Few things generate as much happiness as knowing that you are fully realising your genius,
doing brilliant work, and spending your life beautifully.
And with the catalystic change in our society right now, leadership has become the single
most important master skill for success in business. We need to practice leadership in every
arena we play. If you cant leader yourself you will never lead anyone around you.
How to start: One of the best things you can do is get up early; its one of the most
intelligent daily practices the leaders without a title perform with acute consistency.
Plenty time for sleeping when you are dead. Getting up one hour earlier gives us an extra
hour per day, 7 extra hours per week. Thats thirty fresh hours in a month. Almost an extra
work week every thirty days. Thats time you can exploit to build your plans, refine vision
and develop your best projects. Time you can leverage to reflect on your values, remove
your inner barriers and rethink your thinking.
Graves are great things they serve to dramatically remind us of how short life is you
know, we all end up in a pile of dust. And on your last day, all that truly matters is whether
you got to know your inner leader, and if you did, whether you had the bravery to allow it to
offer its gifts to the world around you.
Each one of us alone creates the lives we get to live...
True human heartbreak is reaching your final moments and realizing that you wasted the
most important gift that was given to you the chance to present your magnificence to the
world around.
Success is created through the performance of a few small daily disciplines that stack up
over time to produce achievements far beyond anything you could have planned for.
Successful people all perform the same few leadership disciplines. They consistently
practice the same few fundamentals. But their seemingly small, insignificant daily acts of
excellence stack up over time to a best-in-class carer and world-class personal life.
Failure on the other hand is a succession of a few bad fundamentals performed daily such
as smoking. Which will amount to something greater than you expected cancer or worse.
Its small acts of daily neglect performed consistently until you reach point of no return (e.g.
business bankruptcy).
Sustained change only happens when we shift emotional rather than logical level.
There is no dead end job in this whole wide unpredictable world of ours only dead-end
thinking.
By infusing leadership into everything you do and each thing you touch, you can live
remarkably. You truly can realize your original genius. You really can be one of the great
ones.
Leadership Conversations:
The Book is based on four leadership conversations around creating leadership mastery.
masters become masters because they had the courage and conviction to act on idea. Just
start whatever it is that you know you need to do to take your work as well as your life to
where you know it can be. Small consistent steps drive momentum. Daily Ripples of
excellence-overtime- become tsunami of success.
Practise of success Daily 5
Imagine doing 5 little yet focused acts everyday to get you closer to your most important
goals. After one month thats about one hundred and fifty goals you have realised. Then
after 12 months, youve achieved over two thousand goals. Just imagine what the next
twelve months would like, not only for your work, but your health, your relationships you
have achieved over two thousand little but focused and meaningful outcomes.
I innovation. Daily and relentless progress. All great leaders flex their minds and elevate
their abilities by consistently asking themselves What can I Improve Today? Make your
present better than your past, develop an innovative mindset. Daily ripples of superior
performance add up over time to a title wave of outrageous success. Start off small and
just do little improvements every day. Few things are as foolish as hoping old behaviours
will somehow present new results.
M Mastery . What would the person who is the best in the world at what I do be doing
right thus very moment. Please note, youll find that you dont have a lot of company on
that extra mile. Work wasnt at all something that is merely a vehicle to pass the time and
pay my bills. It was gift. And a spectacular way to access my leadership best and in doing so,
not only become happier human being, but also to make the world a better place in the
process.
A Authenticity: Its never been so important to keep the promises you make to your
teammates and customers. Its about knowing who you are, what you stand for, and then
having the courage to be yourself. Rather than defining success by what you get, they
define their success by what you give.
G Guts in Business: Unrealistically persistent and wildly courageous. The more you leave
your valleys of comfort in the passionate pursuit of your mountains of opportunity, the
more obstacles youll face as you make your climb. On the other side of these obstacles lie
the greatest rewards... Criticism is the defence reaction that scared people use to protect
themselves against change.
E Ethics: You will never go wrong in doing whats right. There is nothing more important
than being honest, highly dependable, staying on time and treating people the way you
want to be treated. Be ferociously humble. Make sure your video is in sync with your audio.
Final thoughts on first conversation:
Comfort Zone: You will get back in direct proportion to what you give. The more you do
things you do that scare you, the more you are showing leadership. If you retreat, you lose
the opportunity for the largest growth.
We all have our Everest lurking within our hearts. You need to be dedicated to climbing it a
small amount everyday
On the easy stuff, anyone can look like a superstar. Deficiencies get amplified under
pressure, in person or in an organisation learn from those.
The very things that make you feel afraid are those very doorways into your leadership.
There can be no growth or progress without that feeling of nervousness in the pit of your
belly and discomfort in the core of your body.
Do what frightens you daily, and youll elegantly transform fear into power every day.
Growth Choose growth over complacency even though complacency feels better in the
short term.
Growing yourself and your leadership best is your single best survival tactic.
What the caterpillar calls the end of the world the master calls the butterfly Richard Bach.
Disruption is usually the beginning of real improvement showing up.
Business Management Tip: Like the turbulent times and periods of struggle in business are,
in truth, similar opportunities to grow wings and express our best.
Change: You can be a victim about the whole thing and feel the change is something being
done to you thats fits some external force that you have no control over. Or you can use
my natural power and step up to being a leader without title.
Victims Cry why me? Leaders, on the other hand shout its up to me!!!!
Be the light in a dark turbulent world.
SECOND LEAD WITHOUT TITLE PRINCIPLE: SPARK
S. Speak with Candor being a pristine, truth-filled, and inspirational communicator. Dont
preserve the status quote with vague generalities. People want truth not plastic
sloganeering. Be courageous enough to speak the truth when its difficult or your voice
tremors. Without such truth and candor people live in a place amid delusion and fantasy.
Leaders in every interaction remind people of their best. Superb leaders also employ
encouraging, supportive and positive words that provoke others into dazzling action. Just
look at John F Kennedy, Gahndi, Mandela and Martin Luther King Jr. Were able to do
through the sheer power of their words.
Management tip: Instead of saying not doing a good job, why not say, I can appreciate your
effort. Lets look at way to take you to the next level or performance.
DO NOT GOSSIP. THEY DO NOT COMPLAIN, THEY DO NOT CONDEMN, THEY NEVER SWEAR.
The only words they try their best to use each day are those that inspire, engage and
elevate.
P. Prioritize in turbulent times it easy to get distracted from mission, vision, values, goals
and its easy to get nailed to the seduction of distraction. Focus on the best and forget the
rest. Consider the idea that leadership is about knowing very little about a lot of things and
a staggering amount about a few things. Note: Even if you were shifting from busyness to
getting things done, its also key to remember that getting things done is not the same as
doing great things (shift from chaotic to elegant simplicity).
ACTION STEP: Every morning, before you go off to the world, take some quite time for
yourself. During this period, make the time to think. Sometimes you need to slow down to
speed up. Thinking in silence while the rest of the world is asleep is an excellent discipline for
exceptional performance.
A. Adversity Breeds Opportunity: Every set back carries an even greater opportunity. Every
seeming failure brings with it some sort of corresponding blessing. Have the courage to walk
through the doorway offered. And for every dream that dies, an even better can come to
life. Problems are nothing more than platforms for even brighter possibilities. Crises
contain exceptional opportunity: Remember the strongest and most powerful of leaders
were built by struggle and setback. Action is the antidote to despair In challenging times
keep moving.
ACTION STEP: KMP Keep Moving Forward. Just keeping moving forward and taking action,
no matter how hard it seems. Keep progressing Every positive action yields a positive
consequence, even if not immediately.
It's better to go down in the fiery failure because you chased your loftiest ambitions than
to spend your best hours watching television in some subdivision.
R. Respond Vs react: Dont worry about the areas you cant control and take control of
those areas you can. Take Initiative. Remember the finest hour for every great leader was
when everything looked like it was falling apart.
K. Kudos: Being a Leader without Title is about being a leader and inspirational in a world
that all too often celebrates the worst things. Remember to shine a light on people. Life
begins at the end of your comfort zone!
M: Mingle when people are seeing your face, you stand out. They get to know you. They
begin to like you. And remember, people always like to do business with people they like.
Now is the time to be out building bridges, rolling up your sleeves, and connecting with
colleges and customers while you help them get to where they want to go. Drink coffee with
your stakeholders. Have lunches with your customers. Find out what their concerns and
worries are.
A: Amuse having fun while you do your work will help you boost your productivity. Fun
makes you more engaged in whatever you are doing.
N: Nurture: Leave every single person who intersects your path better, happier and more
engaged than you found them. Take care of people and the money will take care of itself.
Help other people get to their goals and people will help you get every single one of yours.
People are the most important element to a winning business
on your mind, strengthen your body, nourish your emotional life, and fuel your spiritual
dimension.