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Helping struggling readers
An introduction to struggling readers
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So when should you worry? Personally, I wouldnt worry too much about a four- or five-yearold, but I might notice things and just give them a boost at home where necessary, through
activities that focus on fun. So, for example, if I noticed that one of my two lovely twin
grandchildren werent showing an interest in books, I might start taking them to events at our
local library or find picture books about their interests. If I noticed that they werent picking up
letter-sound links, I might play word games with them in the car. There are lots of ideas for games
like these on Oxford Owl, and you can ask your childs teacher for ideas too. They can talk to you
about what your child is doing at school and make suggestions about how you can support this at
home.
Moving up the age range, if my grandchildren werent reading in Year 1, by the time they were
six, I would be worried but not panicked! Id definitely want to ask advice from their teacher. But
I would also know that there was every chance that my child would soon catch up.
spelling difficulties in the family; research does show that literacy difficulties can be hereditary,
when linked to dyslexia.
If you are worried about dyslexia, do talk to your childs teacher. The teacher or the schools
SENCO (special educational needs coordinator) may have a checklist of indicators of dyslexia
that they can go through with you. They will be able to advise on whether further assessment
might be needed. There are good websites you can look at too, such as the British Dyslexia
Associations website: www.bdadyslexia.org.uk
A shared feature of many struggling readers is that they find it hard to process the sounds in
spoken words. They have what is called poor phonological awareness. They dont for example
pick up that a spoken word like coat is made up of three separate sounds (c-oa-t), or that it
rhymes with boat. This makes it hard for them to learn the links between sounds and letters.
Always bear in mind your childs birth date. If they have an August birthday, they will be almost a
year younger than children in their class who were born in September so youd expect them to
be a little behind the average. They may well just need a bit more time to mature before they start
to fly with reading and writing.
how your child is getting on, on a regular basis. There is so much you can do to help your child.
There are special ways you can read aloud with them, games you can play and support you can
give to boost their confidence.
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Keep anxiety levels down
If your child is struggling, the most important thing is to keep anxiety levels down their anxiety
levels, and yours! Learning to read involves complicated skills, and these can soon go to pieces
if a child gets worried just like yours probably did in the early stages of learning to drive, say, or
mastering a sport, if you got tense and anxious.
Even if your child is not worried about their reading, they will quickly notice your tense face or
ever so slightly impatient voice so just dont go there. Breathe deeply, smile, find some funny
books that you can both laugh at, and dont drag out reading sessions if they are stressful. Keep
them short and sweet, and focus on sharing a book with your child rather than hearing them
read.
This kind of chat helps the child by giving them a sense of whats in the book before they start to
read it, and preparing them for some of the words they will meet. This means you are setting them
up for success right from the start.
Build confidence
Again, think back to what it was like when you were learning to drive or mastering a sport. There
were probably times when you wanted to give up, so needed lots of encouragement. Its the
same for reading; notice what your child has done well and tell them often. You might say
things like:
You sounded that word out brilliantly, didnt you?
I really liked the way you read that bit in capital letters with a BIG voice.
You noticed that word didnt make sense so you had another go. Well done!
It may sound odd, but it is also important to react positively when your child is struggling or gets
things wrong. You can make clear that mistakes are how we learn. They are essential. Look back
on your own life all learning starts with the ability to say I do not know.
So when your child is stuck, say things like:
Well done, its making you think, you are learning.
Youve got a bit stuck thats OK. What helped you last time this happened?
Thats a hard one good try. Lets say it together so youll remember it next time.
other times you can use simple prompts to help them when they get stuck, like prompting them to
use their phonic knowledge to sound out the letters.
At school they will be taught to say the sounds of a word quickly, in a clipped sort of way (c-a-t
not cuh-a-tuh), so encourage this at home too. Children will also, depending on their age, have
been taught that sometimes a pair of letters make one sound not two for example, that when
they see the letters o and a together the sound will be oa as in boat, or that a and i make
ai as in train. Again, encourage them to apply this learning when they read with you. There is
lots of information on Oxford Owl to help you here.
If there are sounds your child doesnt know, tell them the sounds. Then when you have sounded
the word out together (t-r-ai-n), perhaps using phonic flashcards to show one sound at a time, say
the sounds together very quickly (train) and then say the word. This is called blending. Then run
your finger under the word again, and wait for your child to read it to you on their own.
Sometimes, of course, none of this will work, because youve come to one of those many tricky
English words that dont follow phonic rules words like the, said, once and was where the
letters dont make the sounds youd expect them to. In this case you might encourage your child
to sound out as much of the word as they can. Then tell them the word and get them to repeat it.
Playing word sums adding sounds (Whats pot with an extras in front?) and taking sounds
away (Whats Tom without the t?, Sharon without the sh?)
There are lots more ideas for playing with sounds on this website click here to find out more.
Avoid blame
When you listen to your child it may seem to you that they are just playing up, not trying being
lazy. Youll see them read a word perfectly well one day, then forget it the next. But this is normal
when we are learning a new skill. Our performance is always erratic to start with. We have to
repeat something again and again before it sticks and becomes automatic. Tell your child this,
and let them know that you know they are trying their best.
Use technology
As well as listening to you reading to them at bedtime, they can listen to talking books on their
MP3 players in the car. They can have fun playing phonics games using apps you can get for
your smart phone. They can help you read text messages. They can use the internet, too, to go
on websites for fun reading activities. There are lots of great ideas out there, from podcasts to
treasure hunts to quizzes and puzzles. You might want to look at the National Literacy Trusts
Words for Life site, for example, and of course Kids' Barn on Oxford Owl.
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Key Issues:
Phonics made easy
Grammar, Punctuation
and Spelling made easy
Encouraging writing
Helping struggling readers
Encouraging reading
Encouraging boys
Reading in the holidays
E-safety, tablets and apps
General questions:
FAQs about reading
Jargon buster
Choosing books
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