensiveness,
Disrespect, Superiority,
Withdrawal,
Smile Nervously
Sales Donts
Ankle Lock
Reduce nervous
gestures:
Jiggling, fidgeting,
drumming, tapping...
Arm Cross
Glasses / Make-Up
Submissive Wrists
Smiling
Bobblehead
Virtual Selling
Cold Calling
Sending Videos
Introductions
Project Updates
Client Meetings
VIPs
REMEMBER:
REVIEW:
Beginner
Spotting Nerves
Spotting Excitement
Blocking
Advanced
Intermediate
Humble Confidence
The Bow
Video Proposals
Customer Validation
Get testimonials
Build rapport
Mirroring
Mirroring
Matching Cadence
Facial Expressions*
*For Men
*For Women
Triple Nods
Faster = impatient
Slow = engaged
Say My Name...and My
Friends Name
Dont Use A
Pretty Woman!
Dont Use
A Group!
When we hold
something we feel
ownership over it.
(Warm Drink)
REMEMBER:
Sales dos
Sales donts
Try to calm
nervousness if you
see it
REVIEW:
Beginner
Nods
Pursed Lips
Using Names
Intermediate
Advanced
Facial Feedback
Hypothesis
Avoid Pretty Women /
Groups
Touch
Mirroring Posture
Matching Cadence
Copying Words
First Impressions
20 Minutes
20 Seconds
First Impressions
Bertram Gawronski:
Accurate
Immediate
Lasting
Do:
Expressiveness:
Hands
Voice Tone
Body Movement
Authentic Smile
Face*
Dont:
Hop / Jump
Fidget
Self-Sooth
The Box
Un-Approachable Body
Language
Turtling
Crossed arms
Hands in pockets
Un-Approachable Body
Language
Turning a away
Less mirroring
Un-Approachable Body
Language
Slumping
Wandering eyes
Un-Approachable Body
Language
Foot tapping
Overhead Gazing
Drumming fingers
Quick Nods
One Item
Purse as an Emotional
Indicator
Blocking
Protection
Self-Soothing
Approaching Others
Approaching Others
Interaction Tips...
Story Toolbox
*Nonverbally Strong
Darting Eyes
Overhead Gazing
Feet Pointing
Gazing
Power Gazing
Social Gazing
Intimate Gazing
Interaction Tips...
Proxemics
Intimate - 0-18
Personal - 18 - 4
Social - 4-12
Public - 12 plus
Conversation Tips
REMEMBER:
Prep Confidence
Set an Intention
Read
Microexpressions
Strong Handshakes
Mirroring
No Bobblehead
REVIEW:
Beginner
Approachable Body
Language
Advanced
Feet Pointing
Conversation Starters
Intermediate
Expressiveness
How to Approach
Gazing
Engaged Face
Eyebrow Flash
Proxemics
Common Mistakes
Common Mistakes
Wide-Eyed
Fear Microexpression
Stiff
Common Mistakes
Hands Down:
Common Mistakes
Pacifying Behaviors:
Common Mistakes
7% of our communication
ability
Lack of expressiveness
REMEMBER:
Prep Confidence
Use microexpressions
Nod
Expressiveness
REVIEW:
Beginner
Lack of expressiveness
Advanced
No pacifying behaviors
Online Presence
Website
Slide Decks
Mailings
Email Signatures
Fliers
Videos
Avatars
Business Cards
Brochures
PDFs
Press Releases
Eyes As Cues
Engage People
Eyes As Cues
Positive Emotions:
Negative Emotions:
Babies!
Dilated Pupils
Money!
Prime a price
Priming Words
You can trust us to do
the job for you Increased
all ratings and buys
Videos
OK
Better
Best
REVIEW:
Beginner
Eyes as Cues
Gesturing or Pointing
Money Signs
Pupils
Intermediate
Positioning
Positive Emotions
Creative Branding
Babies
Videos
Color Psychology
Advanced
Which Mode of
Communication?
In which mode of communication do people lie the most?
21% IM chats
14% emails
Interesting Fact:
Researchers found that combining
deception detecting techniques with
background checks reveals:
32% more cases of past job dismissals
60% more criminal convictions
82% more cases of alcohol abuse during
work hours.
Baselining Questions:
Open-Ended Questions
Change in baseline
Incongruence between
words and body
language
Pursed lips
Nodding
Out of sync emotions
and words
Self-soothing gestures
Volume Loss
Interesting Fact:
Red Flag #2
Red Flag #3
Second
Meeting
Circle Back
Background
Check
Cluster
Alltop:
Glass Table
Swivel Chair
Angles
Anti-Blocking
Company Info
Your Card
Drink
Dont Mirror
Nod
Tilt
Leg Cleanse
Self-touch
Picking cuticles
Hesitation
Question inflection
REVIEW:
Beginner
Glass Table
Angle Chairs
Swivel Chairs
Advanced
Intermediate
Silence
No Mirroring
Head Tilt
Nods
Double Handshake
Elbow Touch
Shoulder Touch
Hug
Patting
To Build Connection...
To Build Connection...
Do Lunch
To Build Connection...
Take off your jacket, loosen your tie, let your hair
down
To Build Connection...
Shake It Up Nonverbally
WATCH OUT!
Contempt
WATCH OUT!
WATCH OUT!
Lint Pick
WATCH OUT!
Eye Rolling
WATCH OUT!
Encouraging Honesty:
On Documents:
Sign on Top
AND Bottom
Remind people of
company ethics with
classes, seminars
and a code of ethics.
REMEMBER:
Mirror
REVIEW:
Beginner
Do lunch
Get casual
Intermediate
Remove barriers
New meetings
Haptics
Patting
Encourage Honesty
Alphas
Alpha Behavior
Claim territory
Walk and assume
others will move
Smile less
Keep head
perfectly still while
speaking and
listening
Speak briefly and
everyone listens
Alpha Behavior
Alpha Behavior
Betas
Omegas
Non-Alpha Behavior
Smile more
Always watch for Alpha
or other responses
Willing to be interrupted
Overly expressive
Nods a lot
Appeasement Body
Language
Leg hopping
Foot jiggling
Self-soothing gestures
Low / protective
posture
More wordy
Pitching Mistakes
Pointing
Voice Curling Up
Hands on Hips
(Universal Battle
Stance)
Missed Investor Cues
Pitching Mistakes
Stop Motion
Self-Contempt
Blocking Behavior
School-Marming
Pitching Mistakes
Ventilating
Loss of Volume
Interrupting*
Pitching Tips:
Showing Hands
Telling A Story to
Invoke Positive
Emotions / Sensory
Story
Demoing Ideas with
Hands
Expressive
Pitching Tips:
Vocal Tone
Differentiation
Immediate Product
Touch
No Impatience
Nodding to Affirm
Pitching Tips:
Gratitude
Showed Deference to
Alphas (stopped
talking, smiled at them
more)
Positive Face in the
Logo
Better Colors
Other Tips
Success Log
Other Tips
Steeple During QA
Other Tips
Other Tips
Other Tips
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Other Tips
Other Tips
Other Tips
No Scent
Floral Scent
Smell:
No Scent
Floral Scent
84%
REVIEW:
Beginner
Hand motions
Expressiveness
Intermediate
Advanced
No School Marm
Show Partnership
Steeple
Use Storytelling
Use Smell
Timeliness
Authoritative Voice
Tone
Changing Pace
Changing Tone
Belly Breathing
Glued to Notes
No eye contact
Head bent
Bowing
Show Hands
Anti-Blocking
Expressive
Ask Self-Reflective
Questions
Stories
Vocal Variation
Flattery
Other Tips
Read a newspaper?
Other Tips
Success Log*
Exercise
Write Goals
Gratitude Journal
Other Tips
Other Tips
REVIEW:
Beginner
Expressiveness
Gazing
Intermediate
Podium Use
Shifty Feet
Self-Soothing
Advanced
Vocal Variation
Hand Demos
Negotiation Tips
Avoid Meals
Negotiation Tips
Eye blocking
Tongue Catch
Deception:
Final Offer
Common Interests
Intentions
Your Nonverbal
Take up space
(Fist)
Standing
Sit competitors in lower
chairs
Light touch on the
shoulder
Sit in the power seat
D
A
Audience
Speaker
REVIEW:
Beginner
Avoid Meals
Take Up Space
Intermediate
Advanced
Tongue Catch
Deception Detection
Eye Blocking
Fight Lensing
7 out of 15
people noticed.
Practice
Film Yourself
Have Conversations
For the Sake of
Learning
Duval Love
3 Months Later...
Confidence Comes
Through
Voice Tone Warmth and
Patience