Tyrone Schiff
Kelly Williams
English 125
30 March 2006
Seeking To Be Understood
For the ordinary person, a regular day would consist of waking up, getting
dressed, and heading out into the world ready to interact with a multitude of personality
types and dispositions. A fundamental tool that is essential to all of these interactions is
one’s ability to communicate effectively and in a way that is easily understood by all.
Communication, whether by spoken word or written text, is intrinsic to all human beings
on this planet. The first word a baby sputters out is a milestone in their lives, signifying
a language, and the art of communication are highly sought after traits. Although there
are over 5,000 languages spoken in the world, there are certain languages that stretch
their influence over the rest. In America, English has established itself as the language of
choice when it comes to generally accepted communication. When immigrants enter the
country, it is of high priority to learn how to speak the language as best as possible and as
quickly as possible. The English language, however, is often used as a tool to belittle
those who are not “native” speakers of the language. Furthermore, people in different
cultural groups establish different meanings for words that can often be lost in translation
has transformed itself into a device where the dominant group can maintain its prowess
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over the weak minority. Thus, communication within and among different cultural groups
is used to coerce the less dominant group into a submissive and conforming unit.
cultural groups. For instance, consider an excerpt for Gloria Naylor’s piece, “Mommy,
What Does ‘Nigger’ Mean?” and its relation to deprecating another, “I didn’t know what
a nigger was, but I knew that whatever it meant, it was something he shouldn’t have
called me” (525). It is evident that the person who heard this word, nigger, being said to
them realized that there is a distinct negative connotation accompanying it. The speaker
goes on to explain that even though she had heard the word many times before, she had
never considered it a bad thing. The speaker recognizes it as a “term of endearment,” and
“a disembodied force that channeled their past history of struggle and present survival”
(526). These are very positive connotations of the word; what would make her consider
this word negatively now? Society and dominant culture in America have come to label
Regardless of whether or not the student who called the speaker in Gloria
Naylor’s story a nigger was black or white, the dominant culture in America has stolen
this piece of African-American language, and tries to sustain it as a symbol of hate and
“some group within the community that had overstepped the bounds of decency…”
(526). Within their own cultural group, African-Americans use the word nigger to
continue its negative connotation. Although Naylor argues that, “they transformed
‘nigger’ to signify the varied and complex human beings they knew themselves to be,” it
is important to remember the context in which the word first came up (527). It was said in
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a mean way that devalued the speaker. The word nigger was used to communicate ideas
groups is found in Amy Tan’s “Mother Tongue”. Amy Tan describes a scenario where the
lack of understanding of language and communication are used against the individual in
order to discourage them from pursuing goals they might have. Amy Tan points out that,
than in English” (593). Amy Tan explains further that she, and probably many other
Asian-American students, comes from a home that has “broken” or “limited” English
(593). This puts these students at a disadvantage immediately, because almost all
achievement tests are administered in English. The households in which these students
live might lack the communication skills to develop their understanding of English well
What is worse is that these tests scores are then used indicatively as the Asian-
American’s talent, and what follows is “teachers who are steering them away from
writing and into math and science…” (593). Asian-American students are practically
forced into these roles of math and science due to their inability to learn and effectively
creative manner, a language should not be the hurdle that holds them back from doing so.
Clearly, this is yet another way in which the dominant culture tries to take advantage of
the minority through usage of language and communication. Even though an Asian-
American student may love to read and write, their low scores on English achievement
tests causes the student to become depressed and shy away from partaking in courses and
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activities that involve English. Students often look for feed-back as a method to rank their
abilities in a particular subject. Clearly, if the feed-back is negative, there will be less
emphasis to pursue a given topic, because it provides no rewards for the individual.
Therefore, Asian-American students will no longer pursue their passion in English, and
will be drawn to math and science, which are, “precise; there is only one correct answer”
(592). In this way, English and the communication of it extinguish the flame of passion
of minority groups to communicate and connect with certain ideas that have been
established. In the case of Naylor, the final line of the story is as follows: “And since she
knew that I had to grow up in America, she took me in her lap and explained [the word
nigger]” (527). The mother is being given the tough task of having to explain what the
word nigger means to her daughter. It is interesting to note, however, that the reason for
being taught the negative version of the word is wholly contingent on the fact that she is
When communicating the word nigger between groups there is a terrible meaning, unlike
the way it is perceived within the African-American community at times. The daughter
must be educated on this negative meaning, because she is growing up in a climate that
culture’s viewpoint.
Amy Tan discusses how there is a certain communication standard that has to be
achieved in order to be taken seriously. Amy Tan’s mother was trying to get the results of
her CAT scan back, but “the hospital did not apologize when they said they had lost the
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CAT scan” (591). Although Amy Tan’s mother said she had used her best English, it was
not at all understood on the receiving end. The hospital did not respect Amy Tan’s mother
because she failed to meet certain communication standards. This weakens the overall
capabilities of Asian-Americans because this scenario could and did occur to Amy Tan’s
mother in other cases. Amy Tan would have to speak to her mother’s stockbroker because
she was better at English than her mother. The mother’s broken English just couldn’t
seem to cut it. The hospital scenario was solved, however, but only because a particular
standard of English was met. Amy Tan’s mother “said she would not leave until the
doctor called her daughter…And when the doctor finally called her daughter, me, who
spoke in perfect English--lo and behold--we had assurances the CAT scan would be
communicate entitles an individual to things that are outside of the realm of those who
English speakers will turn a cold shoulder to those who are of the minority and can only
Both Amy Tan and Gloria Naylor depict how communication and the use of
unfriendly endeavor, and the English language and the way that it is dealt with in
America does not make it any easier for those who are trying to acclimate to their new
this country so that America can move towards a society that learns to love and
bridge to their culture. Language barriers are often times the reason why there is a
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misunderstanding between cultures, and why in fact cultures have a hard time getting
along. In order for society to progress, it needs to eliminate this confusion that is spawned
from language so that cultural diffusion is no longer a turbulent process. Similarly, this
same phenomenon exists and must be eradicated within a set culture. The aforementioned
arguments indicate that even when English is the “native” language of a given group,
there is still a barrier in the way that certain words are used and what those words mean
to that particular group. Often times, a group’s voice is muffled by the dominant group’s
viewpoint on a particular subject. Presently, communication and language are being used
as a means to keep the strong stronger. The minority is forced to suppress itself and
Works Cited
The Norton Reader: An Anthology of Nonfiction Prose. Eds. Linda H. Peterson, John C.
Brereton, & Joan E. Hautman. New York: WW. Norton & Co., 2000