24/06/07
<Matthew 11:25-30>
Psychological Healing, Life of Peace
• Men will have worries and they will also feel guilty
• A person who feels guilty will always try to find a way to push the blame to others
• Men will have inferiority complex. Therefore, they will be very proud when they are a little
successful. A person with inferiority complex will look down even on himself. As such, he
has a lot of hurts in him
• A person with hurts in him will not able to stand it if someone is to tease him a little.
Therefore, he will end up quarreling with people
• A person with inferiority complex will think of a hundred problems that will make him
unbearable even though it may only be a small matter
• A person without any hurts will give in to others. He will not compare with others easily
• Some people will hide their psychological problem. Therefore, their behavior is very
different from their actual thoughts. Such person will “explode” one day. (e.g. he will
praise a person outwardly while cursing the same person inside)
• They are not able to speak the truth with love
• Some people say that they will just speak their mind. If they are not happy, they will just
say so
• However, this might not always be a good thing. They will express their anger towards
their children, spouse, etc in the public. They just cannot control themselves
• There are many forms of psychological problems: lustful hearts, greed, fear, etc
• This is the meaning of “weary and burdened” that Jesus Christ had mentioned
• Nobody will hate another person if he has a peaceful heart and nobody will joyful over
his inferiority complex
• We should rule and subdue all things on earth. We will have problems when we cannot
do it
1. God prepared the life of peace for those He loved [the result of psychological healing]
1) Absolute rest <Gen2:3; 11:28>
* Because of God’s complete sovereignty
• God wants all His created beings to rest with Him
• We can have rest in God because God has sovereignty over all things. This is the
foundation for us to have rest
• E.g. Paul will remain harmless regardless of the enemies he faced because God
is in control
• How many hours can we really rest (a peaceful heart) daily?
• We must live by breathing in God’s peace and rest
3) The most important factor of life: seek first His kingdom and His righteousness
<Matthew 6:33-34>. In other words, Love God
* The absolute wins the subjective. The main factor wins the sub factors. The
unchangeable wins the changeable
• We will not quarrel, worry, feel stressed over small things if we’d restore the most
important factor of life
• God will take care of those minute things or problems for those who have
restored the most important factor of life
• If we continue to dwell upon the small problems, the small problems will become
big problems
• If we do not put our priorities on the important things, we will be tangled by the
small things
• In other words; we have these problems because we do not love God
• God is an uncomplicated God
• These five points are the result and process of psychological healing
• Therefore, we need to examine our current psychological state
• We do not want to be healed unless we want to discover our current psychological
state
• E.g. some people think that as long as they didn’t kill others or commit adultery, they
have not sinned. However, God tells us that we sin with our hearts
2) Establishing the Covenant: Four Gospelization [I was born, grow up and called by the
Lord for this purpose]
• We must view all things with the covenant that God has for us, and not based on
our own feelings
• The covenant that God has established with us is: Four Gospelization
• The covenant of God for us is that we are the father and mother of all nations,
and we are the source of all blessings
• We have to be responsible for doing or going after things that God has never
promised us. However, God will be responsible for us if we do everything in
accordance to His promises
• It is because, in God’s covenant (promise), there is God’s absolute purpose, the
power to overcome all things and His perfect will (purpose)
• We must be healed within God’s boundary, not our own boundary
• If we haven’t established the covenant with God, we will not be able to take it
when others treat us badly. However, if we have established the covenant with
God and people treat us badly, we will remember that Jesus Christ was badly
treated much worse than all of us
• The reaction and judgment of a person who has established the covenant will be
different. He will not frown while all others are worried. He will enjoy peacefulness
while all others get too excited
• Psychology will never teach all these
4) Therefore, a person can throw away his personal motives, purpose, contents,
method to live and to rebuild his life and live systematically in Jesus Christ
• We will only throw away after knowing God’s plan. This is the meaning of dying
with Jesus Christ
• Will a dead person receive any more hurts?
• We are easily hurt or affected because we have yet to throw away our own plans,
motives or expectations, etc
• We can’t just stop there after throwing away. We need to rebuild. Rebuild a
systematic life, systematic living and to live a Church centered life
• Systematic Life – knowing himself (he is really receiving grace) and God again
• Systematic Living – the day to day thoughts and operations
• The most important meeting of church is the Sunday service. We will definitely
please God and receive healings if we really prepare our hearts to worship Him
5) The end result is to restore the desire to “do all things because of our love for God”
• After we have received healings to a certain extent, the motivation of life would
be to “do all things because of our love for God”
• We can love those who are not adorable or to guard our hearts because we love
God
• We love our wives because we love God. We will please God if we do it this way
• If we only strive to love our wives, the wives will never be fully satisfied
• E.g., my dad asked me to go buy some food for him while I’m watching the TV.
We stopped watching and proceed to buy the food he wants because we love our
dad. Will not our dad love us doubly after seeing what we had done for him?
• Therefore, we will be healed deeper each time we do things out of love for God
• Though we should be able to do these points (1) to (5) in one second, there are also
a long process
• Nobody will be healed completely and stop having any psychological problem just by
listening to one healing message. Therefore, we need to sustain and develop on it
3. Guard the state of receive grace psychologically [sustain and develop healing]
1) Sensitive to the state of the spiritual realm. Thus, by the Spirit, we ought to put to
death the misdeed of the body and do not let the cravings of sinful man, the lust of
his eyes and the boasting of what he has and does to enter the body for a split
second [take reference from <Romans 8>]
• A person who understands the relationship between his heart and the spirit will
understand <Romans 8:13>
• We must rely on the Holy Spirit to put to death the misdeed of the body
• <Romans 8:1> God will not condemn us if we are in Christ Jesus
• We are able to distinguish what belongs to the body and what belongs to the
spirit
• <Romans 8:15> we are the most successful children of God who are being loved
• Therefore, all things work for our good <Romans 8:28>. We need to examine
God’s perfect will in all things
• We are already victorious <Romans 8:31-32>
• A person who has gone through an operation will not live a life of loss
2) The whole purpose of life and living: learn to live a life that is centered upon God’s
perfect will <Romans 12:1-2>
• We should not live our lives by centering upon resolving our problems. We will
never be able to resolve all our problems
• The method God gives us to resolve our problems is to know His perfect will
• We must learn to hear God’s voice and to know His perfect will when we live our
lives
• We must become “men of God”. A “man of God” is a person who knows what
God is doing and will walk with God
• A lot of people lay their hands on a person and to pray for the healing of that
person without first understanding God’s perfect will and timetable for that person
• Sometimes, it might not be God’s timetable for a person to get healed.
Sometimes, it might not be God’s perfect will for a person to find a job
• God allows a person to have physical illness so that the person will get closer to
Him
3) Experience training of godliness daily in our problems and temptations <1Ti 4:8>
• Counter attack all unrest, fears, worries, tiredness, greed, inferiority, guilt, etc
• Discover and flee the evil desires of youth, and pursue righteousness, faith, love
and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart <2Ti 2:22>
• Physical training is of little value. Training on godliness is more important. There
are two types of training because there are two types of attacks: evil ones
(prosecution, pressures), temptation (always attract us into the worldly things)
• We must counter attack the direct attacks from the evil ones. Change our sadness
into joy. Change our greed into contentment. Pray and converse with God to get
freed
• We must flee from temptations. The environment must be changed. We can only
overcome temptations when we always stay with the congregation, the main
streams or the Pastor. We cannot overcome temptation alone
• <The Lord’s Prayer> “lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil
one”
5) The heart which loves both God and man will always prompt us to preach the Gospel
in season and out of season <2Ti 4:2; Acts 1:8>
• If we see the people around us are all suffering, we will want to bless them and
free them. In so doing, we will receive healings ourselves
• When we bless others, we are reaffirming how must we are loved by God
• A person will surely bless the whole world if he has acquired the answers for
psychological healing
• Not everyone will have problems with their spouses, illness, or financial problems.
However, everyone will definitely have fears (fear for illness, fear for their children, fear
of death, accidents etc)
• Therefore, we can definitely save and bless an era after we have become experts in
spiritual and psychological healings