Techniques
Communication & Negotiation
Summary
I.
Introduction
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V. Bibliography
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I.
Introduction
II.
II.1.Self-assessment
The most important questions a person needs to ask himself before the negotiation are: What do
I want? and What are my alternatives?. Many people do not actually know what they really
want when they enter a negotiation. The second question defines a negotiators power and
influences the outcome of the negotiation.
III.
III.1. Emotions
Emotions play a major role in the process of negotiation. Moreover, negotiators vary in terms of
how accurate they are in assessing the emotional expression of others.
Emotions are relatively fleeting states that are usually fairly intense. In general, emotions are
characterized in terms of pleasantness and activation. Moods are more chronic and more diffuse,
and they, in comparison with emotions, are not directed at someone. Emotions and moods can
be either a consequence or a determinant of negotiation behavior and outcomes.
Perhaps the key question when it comes to emotion in negotiation concerns whether emotions
are genuine or strategic.
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Scientists defer three different strategic emotions: positive emotion, negative emotion and no
emotion(poker face). The positive and poker face strategies are distinctly more effective than the
negative one in obtaining a favorable outcome of the negotiation.
Emotional intelligence is the ability of people to understand emotions in themselves and the
others and to use emotional knowledge to effect positive outcomes.
A large number of researches indicates, that different emotions can influence peoples ability to
make good decisions. For example, people experiencing high level of emotional stress tend to
fail more in what they do. Expressing positive emotions, on the other hand, might have a positive
consequence in negotiations(good moods promote creative thinking and innovative problemsolving, which lead to better outcomes of negotiations).
In the picture below you can see how in this particular case the bargaining zone of buyer and that
of seller are identified.
III.5. Ultimatum
Sometimes, in real negotiations, these three principles, stated above, dont suit the interest of a
party. This is where the Ultimatum game begins.
In an ultimatum bargaining situation, one person makes a final offer an ultimatum to another
person. If the other person accepts the offer, then the first player receives the demand that he or
she made, and the other player agrees to accept what was offered to accept what was offered to
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him or her. If the offer is refused, then no settlement if reached and negotiators receive their
reservation points.
One of the techniques to avoid this situation is to show the other party that there are another
results of the negotiation, even better, then the ultimatum he made. Of course, he will be more
likely to accept a better deal. But it is important not to forget, that the proposal you are making
has to be better not just for your opponent, but for you as well.
Personal appeal. A party appeals to the other partys sense of loyalty or friendship before
requesting compliance.
IV.
Conclusion
Negotiation is a skill that impacts practically all areas of your life. You can negotiate good
business for your company or you can negotiate a grade in the university. Every negotiation is
important and has its consequences.
Always look for the common ground and the area of mutual advantage.
The tips used for the negotiation can be also applied to many different spheres of our social life.
That is why it is very important to develop our negotiation skills.
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V.
Bibliography
Articles:
Tsay C.-J., Bazerman M.H.(2009) A decision-making perspective to negotiation: a review of the
past and a look into the future. Harward Business School.
Neale M.A., Bazerman M.H.(1992) Negotiating rationally: the power and impact of the
negotiators frame. Academy of Management Executive, Vol. 6, No. 3, pp. 42-51
Kim P.H., Pinkley R.L., Fragale A.R.(2005) Power dynamics in negotiation. Academy of
Management Review Vol.30, No.4, pp. 799-822
Books:
Baker & McKenzie(2007) The international negotiations handbook. Baker & McKenzie
Shell.G.R.(2006) Bargaining for advantage: negotiation strategies for reasonable people.
Penguin Books
Fisher R., Ury W.L., Patton B.(2011) Getting to Yes: negotiating agreements without giving in.
Penguin Books
Thompson L.L.(2012) The mind and heart of the negotiator. Pearson.
United States Institute of Peace(2010)Negotiation and conflict management. United States
Institute of Peace.
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